Romance › Re: Have You Ever Bought A Gift To Your Gf And You Regret it afterwards. by steppin: 12:25am On Mar 05, 2015 |
EroticAngelina: I really don't give a fvck.  Yet you quoted him? You obviously do! And that comment is silly squared. |
Politics › Re: Ahmed Musa Ibeto, Niger Deputy Governor Ejected Out Of Government House by steppin: 5:59pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
In case. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Is Nigeria’s Next President, Says Obasanjo by steppin: 9:24am On Mar 04, 2015 |
OBJ is so high! GEJ till...Tinubu buys a good mouth wash! |
Politics › Re: Lady Who Brought About Twitter Emergency With Her Teeth Gets Changed by steppin: 9:23am On Mar 04, 2015 |
If I click that link eh...call me 'bascard. |
Politics › Re: Seun Kuti Blasts IBB ,mark, Says Jonathan Is The Worst President Ever by steppin: 10:49pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Abeg, who is Seun Kuti? The only Kuti I know is Fela and Femi. Every mumu with a twitter account can now write crap and post for people to read. |
Romance › Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by steppin: 2:42pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
bellamafia: Hello Romancelanders,
I am in dire need of serious, unbiased advice to avert making a lifelong mistake. Serious comments only please, no trolls, judgemental people, immature guys and girls, religious extreemists NOT allowed in here.
Im a young lady, 27 years of age, have a nice job in a good company, very goodlooking. The reason for this description is to give a background to my plight.
I'm at that phase in my life where im ready to start a family. I always imagined that i would meet a guy randomly, fall in love and get married, but that has not been the case. With age, i learnt that marriage is not a fairytail and that one must think thoroughly, and venture with the head and the heart.
I have a guy whom ive dated on and off for 2 years and hes asked me to marry him a couple of times. We are very good friends, we have a certain kind of understanding, his family likes me, we share the same beliefs, ideologies and outlook on life. He can trek from berger to ojuelegba is that would make me happy.
However, we are not sexuall.y compatible. i mean the se.x is nothing to write home about. Ive tried many times to help him out, tell him what to do, etc but he never ever gets it right. That is a major issue for me. Hes also not so physically attractive, but im ok with his looks.
Im confused because i have a lot of other men flocking around me, showing indications of seriousness, but you know what they say about the devil you know and the angel you dont know.
I need advice please
Thank you Please, don't listen to some people who act like sex is nothing. Sex is one of the major part of marriage. It spices up marriage. Sometimes it settles quarrels or little disagreements between couples(Yes, I mean it). I know cos a married woman told me. There was a young single lady I used to hang out with one time. She told me about her friend who rejected a guy because she was a "one minute man". I asked her if she would accept the guy's proposal if it were her, she said no. I was surprised. I didn't know it mattered to women that much unlike men who do not care. Truth is, if you're not sexually compatible with this guy, abeg look for someone else. If you pity him now, you might end up jumping from one man to another when you eventually get married. You are still young, regardless of what some might say. Marriage is not something you rush in because you're thinking about your age. I don talk my own. |
Politics › Re: Fani Kayode Ran From APC Because We Refused To Protect Him From Efcc-tinubu by steppin: 11:36am On Mar 03, 2015 |
Tinubu(pot) and FFK(kettle)
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Romance › Re: How Many Guys Can Do This To Their Love.. by steppin: 11:35am On Mar 03, 2015 |
Nice guys finish last. |
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Politics › Re: Nigeria Stalls Chad, Aims To Beat Boko Haram Before Election- YAHOO NEWS by steppin: 11:09am On Mar 03, 2015 |
Since Boko haram party has used insurgency as weapon against the GEJ goverment, he'll use their plan against them by wiping out Boko haram completely without any outside help. Gej till 2019. |
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Romance › Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by steppin: 10:47am On Mar 03, 2015 |
EggovinMma: Depends. Yes or no would be a good answer. |
Nairaland General › Re: Who Is A Big Girl? by steppin: 10:43am On Mar 03, 2015 |
Orijin101: As at now, i don't need the real big girl, all i need are those foolis.h girls who think they are big....... Later in the future, i will finally settle down for the real big girl.
keep calm and drink orijin  What goes around comes around. I hope you have sisters at home. Person go still do them finish, go marry another big girl. |
Romance › Re: Can You Really Date Someone With A Disability? by steppin: 10:41am On Mar 03, 2015 |
cozy7: Mental disability is worse than physical disability.
I'D RATHER DATE SOMEONE WHO'S PHYSICALLY DISABLED THAN ONE WHO'S MENTALLY DISABLED. (IF U KNOW WHAT I MEAN) Talk is cheap. |
Family › Re: Love Potion: Native Doctor Dupes 70-year Old Woman by steppin: 10:37am On Mar 03, 2015 |
Eyaa! I pity the woman! She was hoping to get back by all means...the things Konji can do to you.  |
Family › Re: Shocking!!!! I Caught My Niece self-servicing by steppin: 10:28am On Mar 03, 2015 |
mutter: You should not be entering her room at all, especially when the parents are not there. I don`t even let my boys enter my girls room without knocking and waiting to be asked in- vice versa too. I also knock before I enter their rooms. That is the right thing to do.
I talk very honestly with my kid`s about such things because I want to know what is going on and to be able to advice. If you told me you caught my kid doing that I would be angry that you invaded their privacy- it is their room. What that girl did is normal. When a girl is no circumsised she gets aroused easily and she needs to come to terms with her body and know how to control it. She is not harming anyone not even herself. It only becomes an issue if she does it rampantly. Sometimes what you forbid children is what they crave for the most. One has to explain it in a matured way to them.
Besides most women and men do the same. Dey form oyibo, dey knock before you enter your kids' room. One day, e go happen for your eye. African environment and Oyibo own, no be the same. He who has ears, let them hear. |
Romance › Re: DOES BEING DARK DARK IN Complexion Make Ugly ? by steppin: 10:22am On Mar 03, 2015 |
Being dark doesn't make you ugly. Personally, some women would never date fair guys. I've tried to know the reason on several occasions, but they just won't say. Skin colour do not influence beauty. |
Politics › Re: APC Tasks Jonathan On Enugu’s Coal, 2nd Niger Bridge, Others by steppin: 10:11am On Mar 03, 2015 |
2Brains1: Guy 100 likes for you! I am an Igbo man and I see this mistake my people are making and I just weep. @bolded, Who dash u? Keep dreaming! |
Crime › Re: Man Bites Off Son’s Ear For Defending Wife by steppin: 10:03am On Mar 03, 2015 |
He's part of the 21 million people that needs to have their head examined. Suarez things! |
Phones › Re: Blackberry Launches Nigerian Stickers For BBM (naija For Life) by steppin: 9:51am On Mar 03, 2015 |
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Celebrities › Re: Court Fixes March 30 For D’banj’s Debt Allegation by steppin: 9:40am On Mar 03, 2015 |
*singing* Oga Titus is too pompous, you wan try us, now money don lost, boys are very big boys, you don Bleep up, you wan form boss, kasala don burst, where is oga Titus You take night bus to come Lagos, you go campus, girl are very surplus, you no hint us, you wan com flex, now money don loss…” |
Politics › Re: "Wind Of Hope" Offers To Sponsor Buhari, Jonathan Debate In UK by steppin: 9:21am On Mar 03, 2015 |
"Group"? Abi APC on a different alias? Una dey try. |
Politics › Re: INEC Commissioners Shun Push To Back Anti-jega Plot. by steppin: 9:12am On Mar 03, 2015 |
If Jega likes, let him be an individual or team player, he's moving his partial ass out! We need someone who's rnot compromised like he is. |
Politics › Re: General Muhammadu Buhari To Arrive Lagos On Wednesday by steppin: 9:06am On Mar 03, 2015 |
Hope he's coming back with his certificate and medical report? We no wan hear story dis time o! |
Politics › Re: Sir Adeyemi Osinbajo - Prof Yemi Osinbajo's Father (photo) by steppin: 10:29pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
. Seun: Check out this 1993 picture of Professor Yemi Osinbajo's real dad, Sir Adeyemi Osinbajo, who died at the ripe old age of 95, according to a reliable source. He's the handsome man in all white. The other men in the picture are his sons, including Prof. Yemi Osinbajo with the bowtie. Seun, why na? Shey Na campaign you dey do for APC? The money wey we give you don finish?  That man sef no resemble osibanjo. |
Crime › Re: Mob Beats Up Woman Found With Dead Baby by steppin: 10:27pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
morganist99: ur kind fit suck mad woman breast...werey I'm sucking your mama's breaast right now. The milk don dry like dano slim powdered milk. |
Politics › Re: Pictures from the President's Interaction with 5000 Young people in Lagos by steppin: 9:28pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
point5: Enjoy it while it last...after here no more...na dem sabi...but still GEJ till Buhari quit APC... He'll quit after he loses. Na normal normal. |
Crime › Re: Mob Beats Up Woman Found With Dead Baby by steppin: 9:25pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
See as woman dey waste breaast milk! |
Politics › Re: Pictures from the President's Interaction with 5000 Young people in Lagos by steppin: 9:23pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
Youths need a vibrant and energetic president, unlike some people wey dey use ambulance go check up. GEJ till 2019! |
Politics › Re: Pictures from the President's Interaction with 5000 Young people in Lagos by steppin: 9:21pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
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Sports › Re: Mikel Obi Caught Stealing Glances At Half-naked Woman On The Streets (photo) by steppin: 9:18pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
seeteazain: I suggest u nid that too since u can't differentiate between 2 incidents.. *yawns* |
Crime › Re: Police Arrests Woman Who Set Husband Ablaze For Refusing To Take Her Out by steppin: 9:16pm On Mar 02, 2015 |
I dey fear women. |