₦airaland Forum

Ladies,

Your best friend told you she is in love with a married man and they are dating.

What will you do?

1. Will you insist she ends that relationship
2. Will you end your friendship.
3. Will you tell her pastor.
4. Will you mind your business.

Two different narrative.

Oluwasaeon:
Why do you pray and work hard to be rich when you weren't born rich yourself ?

If you are broke, you have no business looking for women. Let us even imagine that a lady agrees to your relationship proposal, how will you take her out on a date?

You number one problem is not women, it is money.
Leave women alone.
Go make some money.
Women are not going anywhere.
First make money then start searching for the right woman.

Do not defend poverty in any way.
Your sense of self preservation must be stronger than your desire for a woman.

If you can't help yourself, can you help a woman?

lilmax:
But come to think of it


What do you guys really need money for as a girlfriend and not a wife?

Why do single men pray for a chaste virgin when they are not virgins themselves?

What is this fascination with having a woman 'no man has touched,' but you have touched many yourself?

"He used me,. I suffered with him. After all I did for him"

My dear if you did not give him your kidney, sell your father's land or give him a loan, you did nothing. That you drank Garri with him, is because you yourself is broke if not, you would have prepared a better food. That you stayed in the gutters with him is not a sacrifice because if you had a palace , you wouldn't do that. About using you, my dear, if it's mutual, then you shouldn't say he used you. You both had fun and used yourselves...

The only reason why you feel hurt and left out is because you abandoned yourself in his shadow. You lost yourself in him. While he's staying up at night to think outside the box, while he's setting goals and achieving it,you were counting the days, waiting for him to blow/hammer. While he was investing in his future, you left yours stagnant without any meaningful long term plans.

A young guy is struggling to survive, struggling to make it but you will come in form of girlfriend to ask him money for hair, shoes, this that and even pad thereby spending what he's supposed to be saving and at the end, you wailed on how he used you, on how you suffered with him..

How??
Whenever I hear this statement;
"I suffered with him when he was broke" what comes to this my silly mind is

"I slept with him for free when he had no money. Now that he's supposed to be paying, he left me" . ( I know, my mind is crazy).

My point my dearest sisters is, if you did not contribute anything tangible either in cash, assistance or ideas, anything that is progressive or crucial towards his success, then please don't play victim.

Times are changing, men are no longer the only ones Winning bread. Women are now bread winners too. So while you are performing wife duties to a single man, please think of your own entity.

Sex is not enough
Love is not a enough.
Have a purpose.

I used to have my number on my dp but drop ur mail

kaygentle:
okay, am close to Maryland

I went for a meeting, actually it was an event with some top nollywood stars. While there, an argument ensued cos of a question that was asked by an actor I won't mention his name , "should a lady pay for lunch on a first date"?

The normal Nigerian babe in me quietly said within "what is wrong with this guy? How can a star like him ask such a question, how much is lunch that you will allow a lady you asked out pay for"? But the Mary-jane that I know who have a different ideology and perception to life and it's happenings spoke out, "it's not a big deal! If she can, why not"!

Personally I see nothing wrong in a lady paying for lunch or dinner on a first date, it doesn't remove anything from you if you have the money. And in the same light, it doesn't reduce the man who you had lunch with.

The average Nigerian woman have this grabbing tendency, you want to grab and grab and grab! It's good but sometimes, you will be able to grab more when you learn to give also no matter how little. Relationship is not just an opportunity to to upgrade your financial status but also an opportunity to prove your worth to your partner.

Paying for lunch on a first day doesn't automatically make you a man or make the man less of a man / irresponsible but it simply proves you aren't a lecher looking for where to fill your lecherous tendencies. It is also a proof that you are a responsible individual.

Once in a while, take your man out, let him eat and you pay for it. But don't do this if buhari is still your president !

As for me, Buhari is still my president.

P:S - this doesn't mean you should take a woman out on a first date and expect her to pay for lunch. Oga pay, others are paying!

susiivy:
I was in ss1 returned from school one hot afternoon o, only for me to UnCloth remove pant see blood . I screamed and started crying hard. My aunt was just laughing.

I was 11 years when i saw mine.... Dat was in my jss 1 but i was kind of scared cus den i had more male folks dan female,so wen i got home i couldn't bring my self to tell my mum cus if i do she will tell me to desist from all my males folks nd it will be so painful for me...nd wen my elder sister who was a nurse came back from dat day,i told her nd de next thing she said was"u are now a woman nd u have to keep less male friends else de will get u pregnant"i said ok but deep down me i was very sad cus i have to keep away from them..... Lolzzzzzzz though my mum later found out nd she exaggerated de whole issue telling me folktales .....growing up was really fun shaa

A single mother and a single Father feel in love with each other and got married.

The children they had before marriage grew up and fell in love with each other, and now wants to get married.

Is it right or wrong for them to get married?

Nigeria needs stricter laws to protect girls and women from abuse. I very much welcome the National Assembly’s proposed amendments to our laws, following the recent high-profile revelations of sexual abuse in our institutions of higher learning.

So, say am investing 100k
Commission: 0.125%=12,500

Custody Fee: 0.10% per transaction (per investment)=10,000

Transaction Fee: N100.00 per transaction (per investment)=100

VAT= 630
Total=N23,230
What do I stand to gain then?

Ibrahim505:
These charges will be indicated on the Treasury Bill certificate.

Commission: 0.125%

Custody Fee: 0.10% per transaction (per investment)

Transaction Fee: N100.00 per transaction (per investment)

VAT: 5% VAT on Commission, Custody Fee and Transaction Fees.

Wrong move!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She is ok

DennisEche:
SEE THAT FAT OAP, THEM GO DE FORM FRESH FRESH VOICE ON IAR BUT VERY UGLY WHEN YOU THEM FACE TO FACE

They have.

Abfinest007:
these women might likely lose their job

Cuz it's Buhari

Oshiomole will tell us why another
First Lady will help the economy

Garba Shehu will tell us how it'll open more business opportunities

Tolu will tweet on why #TheWedding is necessary #BUSA19

Tinubu will as well tell us why it'll help other states

Keyamo will still give us the Legal
backing for #PresidentialWedding

MURIC will give us reasons why
#TheWedding will help Nigerians

Lai Mohammed will tell us how
it'll attract foreign investors

Osibanjo will give us the
religious backing

Our economy is
now better

FASCINATING & INTERESTING

Breaking: Senator Dino Melaye has just lost his appeal and a fresh election has been ordered.

Dj yemi gonna be live giving us hit today & performing his multiplatinum hit single today, Prof. Osi-B.

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Diamond23:
Check its possibilities nah, “ buying of food in d desert”

Who is King Solomon in d Bible,, King Solomon married 300 wife's and had 700 side chick, all together is 1k ,,, d Bible did not forbid it,, it's now Bible forbids it,, idiot u go dey dere die ,,, no go put yourself for list, stand there ,, u go soon b d last person way Dem go reject idiot

Marriage is something else

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