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Stephenomozzy:
It all depends on the individuals involved. And what triggered the feelings too. Yes.. You can really fall in love with someone even without seeing them in person... But whether that relationship can really be real depends on the "reason for your affection" - is it facially? Physique? Is it the communication? Is it the attitude?

In other words.. Did you fall in love with a beautiful mind or a beautiful body.

Different kind of men you may encounter before you get married...watch out for them ladies.

1, EAT and RUN
You already know what they came to eat , they never get serious with any girl ...all they do is just eat and run ...yes that thing you are thinking is what they came to eat ....someone said they are called ‘Bleep boys’ I don’t know

2, THE JEALOUS LOVER BOYS
This ones come with love ...No they actually love you but they love you to a fault ...they are too jealous . Their jealousy begins to affect their trust for you because they are suspicious of every other male around you ...in-fact they can even suspect the female

3, THE RICH FOOLS
Forgive me for saying fools but this ones actually get me angry. They are arrogant because of money . They cheat on you or disrespect you and still try to behave like nothing happened. Just because they think you will still come around for the money � please avoid this guys� except you just went for the money too

4, THE MARRIAGE LIARS
Sister, it’s a lie ooo ...they just want to get laid .
“My mother has been disturbing me to get a wife”.
“I’m the only son”.
“All my friends are married “.
“I just need a good wife to complete me now”.
My beloved sisters please shine your eyes cos they just want to get laid...so pray for discerning spirit ooo this ones can pretend a lot.

5, THE MARRIED LOVERS
They are married but they still love you.
“I wish I met you before my wife”.
“I don’t love my wife , they forced me to marry her”
My dearly beloved sisters, please again...they just want to devour without fulfilling the duties of a sugar Daddy .

6, BEAUTY COMPETITORS
Yes I know this set of guys , they just want a girl that is beautiful and well endowed. They may or may not like you . All they need is a girl to show off. They do competition of fine girls...they send each other pictures of their girlfriends to know the finest hence they go hunting for fine girls to show off.
Please do not let yourself be just a show off girlfriend.

7, DESPRATE TO MARRY.
Now may I inform you that some guys are also desperate to marry !
Some believe marriage bring goodluck and their pastor already prophesied about financial breakthrough after marriage.
Some of them their parents are getting old and they really want to give them a grand child.
Some are in abroad and need a wife for papers.
Some are in their country and need a wife to take them abroad.
Some already finished all the ritual rite but needs to marry and sacrifice his wife for money .
Some are getting old and they just need a wife so people won’t say they are still single but they will still continue their single life after getting married ...they just need child producing machine .
Some stay in abroad but they need a woman in medical field to make money for them.

8,THE GOOD LOVERS
This ones actually love you but they are never ready to settle down . They want to date for 100 years but they don’t want to settle down .
I don’t even understand them !
If you know you are not like me that do not really care about marriage please find your way to a more serious guy.
Women are like flowers so they say !

9, THE RICH LOVERS
Now these are my type ...they are rich and they love you . But the problem is that they always think the girls in their life only came for their money so it’s hard for them to trust you or love you with all their heart .
Some of them go for ladies in their class because of same reason
While some feel it’s good to disguise and find a wife.

10, THE CHEATS
If you like give them the whole world , they will cheat .
Do them any position, they will still cheat .
Even if you die for them ...all they know how to do is to cheat .

11, THE BOSS
They like that be submissive quote. They want to control everything you do. They want you to report your daily activities to them and they command total obedience without questioning...Brother its relationship not the military .

Finally this is not to discourage you...we still have some kind sweet guys out there. Actually , they are not perfect because no one is perfect. Just look out for that particular thing you want in a man and be happy .
Ps: I’m still looking for my rich, tall handsome guy

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BBBmall25:
I Tried It And It Worked. Only That Were Far Apart, And Didn't Have Genuine Interest To Take Things Further Than Where It Should Stop

I just woke up with this thoughts and question; How do you start and sustain an online relationship without having a face to face contact?

I have seen alot of people propose relationships and marriages online, But the truth is, I wonder how one can say yes to someone he or she haven't met in life. To me that is the most difficult and unsure decision to make. A relationship is a physical thing that needs constant communication to thrive, Not just online but a face to face communication. I find it difficult to believe any online relationship is real,
To me it is an illusion until I meet the person physically.There is a realism to face to face meeting that Internet and telephone conversations lacks.
I believe some online relationships are trials cos some go into such relationships not just with one person. But two or more in a bid to try their luck incase one doesn't work out.

I am not against online relationships but i have this skepticism about it.
How can I say "I love you" to someone I haven't met in person?
How do I believe you love me too without meeting me?
I believe people who are in a relationship should meet and see if they have the same flow and attractions.
You can't really get to know that man or woman online cos there are things that can only be said face to face.
You can meet online but meeting face to face is paramount in sustaining a good relationship.

So don't rejoice yet if you are in an online relationship, you might be one among others!

Happy week friends

Sure!

IamNotWariz:
Pick up the pieces and move on
It's life, it happens to everyone

I remembered everything again and I feel depressed now.
I was such a fool for allowing someone treat me bad for long

It all happened in 2017 I met someone on this space. We met and he was walking with and aid, despite that he was just working as a bet9ja agent and he was a fresh graduate. I overlooked all and believed in whatever the future holds, we moved on. Few months into the relationship, he was acting insecure and toxic to me. I thought it was just him being scared, since it was a new relationship.

One year later, i was now rooted to his parents. As days increased he became more than toxic. I left countless times, but he keeps saying he won't do it again and I came back.

After a year later he decided to start up something with the little he had on him. I brought my suggestion since I wasn't convinced with his own idea but he insulted me. Few months into the business, he fell sick, business was struggling. He was now on admission in a hospital since he loosed blood. Nobody was staying in the shop then, I quit work to stay in his shop. Nobody was staying with him in the hospital. I worked for him during the day and slept at the hospital during the night. I loosed my money taking care of the shop and him then. When he was discharged he came to his shop and the "thank you" he said to me was slapping me and calling me a bad luck to his shop. At this point, I was counting my days with him. To think all this year's I've being his punching bag. When he came back i started dressing his wound with the little firs aid kits each time he couldn't see the doctor. After that month I left for Lagos and stopped communicating with him. Despite his calls and please this time i ended it for real.

I can't forget how I became a mother to someone only to get an abuse as my reward. I was abused and the trauma can't get away from me. I wish a day will come,I will forget everything and move on.
It hurts

This is just an iceberg of all he did to me

You guys should get married.

Blitz888:
5th October, is my birthday too.

Ginaz:
She bought me a phone . I was in SS1 and I belong to a group of friends, we make night calls with our far away pals of the opposite sex then, come to school the next morning to gist gist and gist. It was just pure innocence of teenage life.

My mum happened to catch me whispering like a rat during one of those calls and gave me a very loud , thunderstorm, hailstorm and barbaric slap that made my left ear bled blood.

I held my ear in shock and disbelief.

Ladies& Gentlemen!!!!!!
What is the first thing you will check the first time you'll visit your partner?
Me: Kitchen, bathroom and bedroom

Nice

Lolz

OK o

Long story

Akinbahm:
I have my ways in detecting if they are or not with the way I rapport with them, at times I detect it with some Socratic questions...

Be deceiving yaself

SonOfUbunja:
same reason women pray for rich men when they are not rich themselves

mtchew

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The general public is hereby informed that the name mentioned below making the rounds on social media did not emanate from me and therefore, is untrue that I am the same person with the username below.
Please beware!

lilwetdick:
SteveOfu, how many names do you have, you know where i am talking about

Amanda
Hannah
Jane

Sex is a dangerous weapon.

Women use sex to control and enslave men.

Sex has ruined many men. Proverbs 6&7 says great men have fallen because of sex.

Don't be an idiot.
There is no free sex.
It is pleasure that leads to bondage.
Refuse it.
Reject it.
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