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scoops:
One key characteristics of a Narcissist is that they Love using People, be it in a relationship or work environment a Narcissist has just one goal, to use people meanwhile they tend to create that picture of them being the best person you can ever find on earth, even when you say you don't need help a narcissist will tell you they just want to help you but it's mainly so that you can feel attached, indebted and become a slave to them, being in a relationship with one can be dangerous as they would always need you to feel guilty, unfortunately if you ask what you've done wrong they really can't tell.
PS: The world shouldn't be a though place to live for anyone but over the years I've learnt that, if you're too Sweet they'll lick you Finish and if you want Peace they'll break you into Pieces; that being said there should always be a balance and Dialogue should always be a way to resolve difference hopefully the other party understands, because an Eye for an Eye might soon make everyone Blind.

in all in all
Once you’re emotionally vulnerable you become their pawn

That why I said the earlier you find the out the better for you
No matter how you see it
Along the line they must show that narcissistic threat except you let your emotional guard down and turn a blind eye to it

My wife is a narcissist but I always put her in her places once she crosses the line

I’m loving and nice but my emotions are shared 20 for her and 80 for me

So far so good
It has worked for me due to the way I handle the whole thing and the worst part my wife is black American 😂🤣
But I go still get her down if she Bleep up 😂🤣
An African man don’t take or do shit

Lol
I can understand where you coming from bro
My wife used to be
But as a proper African man when I be
I put her in her place 😂🤣

She now has the idea I can do without her if Bleep up

So all those narcissistic behaviors she de hide am

And I warn am make she no carry that nonsense character near our pikin

If you realize on time and deal with it
You won’t have a problem

As am talking to you now sef I feel guilty cause na me con de do like narcissist for our marriage 😂🤣

And another thing apart from the narcissistic thing, I think she doesn’t love you enough
She de use you pass time

Na pride just de worry benin people just because of their conquest might they have back in the days

I don’t know why benin like claiming every where
When they don’t even have a footprint their

The only place benin founded is their present location in edo state the rest where forcefully taken or conquered they should stop spreading lies

Although I respect the oba of Benin so much but that doesn’t me I’ll agree with him on issues like this

Benin ever discovered Lagos
They conquered some part and that it

What the useless buhari did during his time and took Nigeria no where ny this idiot of a tinubu wan still follow

God abeg oh
Which leaders Nigeria get
Are we coursed or what
And this a people manage multinational companies

Is Nigeria to difficult to handle

God ☹️☹️

BigDawsNet:
Learn Tech today

you don’t need to learn tech
Just learn management
Look for some cash
Build one fintech app
Guide it jealousy and grow it customers base in 2-3 years sell it off to a bigger company and buy some few shares from it
While you sit in the fencing watching you still making money both from sales and shares

That my goal from next year
Try it and you will thank your stars

stagger:
Oga, you were caught lying. Why not apologize for trying to mislead people here?

what you dont know will not kill you

See all this fools trying to paint Nigeria good whereas na bad place

How much is minimum wage in UK and US
according to fela the great

Nigeria people are what we call suffering and smiling 😂🤣

CookieBrown:
The 2022 Chevrolet Malibu tank capacity is 15.8 gallons (Fuel capacity).
https://www.autonationchevroletpembrokepines.com/models/2022-chevrolet-malibu

The price of gas in the U.S is 3.54 USD per gallon
https://www.globalpetrolprices.com/USA/gasoline_prices/

A full tank will cost 55.9 USD.

Therefore, it is safe to conclude you're a damn liar. And of course your wife does not own a Chevy Malibu. Nigerians and lying. All talk with no facts.

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My wife drives a 2022 Chevy malabu
It takes only 13$ to fill up the tank
That about 13-14k naira
But for naija if I no hold 40k I never even start

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when you cry finish
Lemme know 😂🤣

Online researcher 😂🤣

stagger:
The Malabu has a fuel tank of 16 gallons. Average price if gasoline in the US is $3.40. That car needs at least $54 for a fill-up, or N62,560. My old car with roughly the same tank size only needs N39,500 for a fill-up.

I earn in dollars via remote work, like many tech guys here. What are you on about really? Stop demarketing Nigeria. I have lived in at least three countries and I can do a very objective comparison.

bro I’m not demarketing Nigeria
It just a fact
How can basic amenities be a big problem
How much is minimum wage
Since I come here
I never here generator noise
I never see potopoto or red sand
Everything is working as it should be
Although not perfect but way better
Not even police, army or even the most wealthiest person can break law here cause he or she must face the consequences

I’ve a friend in Dubai and na house girl work she de do
She’s paid 513k monthly
And that should be minimum wage

Now come to Nigeria
Common light na problem
Here internet full every where
Ask your self how much you don spend for data since you work online
Here your 1gig na your 1gig but for Nigeria if the 1gig last 1hour make you thank God

Even if you’re Rich in Nigeria
It not enjoyable
Tell your self the truth
You feel comfortable cause with the little you have you can get away with anything in Nigeria

Tribalism, religion and party politics has destroyed Nigeria and no one seem to care in as much some have their tribe, religion or party man in power

SMH 🤦🏽‍♂️

neyobills:
Dey whine yourself....... how much is a gallon in Chicago that u will buy full tank for 13USD....u sef check balance am naw.

wen you play finish
Lemme know

neyobills:
Oga u can't spend less than 40 USD to fill up a Chevy Malibu or did u mean 30 USD?

oga no de talk nonsense
Na Watin happen for my eyes
We did it at Walmart station
Oak lawn Chicago

If you de doubt na you con know
E no concern me

Tohsynetita1:
what of native clothes?

which one be native clothes

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Almost same amount when converted to naira, Nigerians are paying here for clothes if not more.

Okrika price has increased in Nigeria. Infact This UK okrika can pass as stock originals you see in super markets in Nigeria! You hear something like 10k, 15k, 20

yea it same but the minimum hourly wage ain’t the same
In Chicago for example it 15$ an hour
Do you know how thrift clothes you will buy with that money

Abeg Nigeria na shit hole
Since I come I no de carry charger waka again
😂🤣

neyobills:
$13 to fill up your tank in the US....how convenient.....miracle no dey Taya Jesus .

very convenient
Google the car
It fuel efficient
It more like the Toyota Camry or Corolla

Full tank can carry my wife for 4 or 5 days cause she doesn’t go out more other than house to work and back

Tohsynetita1:
How costly is the clothes?

minimum of 6$

If that too much
There’s a thrift store where you buy clothes for as loa as 1.20$ Which is same as the okrika we call it in Nigeria

4gunners:
Wishing you the best. Truck driving is quite attractive but for the long hours someone has to be on the road. I’m in Tx btw.

I know bro but it lucrative
I just needed a career I won’t have to stress my brain like those in tech and at same time earn high. Send me your number on my mail let connect

Nice to meet you boss man

SIRTee15:
Sukkot the defender of hypocrisy. How many Nigerians earn 15, 000 per hour as wage in naija.

That's the koko here not what 10 pound can do.

bro live am make em de deceive em self 😂🤣

Truths9ja:
see they will be cheering them cos’ they aren’t enlightened and there’s huge poverty in the land. That’s why these set of clueless politicians make used of poverty in the land to steal the destinies of people and oppressed them and their families. It’s very unfortunate seriously. Funny part and painful part is that there’s no change in sight.

no change my brother
The ones you feel will make positive change are even the ones to disappoint
Common basic amenities govt can’t provide
Thank God I left Nigeria And I’ll make sure I drag as much as I can to come here when I’m fully settled legally

Infact Africa as a whole is a dead zone
No hope in the next 100years

Where can I stream epl matches online
Any one with idea

Truths9ja:
you are talking from experience here. USA 🇺🇸 is even paying much better. Nigeria is just a clueless hell shithole in Africa

very useless country and my pain is a lot of Nigerians are cheering the thieving politicians
Destroying their future

It a shame

VeeVeeMyLuv:
He is trying in vain to defend rubbish, their evil oppressive policies

when many of them talk nonsense about abroad I look at them and laugh
My wife drives a 2022 Chevy malabu
It takes only 13$ to fill up the tank
That about 13-14k naira
But for naija if I no hold 40k I never even start

Naija isa dead country I swear

Persephone1:
Food is cheap in UK and even USA... Try buying anything outside food then you will know Nigeria isn't TOTALLY bad.

oga food, clothes, gas, transportation, light etc are all cheap here

Cars, mortgage, house mortgage , house rent or buying of car are the things that are expensive here
With a minimum of 4000$ you will be able to live very well

I live in Chicago
I just got my CDL class A driving license and I’m still in training and I get paid 200$ daily
And once I free and fully employed I’ll be paid 33$ An hour

If you never comot for Nigeria
You no go know say you de survive and not living and as a truck driver that has at least 33months of experience I’ll get 98,000$ to 100’000$

If you can japa from naija do so
Even them go pay you 500k a month
Japa oh

Beverlyjean:
Absolutely.... University or college( usa) is basically for careers preparation

Another mistake Nigerians make, is thinking that graduates are only those that completed university education... a person that completed secondary school education is also a graduate

they don’t even care about that anymore
Just get the industry standard certification
You will see jobs chasing you

WannaHowzit:
Must be Nigerian kids with compressed flat square heads. I thought all SA women were into Nigerians including 12 year olds🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️ Or am i wrong?

who asked you
And besides is that the point of discussion here
Why in pains. As usual you drift the whole discussion saying we’re the cause of every situation in SA

lazy moda f**ker

ipobarecriminals:
WannaHowzit why u nor Open thread and expose this sexmania/Evil that South Africa 🇿🇦 men/boys dey do there. ? Spit

just wait and see him and his gang blame it on Nigerians and other nationals

For me I can never stay in Lagos
I know now Watin ona see for the Lagos
I rather stay in Ibadan, Abuja, warri, akwaibom or onitsha/akwa

Honestly
He’s right cause I don’t see why as Nigerians we keep on electing bad leaders

Wait and watch how they say it Nigerians or other Africans

N3TRAL:
Stay and fix your fvcking country.

you and who 😂🤣

De play

Nobody is saying anything now
No Muslim warning those terrorist from Lebanon. Not even the Lebanese govt but warn Israel start to bombard them people will say Israel has no conscience

Make I de look

Hamachi:
Congratulations 🥳 which state in America and how much did you spend in total?

I'm in Chicago and didn't spend much, just that the waiting time is so long and tiring, but thank God everything is over and I'm here now.

Living Nigeria to America🇺🇸 for good and God did