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Samantha124:
No, thank you.

The values that makes you understand that respect is important, and divorce isnt the best. It should only be the last resolution after other diplomatic methods fails,

Samantha124:
Okay, so tell me about those socio-cultural values.

Can we go off Nairaland, this quotes and quotes is tiring, maybe telegram that is as anonymous as here

Samantha124:
Okay, so tell me about those socio-cultural values.

CRIME

Samantha124:
What does Thabo and AKA have to do with the topic at hand?

I talk about population because of the news you read, one or two people in 220 million population isnt alot.
I read the case of Thabo Besta, AKA shot point blank, thats horrible if you ask me!
Why are you so interested in Nigerian contents BTW?
Do you have any afflictions with us?

Samantha124:
This is not about tribe or population... It's about your country seeing women reporting cases of GBV as a thing of shame and therefore, dying in silence.

Its about my country seeing diplomatic ways to solve domestic violence rather than methods that leads to an outright divorce.
There are socio-cultural values inherent among Nigerians. If you are a Nigerian, you will understand better!

Samantha124:
This is not about tribe or population... It's about your country seeing women reporting cases of GBV as a thing of shame and therefore, dying in silence.

This is a country of 220 million people dear. Thats almost quadruple S.A. Population cases you see are from one particular region, my tribe are not women beaters

Samantha124:
Femicide cases are low there because your families see reporting them as a thing of shame... The same way you guys are bashing the op for reporting her husband for GBV.

If you guys are not killers, then how come I see cases of Nigerian women being killed by their boyfriends and husbands on this forum almost everyday?

In your country it's even worse because even single ladies get used for rituals, while others get abducted and forced into marriages.

No i dont want trading, lost 200k last year, wont do it again

Mcslize:
But that's where the main money is, if only you know your onions. It's not for the faint hearted. So, it's not surprising why you are running away from that.

No, Femicide cases is low in Nigeria because they dont end up dead. We are not killers and not so many couples engage in domestic violence. Marriages are still sacred and respected in most of the regions over here. My babe do not believe in marriage either, it begs for concern if marriage is even necessary in SA.

Samantha124:
I like the fact that you said if it's worth reporting, because most of you guys don't see GBV as worth reporting there... It's a normal thing for you guys.

Your women die in silence everyday because it's not worth reporting.

Of course femicide cases would be low in your country because you don't see it as WORTH REPORTING!!!

This is my blood brother, he is a good sibling, I think I can trust him but I will have a second thought on your advice

Sleemkay007:
I pray your story no end up in tears, I did same and still licking my wounds. There’re better ways to do such business without involving family members and friends.

If its worth reporting, they will, most nigerians values socio and cultural marriage standard than divorce. In contrast, 70% of Nigerian Men are not drunks and very hardworking unlike our counterparts in S.A. who protested for beer price during covid.

Femicide cases is on the low in Nigeria compared to SA. Ive been with an SA woman and I know how easy it is to die overthere. Your biggest cities have the highest crame rates in Africa.

Samantha124:
Of course you would know about the high cases of GBV in SA because most SA women would report it.

But we wouldn't know anything about GBV cases in Nigeria because you guys see it as a normal thing, hence most of your women don't report it.

And if your Nigerian women don't report it, there wouldn't be any case to know about.

You guys are not even afraid to beat up your women in front of a camera for everyone to see, because you know that nothing is gonna happen to you.

Oh I forgot, you are a South African. My babe told me about the rate of Femicide in there, Yall have so many principles and the guys still kill for fun.
Begs for the reason why there are lots of single mothers roaming in S.A.

Samantha124:
Well, since I'm not a Nigerian, then let me keep quiet.

Marriage is beyound laws, especially a Nigerian marriage

Samantha124:
It doesn't matter.

Is breaking things in the house and beating up your wife lawful?

domestic violence is very bad. If your best resolution is locking him up in the police station rather than threatening him with the force, reporting to his friends and family, starving him sexually or other ways then she should face whatever consequences. Would she have arrested him if he was the breadwinner?
Im sure she would find other alternatives.
My people say you dont do friends after a court case. Only a miracle can safe that marriage.
BTW Are you married?

UnfairLife7:
domestic violence is a No. It's a criminal offence

We have different breaking point. A punch cant make you cry does not mean another can not cry with just a poke.

UnfairLife7:
trust me i understand what he's
I don't condole violence no matter the situation.

No man can forget such treatment. he might move on for the sake of his kid but will nevr forget it

dreamxhaser:
You think it's easy

The man was going through a lot. I've seen young boys passing through family issues start taking drugs not to talk of a grown man who lost his job.

Do you know what the community must have been saying and treated him?

You are not nice with your comment, neither is his wife that locked him up. From her story, she's obviously a good wife, but she got it wrong at that point. Just because she's been good dosen't mean we should overlook the bad she did.

Dammm, that man might never forget this. I am certain the moment he gets his shit right (which he eventually will) he will remind her of this.

Are you married?

Samantha124:
I'm sorry to say this, but your husband is childish.

If he was my husband and he starts emotionally blackmailing me like that by refusing to leave those police cells... I was going to leave him there until the police kick him out, or until he decides to leave.

As long as I'd have apologized to him and explained the reason why I got him arrested, I'd have left him there with his childish tantrums.

Maybe it's because I don't tolerate nonsense.

Verokeena:
Good afternoon Nl family

Nb: even while he was there I was still taking food to him

Quick question
would you have arrested him if he was the breadwinner of your family even though he was drunk and asulted you?

Not really interested in water business
Can you give a breakdown of the 8m?

Endymi:
Opening a pure water factory and thank me forever.
I am an engineer,I set up both pure water and bottle water factory.

Lol, see as you dey disgrace yourself up and down. Nothing is private. If need be, anything could be revealed about you for a justifiable course.
Are you saying that your bank shouldnt reveal your details to whoever youve scammed because of privacy policy?

All it requires is a court order and follwoing due process.

GeneralPula:
Lol. Who is Atiku to Tinubu to be demanding for his result? Nah Atiku be hin father? So you want to go to the university I graduated from for my original results? Won’t the school even ask you who you be or how your own be?

Make them release ham o! I wonder what they want to release that hasn’t been released before..

Okay, na family business. he no concern us

ijustdey:
https://leadership.ng/chibok-girl-to-marry-repentant-terrorist/

When someone is sweet in the middle. Oh gosh

Kobojunkie:
I don't have a clue what you are talking about.

Now you know

Kobojunkie:
I don't know!

Lol, painful, she was a wonderful person and it was sweet in the middle you know!

i wouldnt deny the fact.

Kobojunkie:
Now you resort to telling stories? What happened to moving on abeg?

Accept for the sake of experience

nifemi25:
Accept the job for now and keep looking out for a better one.... God will surely see us through

Lol, yes, that's why her first one failed, even after a child, he still didnt consider her worthy? so who am I?

Kobojunkie:
For you, maybe, but not for someone else.

I wasnt planning to marry in the first place. Painful but not marriageable

Kobojunkie:
Ok

No, as busy as I was, I had the time, just couldnt meet, I call and care always. We are in same city but i have a very tight schedule that I can only get a time out once a month, its beyond my control.
I use to tell her, if I had a regular job time, she will be considered busy because she flies and she only have time a few times per week herself. but she loves intimacy and obviously, once a month is crazy

She fell off along the line, and when I pleaded, I think she already moved on cos she acted as if I did more than that.

Kobojunkie:
I thought you said she was the one who didn't really have time for the relationship as much as you had? Or was it more that your schedules didn't align well?

lol, Mostly my fault. She is richer, I am busier

Kobojunkie:
Probably because it was exactly that, you wanting the relationship more than she did. How is she to blame for that?

I just lost one, its very difficult dating one of them. She was sweet but the relationship was tiring because we hardly see and it felt like I am the only one who wnats it

ideamonster:
The potential threat the career of a woman can cause to her marriage especially if her husband isn’t as successful as she is has always been a point of discussion. Moreover, some single men are even afraid to marry a woman who is successful in their chosen career than them. Some believe that the norm is husbands “should” hold higher job status relative to their wives. When this norm is violated, and wives hold the higher status job, negative consequences can follow: Women are more likely to be targets of husbands’ aggression, and the risk for divorce increases.

Question
is it a crime for a woman to succeed in her chosen field or earn more?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ

Its all about gifts items, everything printing and graphix
making birthday frames
sequence,
wall panels
art works
book work
sublimation
borderless prints
mesh printing
water transfer
SAV and Flex Banners
Flyers, Jotters, Business cards
House painting.
pencil and realistic drawings.
Emboss

I do all these easily. Normally you should learn Graphics or at least understand Graphics to make it easier, but seen lots of people without any knowledge of graphics and they do it well too.

TrustNone:
@bolded bro, how do I learn it?
Can you please give me a brief overview on what they are about?
I'm ready to learn it with all keeness

It will add up as an experience for you.
If its better, then its worth it, Northerners are not as bad as people claim. Just dey your day and no pass your boundry.
I wish you best of God

Emmanuel555:
Thanks for the encouragement 🙏