yee want an update

Ok i got married 14 months ago and am now pregnant and very very very very happy been with my guy now 4 yrs!!!! and yes he is yoruba

Thanks for support and comments on here some hit me hard some gave me strength but hope this whole thread proves life goes on and your happiness will come.

i have never been pregnant so i think ur mistaken. Thanks again for support on the abuse i received. To the girl in dublin, im happy ur man is good. Proves my point that not all nigerians r the same. Bless x

I am happy there still seems to be good people on Nairaland - i was worrid there for a while

Siena:


My brother, that was uncalled for, not good at all.
You're a mature Nairalander, and I expect better from you.

Thank you for your support here. i thought it was uncalled for but didnt want to fight back cause it didnt deserve a nasty response, i wouldnt lower myself to that standard.

At Temilola, i did try and forgive but now he has more than one child and the divorce is done but i am happy. God does things to test us and i thank god i have come out the other side strong and a better woman.

Thank you

they are not all the same. Ive been with my man now over 2.5 yrs and he has never done wrong to me and is a very honest man. Hard to find but they are not all the same.

I am not prejudice so to me i cant say all Nigerian men are the same. I met my Finance and he is lovely and happened to be nigerian, It is not all i can get but i judge people individually.

JustGood:

Did I read you say jealous

Jealous of what? your fat body or the fact that you are incapable of keeping any man happy?

As to the abuse from this poster - all i can say is THANK YOU

For all your info that picture is NOT of my ex hubby !!!!1

I have sorted out my life - wow people can be so jealous - if you cant say something nice then dont say anything at all. HA people funny as if i force em to read this

An update its 2009 i am divorced and due to marry a new man this year. Been with him over 2 years now and have never been happier.

Life and time heals all Bleep

I am getting married and i am having a nigerian wedding after the registry office and a white dress hotel wedding after the blessing next year. For the nigerian wedding i want to wear native but i am white you see so i want to know if anyone has pics of nigerian material in western styles and if so can you send me pics and also if anyone knows where i can get it made in London??

Thanks

Steph

so do i - i drink and smoke occasionaly and i am not a prositute!!!!

well in my own place now and i am no longer in contact with my friend. she is a nasty piece of work. no wonder i was her only friend now she is back to having none she is EVIL!!!!!!!!!

ya think your rights. well she apologised to me and we even left the house together to go to work this morning so it seems cool for now so just going to lay low for now and save up some money and move by next month!!! have to have rest of mind in my house

Living with my friend and her boyfriend at the moment doing them a favour as they will travel the first week of December to her home town to live so i moved in as i want to take over their place when they leave and to pay half the rent. well my friend the girls lets call her S was fighting with P (her boyfriend) and he packed his things to leave and called O his friend to go and stay with him. well O called me and asked me whats going on and i said i didnt know as when they were fighting i left the house for 1.5 hrs as they needed to be alone. anyway S is now saying that i was talking bout her relationship to O and tried to kick me out the hse only that P and her settled things and P talked her around to letting me stay. i mean i did pay half the rent and feel so insulted by what happened that she had the mind to tell me to leave. now i text her and told her that yesterdays problem should not be brought into today but i know the girl is stubborn and now i have to go home and face a night of silence from her as i doubt very much she will talk to me. also when she kicked me out i had nowhere to go and she said she didnt care if i slept on the street. any advice on how i should approach this stituation

oh i will but this guy is funny and the same age as me and even brought me to meet his mum and brother last night!!!! but i will study him well my bro i really will and i aint living with him!! i will stay living on my own for now.

@gettolove - i took your advice and put on my jeans last night and lets just say i met a nice guy (not nigerian) and he was a perfect gentleman so lets see what will develope!!

i never had u banned!!!!! did i take your hand to type what you did ammmmm NO is the answer to that my friend

ok so the posts were deleted. better!!

was telling everyone around me he didnt love me but was telling me he did then my friend rang him while i was ther and put him on speaker and i heard him saying he didnt want me anymore etc and then i spoke and he said he did want me etc. 8 weeks i put up with him telling everyone he didnt want it anymore and telling me how much he loved me.

maybe not coming again as i split from my boyfriend. Met African China while he was in London and he heard me sing and also wanted me to do somthing with him. if you know him then u can get my number from him and ask him bout my talents

an update!!

ok last sunday i left the Yoruba man!!!!! yes yet another failed relationship on my list. staying free and single for now. to answer the question about the baby - the baby was with another Irish woman. It is my wedding anniversary today and i knew if i entered this site i would find support and that is what i have found.

Take care

Stephanie

for the record here is a pic of the yoruba guy. Still so much love him but at the end of the day i can not stay with someone who doesnt make me happy just for the sake of being with someone

Do you eat dog food LOL!!!!

maybe coming to Festac in December for a few weeks to my boyfriends family

dont brand all yoruba guys the same. everyone is different. i have been hurt my an igbo guy very badly but i would go with an igbo guy again if he was nice. currently dating a yoruba guy and he is very serious and nice

I love Hi5 but i have to say that i too get very annoyed with a speak to nigerians on it and the next thing you know they are asking me to western union money to nigeria for them just because i live in london and i am a white girl!! as for posting telephone numbers the only risk here is them getting alot of prank calls!!