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Predictor3:
If men are only attractive because of money, then men are done for. But , fortunately, that's not the case. If that was the case, there wouldn't be incidences of house boys sleeping with their oga's wives or a poor handsome man sleeping with a richer guy's wife or girlfriend.
Don't think you understand women. They don't know what they actually want in many cases.
But one thing is sure, men react to a whole lot of other things other than a man's bank account or expensive car

you are right!, am just letting the writer know we all as human become lesser desirable after aging sets in but what favours most males is having means, not that they are actually better than women. Most men think it easier to move on and think new partners really like them. Most money is the real motivation.

Predictor3:

Many modern women and girls forget that men have more latitude when it comes to finding new partners. When we tell them that women shouldn't cheat, they're always quick to say "what about men also? If men cheat then two can play that game" Ok, nao

When a man cheats and you tell the wife or girlfriend to be patient they tell you you don't know what you are saying. Now, look at this story. A fifty years old man has more chances of getting a new steady partner than a thirty years old lady

see, men are only attractive because of money, when a woman have good genes and can provide easily for herself, no desperation for companionship. A divorcee lady in mid-forties once visited my office, how the kids and her relate sef is attractive on is own. Nobody should think one gender is better, it things of the mind. Most ladies attracted to me now as a married man are just mostly looking for free money. My wife is pretty and smart, I don't think she would have a problem moving on except she creates unworthy expectations. I will find it hard moving on, because I naturally don't think I like those attracted to me and putting in effort into chances I hate it. I don't easily fall for emotions and I have quite some funny expectations that being young is better than, 33 years and be pretending to call oneself youth, remove money and attractions disappear.

Sonnobax15:

Believe such words from bannies at your own riisk

Don't be surprised to later find out that the person who's shifting her panties currently is one old, senile man ...

But when it's time to hang their boots,that's when they'll be looking for innocent young men to tie down .

But God big pass dem

go to sheraton or Hinton, anything for the gram. When the say he is exciting it mostly money and it experience.

CodeTemplarr:
how about they add defence expenditure to this and publish side by side. Don't expect to enjoy N30B bombs and more in funds to repentant banits, then get lion's share of project's.

God bless you. Them collect bomb, they still want development. Remembered a a 100m dollar hospital burnt to ground in borno.

Streetinvestor2:
That is an official disclosure if he tells u the unofficial u fit faint too...lol

not all has opportunities for unofficial, some are in Parastatal without extortion opportunities.

Streetinvestor2:
That means if u have a billion and above on liquid assets in nigeria from genuine hustle u are not doing bad

you are doing great, my neighbor retired with 21m in pension funds. Level 13 federal worker.

emmanuelewumi:
I don't doubt anybody because I can testify to some of my wins in the market.

It might be luck sha, but when preparation meets opportunity one will definitely be lucky

same here, from 2022 still date had three 10x(Mrs, presco, Meyer) on 25% of my portfolio thrice, betaglass 4X on 50% portfolio invested, last one was luck personified.

Agbalowomeri:
They have chopped this bank finish
Unto the next

even other banks have withdrawn there cash, other liabilities have triple. This is an emefiele management system 😳.

DEXTROVERT:
This
People
I
Know
Someone
Who
Applied for license,
Did capture since April
Up till now
Licensenot ready

mine is since my birthday September 2023 renewal o!. Yet to receive the plastic copy. This country is faulty. Nothing police never do me, insults, extortions, harassment and it not my fault o. Been to the office more than 12 times.

Streetinvestor2:
So it has ever touched #100.I didn’t even know.
I really wish it could come down to #20 now because I have matured TB Money

Then again it will be easier for tinubu to win 2027 than oando to come to #20 now...lol

oil price on shaky footing. Oando if for the managers not the shareholders in the retail market.

press9jatv:
‘I’d rather be rich and based in Lagos than anywhere else in the world,’ - British returnee declares😊❤️🇳🇬🔥Blord Odumodu



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=11ywBclBp3w

truth for men is Sweet girls plenty if person gather for lagos. If you spend well, them go twist Amala style for you.

Just like the mood around the house.

Truths9ja:
“I’m so scared and tired” — Woman cries out for help after being terrorized by a monkey in her home.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x1qcf60FrqU?

na your ex, talk to him. Maybe ancestors reincarnation.

Moikiitos:
Nigeria should have law for DEFECTION. It is not good for our democracy. If you win a position in one party, defection means you lose that seat and left that position open for contestion. If, you want to skew majority to one party...you should be ready to test your popularity in the party defected to... SHIKINA

very much agree

Kobojunkie:
Oh wow! You are playing endurance husband in an unhappy marriage, and somehow you are convinced you are better than OP? No offense meant, but ...

we actually better friends now, no nagging or serial neglect anymore, it was a phase then. Just emphasizing for him to enjoy himself, nothing is permanent. Let not empower any spouse, to stop our enjoyment. Lol!, they will recover but there choice is not my burden.

Kobojunkie:
How is your marriage any different from OP's marriage, abeg?

I didn't continue to please anyone but myself, so it choice I changed and madam matured, if she wouldn't am less concerned. Life too short!

Sometimes what attracted our spouses are our behaviors when we have options. Please sir read the psychology of seduction by Robert Greene. I tried to once do things my madam way, 2 years we really had hard times, suddenly I dress well when going out with her, took dancing class, started kitchen upgrades and was cooking for my fun. It was the day I told her I was going for foot massage. Madam just said, am I seeing someone, I smile asked her she can join me. Now she clips my nails. And she sometimes says, am I really a married man. I suspected old script from her childhood parenting is affecting the relationship, I choose to focus on making my life worthwhile.

KarlTom:
A company in debt doesn't translate to having debt issues. Almost all listed companies are in debt.

Don't think this directly affects BETAGLASS NG (the most profitable of FRIGO Group plc)
They are on course to post excellent Q3 results...

I emphasize parent.

https://africa.businessinsider.com/local/markets/frigoglass-eyes-sale-of-profitable-nigerian-unit-beta-glass-to-ease-debt-pressure/qc7mmc0. Beta glass parent have debt issues

FarahAideed:
The fraud was 300 dollars?

the article made errors it more

richiemcgold:
I'm beginning to change my mind after reading this post. But all those unwanted messages and calls can be so annoying

the settings have repeated called can come in, familiar in favorite also can be exempted

Adexvivacity:
Las las, almost everybody feeds from corruption, almost everybody extorts. I could remember a lady from China selling cheap Phones LCD in Alaba vicinity, the lady was sent back to China by the union of Alaba traders on the allegation that she would reduce their profit or gain the whole customers to herself. EVERYBODY IS A MORAFVCKA HYPOCRITE.

there Chinese importers and retailers now. Importers are all competing now as purchasing power done collapse. I won't be surprised na chinko sef message vdm as influencer to advise them, USA tariff is resetting things.

emitheo:
Honestly, I can relate to this 100%.

When you’re still growing your LinkedIn presence, it’s easy to feel like every post is being “watched” or judged — especially when you don’t have a big following yet. But the truth is, most people are too focused on their own pages to notice as much as we think.

What really helped me was focusing on consistency instead of perfection. The more you post, the easier it becomes to share your thoughts without overthinking every line.

Also, if you’re serious about building your brand from scratch, I’d strongly recommend trying out LinkedIn Premium — not for vanity, but because the insights and visibility boost make a huge difference. You get to see who’s viewing your profile, advanced search filters for outreach, and you can message people outside your connections.

I actually found a way to get the same LinkedIn Premium features at a much lower price (no tricks, same plan I use myself). If you want for yourself, just let me know.

Keep being “loud and shameless” though — that’s exactly what builds confidence and attracts your audience over time.

still use ai answer person. What you are doing is actually trying to get real organic audience not people known to you. It honesty to me, but still be very accountable.

Sometimes things produces different results, that why speculation is risky. They can be voted out too.

RodgersAkpafu:
Nigerians are gonna learn a very bitter lesson from next year

All these "i dont care bout systemic rot" because I am gaining kobo kobo here and there and I can eat rice and chicken and drive motor therefore im living fine will be slapped out of their faces

Their pockets are about to get raided big time, they will pay by the barrel of the "gun" and they will see the govt squander the proceeds

Bonjovi13:
This vision board resonates with me.
One quick question though. Joining the world's billionaires by 2030...are you referring to dollar or naira billionaires?

love this. ❤️. Really envisioned transcorp the holding company could be valued around 2 trillion based on the possible gains from the fcf as less debts, interest and payables. The deregulation of power and there gas drilling might be done by 2030, I pray for lesser prices for transcorp to buy at least 2 million units. Though very far from such quantities.

Hamachi:
One solid piece of advice: don’t rush decisions just to escape discomfort—pause long enough to see if it’s really the best move, not just the fastest way out.

these really a sound advice.

Validated:
Tinubu was a pathetic failure in Lagos. He did NOTHING in 8 years. Let me chronicle it here.
- Roads: Third Mainland to Obalende was to only manageable road then. All other roads in Lagos were in disrepair. Tinubu's excuse was that OBJ seized LG funds. All of mainland were impossible.
He printed billboards like " THIS IS FEDERAL GOVERNMENT ROAD, BEAR WITH US" . Yet he has Agberos collecting taxes and levies on the same road. The bad roads created the Okada Business in Lagos as Lagosians started abandoning theis cars for Okada
- Healthcare: All hospitals he met were in disarray. The worse was that the morgue on Marina, near former NITEL Building was always smelling due to decaying corpses.
- Taxes: Before Tinubu, Lagosians use to sekf-assess themselves in PAYE, such that in December, most employees receive tax refunds. Instead, Tinubu made Alpha-Beta the collection officers and truncatecself-assessment process. That is what you have till now. You pay based on an unclear basis.
- Agbero/Touting: Tinubu empowered touts in Lagos. Buba Marwa was proactive in removing them, but Tinubu empowered them for political gains.
- Indebtedness: Lagos became the most indebted sate under Tinubu.
- Insecurity: Tinubu was a disaster. Buba Marwa introduced Operation Sweep, when Tinubu took over robbers took over the streets on the streets. Daily robberies around Akpomgbo is still fresh on people's mind.
- Dirt manageable was zero. Heap of dirts were a daily sight in Lagos, it was then that Cart carriers started.

To his credit though, he remodelled Tinubu Square in Isake-Eko because of Eyo Festival, otherwise his 8 years were nothing to write home about.
FASHOLA re-awekened Lagos' strength and capacity. Then Ambode improved on it, until the current disaster he foisted on Lagos .

He built some crappy state estates, called “low-cost.” Back then, it was ₦3m for a two-bedroom. I remember one in Ibeshe, they used low-quality materials throughout. Cement walls and painting were done the same day, roofing with Summy wood, the only thing done well was the interlocking stones.

To be honest, civil work quality greatly improved under BRF, only for Ambode to want to return us to Tinubu’s infrastructure quality. Sanwo actually tried, just not impressive. The general hospitals I’ve seen or visited, about four of them are actually well maintained. But rural area roads really lacked attention under Sanwo.
For example, there are roads in Ikorodu yet to be completed since Ambode’s time. The contractor, Hitech, was doing rubbish before, but I was impressed they were asked to properly refix their shoddy works.
We need all these Agbero out. I’ve not voted for APC at any level since the 2023 election, in protest.

This na total recall body structure, saw myself in the mirror recently, omo I started understanding what less motion and fat does. This photo comparison no balance

Nazgul:
Oga the assignment isn't directly for her but for you so that you can spend more time with her.

The school is trying to activate your tutoring skills for the journey ahead. Cos in the coming years you're going to be needing them.

it truly for bonding. People now abdicate all parental roles.

Iranu, as in when the man don talk say she be virgin, I knew he never wise from emotional manipulation. But he is among lions, they straightened him up.

SmartPolician:
Please can you enlighten us about the shortcut in this case?

normal Nigerians like to make life tougher for others that why ineptitude reigns.