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burningspear:
Thanks for support. Please advise if it's safe to share their number here. We dont want her harmed.

It's not safe to post their number here so as not to face the wrath of the kidnappers.

Thirteen years ago I had fibroid operation. After 3 kids I discovered that I had fibroid again which I detected in January this year and because of fear of surgery I decided to take stc 30, i took 2 packs of it thinking it will work. After taking stc 30 I went for scan but it didnt work. So I said to my self stc 30 is a scam it does not treat fibroid. I then decided to consult someone that said he can treat fibroid, he told to to avoid all dairy product, animal protein, some protein and majority of the carbohydrate which I did. And he also gave me herbs to use for one month. After one month I want for scan and they could barely find the fibroid but after 2 weeks when i started eating some of the food i was told not to eat, omo the fibroid grew back, this time i had 4 instead of two.
I just told myself, it's time to take it out.
The menstrual pain i encounter every month is no joke, not to talk of the bleeding despite being on trannsemic acid and mefenamic acid.
Let alone the pain I go through after my period, cramps on legs and hands, headache, insomnia at times, blurred vision sometimes etc
Now I ve made up my mind to go for surgery. Please if u know of any good hospital in abuja that performs successful fibroid, kindly refer. Also if you are going through the same thing with me, feel free to share it experience.

I was at Faith Academy Goshen, Abuja in January to ask for admission form for my son into Jss 1. The Admin Officer i met told me that the form would be out in February and the form and other processes will be done online. I asked him for the website to look out for but he didnt give me any all he said was to keep checking online.
So yesterday i checked online via google which led me to a facebook account of the school i presume.
I followed all processes only to find out after the payment of 6,000 naira via my arm card that the link was fake and i ve furnished them with all the details on my Atm.
Attach is the link i followed.
Am just puting this out there so that others dont fall victim as i did and also for the school to be able to provide parents with a secured website on enquiry so that we dont fall victims of fraudsters.

raydatluvs:
I'll like to recommend a book which I think contributed to my very good esteem of myself even though I'm an introvert- attitude is everything

Reading it, you'll understand that you should not weigh yourself by circumstances you cannot control eg someone treating you awfully even though you were kind or a partner cheating on you.

As introverts, most times our actions tend to well thought out and are often good, meaning by default we're enough but it's when we begin to judge other people's reactions toward us that doubts creep in. Someone is insulting and we think it's our fault or someone isn't interested in us and we feel we're not good enough. And rightly so as it's our nature to overanalyze things, we're thorough like that.

Make it conscious to first decide how much impact and control you had in this outcome because it'll be unkind to yourself if someone else make most of the decisions and you're beating yourself up. Try this and I believe you'll have less worry

I like ur write up which inspired me. Pls if u dont mind u can pm me, i wld ve called u but i dont ve ur no. Thanks. Email is arogdamola@yahoo.com

The Johnson, my flatmate, the heir, mehek,

I understand what u r going thru, perfectly cos i ve been there. U feel a kind of tingling sensation in one or both side if ur neck accompany by a kind of pain u find hard to explain.......
I will advice u check ur bloop pressure first. B4 i can advice further. What is d level of ur emotions. Are u someone that worry alot, this also has an adverse effect. Just stay strong and calm u will be fine

I live in Jos and my husband travelled to lagos for the festive period. He called me today and for 37sec he didn't know I had picked up the call and I cld hear him on the background telling a lady that he wld take d ladies drink and d lady said y wld u take my drink.....that was when he realised that I had picked up the call. Pls what do I call this..........y is it that men can't be trusted? Am just lost in thought.

Mother's in the house I need advise. My son has pain on top the belly button which has been re occurring for sometime now. His naval is a little big. I was told to give him paracetamol to take care of the pain but it's not working. So the Dr. Suggested sowing d naval that he has umbilical hernia which may n d cause of the pain. He advised that tentatively if th intestine shoot out through d naval I shd use my index finger to push it in, that he wld feel much beta and I told him that most time he is in pain th naval rarely shoots out .he was of the view that my son shd only have pain when d naval shoots out but this is not so. So am kind of sceptical in doing d operation cos if he tend to sow the opening in the naval and d pai. Persist I won't know what to do. Pls is there any mother in the house that has gone through what my son is going through pls kindly share with me how u handled it. I have also given him lots of Agbo, it's not working.

@ hungerbad,ur response is so shallow and on the record I hav been to UK and USA on vacation. I doubt if u r married. That was y I emphasised only candid advice.
Thanks to the rest of u, I won't agree because he cld get his hands burnt in the process, like one of u wrote arrange marriages mostly backfires.

My hubby's friend just came back from America, he told my husband that he could help him get papers to mak him American citizen by organising a fake wedding for him and that the process will only take 3 years and that he should talk to me for approval. of course my response is a big NO but to my surprise my husband has started given it a thought. I told him that one does not need to go to America before he is successful and that if he should go ahead with the plan that means I will divorce him. I can't be a party to such. Pls I need candid advice. Thanks

@ipopAlomo it was because of people like u that I said that I want matured response only. I never formed busy.

@ rheether, I know that we can't win the fight that is y it hurts d more. Yeah I know he will come home and begging and I will accept because I don't have a choice. But for now I want to take a walk.

@youngaz I have actually packed my load today, I op to take some time off from d wedding and work. I will call him to inform him Ltr in d day. I need sometime to clear my head.

I have caught my husband about 3 times cheating on me and he always apologise that he has turned a new leave. Our marriage was 7 years last month although I have not been too happy because I don't trust him at all. Am still trying to build tiny trust then friday night he blew that off. He went to club and came home with his shirt stained with lipstick and brown powder and when I asked he said he was dancing with a lot of people and didn't know how it got there, later he said it must have been when he was dancing that it rubbed up on him. Although he has been apologising but I didn't accept. I can't take it anymore.
I am so so down. I don't know what to call this?

Please only matured comments.

I have caught my husband at 3 times cheating on me and he always apologise that he has turned a new leave. Our marriage was 7 years last month although I have not been too happy because I don't trust him at all. Am still trying to build tiny trust then yesterday night he blew that off. He went to club and came home with his shirt stained with lipstick and brown powder and when I asked he said he was dancing with a lot of people and didn't know how it got there?
I am so so down. I don't know what to call this?

Each year in marriage is a new discovery of ones spouse, basically the two of uu r justt facing the challenges in marriage which we all do at the beg. Of our marriage but what matters. A lot is how well u r able to handle such challenges when it arise so that it does not turnout to divorce.

U talked a lot about ur career, but u seem to 4get that u can focus on ur career n also ve fun. During those period u were writting ur exams u neglected ur wife I presume she felt lonely so she got attached to male friends whoo she could confide in. Ur talk about. Ur career that u ve surpass ur wife, sounds as if u r competing with her. Marriage is not about competition.

About ur Mum, yeah I understand u being a lovely son to ur mum by housing her, but honestly she has to leave ur house.its not haelthy for both of them.

On Sex, its obvious at d early stage she enjoyed it but when tins did not turn out as she expected couple with a child to cope with her attitude changed.

On her relationship with her parents n siblings;she had been striving 4 them b4 u got married to her, u dnt knw wat they ve gone thru b4 u meet her, u dnt knw if in time past they had to go to bed without food in their stomach,now she has money u dnt expect her to turn a blind eye on them.

The long and short of the story is that COMUNICATION is lacking in your marriage. U. Need to work on it. Play the matured one by calling her at the right time to tallk about how u feel, talk also about her she feels, d way forward etc. Divorce is not d solution

An informat told me that about 3months ago my husband took a lady to his friends house during office hour to have sex with her.
I then confronted my husband which he denied, but when I presented him with facts, it was then he Confessed to the said issue and apologised.
However I find it hard to let go, I can't beleve he actually slept with another lady. Am so depressed as a lot ve been running thru my mind.

please I need advice 4m married woman who had caught their husband cheating how they handle the situation.
Thank you

I understand perfectly wat u wife is going thru because i also did experienced delay b4 I finally took in.

My advice to u is to sit her down let her knw dat u married her because of love and not because of children.pray together, always assure her that all will be well n she should worryless although it is not easy on d part of a woman because d pressure will b there that is y u ve to increase wateva affection u ve towards her. Endeavour to call her always whenver u r out of d house. And. make sure u make love all through her fertile days and maintain a positive mind.I wish u guys d very best.i

May d soul of d depaarted ones rest in perfect peace.
I just wonder when. These bombings will come to an end. We can't keep living in fear. Moreso d destructions of institutions and property will hinder d rate of development in d country.
May God deliver us.

@ EFemena_xy : Divorce is out of d questn it's jst dat it hurts badly.


@ Agiboma it does not sound like a flirt- IT IS A FLIRT tx 4 ur advice I wil 4 give him.

@ Coogar: HARMLESS. BANTER INDEED have u 4gotten dat out of d abundance of d heart d mouth speaketh
@ jennykadry, Ninapha n stillwater tx I kind of concour with u guys.

Our wedding jst clocked 3 yrs, since my husband use our wed pics as his DP on his BB I wanted to knw how Many of his friends that wished us happy annivesary not knowing dat I was in 4 a shocker below was. A conversatn he had wit a lady

Husband:You have such a lovely lips
I feel like kissing them. Am beginning to notice dat u ve a quality of a wife material. If I was persistent b4 I got married I wld ve gotten u pls now date me.

The girls response: the fact dat I didn't date u while u where single means dat I can't date u now dat u r married wit two kids

When I assked my husband to explain d meanin of his conversation with d girl he apologised and said that he
was just joking with her and dat his intention was just to pull her legs.

This has really got me thinking and I finD it hard to accept his apologies.