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Ishilove:
Konji maketh a man mad

chai

Sweetnesstwins:
Amen, let my own be among

you go dey nack well well walahi

bolseas:
People that died have to be replaced.

Danboroba

Vikelo1212:
Why is everybody cursing the woman? She acted on impulse! The first thing that occurred to her was to run to safety first. She must have reached her destination before she realized that her boy wasn't with her.

Meanwhile, where is the father sef?

so the father was there from outset when the security officers came right? Why not concentrate on the mother that was there from start

memnon37:
As much as I hate typing so much mr man you have problems with unforgiveness it was bad she lied to you and you now know, let it go and move on with your lives. She had fibroid she has operated it and it's out and now you have a boy, she isn't educated but she has written waec with 9 credits wHich shows prospects that she is intelligent and all this rumble about you sending her out just shows you can't forgive which is tantamount for STAYING MARRIED oga if I had cane I'll flog you. Go and get your wife back forgive her and move on with your life have you not read where it's writhen. ..forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.

nonsense...there are better women out there... A chronic liar is death on the go

fortunechy:
Bro having read ur story, is painful being a victim of deceit. However, divorce isn't the solution cuz is against God law in marriage and as a Christian I presumed u are. Just find a place in ur heart to forgive and forget, then build her up the way u wish in terms of education.... May God give u grace to forgive and forget.

nonsense...there are better women out there... A chronic liar is death on the go

Noel19:
Nobody is attacking you spiritually, it's your conscience that is pricking you. Go and settle with your wife and bring her back. Marriage is not a bed of roses. You need to start loving your wife for who she is and not what she is.

Your excuses for throwing her out doesn't add up.

nonsense again and again

hephedollarpoh:
pardon me but wanna ask you? how come you took your time to write all those things about her?

are you a saint yourself?

I have come to understand that people do things for some reasons. did you ever love her? or was it lust?

you see my brother, true love doesn't see weaknesses nor has time to roll on people's mistake. if truly you want her, send her to school. erase d lies from you head and live a beautiful life


yes It is not easy, I understand. it's not easy at all. but please, for the sake of your child.

I think you should take your child to a trusted relative, den you and wifey should stay at home together and talk it out.

agree and disagree.
fight and reconnect.

but don't go for divorce, it's not d best solution.


my piece here is... the devil you know, is better than the one coming.

nonsense...there are better women out there... A chronic liar is death on the go

airminem:
Sadly, she might not Even be a real human

Okokobiokor...another angle to it

PastorandMentor:
God hates Divorce

base on lies and deceit? Think again and approach the Bible again

PeacenLove2:
You made the most sense. Congrats.

read what your fellow woman wrote.... Being truthful is supreme..


Advise) by Shootingstar93(f): 2:53pm
I believe this story to be true. I have a friend like that that is full of lies and deceit. She's already pressuring her bf of one year to Marry her, but guy man no gree.

She got pregnant this January to try and trap him but the guy told her and I quote "whatever u want to do to it, do to it" {I read the WhatsApp message}. He stopped picking her calls and she later aborted the baby by herself.

Her lies
1~ she's a graduate
2~ she's a makeup artist
3|~she's a tailor
4~ she's into event planning
5~she is part owner of a pageantry company


She's none of the above didn't even enter university sef. I just dey watch the drama unfold B4 my eyes cos she's living in the guy's house now and still hoping the guy marries her.

Faithfulmartins:
Sir, don't ever let go of your child, she will surely manipulate your boy against you by playing the victim

OP take note of this advice

PeacenLove2:
Yes she lied, yes she makes poor decisions and yes she is like many women of today, she won't be talked down and that's not necessarily a bad thing.

OP, you have a very bad habit of holding on to the past. You have a problem forgiving people which would never make you be able to appreciate whatever good comes your way. People who don't forgive have a hard time finding happiness because they are stuck in hate and their past.

I cannot tell you what to do now. I will never be a vessel to be used to destroy any union. You will make whatever decision pleases you. Whatever you do, don't let your innocent child take the heat.

I can only advise that you man up, discuss freely and fairly with your wife. You two can try meeting half way and compromise. Discuss future plans and let each party see for themselves if truly there is a future together or not. Most importantly, learn to forgive and also take responsibility. She lied, she is old, she pressured for sex and marriage. Oga, you sef take responsibility where obvious. Too much immaturity in adults these days, it's just so incredible. God hep you, sir.

nonsense... I hate lies not even when it has to do with marriage... Infact her lies is death to me in pictures.... I mean in marriage!!!! No no no..... To be sincere you wrote nonsense

2cul2care:
Wow what a tragic story, sorry for the betrayal, however am not an advocate of divorce, you're already married with a child, find a way to make your marriage work.

For those that are yet to marry shine your eye well well,never take anything or anyone at face value.


And @ OP that a person prophecies or is a prophet or prophetess doesn't mean the are holy or have the spirit of GOD, lots of them are using familiar spirits, shine your eye there are lots of fakes out there.

the marriage can not work... Even the Catholic church won't accept a marriage base on lies

Truvel:
Don't Send Her Away, U Also Av Ur Own Faults 2. Besides, U Should Av Make Investigation Well B4 Getting Married 2 Her. Don't Send Her Away, Live With Her, With Time U Would Get Used 2 Her.

nonsense again

MrSly:
This is outright deceit and cheating of highest order. In fact the lady in question suppose to be handed over to EFCC for fraud charges. In my church (Catholic) this marriage never existed between th both of you because it was built on lies and deceit. That is to say that you are not even married to her in first place.

thank you very much

psucc:
Except you have never committed sin, I will advice you go on with the divorce. But if you have, even for once, try and forgive her. She must have played that game to quit single.

Again, if you can accomidate her, yöu can as well build her into her own dream. Millions are married to illitrates and still build great homes.

Remember, you swore to an oath to love her till the end.

nonsense

Soniapadex:
Oga this your story no add up

i know say e no go add up

Lordsonn:
Greetings to you all. I want to go straight to the point. I opened this account because of my marital problems.

From the day I met my wife, she was after marriage. In less than two weeks of meeting her, she started pressurizing me to meet her family members which I succumbed to.

These are what she told me at the beginning of the relationship:

1) She had HND from Kaduna Polytechnics
2) She has Diploma in Computer Science
3) She is a professional cake baker
4) She was three months pregnant
5) That she was 27 years

My discoveries after marriage:

1) She doesn’t have any HND, infact no good WAEC result
2) She cannot even connect laptop to printer and print. She don’t know much about computer at all.
3) She doesn’t know how to bake cake. I discovered that the cake I asked her to bake for me, she gave the contract to her friend.
4) She was never pregnant. She had fibroid and that made her tummy big
5) She was 33 years.

NOTE: the reasons why I believed all she told me at the beginning was because she was a prophetess in her church. She speaks in tongues and prophesy many times and most of the prophecies came to pass.

I was even surprised that in less than two weeks of our relationship, she made move for sex and we started having sex. I did not even think of pre-marital sex because I thought she was a holy woman.

The problems after marriage: several people began to beg me to forgive her and continue with the marriage. I find it difficult but she was still living in my house. I was just being forced my her family and her family members persuaded some of my family members to beg me too. I tried to love her but hatred for her was just building in my heart.

The fibroid surgery was successfully done and she got pregnant and gave birth to a baby boy. I thought the coming of the child may make me to forgive her but I could not recover from her betrayal. I even hate her more.

She wrote WAEC last session and got nine credits but the memory of her betrayal is giving me a lot of psychological trauma. I love an educated woman and cannot see myself glued to an illiterate woman in the name of marriage.

Major problems that made me sent her out:

1) She refused to go to my church. She always want to go to her church and even want me to join her there which I refused.
2) She doesn’t like education at all. She hate going to school and will never carry book to read.
3) Anytime I have disagreement with her, she will call her elder brother. And they will come and talk to me, sometimes in a very condescending manner
4) She is not submissive, very arrogant and talks with anger, authoritatively.
5) She is a societal woman, she loves joining several associations of women and be going to meetings every sunday which I don't like.
6) She value clothes more than human being. She can use any money from the family purse to buy Hollandis, lase, George etc just to dress to her church for show off. I am introvert but she is extremely extrovert.

I sent her out of my house three weeks ago. She is trying to come back in the disguise that she doesn’t want her child to be only one, that it will make the child suffer in the future but I told her I cannot allow her to my house again. I love my little child and I cannot live with such a woman who is full of lies and pretense. I just have hatred for such kind of people.

What do you think I should do?

my brother, you have done the right thing period... I hate a liar with passion . Looking at what you stated about her, at takes a supreme being to live with such person.

Iamgrey5:
You are just slow to be honest

So what was the Igbo land called then, didn't they call igbo land the Eastern region at independence

And since we are still talking about history, I hope you remember a history where the British joined the Southern part of Nigeria to the Northern part of Nigeria to form a new country in 1914.

Perhaps I need to remind you who were in the Southern part of Nigeria?

that guy is wrong. I have shown him this





you are wrong. I have been following this argument.. There are two ways of looking at Nigeria.

(a) North (b) South

This is further subdivided to: (a) North : (1) North west, (2) North east and (3) North Central
(b) South : (1) South west ( the Yoruba), (2) South south and (3) South east (the Ibos ).

Osagyefo98:
I think you really need to read up in teething to understand what Lugard meant by Northern and southern flank...

Igboland has been in the east and uptill today still in the east or do you see anyone going about with this southern brigandage...

Right from the dawn of times, It has always be east and can be duly located from the map.

That can't be said of this south logic you are desperately pushing for Yorubas rightly domiciled in west.

That is propaganda taken to far.

you are wrong. I have been following this argument.. There are two ways of looking at Nigeria.

(a) North (b) South

This is further subdivided to: (a) North : (1) North west, (2) North east and (3) North Central
(b) South : (1) South west ( the Yoruba), (2) South south and (3) South east (the Ibos ).

Iamgrey5:
You are just slow to be honest

So what was the Igbo land called then, didn't they call igbo land the Eastern region at independence

And since we are still talking about history, I hope you remember a history where the British joined the Southern part of Nigeria to the Northern part of Nigeria to form a new country in 1914.

Perhaps I need to remind you who were in the Southern part of Nigeria?

good question

Yenefer:
This is south east

so Benue state is now in South East? When will you use your brain?

Is that so

Julietsim:
U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

hmmmmm

SharonLoveth:
See What Islam Has Turns Hausa People Into

them dey Fvck well well

Mummyfour:
thanks

you are welcome

Yenefer:
Our people need to reduce giving birth to children that they cannot take care of. Alamjiri is a hausa thing not islamic. I'm always ashamed of seen this little children begging. Imagine this criminal, alcoholic rubbing it on our faces

PS people saying Almajiri is a Muslim things named any Muslim countries with Almajiri besides nigeria.

you go dey Fvck well well oooooo

chukel:
that of rice I believe it. Cos most of them are rice seized by customs for God knows how long ago. Most of those bags have been in the containers in which they were seized. Why won't they spoil. My worry is why FG decided to share them. But beans? I don't believe cos custom was never in the business of seizing beans. Beans was never banned.

you will see more of such videos including beans

chukel:
that of rice I believe it. Cos most of them are rice seized by customs for God knows how long ago. Most of those bags have been in the containers in which they were seized. Why won't they spoil. My worry is why FG decided to share them. But beans? I don't believe cos custom was never in the business of seizing beans. Beans was never banned.

don't worry. this is just the beginning.. you will see more of such videos including beans

Farmerrules:
At this age, couple with your level of your education you will read fake news on social medial and start to
rant. You have wasted money spent on you.

hope this is fake


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YAgA2BxonQA

Mummyfour:
I heard the same about dutse on radio today. Pls post it somehow abeg

this is one



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YAgA2BxonQA