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Chibydinho:
She has shown on countless occasions with numerous actions how much she loves me... maybe I'm becoming too soft for that.

Chibydinho:
This is my first time to share a problem here and I will appreciate everyone's opinion please.
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I have a gf that I've been with for some years now and everything has been going real fine. It was all merry going, though we've had few fights, but we always made up and the relationship continued.
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The real problem started some time last year when we had misunderstanding and was not on talking terms for few days. I dogged deep and discovered that my gf is hooking up with another guy and from findings, I noticed it was just a fresh talk which now evolved because of our little quarrel.. I kept calm and waited for weekend to visit her and make up things with her and also to know why she acted that way..
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When I went, I noticed she went out with this guy and even she came back..she didn't felt remorseful rather blamed everything on me and the issue we had during the week. I didn't loose my anger because of the love I have for her and tried working things up to make up with her...which was successful coupled with the fact that the guy later went back to school.
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From then till now, she kept contact with the guy, but I wasn't bothered because our love was flourishing and rationally, I never expected them to be sudden enemies... but the issue began recently when I failed on a promise to visit her at her place and considering stuffs I was doing.
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That was some days ago and since then she has been acting funny on phone and chats and I recently noticed that the guy is back from a romantic Fb post she made and tagged him.
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Honestly, I am tired of my gf using the guy as a bait or threat to me and needs advice on what to
do to end that...

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Thanks as you help a bro out of this emotional stress... I just love this Lady.

SalamRushdie:
https://www.instagram.com/joy.eluwa/

SalamRushdie:
I have been to girls instagram and I believe she must have been an accomplice alongside her boyfriend and the Tattoo guy was only called to come help dump the body

PMBNG:
lalasticlala if dino survive this scandal I go buy am drink

EbukaHades10:
U mean those guys abi?

Jabioro:
I knew you are too young then to know what transpired in 1986..Gloria Okon comes to mind.. IBB woman friend. the real Eku eda..

eph12:
Has Sowore taken Dino to court over forgery and murder accusations? How exactly is he helping anybody? With all SR findings, I believe they have enough facts to nail Dino so why waste time? If he truly believes in justice this is what I expect him to do.

TINALETC3:
D day I visited my frnds, I ws jst 5 den, as I ws playing wt dem, one of dem sed dat d money dia dad gave dem ws missing and I suddenly bcame d suspect, dey told me dat if I accept dat am d thief dat dey wl leav me and 4get it, I accepted, bt knowing I ws making a terrible mistake

cktheluckyman:
As Long as Dino has a confirmed waec result. He is qualified to be a senator. That is the Nigerian constitution

Silva79:
singing................................when the money goes will the honey stays when the grey skies replace the sunny days

femsheart:
I did a check for 3 of my lecturers and only 1 showed up? I don't think the site is updated!

wirinet:
OP, you owe us an explanation of how you check your name on ABU alumni site so that others can also check and verify what you are saying.

What is the site address?

policy12:
@op abeg what is d site name u use make I check my name too and the process.

DocHMD:
You forge fake names and fake groups, post ridiculous Biafran news to make IPOB look stupid and then run down here shouting 'I have exposed them' but sane minds know better.
Your RENIPOB and TRIPOB reverse propaganda aint working buddy.

That piece of crap is not from Biafraherald, Radio Biafra, it is not signed by Barr. Emma Mmezu and Dr Cliff Iroanya so stop fooling yourself nobody is taking it serious. Biafrans are not as daft as you people who see a certificateless slowpoke as their lord and master.

Monogamy:
Okorocha no lie afterall ..

Some of them are gullible.

skypeme:
Dear reasonable people on Nairaland, please I need your advise

My wife whom I love so much and also loves me too is entitled to 17.2% of my monthly income, my salary is 175kpm and she take 17.2% of this amount, yet she feels very uncomfortable with it

I pay the bills, buy food stuff every month and take care of our little baby girl

My baby girl does not take any local food, she takes only fresogold, tea and pap, the cost of fresogold is very high and she can consume 4tins in a month

My wife isn't not working yet she is still schooling and I pay all her fees,

I've never complaint of my duty as the head of the family yet she still feels unsatisfied with the 17.2% I give to her

Her primary duty in the house is to take care of our baby and prepare my dinner every week days and both break fast and dinner during the weekend

Recently I told her to take our baby to the hospital for treatment, our total bill was 11,500 naira but my wife suprisinly told me that the hospital bill is 22,700 naira which I immediately wired to her account

So I called the hospital to make inquiries about the exorbitant bill then I got to know that my wife inflated the hospital bill to 22,700 naira

I confronted her and she spoke to me very rudly I was not happy about this, I kept quite and didn't say anything about it again

I am thinking I should penalize her for her rude behaviour and the dishonesty she has melted on me

Will it be advisable not to pay her her monthly salary for two months ?

Will this correct her brain to default and what would possibly be the implication of doing this ?

She has not apologised and she has not seen anything wrong so far in what she has done

skypeme:
I think I made a mistake getting married to someone who is still schooling, I should have married a working class lady

Virginkpekus:
Point of correction it's no man's land

tunderay:
wetin now, these people are overdeveloping everywhere. Igbos are specialist in drug dealing. Imagine a 25 years old guy trying to develop Kenya.

Jetleeee:
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Please epp us and beg our pipu to slow down with the development

Emusan:
Yes, as everybody grows more!