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Callmebabe: Bullshit!

you dey doubt?

Anyone supportin NOI either has diarhea of d brain or an escapee from aro.


D subsidy removal money...what has d govt done with it?

Y do u tink jona refused to declare his assets?

Its cos him and NOi has stoped 'chopping' money...they are now 'gulping' it...

To the b.astards who are supportin him cos of d peanuts they re being paid...get a more dignifying job!

Sweetlemon: Like seriously are you for real

A taxi driver in the US is about 50 times ahead of a 60-70k a month earner here!!!

Now let's go back to Adenuga, after his wife finished suffering with him while he was a taxi driver, how did he pay her back? By marrying other women and having various baby mamas here and there? I know MANY cases like that my dear!

You see why I say marrying a broke guy is most times not worth it??

But i tot you just advised the menfolk to have drive like adenuga...you contradicting yourself.


and i wanna advise you...am not saying this out of any ill will but for your real sake...marryinga ready made guy is dangerous...


trust me...

Sweetlemon: He's 32 not 34.

Plenty of time to maybe start doing some kind of business on the side and keep watering it until it grows well enough to bring in at least an extra 40k a month.

Gosh!

Guys! Where are your God-given drives to succeed mehn? Don't you get motivated when you see men like Dangote and Adenuga? It doesn't always have to be a paid employment dammit! Think! Invest! Explore!

Damn!

Just so u knw...adenuga married his wife whilst still driving a taxi in the united states...

Sweetlemon: We thank God that you work at the head quarters. Good for you!

Now, I'm not saying that I, for instance, cannot marry a 70k a month earner, I'm saying that I will not be doing it happily and that somewhere deep down, even if I am madly in-love, I will wish that things are a tad better!

NO WOMAN goes on her knees and prays to God that she wants a struggling husband. Except the ones who pray for ANY kind of husband!

Men these days are just not driven with enough goals and women are just managing them because they don't have much choice if they want to get married.....
What a pity!

For the hundreth time on this thread, those of us against the OP are not saying he has to be rich first, we are only saying he should a little more comfortable. What's so difficult to understand there biko nu?

What happened to the biblical advise of not 'despising the days of little begining?'

PrettySpicey: OMG! What a hilarious response.
@ OP, my dear go out there and get yourself a wife like a real Man.

so whats wrong with him using this platform? no be humans dey here?

Acidosis: Sure, (not from the bank alone though).

If she knows what to do, N100m on Abuja soil could turn to N1Billion in 2years.

even from the bank...

shizzle11: Did you say apology? Dafuq are you on about? Why should he apologise? Doesn't he also have the right to air his opinion? Pls pls pls .....
Did you see where she said the op has "misplaced priority"? Who is she to define the ops priority for him?
That on its own is an insult to the op.

Does the ops priority have to align with what she considers right priority? And why can't the op desire to marry now.

Even if his financial base/income is not ideal for you, it doesn't mean he won't get a girl that will consider his income level acceptable.

A beg carry your I to know face gutter....mtchwwww

all arguments dont have to degenerate to insults you know?


if you dont agree with her, just ignore...

dick hardener: If i sound silly and you tell me "you are bereft of knowledge" i will take it as a compliment and ask you for a better pattern of thought offcourse that is if you hv a superior one to offer. So once again she is bereft of basic sense. Reasons 1. She did not read the entirety of his post prior to devaluating Op's choices.2. Her train of thoughts with regards to a correlation btwn money and marraige is warped..( stewards get married u know). 3. She is aggressive and abhors a warped sense of importance judging from her stern warning to royal roy. And above all it is psycotic to think your e- warnings truly serve as effective deterrents

and you think insulting her makes you right or reflects well on you?

Sweetlemon: My dear, you are not even comfortable where you are now cos you work in a bank! Bankers are liable to die young cos of the stress and the possibility of being laid off at any moment. So don't be too comfortable yet!

let me tell you something and I will be frank with you. NO WOMAN prays or hopes to marry a broke guy. NO WOMAN in her right senses who is not just desperate to be MRS will happily marry a broke guy. Even when a woman is marrying you because she loves you, deep down she's wishing you were a tad more comfortable and she's only doing it for love. After the marriage, when real issues come in, you will see what I mean.

You guys should stop deluding yourselves that a woman can be truly happy with your empty/almost empty pockets. Same way a man should not think a man can be happy to marry her if she doesn't satisfy him in bed. They will just be enduring and not doing it willingly. Don't get me wrong, a woman can love you truly when you are broke, I have loved about 4 broke guys in my life. Yep! But to happily, willingly, marry you when she's not just desperate to be a Mrs? No! those who end up with poor husbands would do anything to change their fates if given the chance! That's just the acidic bitter lemony truth! pele!

me am comortable o...well...i work in the head office and i close early...this is the most comfortable job i ve ever had. even if i leave the bank, am sure getting a job wouldnt be a problem for me...i am well souht after. and its not about that.

i disagree with you strongly on some points.

think about our parents. they survived didnt they?


forget about trying to live large. its ok to live decent.


any lady unable to stick with a guy of 70k will grow old and single.

there are hundreds of girls in my office who are senior, managers, managers etc and are single. they have even given up trying to get a relationship.

its a lesson...never wait till you are rich to do what you have to do...

its also like business...saying you need to have huge capital before you can start...

you can always start small...

ifebosco: you make sense some áreas,but 32years and 70naira salary is not bad to start a family,depending were in nigeria he lives,if not,when do you want him to marry??at the age of 40??and if he Works harder and money does not come ??what next??

on point..

dick hardener: But u are actually bereft of basic not even advanced knowledge

first...you are soooo wrong to insult kuyle...

Haba...the lady is even explaining herself. she even apologised in one of her posts for her outbursts. that is a good wife in the making.

cut her some slack wella. she has every freaking reason to decide how she wants to live or what she expects in a marriage.


that you dont agree with her views shouldnt make you insult her.


now be a man and apologize to her!

Afam4eva: It irritates me when i see people telling someone to forget about marriage and focus on making money as if a grown man does not know when it's right for him to marry. The OP stated his financial capacity and he needs a wife that can key into it, so i don't know what seems to be some people's problem. Must everyone be a millionaire before they get married. is money the only thing that makes a marriage? What if he decides to remain the way he is financially, is it anyone's business? If you want to marry him, submit your application or steer clear. No wonder some men will go to any length to make money because of the ogbanje advice that people dish out to them that ruminates around money as if money if everything.

Afam...you have my full respect for this!

Zer0: @OP

Seriously you should concentrate on building your finances. I am 33 and single. I don't have a salary job but I make over 4 times what you make in a year. Which hasn't been a reasonable ground for me to get married.

You should set targets and build a foundation before you can build a family, except you don't wish to live a goid life.

I believe the time a man gets married is insignificant, what matters is the quality of life he can afford for himself and his family.

There is no joy in poverty bro. Be guided.

bros...you are wrong.


a man without money but is married and has children will have more joy than you...

thats the truth.

you need to experience giving life to another to rise it isnt all about money. i am single too but i sure knw what it means to live and have people depend on you. its a higher level of calling and responsibility.

Sweetlemon: @Kulyie, I feel you babes. I feel your frustration in trying to explain yourself to these people here who are no just being realistic here. Don't mind all these family section "I-too-sabi" people.

I wonder why they cannot understand that you are not saying that the OP must be a millionaire before getting married but that he should be more focused on trying to make himself a lil bit more comfortable!

I cannot for the life of me understand why a man of only 32 years will be in such a hurry to marry when he can hardly bare his house rent! Please, biko nu, what's the rush e jo? I would have understood if the guy had a girl he was madly in-love with who was also madly in-love with him and didn't mind suffering with him or if he had gotten his gf pregnant. But for for the OP to just wake up one morning and start looking for a wife in his present financial state?? o ga o!

We hear stuff about great rich men daily, we pray to be like them yet we are not ready to be like them. Look here, one of the reasons these men are where they are today because they know how to line up their priorities in life! Make yourself comfy before you think of others!

It is true that [b]some [/b]women have been lucky enough to marry poor men who later made it in life. But those same women will be the first to advice other young ladies not to try such a risk unless and except they are absolutely sure the man will succeed in life! Sometimes even when they look ate the way the suffered when the man was poor, they still wonder if they made the right choice! What I am saying is that marriage without money to solve basic needs and make a family comfortable is second to hell on earth! Chikena!

So OP, biko nu, e jo, dan 'Allah, go and work harder, think harder on how to make more money and be more useful to yourself and wife will come in......naturally. Unless of course you have joined the growing league of men who want to get married just so they can find a financial "help meet"

i disagree with u a bit.

i once shared your opinion.

i was an hussler and told myself that i wanted to be more comfortable. 6 yrs down the line, i now wrk in a bank, drive an SUV and i look back and realise most of my younger ones are married and i am unable to see a girl who loved me for being me and not for my money.


its not that our guy is in a hurry. he just wants to be focussed.


and who says him working harder will make him richer. its God who blesses you know? if drivers and security men can support families with about 40k they earn...y nothim?


my advise? he should marry.

kulyie: @ op you are suffering from MISPLACED PRIORITY.your focus shouldnt be about getting a wife,i care less whether you are 32 or 60 and still a bachelor,your drive now should be getting a stable job,establishing your feet on the ground and getting the kind of job that enables you take care of a wife,kid,pay rent etc.i dont think you know how expensive being a married man is and maintaining a home.it is when you add VALUE TO YOURSELF THAT YOU WILL BE ABLE TO ADD VALUE TO OTHERS.EVEN IF YOU ARE A BACHELOR AT 50 AND DONT HAVE A STABLE INCOME I DONT EXPECT A MAN WHO HAS FOCUS TO BE SEARCHING FOR A WIFE WHEN HE IS SUPPOSED TO ME STRUGGLING TO MAKE LIFE BETTER FOR HIMSELF
even if you see a wife today now.how do you plan sustaining a home? Or you 2 plan to live a life of misery/squalor and in anycase i woner which lady will agree to marry a hustler in this day and age.

The truth about life is when you are a man,no matter how old or young,ugly or handsome you are,once you have money,there will be an influx of women rushing you that your problem will be choosing who to marry among them,but if you are a hustler and you want to marry


i wish you best of luck

Kulyie has a lot of point here. being marred isnt a joke.

Altho there are other angles to this. one of it is to ask urself how drivers with 40k salaries are able to suport a family. the simple reason is that God who provides for the birds will provide too. Besides, marriagee brings its blessings.

Meanwhile, since most ladies claim there is scarcity of husbands, nothing is wrong with a girl earning more to take him up on his offer and marry him...

so in other words...both sides to this argument have valid points...

Trust me...dt 170m is nothing to wat she really gets.

Another thing that attract demons is ladies sleeping n.aked!

Dont you girls know demons may also be a.roused?

Thats how some girls get spiritual husbands.

To me, the best give a woman can give her husband is submission....

ibrash600: omo e be lyk say GEJ jst release dis ppl money oo, see as dem full dis thread lying to themselves, fresh air ko, air freshener ni... dem want tell me say GEJ na bst president in naija.. keep fooling yourselves, oju gbogbo yin lo ma Shè come 2015

olorun koni jeki nrikan ti mafi di ibo fun Jonathan.. olorun o ni je






























if u quote me & abuse me, na thunder go fire u

lmao. this got me cracking...no mind dem...wen dem fool demself finish...we go know....


but we have to give it to the jona's administration...he has created job for psycophants and jobless youths....now he employs them to post on nairaland.

i think someone will write an 'Open Letter' to Vanguard soon...

no be 2 of the 34 lions wey dey naija be dis? na wa o...

[quote author=12 inches!]I shudnt comment but I would. I advised my sista to buy a tecno phantom pad N9 tablet and it was a good buy. U see, most people (80 percent of customers need basic functionality) Tecno devices offer even more than basic functionality. By basic functionality I mean (watch movies,surf the net, BBM, whatsapp,Facebook,tweet,instagram,email etc) Tecno devices offer a lot of features for an extremely cheap price. It still wows me that u cn get premium
functionality for just 35k ie tecno n9 tablet. The competition are too expensive and don't have much more to offer except things like group play etc. In reality who cares. Why will I spend 80k plus buyin a Samsung or Sony tablet when I can spend less than half that price to get a nice tecno tablet. In the end, majority of what I need is basic features and play a few HD games. I think I will get the phantom pad soon. For 35k it is so lovely.[/quote]My brother...get it asap. I got mine and I can tell u its my best buy ever. Am still upset it goes for 35k wen I got my bb bold 6 for 46k.

The techno pad is d best news in naija tech cycles. U ll luv it.

I use a techno pad and can tell u it does all any oda pad can do and more. Still can believe I bought it dt cheap. Op ...u sure dunno wat u sayin

citizenisb: u guys are very daft. The idiot abusing GEJ has suddenly forgotten a certain Farouk Lawan who stuffed his cap with dollars is an honorable Member of his house of assembly.

Nigerians are a bunch of retards with ultra short memories.

No sir. Its ur mother dt is daft for not aborting u.

I see ur sense cannot differentiate BTW a president and a house member.idiat

Any sane person can't support this administration.

Except he is being paid to do so.


Another reason to see how corrupt and inept the present govt is.

I ve used both. And both services have been good. Jumia is better tho with customer service while konga's prices re lower. But both give value regardless of their shortcomings.

Eminem is to rap what michael jackson was to pop.


No arguments. No one else comes close.

d strongest is me!

Mindependent: I don't think she will be happy for me to do so

Just tell her its DakingPin...am sure he won't mind

oh! is that so? pls if u can...send me her new contacts.thnx