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Kobojunkie:
Absolutely none of the stories you told revealed people doing examples of people doing the same things the exact same way though. So, don't you think it is rather foolish to assume it was all done the same in an attempt to justify an utter biased view against a particular tribe?

2. You said it yourself that none of the 3 reports points to a problem that stems from tribal origin. Yet you remain adamant that even with the absence of evidence, you would rather link it all back to the particular tribe. Why? Isn't that what stewpidity is all about?

I honestly think you and your family members should consider instead the particular details of each of the records to locate the particular problems and mistakes made. It is through pursuit of understanding that we are best able to prevent a reoccurrence of the same particular issues.

Let me give an example using the first report. It seems, from the claim you made that the first report's husband did not put down a will before his death setting his wife and children as the sole inheritors of his will. That problem could easily have been dealt with before his death of the woman and her husband had been one -- in agreement on this --- before his death, but most couples refuse to address this issue until it is too late. The family of the deceased are by law allowed to try to fight for a piece of the action, so they technically did no wrong. A written and signed Will created by the man before hIs death would have resolved the case. So, tell your court cousin and his wife to ensure they write their will and update it on a regular basis since no one knows when death will come..

Will or no will no one or family have a right throw out a lawful wife and children from her ceased husband's lawful house 98% of the time. Everyone knows that but not you

Ulunne777:
Some of you even though you are traveled, well informed and educated continue to be myopic.
Should we say because America legalized Lgtbqia,racists,and has lots of them that your kith and kin won't marry from there.Rather you even see it as a win and achievement.

Meanwhile in Nigeria, because of 'see finish ' ,the actions of 3 ppl sums up the entire tribe.

Swear that the marriage between all your tribe ppl are doing marvelously well.

Toke Makinwa x Maje Ayinda= Failed( same ppl)
Peter p square x Lola= Standing strong( intertribal)
Funky Akindele x JJC=Failed (same tribe)
Emeka Ányá ọkụ x Bunmi Anyaoku= Standing strong ( intertribal)

Americans too are treated the same.

But they are slightly better because in place of family trouble all you have is personal troubles

Goodnewsforlife:
let me ask u a question

U have 4 attempts, u have used 3 on a particular outcome n it turn out negative. Will u still use your last chance on d same thing that failed u 3 times?

You are wasting your time with junky

Goodnewsforlife:
I broke his heart yesterday when I made it clear I am also not in support of it not because I don't like him or the lady but because of precedent

What do u people feel about it?

You are very right to be cautious. However, since your cousin is the man then going by those people's law it means that he calls the shots.

Therefore, if the lady is not rebellious, then you can trepiditiously support him.

But the weight depends on how strong your cuz is

alfredfrddy:
Must there be a maid in the house?

Nope.

But then the fool will now move to the wife's sister, friend, neighbour, friends wife, niece even his own daughter.

A fool will always look for a way to disgrace and destroy himself

QuinQ:
Nature made it extremely hard (if not impossible) for a full-bloded straight man to resist an attractive female she's constantly left alone with who makes it clear to him she's quite willing.
Be hard on a man that does that, but not extremely hard

Now you are blaming nature when it was you who has been saying this since your dick started standing even when several years past by and yet no fvck.

You are just deceiving yourself ooo.

All these rubbish is what you have long since set and promised yourself that you MUST DO when you grow up. So you are just deceiving yourself

QuinQ:
It is one thing to sleep with your maid, it's quite another to announce it to the world with full-throted carrying wine, traditional and church wedding!

Which man does not know and have the fear of he fvcks a woman he just may find himself marrying her?

That is just one of the several punishments for fvcking.

Another part of the Curse don finally land here

AllBlack:
Boring. I hope you are not this boring in real life.

Rubbish.
We know you don't have any thing to say since you are a Lying pretentious hypocrite who fvcks every woman including housegirls little girls

koladata:
If you have a high telesterion, you will understand how it pushes you to do these things,..

Now you are blaming testosterone for your act?

For the woman to forck you, you yourself also know that they are forcking you because their vagina moved them, so why do you men not understand for your wife?

QuinQ:
I don't think it's class difference at all (men marry far beneath themselves all the time). I think in most cases it's because they really can't divorce the wife - it's just not possible. Also the enormous scandal that'll trail the whole thing!

The scandal that follows men who cheat did it stop them?

QuinQ:
But this is NOT what I see. What I see is that the maid snatched the husband, which never really happens. D

So the husband is like a phone or car ehn?

Like you men did not say that when you have money you shall fvck every woman.

AllBlack:
sex with my maid? Of all the women in the world. Walahi some men suppose to dey chop for the same plate with pig.

If i hear that even my own brother does such a thing, i will degrade him to the lowest to the point where he will commit suicide. Not talking of friends because we simply can never be friends if I hear such.

Like it is different from the one you had with your neighbour's house girl or Aunty's house girl or your classmate who was a house girl.

You are exactly like them let's not talk about the fact of you people's child fvckingness

dru23:
You too work hard 💪 i feel your pain .. sapa no good and na sapa they make use 20w50.u were using palm oil before. Than u graduated to 20w50 before u know it na better car u go dey use

From your pidgin you no even get bicycle talkless of moto after all you hard work 💪. You jus come here dey make noise dey fantasize say you get moto.

Clearly you be nothing wey dey use noise Jinja himself. Nna, jus accept ur life, you go live and die poor dat na why you are everywhere insalting people. Obviously dem don Curse you for village.

FreeSpirited:
The maid may not snatch it formally... The maid might have secured continued favour and sexual intimacy with the man while the wife constantly have quarells about intimacy and lack of attention from her husband. Not knowing someone is already sharing her man with her

You people can deceive unaself.

Who told you that the wife does not know?

Women wey don see your cheating even before e happen.

Na d one wey don happen na im she no kon know?

No dey deceive yourself, she already know. Na because she know say if she attack you now, na dat time una go remind her say devil too still dey inside una.

Dat na why she gas pretend dey plan her own.

koladata:
Deuteronomy 21:15-17
“If a man has two wives,..

Is this not for those who already had 2 wives according to the Egyptian pagan ways before God brought them out of Egypt and gave them these Commandments?

And since when did "if" mean "take"?

So by your thinking when God Said If a man shall steal an ox, it means stealing is permitted, abi?

koladata:
Isaiah 4:1 ESV
And seven women shall take hold of one man in that day, saying,... “

Who has not now seen today that this prophecy is a Curse and a hot punishment upon women today and men?

So, this one even tears polygamy for now even you men cannot marry even half women not to talk of 1 wife; not to talk of 2 wives.

Even you men are not able to marry to the point that it is women who are marrying you.

If it is a woman who marries you, you would not be able to have 2 wives for you cannot even think of it lest she stabs you as you sleep.

So, you see, you have rather shown that God has even tightened His Curse on polygamy by even making sure that polygamists find it very difficult to marry.

Story.

It is simply because the man is a Fool.

If you are a "good" humble wife, the foolish husband will now fall for the wild bad smelling bitch of a housegirl.

Prettyangelng:
The Most Dangerous Woman Is the One Who Thinks She’s a Good Person

Because she believes her intentions justify your destruction.

It’s not the loud ones.
Not the party girls.

Not the ones who post thirst traps or say “men are scum.”

No.

The ones you should fear the most?
Are the soft-spoken, calm, agreeable ones…

The ones who think they’re good people.

The women who genuinely believe they’re virtuous—while ruining your peace, bending the truth, and rewriting the story to favor their own sainthood.

—

1. She Doesn’t Lie—She Just Doesn’t Tell Everything

She’ll never say she’s manipulative.
But she’ll guilt-trip you into every decision.

She won’t say she hides things.

But she’ll “forget” to mention her backup plans, her ex’s recent DM, or that one time she called the lawyer—just to “understand her rights.”

She won’t shout.
She won’t fight.
She’ll just quietly erode your authority and tell herself she’s “protecting her peace.”

—

2. She’s Loyal—Until a Slightly Better Option Appears

She believes she’s faithful.
But she’s actively comparing.

Your mistakes are on trial.
Another man’s virtues are on replay.

She tells herself, “I stayed as long as I could.”
But the truth is—she left a long time ago.
She just waited till she had the next step secured.

—

3. She’s the Comment Warrior.

You know her.

She’s in the comments of every post that supports men to label it as “misogynistic.”

Drunk on virtue-signaling.

“The writer is not objective.”

“A good man should always…”

“You don’t know it all.”

“That’s your personal perspective.”

“All women are not the same.”

She never asks, “What if this is true?”
She only asks, “How dare you say it?”

She’s not defending the truth.
She’s defending an identity—her performance of purity.

—

4. She Believes in Accountability—But Only When She’s not the Subject.

She’s got files.
Screenshots.
Voice notes.
Hard-copy receipts.

For court?
She’s ready.

For therapy?
She’s rehearsed.

For the internet?
She’s angelic.

And you?
You’re blindsided.
You thought things were “just tense.”
Meanwhile, she’s gathering evidence.

Ask Johnny Depp.
You’d never believe a woman that gorgeous
was shitting on beds and swinging bottles.

The cleaner they look…
the dirtier what they’re hiding.

—

5. She Plays the Victim to Remain the Hero

She cries beautifully.
Tells her story calmly.
Sounds like someone who “tried everything.”

And guess what?
People believe her.
Because good girls don’t destroy, right?

She’ll say she stayed through the pain.
But leave out the part where she caused most of it.

She’ll say, “I didn’t feel safe.”
But ignore the fact that she created the war zone.

She believes her intention is all that matters.

So even when she cuts you to pieces—she still feels holy.

—

6. She’s Got a Perfect Definition of a “Good Man”

You’ll hear it in every argument:

“A good man should be calm.”
“A good man doesn’t talk like that.”
“A real man never raises his voice.”
“A leader should always listen.”

Translation?
She wants a puppet—
Not a partner.

She’s playing Pinterest wife while holding you to the standards of a Messiah.

And when you finally push back?
She says, “You’ve changed.”

No, you didn’t change.
You just stopped performing.

—

7. She Doesn’t Know She’s the Villain—That’s What Makes Her Dangerous

She will burn your future.
Then pray for your healing.

She’ll take the kids.
Then post Bible verses about peace.

She’ll break the home.
Then say “God gives His toughest battles to His strongest soldiers.”

You think you’re married to an angel.
You’re married to a storm in silk.

And when it’s over?

You’ll be standing there wondering:

“How did the woman I loved become my executioner?”

Answer:
She never changed.
She just unveiled.

—

Last Word to Men:

I know…
Someone in the comments will say,
“Not all women…”
“I have a good wife…”
“This sounds hurt.”

Maybe.
Or maybe…

You bought the smokescreen and haven’t dug deep enough.

Because the most dangerous woman isn’t the loud one.

It’s the one who looks clean, sounds soft, prays loud—
and still leaves you broken, bankrupt, or behind bars…

All while thinking she did the right thing.

Let the holy defenders assemble in the comments.

But don’t forget what women did to Johnny Depp, Tyres Gibson, Jonathan Majors, and name your uncle that experienced the same.

We’re waiting for your counter punches.
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#modernmarriage
#emotionalaccountability
#virtuesignalers
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This is very funny.

Obviously because you see men are looking for this type of girls, you are now making a case against because you know you are a bad bitch.

But anyway, thanks for exposing that both of you are bad make men no kukuma marry anybody.

Both of you are the same.

Both are destroyers of men, children and virgins.

A good girl is just one who is simply using goodness to kill while the bad one is simply bad because she cannot pretend to be good.

All these long talk is not necessary.

As long as any community law is unreasonable and repugnant to natural law, just is and equity, The Law destroys such communal and family law or habit callled tradition.

So, naturally, in the absence of the natural father, the child belongs to the mother's family and it is also right to transfer the child to whoever marries the mother.

Because, every human being and child must be catered and provided for.

But this does not prevent the natural father from thereafter coming to claim the child back. And the only thing that they can claim from the the natural father is damages for caring for his child in his absence.

End of story.

Lucifyre:
Yhwh condones rape and violence against women a lot and that's a fact, same way he condones killings even though he said not to. Also i find it funny how you guys term it Moses' law cause it's full of inhumane practices, who gave Moses the law?! Jokers.

LucyFool don open e foolish mouth again ooo.

This commandment already shows God Says Rapists should be Killed

Deuteronomy 22.
25 .. a man happens to meet a young woman pledged to be married and rapes her, only the man who has done this shall die. 26 Do nothing to the woman; she has committed no sin deserving death.

But of course LucyFool is an ass who can't read. 🤣🤣🤣

A book is a mirror; if an ass peers into it, you can't expect an apostle to peer out.
Georg Christoph Lichtenberg

gohf:
Marrying a girl after raping her is it justifiable in today's church?..

But the question then is, is it justifiable when the man who defiles a woman, and in the case of rape forcefully defiles her then marries her later?..

Now the particular scripture containing the law that addresses the subject in question is in
Deut.22.28 - 29
"If a man is caught in the act of raping a young woman who is not engaged, he must pay fifty pieces of silver to her father. Then he must marry the young woman because he violated her, and he will never be allowed to divorce her.

I see this more like a punishment to the man than for him to be justified or pardoned for what he haNow the punishment may not seem as severe as it is in our 21st century, but considering the times of Moses and verse 25, it is likely most young girls, if not all, were engaged to someone and such men who raped them were killed.

Exodus.22.16 - 17 contains a lighter note for those who take advantage of ladies but not forcefully, here we see the wisdom to protect women in such cases
"If a man seduces a virgin who is not engaged to anyone and sleeps with her, he must pay the customary dowry and accept her as his wife. But if her father refuses to let her marry him, the man must still pay the money for her dowry.


In conclusion if the law doesn't justify such, I do not believe such should be justified under grace, true grace doesn't give room for sin but for repentance from sin, so mercy and forgiveness can be sort from the victim even if you were not caught for without this God may not forgive you.

No where did God say that a rapist should marry the victim.

Rather He Commanded that the rapist should be killed.

Deuteronomy 22.
25 But if out in the country a man happens to meet a young woman pledged to be married and rapes her, only the man who has done this shall die. 26 Do nothing to the woman; she has committed no sin deserving death.

Told you before you are using a devil Bible, you better burn it before God burns you.

For the the pure bible clearly stated that

28 If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;...

This clearly is not a rape but the normal fornication which men pressure a virgin to give them.

And it is this fornication in which God gave the option of marriage else the 2 fornicators and sinners shall be put to death.

And this marriage is still a punishment for if after the fornication the 2 of them are tired of each other or are incompatible, it is their portion for bad marriages is one of the punishments for fornicators.

And that bad marriage is permanent.

29 Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.

So, you are talking a little rubbish.

2buffagain:
The bible never prevented polygamy. It just said it would prevent you from giving time to deaconhood.

Stop speaking lies and talking rubbish. Did you not see the argument babaibeji just had here on your behalf on it and how he could not say anything?

Stop promoting lies and foolishness and sin.

Babaibeji2020:
Juvenile clown forming clergy.....get a decent job,pulpit banditry isn't working no more.....most worship God and move on,all these your show of ignorance, all in the name of Jesus, is so frustrating. Allow polygamist to breathe, face your hypocrisy "holier-than-thou theory!

It is your guilty conscience that is burning you. The thread shows me responding to someone else who wrongly said that the bible supports it whereas it does not.

So, continue your pagan ways it is your own life you burn. I did not talk to you but it was you who spoke to me, so carry your frustrations go meet your women.

EDGEof2MORO:
not really a game, unless the winners are fake

The game is to keep making people have hope even if the winners could be fake.

advanceDNA:
They are mostly Muslims trying to justify their prophets ways ... I have seen one lie that Mary was 9 years.....

U can see he never responded.....he has probably gone to Google and saw Moses never had 2 wives .

Oo no wonder. I thought they were traditionalist and clearly traditionalist means paganism.

LawWithEbele:
After cohabiting with a woman for 30 years, a man assumed that their decades of living together and raising children, despite never paying bride price, automatically amounted to a customary marriage.

So, when he decided it was time to move on, he accused the woman of denying him sex and asked the court to dissolve the “marriage.” But the court was quick to point out that there was no customary marriage to dissolve.

Cohabitation, no matter how long, without more, does not amount to marriage.

That was the end of the road for both parties—to your tent, O Israel.

Sadly, many women are in the same situation...

O i see now, you are not speaking as a lawyer but as feminist else you would have seen and appreciated that the court said "there was no customary marriage to dissolve." because they did not marry under customary law.

So how can they divorce what they did not join together?

advanceDNA:
Moses?? Two wives?? If we ask u to mention the name of the two wives..U go vex

Even Jacob seff..na scam cause am

Exactly.

Everyone can see that they never set out to acquire a second wife but see them all pretending as if their brains have expired.

Babaibeji2020:
Your first comment was that "God" doesn't approve of polygamy, you did not mention Jesus,

Did you mention Jesus in your reply? No.

So I did not.

So this is off point.

Babaibeji2020:
all the names I mentioned served God but were polygamist or did they not serve God?

Did I say that they did not serve God or that they were not guilty of polygamy?

Or did God Score them "Perfect"?

You are just repeating yourself struggling for something to say, abeg leave mata.

Babaibeji2020:
Follow your lane,do what suits you,don't try to impose your belief system on others.

I was in my lane, it is you who jumped into it saying something that is not correct.

So deal with your guilty conscience for no where did you see me here imposing any belief. Rather, I was even addressing a member of my belief who raised it up. So, go and deal with your guilty conscience.

Babaibeji2020:
My grand father married many and was very comfortable with the setup. My father married ...

Sorry, I don't care about your family's marriage types and your personal decisions. That is not the point of this issue.

So, all these are off points and not relevant.

odinson1:
And when you try to solve the case like a rational human being with a brain by asking for evidence, witnesses, proof and "how, where, why, when", you instantly become a Rape apologist. Because in their little heads, women don't lie.

"Believe all women". What a load of nonsense

That is the set up and blackmail they created to cover and suppress discovery.

And this is where you see that even though women hate themselves and are enemies to each other, here, you see all the women work together to protect something they don't want men to ever see or know.

And that is why the lady here came crying and confessing that my mother, sisters etc are involved and guilty.

Unfortunately for her, she did not know that I have dealt with them already.

Kingsasian:
Show me where in the bible God himself said so. Marrying a second wife legally isn't adultery

How can you marry a second wife, when you are already married without committing adultery?

Or have you forgotten that looking and thinking is also adultery?

So, how can you marry a second wife without lusting (adultery) after her?

And if you want to "employ" which means you cannot marry her, then you are still guilty of adultery with your secretary/personal assistant.

Not to talk of the fact that if you marry her, are you just going to keep her in the garage? No.
You married her to fvck her her and fvcking another woman after being married is adultery and defiling of your marriage bed.

So, you see, by God's Law there is no way you can polygamize without breaking His Laws

EDGEof2MORO:
lol, every single time. I do not know any lottery winner that had their life turn around for good. maybe they exist, I don't know yet.

Me too I have not seen oo. I think this is just one of the games that the powers that be are using to play with people. The deceit of giving people hope that they could be rich meanwhile it is a stringed coin