are you in bed alone!!!!! my boyfriend gets waistpains too after some nights sleeping with me (if ya know what i mean i dont wanna be rude)

i am IRISH from the home of Potatoes. i have been eating potatoes on a daily basis all my life and so have my parents and all my family and none of us have diabetes and i am also overweight so dont believe this crap for one minute

I DONT REALLY EAT NIGERIAN STEW ETC I ONLY EAT JALLOF RICE AND FRIED RICE BUT YEE DO USE ALOT OF OIL WHICH CANT BE GOOD FOR THE HEART

go to your doctor and get medication or talk to someone about how you are feeling. talking always helps

i am working in a psychiatric hopital here in london.

TALKING

A PROBLEM SHARED IS A PROBLEM HALVED

should i get back with my husband who has had a baby with another woman since we seperated when i met him and fell in love there was no baby mama and now there is??

tell em everything. even when my husband who i am seperated from calls me and upsets me my boyfriend is the first person i call and even though he doesnt like talking about my soon to be ex husband he is always there to listen and give me a shoulder to cry on. also why shouldnt u tell your man that you have your period!! he needs to know

Fluffy:

Yes boys fall in LOVE once and the rest off the time they fall in LUST

I tottally agree

flower:

I think if you say that for men, you must say that for women as well. There's always someone we keep in our hearts moreso than anyone else.

there is always one man u will hold in your heart. for me it was the first man i loved and dated for 3 years

do u mean women who have married but have since seperated

hey i got my 6630 unlocked here in london so it is possible the code has been released

i dont really mind it but i hate when its private number and they keep calling. how stupid to flash someone with private number when we cant call back even if we wanted to

where is the baby. is the baby with the woman and the fathers friend who she is now getting married to

i am from Ireland and you are right it is the norm to live together while dating here. i am currently living with my nigerian boyfriend her in london. i totally agree with it cause you really get to know the person inside out when living together. i would recommend everyone do. i do not agree with hiding from my family though. you should just tell them if they are not happy they will get used to it. its not good to hide any aspect of your relationship from you family

would never read my friends. have read my boyfriends on occasions but he has been next to me when i was doing it and he reads mine. nothing to hide so NO issues!!

i really wish i could meet all of you and sit and talk face to face. i love u all thank you

Flower you are a real big help.

Thank you so much for all your comments. my husband rang me this morning from Ireland and i told him that it was totally over and again he is telling me it is not. he is not with the mother of the baby and wants to move to London now ASAP but still he said he will continue to support his child financially but that he wants me in his life that i am his wife and thats it. dont know what to do. he still holds my heart and i hate that fact. i dont want to ruin my life here in London what do i do.

Thank you. he gave me his number but i cant get through to him. called his brother who is not with him at the moment so just have to wait until he calls me. god i am feeling so depressed

i got married to an igbo man from Aba. i am Irish. we got married in 2002 in Ireland and had a great relationship most of the time (we did have our fair share of fights). in June 2004 he told me that he had slept with another woman and that he was sorry and wanted us to make a fresh start and that he told me his confession in order to move on. i could never forgive him and every time he left my side i thought he was out with other women and my town in Ireland is small and all my friends and in fact everyone knew about my husbands affair before i did and i felt like he had come to my town and disgraced me in my hometown. i really did try and make it work but in the end we split. i saw another man for a few months but it didnt work. i met up with my husband and we agreed to move to London away from everyone and make a go of it. i moved first in order for him to arrange all his documents and move to London legally with me as he still does not have a european passport. he never moved always giving me one excuse or the other but he did visit me about 3 times but we never got involved sexually as we wanted to wait until he moved to London and we start everything again. i moved in Feb 2005 and by Dec 2005 i talked to him and he agreed that he thought he was never going to follow me. i gave up everything for nothing. i found out last week from a friend that another woman gave birth to a baby boy for him last week. i rang him and he confirmed this and i feel he is still involved with this other woman. my heart is broken and my life is ruined. what should i do. i know i need a divorce but dont feel i have the strength. i have a very close male friend who is a yoruba man and he is helping but he went to Nigeria yesterday and i really am struggling without his support. please your words and comments would help me

Thanks it is by Tongolo Dbanj

have yee heard of Trey Songz he is very big in america at the moment. has one track called just gotta make it featuring twista very very good. if you go onto www.treysongz.com you have watch the video and listen to 2 of his tracks. got the album from the US and am very please. new comer watch the space!!!

My boyfriend is travelling to Nigeria in 2 weeks and i want him to buy me some music. so far i want psquare - get squared and sunny neji - unchained cd. i love 2 face and faze whos albums i already have. can u suggest any more albums to get also do you know a song that kinda goes "me coco, me coco"

they LIE i used to date a footballer and how come he is 22 now but all his friends i met from nigeria are all like 28-30 and they went to school together same class and when i asked him he refused to answer. i think mikel obi is very young though he looks young

Toni Braxton - Trippin


Ain't nobody ever prove their love when
Things were all good
And two people are smiling
Love is found way down in the trenches
When he's throwin a fit
And she is sittin there crying
We tear it up
To patch it up
Break up
To make up
The show goes round and round
And that how we get down
We go back and forth
And anyone who goes through this should know
That what i am saying is for real
Real love is meant this way

THAT FIRST VERSE IS SOOOOOOOOO TRUE

OUT OF THE BLUE U CAME AND CHANGED MY LIFE
MAKE I TALK TRUE I WANNA MAKE U MY WIFE
FILL ME WITH SO MUCH HAPPINESS
CANT WAIT TO BE IN BLACK AND YOU IN YOUR WHITE WEDDING DRESS..........................
........................YOUR MY ANGEL

I am from Dublin and i live in London and to tell you the truth FAZE would be just as big here as 2face. 2face is much better looking but FAZE has the voice of an PURE ANGEL!!!!

i think the move would be great. he has already made it in Nigeria and he needs to make it all over the world. he has potential so i think he should go!! let the rest of the world enjoy him!!

There once was an American Indian whose given name was "Onestone".
So named because he had only one testicle.
He hated that name and asked everyone not to call him Onestone.
After years and years of torment,

Onestone finally cracked and said,
"If anyone calls me Onestone again I will kill them!
" The word got around and nobody called him that any more.

Then one day a young woman named Blue Bird forgot and said,
"Good morning, Onestone."

He jumped up, grabbed her and took her deep into the forest
where he made love to her all day and all night.
He made love to her all the next day, until Blue Bird died from exhaustion.

The word got around that Onestone meant what he promised he would do. Years went by and no one dared call him by his given nam until a woman. named Yellow Bird returned to the village after being away for many years.

Yellow Bird, who was Blue Bird's cousin, was overjoyed when she saw Onestone.
She hugged him and said,
"Good to see you, Onestone
" Onestone grabbed her, took her deep into the forest, then he made love to her all day, made love to her all night, made love to her all the next day,
made love to her all the next night, but Yellow Bird wouldn't die!

And the moral of this story is
"you can't kill two birds with one stone."

GBENGAIJOT


do you live in London cause to be honest i always feel a bit weird going into african shops for music and stuff. i have sorted the DVD situation. i get them off a woman in Upton Park. i am a short white Irish girl and feel weird walking into an african shop asking for stuff ya know. any chance u wanna meet and we go together. STRICTLY FRIENDS!!!

Let me know ya

Steph

anywhere in london to buy nigerian cds

love them man great song. SUO!!!!!!!!!

my story is similar and now i am happy too. life goes on everyone has to remember that

wish i was the baby mama