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sonnie10:
One common issue spouse have when the wife is a nurse is time management. Running the home and work schedule.
It comes down to maintaining a balance between. I will go further to give some details of most prevalent scenario.
As a nurse in the US, you are able to afford most luxury; any car, house, clothing, vacation and jewelries but you must put in the time for work.

If you work one regular 40hours a week job, you might not be that financially ok when you consider bills.

Now, here is where the common problem is, nurses are well sort after and the opportunity to work extra jobs are plenty. The downside is that it takes away family time and wifely responsibilities. Most husbands do not want that but the greed for dollars and the good things the wives can get with it blocks any form compromise with the husband. The common rebuttal is usually; are you not the man? Why don’t you provide those things then? Me that I want to try why are you stopping me? Imagine what happens in a home where the wife works 16hour at two jobs and only comes home to sleep when the husband is probably away at his own job.

Let me tell you this, a nurse that works only 40 hours a week can never comfortably afford a Land Rover valor or Lexus Gx or Mercedes glc, it’s impossible. So how is it that most of the nurses drive these cars?

They drive it because they work more and family responsibility is neglected. In the US, if you have young kids at school, your life and time is almost sacrificed for them.

Someone has to be there to get them ready, to drop them off at school and pick them up after school. Obviously, if the wife is a “hard working nurse” she can’t. The man has to pick up this extra responsibility and cut down his time for work; meaning less money for the man and more more for the wife. That is the correlation.

So, the result is that the wife is more financially buoyant than the man. It then comes a time when the wife wants to pay house rent for her brother in Nigeria who lives in lekki and had recently lost his job but the husband says no, she can’t.
Who gives him the right to decide what she can and cannot do with her hard earned money? Forgetting that he also made the sacrifices for her to be available to go to that work. The truth is that anyone can do two jobs in the US. ( Go check the families that both husband and wife work two full time jobs, their children are always in trouble)
Ideally, this is not how it is judged by external advisers and even the wife themselves.

The judgement is usually this way; you are the man, why can’t you provide for your family, why let your wife suffer to work and you want to control her. The statement has sent many men to early grave This is bringing a man to the lowest of low. A man that has sacrificed his time, job, pride and almost everything hoping for a better family.

Brilliant

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auntyTania:
I've just been suffering since when I've been born. This life is not fair o

You have been calling on God to help you and all pleas have fallen on his deaf ears.

Get up! and stop putting hope on an immaginary entity.

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Enjoy!

BlueMann:
First Strikeback, now Bluefilm

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Leyqute:
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osamz007:
ALLAHU AKBAR NO RULING OR HADITH ON THIS


EVEN ON FRIDAY THEY MUST COMMIT WICKEDNESS AS COMMANDED FROM ABOVE

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Dead Man taking selfie

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who becomes the next President only

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Same way Victor oshimen was hyped

Trying to discredit the youths

so we have two Gods using us to chase clout

Okay

Next please

durubrian:
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If you're in a "DISBELIEVE OR DIE SITUATION", would you lie and say you don’t believe in a God just to save yourself

chizpim:
I pity your life... the fact the gods support the people..

You and your useless gods are foolish

Who your useless gods help??

Thejustw14:
Smiling...
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This same fear tactics is what they use to enslave you and make you poor

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You no get choice na

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Who National anthem epp

mynd1:
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this things go soon reset our president memory

his RAM is 512Mb and ROM 15GB

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