₦airaland Forum

gsalvatore:
You must think only virginity is all men want..

My point exactly.

Is marriage all about virginity which is the very first things to expire in a marriage and abruptly ends with just one thrust ?

If yes, then we wouldn't have as many divorce cases as we do now.

I doubt most, of these husbands even remember the virginity after a few weeks

Men Need so many things in a marriage: good food, good sex, good conversation, companionship, silence when needed etc Virginity will not guarantee a woman's ability to make those things happen in a marriage.

If I were the OP I would just see myself as a woman, period. Get to work on myself, improve myself, get closer to God (not because you're a virgin) make myself marriageable material for 'Mr right' (whatever that means)..

Fulani marabouts ...strong jazz..

EgunMogaji:
I read a healthy fear of The General.

Abi ? The dragnet is slowly closing down on him.

BlaqCoffee109:

Its just the way you describe it luv, so stomach churning...

I see Mrs Adeosun resigning if the negative attention around her doesn't stop. Let's hope she doesn't .

Noted.

BlaqCoffee109:
..this mduza of a character I imagine must be one fat pot bellied middle age Soweto school teacher always drenched in his own sweat, stale and cheap food mixed with some skunky like smell and stale beer..eewww

Oh yuck !

BlaqCoffee109:
..Steve?

Bae, I'm just telling her like it is. Its a cold world out there.

If she's saying she don't want sex but putting it in their face they gonna get pissed off.

If she over doing the religious thing, and acting all repressed, that's all they're gonna see no matter her other talents.

If she acting like her virginity is a substitute for a personality. They gonna think she boring...

holaralph:
. GEJ Listened so much to some of his cabinets member, GEJ gave them freedom to do all they want to do, He never question them because He thinks they will perform and as well deliver but they scatter his Govt due to plethora greed at the End everybody started blaming GEJ for Non performance Can you see now. What Adeosun will carry tallest ladder to view am very sure PMB will see it while sitting on the floor........ Am speaking as a typical Nigerian Don't be surprise those shouting are trying to help some people close to them out or they are trying to cover their own ugly deeds. And am sure they aren't fighting for the masses except for their associates and themselves. I think PACT signing will never be 100% favourable to the countries signing it cos some will surely pay heavily while some will surely pay lightly........ My View Again

Thank you !

OP not all guys would be desperate to deflower you if they know you're 'wife material'.
You need to ask yourself a few questions and give yourself honest answers..

1, Are you a tease ?

You may say you don't want sex now. But is that reflected in your mode of dress, conversation, jokes, stories when you're with a guy ?

2, Are you hyper-religious ?

Note, I didn't say spiritual, I said religious.
Do you scare guys off with a holier-than-thou attitude ? Outdated fashion or no fashion sense at all ? Do you insist the guys in your life conform to your ideas before they can get along with you ?


3, Are you just really boring ?

If you're boring but sexually generous, some guys may tolerate you - for a while. But if you're sexually repressed AND boring too., ? Guys won't stick around.

Cullinane:
Man Lagos is dry. Hotel ke?

Ajah axis is dry.

harmless011:
Where you there to know that those ministers did not offer explanation on why they think signing the agreement as drafted is not in the best interest of Nigeria, this blind support ought to stop.
Governance is not a one man thing president buhari should learn to listen to opposing views, that is hallmark of a statesman.

How are we sure if Ms. Adeosun and Mr Udoma also have skeletons hiding in the UAE ?
The report is not complete until it tell us the specific faults the ministers found in the agreements.

Cullinane:
without spending too much on a first date bro. Need a good place to chill with if possible, some recreational activities to do.

That would be tough...

If you don't mind one of those hotels in the area with nice facilities like bar, restaurant, gym, pool etc
Search Jovago.com

omenka:
Source isn't credible so I'd hold my fire.

Good idea.

Put fuel in your car, drive down to VI. Lekki-Ajah is a glorified pako area in general..

GEJ sef....

bjbukzy:
serves d man right! a woman dt died while carrying ur seed and u saw nothing wrong in getting married to her friend 4 months after?
ole jati jati

Really daft fellow.

He cleared his bank accounts to woo the olosho, now he's issuing dud cheques.

90% of them are like this. And you still wonder why some guys are such hard bastards ?

adekhingz:
bro,i get ur point. Afterall,we all wrote our projects,which is far more lenthy than this less than 5pages article (WITH REFERENCES) ourselves. +i was only curious abot the reference he used#smiles

This is a clue..

adekhingz:
Lies!!! Do you mean fashola wrote all this and him no put any reference? It reminds me of my 100level assignment when i copied and pasted better points from google. The lecturer just crossed the whole point and skipped to the next person's assignment. Smh

Nigeria borrowing from pensions is a logical option, considering the current economic milieu.

Why couldn't he have written it ?
The whole novel sounds very Fashola-esque.

Fashola, in love with OPM since 2007.

You do all the work, they can't carry their limbs...

I hear their NCC license is up for renewal, this puts them (Mtn) in a very unfavourable position.

What a pity !

Kayoski:
op I dey suspect say u theif the car..

no be bullet hole dey for the rear light so?


anyways u fit collect 50k last

You gat sharp eyes !

KashyBaby:
damn! Who doesn't want that?

You can send a PM

okotv:
Nigeria has really suffered a lot from bad administration. That it still exists is a miracle.

I tell ya !

Jodesky:
Another display of ignorance. There are four major ruling houses in Ife and they are not related by blood.

Even if you believe that, and other Oonis before and after him intermarry with the ruling houses, what would be the end result ? Blood ties are formed.

If other oonis before him did this then your assertion is no longer 100 percent true.

BlaqCoffee109:
hey booboo, sure you'd like that? where have you been?

I never went nowhere luv...any action from you is OK by me.

just give us some action, Luv...lol !

*Voyeurism mode activated*

Jodesky:
Another display of ignorance. There are four major ruling houses in Ife and they are not related by blood.

Ademiluyi is of Lafogido ruling house while the Ooni is from Giesi.

Wailers, pls take note

I thot the Ooni is a politically nuetral institution.

Wetin consign wailers with that again ? ...take a chill pill my friend ! Or maybe you're the new Abobaku ? Lol !

Ronke is his cousin !!!
Is that really allowed ??