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mariahAngel:
What entanglement has your brother gotten himself into?
Your brother is who I pity the most in this situation.
As for you, I would say leave that place before you lose your self-respect. Although it won't be easy if you depend on your brother...
What a messy entanglement!

leave the place? Do you have money to him to rent a place? Be realistic

Ejenavi18:
Why are your sisters in-law living with you guys?
Don't they have parents?

help me ask ooooooooo... If you check, they may not be productive in the house. Just being a matter to occupy space

bjprodint:
from my small pikin brain i think your brother is to be blamed.he should have never allowed his wife move in with his sisters.he should have lived only with you and his wife,then rent you an apartment when you finish serving him.

you are a great judge

Advancedman:
Wicked people can only repay good with what they have, wickedness.
So buying gift they may change it to the guy stealing from the brother and also set him up.

good thinking

Abdulpro1:
U need to see how my blood iis boiling as i scroll down this thread, God! Is it that men lose every sense of humanity and reasoning when they get married or something, i still don't understand the rationale behind acting dumb and letting a woman misbehave with all alacrity in marriage, you see them maltreating their house help and even go as far as your own family, ur blood o and the men turn a blind eye with the excuse that they are not always at home or they are not aware of it, who told you u are not aware your wife maltreats people?
These same people criticizing the man in this case will get married and repeat the exact same thing they claimed to be against and the cycle continues,
God, pls give me a good wife cos i know myself, i can serve u papers a day afta wedding if you misbehave without second thoughts, if you think u've got leverage because we are wedded u've got another think coming, 4ck what people will say, i don't care

that is the way forward

veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.

i hate to hear that word from women "do your worst" .some day that girl will regret using that phrase... I can see maturity from the 24 years old sister unlike the 19 years old. She never see anything. Teen age still dey worry am.. Watching television should end by 8 pm. Max 9 pm. A guy who goes to shop every day. You still expect him to sleep late because a foolish girl wants to watch movies or news... To be sincere nonsense dey everywhere ooooooooo.. I no blame them. I blame the elder brother wey be woman wrapper. I'm nether for anybody I'm for everyone.... That is my judgement

mansakhalifa:
Unless I missed it, the article failed to point out one thing: Port Royal was actually built by the Spaniards, who were the ones in control of Jamaica before the British came and threw them out in the 17th century.

Once the British had taken over Port Royal and other parts of Jamaica from the Spaniards, they pretty much transfered Port Royal to the pirates so that the pirates could be well placed to protect the place from the Spaniards and whilst at it the pirates took to harassing gold and silver-ladened Spanish commercial ships that often plied that route in those years.

Many of the pirates became really rich from the business of robbing Spanish commercial shipping, hence their reckless spending and lifestyle.

Some of those pirates would later go on to hold prominent positions in the Jamaican colonial government. One example was Henry Morgan(mentioned in the article) who later became Lieutenant Governor of Jamaica.

thanks very much... You added flesh to it

NLSavage:
Yoruba with rape

chineke

Vyzz:
Look at the kinda question they are asking a young girl

chai....Osanoboah

Toks2008:
Whilst it is very sacrosanct for a guy to avoid stinginess towards a lady he deeply desires, I strongly believe that It is perfectly normal for any lady to want to be with a guy who can provide but not for her needs but for his family and until she becomes part of his family she has no right whatsoever to make demands except what the guy chooses to give to her.

Many ladies are quick to say... "I can't be with a man who can not take care of me, I can't suffer from any man''... and I tend to ponder over this statement...'' does it mean their ability to make wealth is dependent on a man or are they destined to suffer without a man fending for them?''...

In My opinion, the entitlement mentality is an easy bondage every woman must avoid at all costs. It breeds redundancy and loss of self-worth... It makes them look like leech only in search of a host to feed on. .. gives them a deluded self-belief and inflated sense of importance and in most cases makes them easy prey for sexual predators and men with Satanic motives.

I want ladies reading this to understand this homemade truth... YOU don't need any "well to do" man in your life before you can survive or make wealth regardless of your background, ... It is a silly mindset. You can make insane wealth all by yourself and this should be the paramount focus so that meeting a man ''who can take care of you'' will only be a plus and not a hustle...

Hope this makes sense.

yes it made sense

Bola146:
Wicked soul

women wicked ooooooooo

tribalwarlord:
Have You Blamed oBuhari today

no. Thank you for reminding me... He is a dullard

[quote author=tribalwarlord post=91844942] Have You Blamed Buhari today [/quotei]no. Thank you for reminding me... He is a dullard

starbuck:
Whomever did this, may the remaining eggs she has never form as a foetus again and the womb she has be filled with fibroids..


Tueh to humanity

and some girls here Don abort too oooooooo

cynhamscakes:
Person future wife

chai!!! Dem don finish her cookies... Somebody go pay bride price for that girl ....nonsense everywhere

Lovelyn451:
flesh and blood didn't reveal that question to you, someone must have been committing you in prayers...

Lol... They are just sleeping with these brainless girls in the name of initiations.

Cult boys have found a way to sleep with senseless girls for free... Marine girls ko, River ladies ni... cheesy grin

Queenslander:
Evil cult..

her pvssy will never remain the same again

Macsjebs:
Source: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-news/bizarre-fish-pictured-eerily-human-22360535

chai. Okokobiokor

soonest:
She should discuss with her husband and have a concubine outside. God forgive me

hmmmmm.. The pvssy must need something that will keep it going..

vonlogon:
Keep your insults for your peers when school resume.

you think everyone is a student like you. It is the way you think that got you that reply. Just take a look at those who quoted you and see the similarities

vonlogon:
So., You being insultive is a display of wisdom, I leave you with your amputated state of knowledge.

so "you lack wisdom " is now insult? Wonder shall never end.
I am grown up. I'm an adult. I'm 18 years bla bla bla.... Does that make you immune from harm or being a super being? Like I said earlier think with your brain

linearity:
That is not true.

She can choose to inform them out of courtesy and respect....and that depends on the mutual dynamics and depth of relationship and friendship among all of the family members....the family have no right to know, as an adult, she is entitle to her privacy until she chooses to give them up.

Also, the family's desire to know and be informed does not create any obligation on her part. I understand the concerns on the part of the family and the emotional trauma she must have put them through by not keeping them in the loop; all of that are well intended and good, but that does not mean they have the right to be in the know.

kai...you lack wisdom to be sincere... No matter who you are somebody has the right to know where you are and where you are going... If you go missing and nobody looks for you, people will blame your family.. Use your brain next time

linearity:
What you have described is not a right, but an inflated sense of entitlement.

She and her brother were leaving at the same address, she is not a 'ward' of her brother; after getting down from your high-horse, pull up a dictionary and lookup the meaning of the word 'ward'.

If an investigation is launched; yes the authorities will lookup to you for answers, as they will do in any case, with anyone that was the last person to see a missing person or living with them; the fact that authorities will ask you questions does not create an obligation on her part.....in college roommates get questions about other roommates by authorities all the time, it does not create any right or obligation.

Her rights to privacy, which is backed by Nigeria laws; overrides and trumps your inflated sense of entitlement to know.

That said, like I had earlier indicated...depending on the family dynamics, it is up to her to choose to disclose or not to disclose her where about. None of us know what happened that made her to choose not to do so, but it is her right.

kai...you lack wisdom to be sincere... No matter who you are somebody has the right to know where you are and where you are going... If you go missing and nobody looks for you, people will blame your family.. Use your brain next time

vonlogon:
All the police palava should end when she was found, the only business police have with her now is paying for the cost of looking for her and informing her family that she doesn't want to be found
She's 28 years old with a right to go anywhere she wants. I don't think she has committed any offence

kai...you lack wisdom to be sincere... No matter who you are somebody has the right to know where you are and where you are going... If you go missing and nobody looks for you, people will blame your family.. Use your brain next time

LuQuLuQu:
Question is, who was paying her hotel bills for 2 weeks? Definitely a man who she's desperately trying to protect by feigning ignorance of how she got there... Holy Molly

hmmmmmm....you get sense well well

Beremx:
Why blur the pictures?

Nonsense

See crowd on nairaland that came to see broken penis. And lalasticlala blurred the pictures

is that why you ran to thread? What do you want to see

ExAngel007:
more...

"Mons pubis" the female anatomy has a lot of names ooooooooo. But the most Hmmmmmmm... are : G****spot and clitoris

igbsam:
Do we still need proof that Akpabio is guilty of what he was accused of ?

This is clearly a way to silence her from testifying against akpabio.

This is daylight corruption fighting back.

And to even think that the Nigerian Police Force has been reduced to a tool for corrupt entities to use in fighting justice is worrisome.
All forms of dignity in the force has be reduced to a mere laughing stock. SHAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I said it before and I will say it again.. Akpabio is a He-goat

Kosiso12:
Those ones you saw there are with sticks okay? Now, go back to bed

Humans and wickedness.. That guy would have become a billionaire before he clocked 40 years

MightySparrow:
The chestbeaters claim that the north has nothing. Up in the thread, an undergraduate in gombe built a gas turbine that generates electricity. they say, 'apart from gworo the north knows next to nothing.'

you forgot to mention Buratanshi.....