sexyseun:
@ OP.. Dont mind those saying Se.x is not everything, na lie oooo, As for me, se.x is vital in my marriage oooo, any man wey no sabi do d do i reject him by fire by force, its a prayer point oooo,, u wanna know anoda one? Any man wey no sabi go pass 3 rounds i reject him by fire by force! Se.x is sweet, its refreshing, its amazing, its wonderful and no wonder God truly endorses it for our procreation. I am an advocate of good se.x i wish i can be appointed as a female Ambassador on sexual matters in Nigeria.

See Babe, go confront am, make im go find correct jedi abi wetin una dey call am, if he cant last more than 40mins continuously non-stop....END the Relationship ASAP

ZedX5:
Women.

Always want it all.

Here you have a nice guy who is everything you want apart from sex. Sex seems to be food to you. Ok, date someone else who'll give you all the sex you want, but treat you like crap, no still.

Very discombobulated species.

There are 1,000 men flocking around you. Date one of them, or 10's of them to know who will give you the sex you desire since that's all is holding you back. No. Because of angel and devil blah blah blah.

Why the fvck are ladies so fvcking confused?

My advice - wait till you're 35. That's just only 8 years from now. By then you'll know what to do. . .

debbydee:
Madam poster

My advise to you now is to repent and ask God for mercy. SEX is not for single men or women its for married people you experimenting with him is bad. I cant even advise you to stick to him or leave him because the foundation already is destroyed. Now where do you want to build on.

#themarriagebedundefiled#

hayoakins:
Marriage is more than S E X.

As someone once told me, what singles are crazy about before marriage (sex) and think that is what marriage is all about, you will be amazed to discover that those of us that are married are not that crazy about it.

If you have to dump him because of sex, you may have to dump several others on other issues too.

Marriage should be enjoyed but ROME was not built in a day. Ever wonder how someone who could not walk suddenly outruns a dog? TIME changes all things.

GodMode:


Denying a guy sex is a very childish act...

I'm beginning to think bellamafia == setaje..

If her p**** was tight she wouldn't be complaining... From her write up its easy to know she is promiscuous...

Promiscuous guys are the same as promiscuous women...

LadyX:
Op, Why is the relationship on and off? Is it because of his performance?

You should look into why it's on and off before proceeding. Mariage is a serious thing, so it won't be easy to do "on and off".

Back to the topic, if you are not okay with him, you better take a walk. You don't want to cheat on him in future, do you?
Hope am not being judgemental.

kimond101:
Use your head cause love can change.
If you belief marrying him wouldn't make you want to commit adultery in the nearest future you can go ahead. If not try waiting for the right man

Setaje:



It's very wrong to assume that her pvssy is not tight.

GodMode:



Chai... You're wicked Oooo... This has nothing to do with god..

#keep_the_p****tight_for_your_husband#

Edusouls:
foolish girl, when she dumps him, maybe you go and find her another man that will love and accept her just like this man,you are telling her to dump, of course i know your type of girl dont even any genuine lover, you jump from one man to the other, unsettled and confused, soon you end up like many of your predeccessors, old,fustrated, very unstable and desperate...

ZedX5:
Women.

Always want it all.

Here you have a nice guy who is everything you want apart from sex. Sex seems to be food to you. Ok, date someone else who'll give you all the sex you want, but treat you like crap, no still.

Very discombobulated species.

There are 1,000 men flocking around you. Date one of them, or 10's of them to know who will give you the sex you desire since that's all is holding you back. No. Because of angel and devil blah blah blah.

Why the fvck are ladies so fvcking confused?

My advice - wait till you're 35. That's just only 8 years from now. By then you'll know what to do. . .

EggovinMma
post=31258720:
Hmmm.mm.I feel your pain my sister.This sex of a thing na
wire o.I will tell you a true story, although, I go add small small
kpomo to spice it up.
*clears her throat, grabs carrot*



So whenever we have a fight and he calls me "Crazy girl", I just go
close to face him with that venomous words that defeats him each
time,"with this thing you have hanging there btw your legs, you better I
don't see you standing where men are queuing! "

And so life must go on..We parted ways.The seex was quite terrible. It
was such a relief.AMe Abeg make I enter broken bottle level. Na so so
the language full my phone vocabulary.



So I met this dude two years before and we talk quite often. He is not
based in nigeria and so we had a bond which lasted for a long time.He
came back and we decided to hook up, he so nice and I felt I needed to
have another relationship. So that fateful day, Na so my friends prepare
me well a. They had my fav hair done, nails painted et al.I was happy, I
really want to see this guy again. I felt everything will be ok.Na so I
carry my hand bag move from school, I no no say na slaughter house I
dey go .We met, jisted, smiled at each other and so it was
like fireworks.Back in our hotel room, I was watching the TV, when he
stepped out of the shower room on a bath robe.While he read, I watched
him.Very calm guy, good looking and I felt something down there. I mean
down down there.I still still dey survey the guy, he made a quick move
to adjust himself, that was when thunder s trucked.I adjusted myself too
to get a clearer view, close one of my eyes so I go see the thing
clearly.I looked again .Nwe tieeeeeeeeeeee olololo
oooooooooooooo .Nawgu uuuuuuu biko nu bia na uuuuuu uuuuuu eeeeeeeh. Ndu
b' anyi bia zopute ada unu nwanyi oooooooooooooo.Okwanu ije di!He
didn't notice my discomfort as he was still seated there engrossed in
whatever he was reading.


My escape plan.I sent my best friend a message telling her to call me in
panic, telling my elder brother is critical ill and needs my attention
back in the hostel.
"Oh my God I have to rush back to school, my brother is critically ill .
Please I have to go" I said after I received what appeared to be a
frantic call.In attempt to calm me down, and I my own attempt to act up,
I mistakenly held his gown and saw what appears to be A BIG LIVE
BOA.NNa so I burst cry.Chineke biko, okwanu onwuwa!!!!!!!!!

My trip back to school was filled with untold quietness. I humbled
myself inside the Taxi cab.Bavk at the hostels my friends who knew how
much I anticipated the meeting stood around me, na so I just carry
pillow put under my head dey look my ceiling fan.

You see my sister, in search of what appears to be 'breakthrough ', you
might end up getting more than what you bargained for.I advice you give
your man sometime to' arrive' since he appears to be a good husband
material in the heart.

sexyseun:
@ OP.. Dont mind those saying Se.x is not everything, na lie oooo, As for me, se.x is vital in my marriage oooo, any man wey no sabi do d do i reject him by fire by force, its a prayer point oooo,, u wanna know anoda one? Any man wey no sabi go pass 3 rounds i reject him by fire by force! Se.x is sweet, its refreshing, its amazing, its wonderful and no wonder God truly endorses it for our procreation. I am an advocate of good se.x i wish i can be appointed as a female Ambassador on sexual matters in Nigeria.

See Babe, go confront am, make im go find correct jedi abi wetin una dey call am, if he cant last more than 40mins continuously non-stop....END the Relationship ASAP

bellamafia:
Thannks zedx5 for your contribution, remember, i said no judgements, advice only.

Nihilist:
It's very obvious OP is a nymph0.

After your toto don slack finish, you con dey dey complain say the sex no good.

How the sex go good, when na dual carriage highway dey down there?

ZedX5:




discombobulated.

bellamafia:
Hello Romancelanders,


Im a young lady, 27 years of age, have a nice job in a good company, very goodlooking. The reason for this description is to give a background to my plight.

.I have a guy whom ive dated on and off for 2 years and hes asked me to marry him a couple of times. We are very good friends, we have a certain kind of understanding, his family likes me, we share the same beliefs, ideologies and outlook on life. He can trek from berger to ojuelegba is that would make me happy.

However, we are not sexuall.y compatible. i mean the se.x is nothing to write home about. Ive tried many times to help him out, tell him what to do, etc but he never ever gets it right. That is a major issue for me. Hes also not so physically attractive, but im ok with his looks.

Im confused because i have a lot of other men flocking around me, showing indications of seriousness, but you know what they say about the devil you know and the angel you dont know.

I need advice please

Thank you

bellamafia:
Hello Romancelanders,

I am in dire need of serious, unbiased advice to avert making a lifelong mistake. Serious comments only please, no trolls, judgemental people, immature guys and girls, religious extreemists NOT allowed in here.

Im a young lady, 27 years of age, have a nice job in a good company, very goodlooking. The reason for this description is to give a background to my plight.

I'm at that phase in my life where im ready to start a family. I always imagined that i would meet a guy randomly, fall in love and get married, but that has not been the case. With age, i learnt that marriage is not a fairytail and that one must think thoroughly, and venture with the head and the heart.

I have a guy whom ive dated on and off for 2 years and hes asked me to marry him a couple of times. We are very good friends, we have a certain kind of understanding, his family likes me, we share the same beliefs, ideologies and outlook on life. He can trek from berger to ojuelegba is that would make me happy.

However, we are not sexuall.y compatible. i mean the se.x is nothing to write home about. Ive tried many times to help him out, tell him what to do, etc but he never ever gets it right. That is a major issue for me. Hes also not so physically attractive, but im ok with his looks.

Im confused because i have a lot of other men flocking around me, showing indications of seriousness, but you know what they say about the devil you know and the angel you dont know.

I need advice please

Thank you

kennygee:
Sex, there is a reason why the bible is against Fornication.

Na Iranu dey worry you.

You are looking for a man that will give you Christian Grey kind of sex but will be nothing to write home about as long as being a husband is concerned eh?

Please, drop his number so that women who are "REALLY" looking for good men to marry can grab him.

bellamafia:
Thannks zedx5 for your contribution, remember, i said no judgements, advice only.