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safarigirl:
The conclusion of the messages


Cc: Lalasticlala, Dominique, ishilove, mynd44

This also deserves the same airtime given to the accusations of men who assault women. There are male victims too, and they are speaking out.

why are useless men always looking for ANUS when pvssy is available. Pvssy is what you should be banging.

Alright.. the earth must cleans itself

Angelfrost:
Your words would have made sense if you didn't back Ize-Iyamu...

You can't speak from both sides of your mouth, and expect to be taken seriously. Mr. Oshio, you lack dignity and self respect!!!

meeeeennnhhh...Obaseki Don squeeze this man blocus well well

ocelot2006:
I asked a simple question: do you carry out general repairs and maintenance works during the holiday period when pupils/students are absent in preparation of a new academic term/session?

Btw claiming that the under listed will not be carried is simply laughable. PHEDC still issue bills, and even proposed a charge increase before it was shot down. Some schools still ran with skeletal staff for online classes. That means slashed salaries for participating teachers and support staff. That in turn means payment for internet access and power (diesel supply for generators).

Oh, as for the vehicles, they all packed alright....you forgot the part that they have to be prepped and maintained for the forthcoming term....or do you wait for the term to resume before you rush to carry out repairs? Same goes for power generators and facilities (classrooms, dormitories, laboratories, workshops, etc), plus tools.

And then there are capital projects from new facilities (new classroom blocks, new halls of residence plus furnishing, new recreational facilities for the students, road construction, etc).

Overall I don't think you don't know jacks@#t about what it takes to run a school. Now move along.

you just stated the reason why someone said you owners of schools are selfish.... Some even refused to pay their teachers yet they have money to carry out all those things you listed. Which is more important. Paying the teachers or putting money into machines.

Fhemmmy:
This man is making me laugh too hard . . .First to comment? Enjoy your week bros

thanks. And you too

ocelot2006:
Don't you carry out general repairs and maintenance works, plus the execution of some capital projects, during the holiday period ahead of a new academic term/session?

you are deluding yourself... Since March has any major activities taken place in school? Except you are running those buses on your personal errands.. There is no way all what is listed there will be carried out

Fhemmmy:
And the fact that i joined in the middle of the party and i asked based on what i think should be asked without reading the entire comments is my crime and i am now found guilty, what will be my sentence Sir/Ma?

im not sentencing you oooooo... Before I made a comment quoting you, I took my time to read through and even read some comments. Reason why I cannot be first to comment (FTC). But i have observed a trend on nairaland in which those who are FTC comment make absurd comments because they did not take time to go through OP thread

Fhemmmy:
Not at all, it is so NOT fair and wickedness from their part. Is the wife being fair? If all that was said was TRUE, then she is so wicked too as long as she is aware of all that is going ON. However, the OP has 2 choices, either to hang in there till he is done with his learning and he goes his own way after settlement OR he leave now and start life all over again. . . .Which do you think will be better for him?

he is an apprentice to his brother not the wife okay. Learn to reason along this line.. If the brother feels he had done well enough in serving him. He should settle him or pay him off simple

Fhemmmy:
Show me where i said the ladies did right by disturbing the young man at that time of the day , . . . Is my offence asking what time of the day before passing judgement like you all? Let me guess, if the brother kick the young man out of his house, you will house him?
It is evil and annoying that the girls are up watching TV at 5am in the morning and it is foolish of the man of the house to allow that happening too while it is ridiculous of the girls to keep at what they are doing, but at the end of the day, i only asked a question to know what time of the day they start coming our to watch TV and as soon as the OP responded, my hands dropped.

the reason why I said the girls should choose between parlour and room.. Forget about privacy since they are behaving like animals.

Fhemmmy:


I think it is better we confirm what time of the day the youngman was still sleeping - Remember it was during lockdown and that means he could have been sleeping by noon time.




Before you made that statement, the guy has already told us the time those girls come to the parlour to disturb him... You don't expect a sales boy to be sleeping by 7am especially when he is staying with his boss

Fhemmmy:
It is obvious you are not able to comprehend well, so i am done responding to people of your mode of reasoning . . . .Show anywhere where i mentioned he should NOT be sleeping at such time . . .I am sure you would rather i jump into conclusion without enough facts and let me guess too that you missed the part where the young man said there are more to what is happening than what he is able to mention online.
If you would like to be a judge on a case or situation, get facts before passing judgement . . . .Please let me be because i forever refuse to think like you.Would be nice to read with your brain not clamped

you are shying away from the point.. That guy further stated how he was being disturbed by telling us at 5am and 6am these ladies come to parlour where he sleeps .. Is that fair? It is boldly written in the air.. The wife is just determined to use all these means to frustrate the young man out of his brother's house. I don't need a prophet to tell me where the devil is

faceland:
When school reopen, should parent forget about previous school fees and just pay again? You didn't work you want to chop? You better start home schooling or lesson teacher.

some schools do online teaching yet such schools still don't want to pay even after the owner had received alert of the payment (lesson fee). What do you call that? Wicked or caring?

inice:
Some teachers are wicked. Not concerned about the children just waiting for month to end. I employed one who I later noticed was just marking all good marks for children without checking if answers were wrong or right. Will pretend to be teaching when I'm coming and busy collecting parents phone numbers for lesson. This guy will almost collect his salary before month end. And some are here talking about school. Open one if it's easy and pay. They waist children's precious time and destiny gossiping from one class to another asking others how much their salary. A dedicated and sincere teacher that has the growth of the school at heart is just 4%.A lot did not come to your school because they love teaching No Way! No job so teaching is the highest recruitment job. Pay your teachers other wise you will know that they can bring down the school. Also don't employ because of the smiling faces you see during interview. Please pay your teachers cause 96% are there since there's no job and not for the love of teaching. Don't employ too many hands you cannot pay cause fight is waiting for you at your gate. Cheers

hmmmnn...you have a very good point

kingreign:
You should go find something else to do.

Quote me well, that boy had overstayed his well come. How?
His sister in-law doesn't need him in her matrimonial home again.


Learn to ask why folks say something before jumping hastily into conclusion out of emotions.

I'd not bother responding to you anymore since you speak with lack of wisdom.

he is an apprentice to his brother not the wife okay. Learn to reason along this line.. If the brother feels he had done well enough in serving him. He should settle him or pay him off simple

Fhemmmy:
I don't like to assume neither am i one of those that passes judgement without enough and detailed information thus, asking what time of the day . . .By the way, as a gentleman, you don't expect ladies to sleep in the living room while the men are in the room for privacy sake too . . . .Think of it

so why should the ladies be out by 5am and 6am to watch TV and there by disturbing the guy... Does that make sense to you

Fhemmmy:
Living room is what is it called and that means after a certain time, it is accessible to all and remember that during the lockdown, people were still visiting one another and do you think it will speak well of the gentleman to still be sleeping at such time that you mentioned?

just look at what you are saying... So sleeping at 5am and 6am is an odd hour? Think with your head again.

ocelot2006:
You know what, let's assume that most private schools have successfully received 80% of the school fees owed for the term by parents. Suddenly the lock down occurs in March, 2020. From April till date, not a single cent/kobo comes in as revenue, yet the schools have to pay for the following:
1) salary payments for the month of March, 2020
(2)Payments to vendors/contractors/suppliers
(3)TAXES
(4)loan repayment
(5)Payment of rent/lease (**not all cases)
(6)Maintenance costs (buildings, vehicles, power, water supply, etc)
(5) ICT cost
(6) Vehicle fueling cost
(7) COST OF POWER (NEPA, diesel, etc)

With all these, and absolutely no help from Federal or State govts, how do you expect these schools to still pay wages from April till date? Please do tell.

some of the things you listed here is only possible during school session.. Do you run bus during COVID-19?

uromii:
I still stand with my 96 with facts.

Unless you are a private school owner or you just want to justify this wicked fraud against noble teachers.
1, I understand most schools collect their fees on installments. I can categorically tell you that for Nigerian private schools concerns, the population per weekly attendance once after mid term break ; a largely significant number of students/pupils has paid and cleared their tuition fee.
2. Nigeria private schools owners can never allow a child to sit for terminal exams without clearing it's debts , you Will surely never find that child in the exam hall. Realistically %96 pupils you see in the exam halls had cleared.
3. There are some cases where some parents that has been trying or faithful maybe had some downtime evidently made known to the school management would have been allowed their kids to continue , they are the ones that fall into the other part of the %96.

This is exactly what most of this private school owners will always schemishly tell their teachers. But if make your indept findings as a teacher you will discover a significant number of students had cleared. Now you ask why then are they still owing , some wicked ones will delay it for days/weeks after your salary due date. Why because some of them want be big business, real estate owners and travel abroad by all means .

you are very knowledgeable about the way they defraud teachers....what you said in your last sentence says it all... I personally observed this

SweetCunt97:
8 years! Is it not time for him to settle you so you can be your own man?

the thing tire me but that your cunt go sweet ooooooooo

kingreign:
First, you are all shades of wrong by hitting your in-law no matter what she did.
Second, save up and move out of that house. You've overstayed your welcome.

i just read nonsense... Over stayed his welcome? Did you read the thread at all? Or you think he is just staying with his brother for nothing? Don't be lazy in reading

mariahAngel:
It's not like he's staying there for free.
He helps his brother in his business.
Also, why are you all talking as if 23 is too old to be supported? This is Nigeria o, let's be realistic.

For those who don't totally understand the situation: he's serving his brother so that he can learn the business and own his own in the near future.
Going back to the village will be a setback for him.

you no suppose explain to that yeye guy... Lazy person wey no fit read

mariahAngel:
Don't leave your brother at the mercy of his mannerless in-laws as it is obvious he cannot defend himself.
What you're witnessing is little compared to what your brother will be made to endure if you eventually leave that house.
Don't give your brother's wife and her sisters the satisfaction of leaving.( I won't be surprised if she brings in her relative to replace you in your brother's business immediately you leave)
Stay for your brother's sake to protect his interest. Sleep in the shop in the meantime if you have to.
Don't let them get to you, they'll get tired of their mischiefs eventually.

good advice

pcguru1:
Left to me both you and the sisters should be kicked out, you are 23, as long as you are in someone's roof, you have to respect and deal with alot, he will favour his wife obviously. Besides its surprising how you feel so comfortable in someone's house and even complaining to the person housing you.

did you read the thread at all? He is not in his brother's house for any foolish reason... Read the thread and see why.. And stop saying he should be kicked out

Ariza:
Dear Op, whatever you do never leave that house. Yes don't leave yet... If you leave you will put yourself at a big disadvantage.

You have just as equal right to stay as those ladies do even more because you are contributing to the finance one way or the other so why give that up because some girl choose to be mannerless. If she is your wife or sister will you leave the house for her? See the truth is, there is a silent wcoup going on, they want to push you out so they can take over, Your Brother knows this but will never discuss it with you that's why he's hurt (no angry) that you his only relative he can trust wants to leave. Please stay. if you live, your brother may not disown you but he will never be happy with you.

Secondly, you are still Young, going to live on your own will limit or delay your progress. You will spend more that you have and will have only little left. Lol if you know the expenses of living alone you will rather stay for a while till you have something tangible before setting to live alone. Please just stay.

Make peace with your brother's wife, be friendly to the sister buy her small gift to win her heart, ignore the mannerless,she will feel pains when she sees the other one gets occasional gifts and will stop being a pain in the ass. In all seek peace, avoid fights,be the bigger one, focus on your PRIZE. Then move closer to your brother. When it's time to leave, it will happen.

you have spoken well except your last paragraph... Gift ko. Giraffe ni...

Fhemmmy:
OK, but if they are watching TV at that time of the day, no cleaning of the house and i guess your brother and the wife would still be sleeping too, then, there is more to this story than what we are reading . . . .If they are watching TV at 5am in the morning, your brother and the wife needs to have a heart to heart discussion.

nonsense.heart to heart discussion... It is wrong to disturb someone still sleeping at that hour... You cannot eat your cake and still have it.. If they love the parlour so much, they should pack out of the room and let the guy occupy it.

TheArchangel:
True sir.

Young Man, kindly confirm at what time, you were found slumbering around the sitting room.? The advice you'll receive and the propensity of some of their atrocious acts may depend on the answer give.

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even if he sleeps by noon.. Is it a crime? Don't they have their own room to stay? If they want the parlour, they should move out of the room and let the guy go to the room to sleep... Nonsense everywhere

Fhemmmy:
I think it is better we confirm what time of the day the youngman was still sleeping - Remember it was during lockdown and that means he could have been sleeping by noon time.

even if he sleeps by noon.. Is it a crime? Don't they have their own room to stay? If they want the parlour, they should move out of the room and let the guy go to the room to sleep... Nonsense everywhere

TheArchangel:
What do you suggest sir?
He should maintain the status quo, huh? No, I think not!! Let him feel free in his brothers house too, same as the inlaws.
If they come to the parlour to disturb, go to the bedroom and do likewise. Nobody has monopoly of bullsh!ts. Do not entertain such or you will never rest. You are an adult, with your brother and without him, you can still survive.

good advice

Fhemmmy:
From your living arrangement, it is obvious that the house is a 2 bedroom, one occupied by your bros and wife and the other vacated by your occupied by your in-laws, so how big can that be, a 2 bedroom is called 2 for a reason, and i think it is already too small for you all . . .BTW, what do you do for a living because you said you eat at work and being fed isn't a big deal for you, so why now save up and rent your own place because you are really no more a kid at 23

asking a question what he does for a living? Didn't you read the thread?

Georgekyrian:
OP this is a good points, show that wife love with gifts as small as anything with time her mindset go change towards you, she is a woman and they are easily manipulated with gift, remember Eve and Lucifer with the apple

gift ko. Giraffe ni

chii8:
Don't let the devil push you out of your settlement stage(celebration), endure a little more, ignore your sisters in law and keep on greeting your brother's wife.Infact in some occasion, buy the ladies little gifts or snacks and patiently wait for your final settlement day.(the more gifts you get them, the more you win your brother's heart).

nonsense...gift ko.. Giraffe ni. I had same issue with my brother's wife some years back. She never knew she stepped on a serpent... Till today if she look back, she will wish time could be revised.

LadySarah:
Women!We come into a peaceful abode and create issues. What's in allowing a young man sleep peacefully before going out for his hustle. A woman so foolish as to take someone's mattress out in the rain to spite him.
Your brother should man up in his home. Such women maltreat househelps alot.

Why her 2 sisters are there is beyond me. Even the stupid 19 yr old doesn't know her mates are graduates and married too.

If you must remain to be settled, you have to overlook and avoid alot of things. Face what you came for, get it and move out.

the elder brother is a woman wrapper. Those girls might be redundant in the house.