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HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 8:56pm On Apr 25, 2019
Good evening mommies... Hope we had a great day...my DS is 6 months tmr n I introduced semi solids last weekend.. We are still fighting to take it sha but the question is I made mashed banana n Avocado paste n fed him.. Last night he ate it, today he stooled it out almost immediately with the poo being hard n he was wriggling while pooing.. It's hard to drink water but I tried n he took some... Does anyone k ow why the poo was strong n why it came out as soon as he was eating it ? N what can I do to make him digest the puree better? Kindly help a FTM

Cc giddyperson
Cc all sabi mamas
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 12:55pm On Apr 05, 2019
Graced2018:
This may be late but do you apply some ointment on your nipple area before pumping? This may be why...

I used to apply some Lanolin cream (very safe for ingestion and it helps with pains while pumping) before every pumping session and this resulted in some oil in the milk but its totally safe.


No I don't apply anything on my nipppe, as a matte rof fact, my nipple is bleached n red compared to the black it used to be n it colors my baby's mouth to be black after prolonged suckling... Guess it's just fat in milk
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 11:43am On Mar 13, 2019
hunniesuzie:
Depends on what time she/he eats the food and what time you express. If it is milk expressed the night before for eating the next day and your fridge is good you can refrigerate. I used to have 3 days supply so I freeze. The one I want to use the next day is kept in the fridge the night before so it can thaw gradually. I then put in a cooler bag with an ice pack for creche in the morning. Minder brings out the milk from the cooler bag an hour before feeding so it can attain room temp, swirls (shaking denatures breastmilk) and feeds
I stopped long term storage in freezer cos of the oil I noticed in the milk. But from your explanation, seems I've been getting it wrong. What's a cooler bag and did you make the ice packs by putting water in nylon n freezing? How does it work please?
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 2:03pm On Mar 12, 2019
hunniesuzie:
Allow your BM to thaw normally. Bring out from freezer and allow to thaw at room temp instead of applying heat.

So far your BM remains frozen (not defrosting and refreezing in the freezer) it should be fine
OK but I put in the freezer the night before and the following morning for crèche..... Or should I stop freezing overnight and just refrigerating instead... Will it last the whole day by the next day?
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 1:57pm On Mar 12, 2019
Chimzy09:
The milk is not bad, some babies take it nonetheless. How did you thaw it? Did you put it in hot water? Or if you used a bottle warmer, how long did you warm it for? Breastmilk is made up of water and fat, among other things and when fat is exposed to heat, you get oil. I noticed the oil forms when I “overheat” thawed breastmilk even though I thaw in the fridge, overnight. I also noticed when the oil forms, the smell and taste of the milk changes. My DD takes some and rejects some
I usually thaw with hot water... Cos I express at night n morning for crèche. N once the taste changes, I assume its bad n I discard.it is the minder in the crèche that advised I discard the one with oil cos we thought oil from the freezer affected it...didnt know its not...
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 5:33pm On Mar 10, 2019
Good evening sabi mothers... Here is a picture of expressed milk for my DS.. Looks like there's oil in it and I will normally throw it away but it happens once in a while, is it normal or is it bad, the milk is 3 Days old in a freezer...

HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 5:05pm On Feb 25, 2019
Good day mummies. Pls can I use mosquito repellant on my 4mongh old baby? How can I help with the itching gum due to teething, He's loosing weight maybe due to stooling but we are on EBF... Can I give ORT?
Pls treat as urgent
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 8:28pm On Feb 15, 2019
Mummies good evening.... Pls help... Delivered 26th October, first period came 5th January, second came 30th January n today 15th February, I'm seeing blood again... Should I go to hospital abi is it normal? Ftm... I'm worried plsss
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 12:54pm On Jan 31, 2019
Mumifortune:
check your swallow food like semo, eba, pounded yam, it needs to be soft . Since you are on exclusive you can't give him water, it aid bowel movement.

He has itching gums, seems he is preparing for teething earlier than expected. You can get him a pacifier (put the sucker in fridge to make it cold) and let him suck on it that's what I did to stop my dd from sucking her fingers and it will also help to calm the sore itching gums.
Thank you ma... But did u say I should give him water to aid the bowel movement? Could milk and egg also be the reason.. The milk helps my flow too sha
I'm scared of pacifier cos he hardly cries n I feel once his mouth is on it, he won't even be remembering to cry for hunger... Or is pacifier different from sucker?
Sorry for the plenty questions
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 2:03am On Jan 31, 2019
goodhairdiary:
cheesy cheesy
You're the culprit, what are you eating n passing to him tru BM
You sef don't poop for 2weeks n see the kind of explosive you'll release grin. All is well ma'am
2. Continue wearing him the mitten, maybe he's having itchy gum
3. Maybe it's too much for him, try to reduce it
4. No idea, not used it b4
Thanks for the response ma. I'll try to be more observant on what I eat.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 2:02am On Jan 31, 2019
[quote author=JGracious post=75273056][/quote]Thanks for the reply ma.... Wish I knew what I am eating that's causing it so I can reduce it... Definitely not beans.
I'll do as you have said.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 9:21pm On Jan 30, 2019
Stmema:
Hello beautiful daddies n mummies...abeg help o... My pikin mess na DIE.... The smell ehnnn, if we dey outside, people go think say na u wey carry am mess that Kind loud matured mess with deadly smell... We are on exclusive.... Is it OK? Or should we go to hospital? He's 3 months n poos like once in 2 weeks... FtM
2.he sucks his hand, just started about twon or three weeks ago n I've tried mittens, socks, bitter elaf sef,,, all to no avail,. He removes his mouth from my breast n puts his hand in his mouth... The.brings out all the food he's been eating.. What can I do pls?
3.when exposed to breeze or I'm fanning him, he gasps for breath... How can I stop it
4,how do I use silver Bird... Caught a cold from crèche.
Sabi mamas pls respond
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema:
Hello beautiful daddies n mummies...abeg help o... My pikin mess na DIE.... The smell ehnnn, if we dey outside, people go think say na u wey carry am mess that Kind loud matured mess with deadly smell... We are on exclusive.... Is it OK? Or should we go to hospital? He's 3 months n poos like once in 2 weeks... FtM
2.he sucks his hand, just started about twon or three weeks ago n I've tried mittens, socks, bitter elaf sef,,, all to no avail,. He removes his mouth from my breast n puts his hand in his mouth... The.brings out all the food he's been eating.. What can I do pls?
3.when exposed to breeze or I'm fanning him, he gasps for breath... How can I stop it
4,how do I use silver Bird... Caught a cold from crèche.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 10:40am On Jan 09, 2019
Good mrn and happy new year sabi mamas n papas
Pls is it normal for my period to return just 10 wks after delivery upon my exclusive breastfeeding?
DS has refused to poo 5 days and counting, should I be worried?
Can rubbing metholatum prevent him from having a cold?
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 1:45am On Dec 18, 2018
portable4real:
at keeki haba now. 3 weeks pregnant keh? that means ur tummy is super flat cos you.can see 3 weeks pregnant nah. winks
I meant 3months pregnant jare....typo error
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 1:42am On Dec 18, 2018
[quote author=keeki post=73930800][/quote]Thank U
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 4:08pm On Dec 17, 2018
Good morning people of the most high... Please what can I do to increase breastmilk flow... Mine used to flow very well before that it chokes but these days my breast is flat n dry... Secondly, how can I reduce my tommy size,I'm 7 weeks postpartum n I still look 3weeks pregnant... Started tying girdle at 5wks cos of the cs cut but it's not reducing... The itching makes me pull it off bfr evening... Pls help this JJC.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 9:45am On Dec 17, 2018
Good morning people of the most high... Please what can I do to increase breastmilk flow... Mine used to flow very well before that it chokes but these days my breast is flat n dry... Secondly, how can I reduce my tommy size,I'm 7 weeks postpartum n I still look 3weeks pregnant... Started tying girdle at 5wks cos of the cs cut but it's not reducing... The itching makes me pull it off bfr evening... Pls help this JJC
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 7:39pm On Dec 13, 2018
ZaraOli:
I don't think breastmilk can stay fresh 6hours under Nigeria's weather. It has to be 25degrees centigrade. However, you can get a breast pump and start building your supplies from now and if possible pump some while at work. You can store them in storage bags for breastmilk. An insulated bag and some ice packs will also help. You freeze the ice packs in the freezer and put in the insulated bags with breastmilk in bottles or storage bags. This should last for 5-6hours depending on the weather. I would consider looking for a creche that has a fridge/freezer.
Thank u for responding. I'll look for storage bags for breastmilk n insulated bags to buy from the market... Hope I will get
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 7:22pm On Dec 13, 2018
FloraEC:
Hunniesuzie already answered you well
I've never used soap on any of my children face even cream. I think only water is enough.
Thanks ill try to ignore it. I'm already using the baby tripotan for his nappy rash
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 7:15pm On Dec 13, 2018
hunniesuzie:
Lol welcome mama
1. Do you burp him after ever feed? Your flow may be really fast, he will adjust with time, just feed him before he gets to hungry and take breaks to burp him
2. If you want to do exclusive you may need to find another creche. Otherwise improvise with an insulated bag and an ice pack or 2
3. Leave it, I generally don't like to use stuff for baby skin but you can try baby tribotan
4. Most baby soaps don't sting the eyes. I used Aveeno
5. Formula - SMA Gold, Nan, Enfamil, Aptamil are various brands, find what your baby (and your pocket) will tolerate. If you're going formula route start now, so you can get your baby to accept and adjust before he starts creche
Thanks mama... I burb him regularly but he still finds a way to spit out the excess food or curd after a little while...
Ice may not work as there's no stable light here... I'll check for another crèche
Thanks for the response
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Stmema: 8:36am On Dec 13, 2018
Good morning mummies and daddies in the house... It's good to be here. Pls I have some questions.
My baby is 7 weeks tmr and he keeps food in his mouth... Regurgitates up to 4 times after a meal... Chokes on breastmilk when sucking... Don't know what to do to stop the regurgitation.
2. He will resume crèche in January. He will be 2 months plus... How can I preserve breastmilk he can be taking since I read somewhere that optimum time for breastmilk to be OK is 6hrs without fridge. The crèche doesn't have a fridge.
3. My baby has some yellow small dots on his face n I think it's from breastmilk spraying allover his face when I'm trying to remove d breast from his mouth to prevent choking... Now it's refusing to go. What can I use?
4. What's soap can I use for his face that won't pepper his eyes?
5. I want to do exclusive if my breast can produce 3 bottles of 150 mls... Else what can I introduce?
Thank u all as I await your responses.. JJC I is....
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Stmema: 12:36pm On Nov 13, 2018
Good day mummies.... Pls o I have a kweshion...
When can I tie my tommy after cs... Baby will be 3 weeks on Friday n my tommy is still big...plus how do I overcome the trauma of delivery o...
Cc jaymie
CcJoomie
Cc sabi mamas
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Stmema: 3:00pm On Oct 31, 2018
Xzandy:
God be praised....Your BS is similar to my first experience

Quick recovery to you and welcome to the world baby
May God make it easy for us all in Jesus name. Amen
Amen n thank you ma
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Stmema: 8:39am On Oct 30, 2018
BS ALERT!!!
Where do I even start, I thank God the journey is finally over... It was 41 weeks long on the dot. Initially had a miscarriage in December n it entered again in January. Had no MS except tiredness n weakness but I was always spotting so progesterone n all.... Well, I started to show bfr 3 months... So I knew baby was big n I registered in two hospitals. One said it was liquor, the other said I was tall so it was OK. At week 36, I did a scan. Baby was 3.97kg n the private hospital booked me for elcs but the govt hospital said I should wait till I enter Labour naturally so I waited. 37 weeks, size was 4.2kg.told d govt Dr I was tired cos the tommy was huge n the weight on my waist was something else. Was drinking pineapple, climbing staircase, baby no answer me. Had to stop work last week of September cos anywhere I enter, them dey clear road.
Anyway at 40 weeks plus 4 days, told them I couldn't wait again n they booked me for induction at 40plus6.
Day came,d doctor that did the cervical ripening was pure evil, she no even send my plenty shouting as she dey chook hand dey complain say she nor dey fit touch the whatever. She go call another person come with bigger hand, that one try try, I was die.... Later she put the cerclage say make I dey go back to ward. 6 am next day, she removed it n checked again, it didn't work as the cervix was still far inside. About three of them did it, I don shout tire... Just dey tell myself say I no go cry so I beat the urge. Eventually they brought the oxytocin drip to try n induce. First one almost finish bfr the epidural people came. They did the epidural n me wey dey fear needle bfr, I just come see am like play compare d to the other pains I had been through. Funny enuf, the epidural only worked on the right side. It didn't work on the left. They said it's cos I was lying down when they refilled for the first time.... So it was like that till the end.. They kept wondering why I was shouting after using epidural n I kept shouting when I could that it wasn't working.... Guess they didn't believe me. Anyway the pain was outta this world n at some point when they refill the epidural, it will calm dowm n fly up again.... Long story short, I was contracting longer harder but within a shorter time, back to back in seconds yet I didn't dilate well.... After hours, I was only 4cm dilated, that was around 5 or so.... What I started since morning.... All of the nurses n doctors around kept saying I won't be able to push that my tommy was too big n they called my consultant but he insisted I pushed n the induction should continue.... Eventually by 5 6pm there about, he came n checked me n said its only 4cm dilated that its taking too long n the head is not fitting properly into the cervix cos it's bigger than it hence an emergency CS is required... Na there I vex but I didn't care again.. They removed the oxytocin which was the second drip I was taking n the contractions didn't stop. Took me to the theater around past 6 or so... Like I said I didn't care anymore... Eventually a nice doctor that did the anaesthetics n I went into another realm... Could hear what was going on n when my baby came out I felt it m heard his cry.... N they all started yabing me that my baby was huge.... 4.7kg. They said it's their biggest baby this year.... Showed him to me n went to clean him... Came back to ward much later n I had so much anger in me for allowing me go thru all that n still end up with cs when I could have just done it at 37 38 weeks then I'm the private hospital.... My mama no wan hear cs, now we didn't have a choice... Babys skin was wrinkled, they said cos he stayed too long in the womb... Ive learnt to forgive myself n love my big man... Chubby n sweet... Heard his skin will clear.... Feeding him dey turn my eyes sef but I'll adjust n find a way, will be going home today to have a good sleep bfr the vigil starts....
I'm glad it ended in praise.. Tnx to this forum for the support n answers to my weird questions...
Much love cappo n all sabi mamas n ftms like me
To the rest of the wadding mamas, safe delivery to u
And thanks to everyone for the love and congratulatory messages... I'm highly grateful. Una manage this small story, my eye was dey turn me again.
BS Submitted
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Stmema: 10:24pm On Oct 27, 2018
BA BA!!!
Announcing the arival of my baby boy yesterday 26th October 2018...I like the sound of that (ftm).
He came at about past 7 in d evening after induction n labour that refused epidural to emergency CS. grin
At 41 weeks dot.... With a whooping weight of,.....4.8kg
BS much later, my eye is turning me kiss kiss
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Stmema: 9:15pm On Oct 21, 2018
VannywealthDesi:
Those are braxton Hicks contractions. It sounds similar to the way mine happens too. It doesn't feel the same way for every woman. Your body is preparing for the main thing. You may fall into labour before Tuesday sef.
Thanks mama for d response
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Stmema: 9:14pm On Oct 21, 2018
Rejoice04:
For the first question I think your doctor should be in better position to tell you what to do.

Second question what you are feeling to me should be practice contraction since it's not regular yet.You may even fall into Labour before Tuesday.

It shall end in praise for you teamie.
Thanks Alot teamie .. Tuesday is here already so I'll wait
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Stmema: 7:22am On Oct 21, 2018
Stmema:
Good day sabi n from jjc like me.... N congrats to our capos n those that have birthed their Los.... May they be more all we prayed for.
Quick question, pls chook mouth for me as I'm confused n abit impatient....
I'm 40wks plus n no single sign yet, is it out of place to ask for induction on my next visit Tuesday or should I wait till 41 first.... Will be 41 by Friday....pls I need ur suggestions as my baby has been too big for gestational age since God knows how long
2. There's this tightening feeling I have that starts from my lower pelvic area either around the anal or vaginally area n moves up.. Like a painful cramp n it causes my breath to be short so I start panting, my head aching and heartbeat increases and my head becomes hot n sweat starts coming out.... It lasts a few seconds bfr it wears out... Ive talked to my doc, said it doesn't sound familiar... I want to know if anyone has experienced such before... It's become more frequent in the past few days....
Waiting seriously for our replies pls
Cc sabi mama
Cc October cappo
Cc all mums
Still waiting mamaz
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Stmema: 3:19pm On Oct 20, 2018
Good day sabi n from jjc like me.... N congrats to our capos n those that have birthed their Los.... May they be more all we prayed for.
Quick question, pls chook mouth for me as I'm confused n abit impatient....
I'm 40wks plus n no single sign yet, is it out of place to ask for induction on my next visit Tuesday or should I wait till 41 first.... Will be 41 by Friday....pls I need ur suggestions as my baby has been too big for gestational age since God knows how long
2. There's this tightening feeling I have that starts from my lower pelvic area either around the anal or vaginally area n moves up.. Like a painful cramp n it causes my breath to be short so I start panting, my head aching and heartbeat increases and my head becomes hot n sweat starts coming out.... It lasts a few seconds bfr it wears out... Ive talked to my doc, said it doesn't sound familiar... I want to know if anyone has experienced such before... It's become more frequent in the past few days....
Waiting seriously for our replies pls
Cc sabi mama
Cc October cappo
Cc all mums
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Stmema: 9:18am On Oct 12, 2018
Owiizzy:
Thanks everyone for your support and encouragement. I appreciate. I trust God to bless me with another one.

But, how long is ideal for one to wait before getting back in the game. Thanks.
No need to wait o.. As soon as u feel up to it cos ur most fertile now... I had the same issue with my first pregnancy.. I lost it at 8 wks in Dec... By January I was pregnant again so go for it
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Stmema: 6:47am On Oct 11, 2018
zaynie:
Contractions feel like menstrual cramps.
It starts from under your belly and you find your tummy hardening. You may also feel some back pain or leg pain.
It differs from Braxton Hicks cos it's more painful.
Real labour usually involves regular contractions. Like every hour or every 30 minutes or every 10 minutes and usually lasts for the same time say 30 seconds every 10 minutes.
The pain also keeps rising and doesn't subside even when you take a nap or rest.
When you are like 10 minutes apart in contractions, please begin to head to the hospital.
Thanks ma

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