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PoliticsRe: Jonathan Condemns Killing Of Health Workers In Kano. by StateOfMind: 9:54am On Feb 09, 2013
babarazy: Jonathan Condemns Killing Of Health Workers In Kano?. Is that all he could say?... OMG!. Cant he ask Obama how he tackled Osama?
I'm not a fan of GEJ and I never will but give this man a break abeg..What should he have done to avert what happened? If he keeps mute, you complain, now he has condemned the act, you are still criticising him.

I ask again, what do you suggest he does?
FamilyRe: Why Some Very Beautiful Ladies Get Marry Easily And Faster Than Pretty One by StateOfMind: 9:46am On Feb 09, 2013
^^you should be ashamed of yourself.. sad
PoliticsRe: Rapists To Face Life Imprisonment Under New Law – Reps by StateOfMind: 4:46pm On Feb 08, 2013
coogar: a man cannot be rapëd in the nigerian constitution. equally hilarious is the fact that a wife cannot be rapëd by her husband in nigeria. there's no provision for those 2 type of cases and we have over 1 billion learned people in that country and none of them has moved against this 10th century constitution. shame on nigeria!
I agree and even the so called provision for the most common form of rape is a weak one. How many of the culprits actually get convicted. A good percentage of rapists get away with it because its a crime that is very difficult to prove in Nigeria.
PoliticsRe: Rapists To Face Life Imprisonment Under New Law – Reps by StateOfMind: 4:35pm On Feb 08, 2013
Ejiné: Exactly. For example, a boy fighting with a girl in the bush can also look like rape, especially when she's on the ground.
It's so easy to frame people up like this.

Do these lawmakers even think before making these dumb laws?
There's nothing dumb about the law..

Its proving beyond all reasonable doubts that someone was actually molested that is difficult and for this same reason, most molesters have gone scot free.
PoliticsRe: Rapists To Face Life Imprisonment Under New Law – Reps by StateOfMind: 4:30pm On Feb 08, 2013
Oahray: sadly so. Nigerian legislators fail to realise that women can be just as bad as their male counterpart.

Even domestic violence. Are there no women who beat up their husbands?
The article did not favour any $£X, as there wasn't any mention of male or female all through.

And yes, there are women who beat up their husbands but most physically abused husbands do not come out to admit that probably because they do not want to be seen as 'weak'..their loss, no one's fault.
PoliticsRe: Rapists To Face Life Imprisonment Under New Law – Reps by StateOfMind: 4:24pm On Feb 08, 2013
Fellow wayne: Thanks for the new law but i will like the nan to impliment another bill that any girl found dressing indecently or disclosing her cleavage or whatever will be sentenced to life jail cause it makes boy to molest them !!
So how many girls have you raped so far cos I know you see cleavages almost everyday of your life.

And for your underage victims that don't have cleavages, what triggers you to molest them?

Oh, and for men that get molested by women, could you shed more light on what 'makes women to molest them'...do they 'disclose their balls too??
SportsRe: Burkina Faso Vs Ghana - AFCON 2013 - (3 - 2) On Pens On 6th Feb 2013 by StateOfMind: 10:15pm On Feb 06, 2013
Shame on u refree!!

I'm so happy for BF, though the sight of bance disgusts me! Goshhhh..dude is sooo ugly!

I rooted for ghana initially, but BF surely deserves it.

One more thing, eagles are so spelling the whole of burkinafaso come sunday!!
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Mali (AFCON 2013) - (4 - 1) On 6th February 2013 by StateOfMind: 4:25pm On Feb 06, 2013
Brilliant pass moses...!!!

Up echiejile!

Let the match begin!!
FamilyRe: Man Insists On Seeing Suitor's Office Before Blessing The Marriage by StateOfMind: 3:06pm On Feb 06, 2013
coogar: so a mother in law conducting virginity test/fertility test is doing it out of greed? father in law wants to know if the groom is financially buoyant enough to marry his daughter. mother in law wants to be sure the bride can even conceive or has led a responsible life. i think the 2 situations sync perfectly. let each side conduct as many relevant tests as possible. welcome to the new world!



by the same token, financial test is not just a male thing too.......we live in a world of sex equality now. what's good for the goose should suit the gander as well. by all means, the 2 parties should conduct as many tests as possible. eye test, ear test, body odour test, snore test, kitchen skill test, general hygiene test, etc.
Lol at different tests!!

Anyway, Like I said earlier, I do not think the father is doing it out of greed, I think he just wants to be sure his son-inlaw to be is as real as he presents himself. He must have his reasons for doubting him and in the first place and if re-assurance is all that's required, I see no big deal in it.

And no, conducting fertility test isn't out of greed either, its just taking things too far...they are two different things joo.
FamilyRe: Man Insists On Seeing Suitor's Office Before Blessing The Marriage by StateOfMind: 2:39pm On Feb 06, 2013
Bawss1: The good ol' NL Family Section flip right there!

How would the ladies feel if they were at the receiving end of this "background check"?

Nice one
Coogar's analogy is totally out of place here. This father's concern isn't out of greed, I believe he only wants to make sure the daughter he raised for years isn't falling into wrong hands. It doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't trust his daughter's judgement, all he wants is to see for himself, and if that's a criterion to marrying his daughter, then so be it.

And btw, infertility isn't just a female thing anymore, if you think a mother-inlaw should run several fertility test on her daughter-in-law to be, then she should be ready to do the same for her son too..no be by length or width!
FamilyRe: Can A Woman Actually Wish The Downfall Of Her Husband? by StateOfMind: 6:07pm On Feb 04, 2013
pweetymama: i think the reverse is the case here and u are the under aged one or you won't be talking carelessly to people you have never met.you really need to learn how to address people.
Please calm down and re-read her last post..it makes a whole lot of sense, focus on the message and not the 'messenger'. I was also drawn back reading that statement of yours (my family will be more willing to help than your family bla bla)..and you don't seem to see anything wrong with it. Only jenny pointed it out and I think ileobatojo also mentioned it too.
TV/MoviesRe: Nigerian Idol Season 3: Final Contestants by StateOfMind: 4:54pm On Feb 04, 2013
Akshow: I use to think I'm the only one that finds that yinka irritating. She rarely makes constructive criticism. Jus feeding up on What other judges say. Very annoyin woman. Project fame remains the best
I'm glad someone also thinks this way. She's just so loud and annoying. She's definitely not qualified to be a judge cos she has no mind of her own. I hate it when she looks out for naeto c and the other guy's reaction to pass her comment. Nothing sensible comes out of her wide mouth. All she does is to scream and laugh like a crazy woman. Even those contestants look confused whenever she comments.

Btw, misleading post OP, these aren't the finalist. Just 9 contestants have been confirmed. Some of them in the above picture have left while some are still on 'probation'.
CrimeRe: 13-year-old Girl Gets Pregnant After Being Molested In Lagos by StateOfMind: 5:46pm On Jan 31, 2013
chichi414: What can of mother will nt notice her own child till she got 5months pregent.parents should have quatity time with there children,really sorry for the young girl.those he goat should be jail for 15 years
embarassed embarassed
SportsRe: Zambia Vs Nigeria (AFCON 2013) (1 - 1) On 25th January 2013 by StateOfMind: 5:51pm On Jan 25, 2013
ItsModella: talking about the Zambian coach..the dude is not bad looking grin grin grin
You sef notice am..he's kinda hot..

See the keepers head..wonder what he's chanting..
SportsRe: Zambia Vs Nigeria (AFCON 2013) (1 - 1) On 25th January 2013 by StateOfMind: 5:41pm On Jan 25, 2013
Choi..see effortless penalty

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