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akeeng:
Why the F did you delete all your comments/posts? Is everything okay at home?

Must be a hard word deleting over 150 pages of posts. Whatever you’re going through, I hope you overcome

klass99 deleted all her comments?

pocohantas:
It should be common sense, tbh. But let's speak for every single woman/couple in the world.

I must commend your patience to engage them. You are a patient woman!!

mindlog is a woman ? 👀

crackhaus:
Every time I read something like this, I automatically assume something must be wrong with either one of them, and I just don't mean medically.

Cos all things being equal (healthy & fertile), there's no way the woman in this scenario won't get pregnant at least once. Then what happens?

She gets rid of it? Okay

Which then circles back to what Jman06 asked, what is the point?
Why marry at all?

If companionship is the goal, then get it outside the institution of marriage...this is the better arrangement.

And YES, one of the main purposes of marriage is procreation. No amount of jibber-jabber or gobbledygook will change that.

strong points. I don’t see why not unless one or the both of them is medically compromised and can’t have children . I can understand not wanting many children but at least have just one if you are capable of it

Mindlog:
People also do have "good sex" with random persons.

Companionship to me, is the intimacy, the presence and the thought of my spouse makes me feel at ease, looking forward to sharing aspirations and updates with mine. Plan and explore life together, share the highs and lows, making adjustments for each other then always looking forward to having getaway weekends......Being married but lonely is suffocating!

you going in bro 🙋🏽‍♂️

Mindlog:
You making no sense of marriage without children does not invalidate another person's desire to be child-free in marriage.....the sky is big enough for all.

Women don't make good companions to men, you can marry your fellow man who share same interests with you then you both decide whose sperm would be used to inseminate a surrogate mother, after she births, you both take custody of the baby and nurture........you don't need a wife nor a baby mama.

🙆🏽‍♂️

Jman06:
As far as I'm concerned, it makes no sense getting married in the first place if one doesn't want to have kids. What would they be doing together? Is it the so called companionship which to me is useless to a man because there are a lot of things to keep a man company in this time and age. As a matter of fact, women don't make good companions to men because they usually have different interests from what men find interesting.

🙆🏽‍♂️ You going in. Can’t say I fully agree but you are definitely going in lmao

Mindlog:
Not everyone's concept of marriage involves birthing children, some choose to be single and having kids then we have those who got married and intentionally being child-free

hmmm very rare in Africa, voluntary childlessness, that is . But to each their own

Jman06:
If you don't want to have kids, what's the essence of getting married in the first place?

it’s a great question 🙋🏽‍♂️

Jewessgratitud3:
Obalende.

ooooo thanks jewess I will go looking for it this week 🙏😃

Ishilove:
Now I know you're trolling. 'Aberrations' indeed 🙄

lmao Ishi yes abberations 😆 . In medical texts it’s 27.3

Konquest:
How's the weekend going @Sukkot,
So, you've abandoned chicken and waffles. I can see that your love life with chicken, waffles and syrup toppings is finally out of the window to be replaced by crusty Ghana bread. Lol...

Tbh, Ghanaian food isn't entirely bad.

hehe bro am just experimenting. That chicken and waffles is trash. Am back to amala and ewedu 🤣🤣 it’s only right as a son of the soil that I indulge in Amala and ewedu 😅 . Trust you are well. It’s being purgatory here in naija for the past week bro. Madness . Hot, no light, Naira crashing, food expensive like gold , gas as expensive as diamond. Just madness bro . But God pass dem 😀

Ishilove:
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It's not. Completely tasteless

really ? Wow that’s a disappointment. It looks good. Am tired of Nigerian bread. It tastes artificial . Doesn’t look healthy either .

kanupapilo:
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thesolutions
Burgermotors
Oakenshield
wunmi590
Angelfrost
Leebeedo
Swiftgrp
WannaHowzit
ThatFairGuy1
CC
RenaissanceGuy
helinues
Monogamy
LegendHero
NGpatriot
TonyeBarcanista
yarimo
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Simplyleo
Racoon
Seun
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tmksouth
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zhike
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Nlpolicewoman
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Seun
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sukkot
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madness . No one is clean

kanupapilo:
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Ajehkpako4naija
thesolutions
Burgermotors
Oakenshield
wunmi590
Angelfrost
Leebeedo
Swiftgrp
WannaHowzit
ThatFairGuy1
CC
RenaissanceGuy
helinues
Monogamy
LegendHero
NGpatriot
TonyeBarcanista
yarimo
seunmsg
Simplyleo
Racoon
Seun
NgeneUkwenu
tmksouth
irongalaxy
zhike
Joziboi
CilicMarin
Omenka
Nlpolicewoman
candidtalk
Seun
moh247
princeoflagos
CodeTemplar
iammo
WannaHowzit
Templarlandry
Slawormir
itsme01
Rostikol
sukkot
brendaniel

hmmm interesting

Bluebolt:
Sukkot!
Kindly Let us know about this man that was born on 22/02/1985 but there has bn a claim that he actually came at some minutes past 12am(morning) of 23/02/1985.

if it’s 22 that’s a heaven angel but will further down in life fall into a fallen angel. If it’s 23rd that’s a fallen angel. What does this person present as ? Any strange behaviors? Any weird behaviors? Angelic aura ? Looking and feeling lost and confused ?

It’s no secret that we have being under divine purgatory in Nigeria for a week now. Temperatures feeling hotter than an oven and no light or fuel to succor . Food prices galloping like a powerful horse and the Naira plunging lower than a sinkhole. It’s being the ultimate purgatory. It’s being hell. It’s the darkest hour before the Piscean light comes through and that dark hour is over as symbolized by the heavy rain happening as we speak. The rain will water the dry places and ressurect the dead parts and dry parts of your life. Welcome to your new life . The night is over

AngelicBeing:
cc: sukkot, come and see your British friend, the one that bought a house at Banana island and another one at Eko Atlantic oo, next news jare

👀😆 nna mehnnnn dem do that man strong thing like banky Wellington

Stevenbright:
Humans are generally insatiable!

But in marriage, a woman or a man can be in the situation you described. That is the tendency to become bored/unfulfilled in a marriage that was initially full of fun/ satisfaction.

Now, what causes this situation? It is in most cases caused by unrealistic expectations and entitlement. This usually happens when one partner expects too much from the other and hence becomes disappointed when the expectations are not met.

Solution: When you discovered that your partner has become disillusioned as a result of too much expectations which you can't meet, balance it up by putting him/her on a similar scale, that is telling the partner about your expectations and how they are not being met and that you do want to see them work it out. By so doing, the idleness and boredom that fuels the partner's inordinate expectations will die a natural death and he/she will understand the real dynamics of life.

its a great approach

looks delicious. where can i buy this now ?

Solofresh2:
That's human for you.Always wanting to explore new things

🤣🤣 Awon mungo park. Explorers 🤣

Kaybex007:
Sorry for the late response, yes they pay out claims, just make sure you are dealing with the strong ones in the industry and make sure you insure anything insurable through an intelligent insurance broker, in order to save you from all the stress, I repeat all the streets starting from rate, clause, claim and others.

Thanks and have a relaxing night.

thank you Sir and much appreciated. Better late than never. And this is very eye opening and informative

Mindlog:
How your mind spins, intrigues me.

hehe bro it’s this tinubulation that is affecting my mind 😆😄

Solofresh2:
Yes it happens. It is possible.

people get bored. I understand it. But don’t destroy your whole life because you are bored. That’s my own thing with it

xtianchris:
Yeah. I'm possessed already.. I'm very strict when it comes to women now ..Just like you said I'm resurrected... The last Bolded comments.. I usually have Vivid dreams Women always flock around me.My late wife still come.to chase them away ... So in real life like they always have This likeness for me . Infact I do manipulate women lol 😂😅😜😆😆
My mom always call me Solomon lol 😂😂

hehe bro just take am easy king Solo . Only you one and all these women. All these women around you could be vampires though coming to feast on your energy. Next time they come around just burn bay leaf. It’s a ritual to ward off vampires. They are sensing open portals in your body. That beta Sagittarius is a open portal through which energy leaks out

Greenfaces:
Omo!!! I never knew this oo

Wow... so the average British guy doesn't have that much but they live a very comfortable life though. I think most people just need the stability and peace of mind. If you have an online business that can keep you rich, then relocating is okay because this place is quite in threads mehn. Business doesn't thrive, jobs no dey,security issues here and there, depression everywhere. Hatred from tribes and religious difference. Plus this annoying display of mediocrity or even borderline mumu from public office holders. Let's not forget how bad and expensive education is. Omo... watin really remain Bro.....

depends on what you call comfortable. Being worked to death is comfortable? 😄

Solofresh2:
Yes I understand your point.She can be feeling comfortable but not really comfortable. An example like Beyonce and Jayz kind of
Isn't it

like everything is just so perfect and has being perfect for so long that it’s now boring. You need adrenaline rush. Something new and different. Something more dangerous 😄

Klass99:
Your threads are usually engaging, making a person want to go in, coupled with the fact that you keep the conversation friendly and respectful, even when you disagree with a view.

Yes, I think the fear of God plays a part in curbing our excesses, but let's be real, we can't see Him physically and we like to think, we can sin now and repent later. I think what holds me back personally is;

1. A genuine desire for a right and sincere, two way relationship with God.

2. Life is just sweeter, neater and simpler with one man or fewer people. I have cut out some people in my life recently and felt more at peace. I believe life is the same when dealing with one man and not multiple men

I have nothing against big diicks, they are like eye candy, pleasing to the eye, pleasing to hold and play with, they fill you up nicely, but that is as far as the pleasure goes for me. It never gets me to climax, it's hard to fit into the mouth for a good BJ and again it does jack shit (absolutely nothing) in getting me to climax.

You people take too much pride in a tool that doesn't really do much in giving us pleasure. The clitoris is a woman's pleasure point!

hey we all civilized adults here I like to think so it’s only natural to keep the conversation that way. For me anyway cuz I see many people also lack manners on here.

And I agree less is more with regards to associations. You have more time to yourself and it’s a peaceful existence and less chaotic. You also don’t exhaust yourself and age faster. It’s good to spend time alone meditating and pampering yourself and enjoying your own company. It’s classy

Ok so you like big dicks but they don’t make you cum. Well you better teach your man how to multitask then 🤣🤣 you do know everything can all be done at once right ? Multitasking. Stroking and clit massaging and Breast play all at once. You better ask somebody 👀

Klass99:
Lol 🤣. No sweetheart not every Nigerian man is as close minded as you. And not everyone will want a gum body marriage like you.

hmmm you just may be right because these millennials are built different. They are weird. They would go for that 😆

Azazyel:
one of the watchers in the days of Enoch. The leader of the platoon

yup that’s him 😄

WantsandMore:
seen your other threads...You good? I'm told too much knowledge can lead to vexation

hmmm not vexation, it calms and mellows you and humbles you. Am good bro. You good ?

Solofresh2:
Firstly, I want you to know that nobody is 100% perfect in this life and nobody gets all they desire 100% because for you to be a living thing you must one side of life you lacking no matter how small it is. You can have money with no good health, you might have good health with no money, you might have money with good health but a bad home etc.
Women look at this things in a man e.g handsomeness, money,is he funny or boring,is he a bad guy or a novice,does he last in bed,is he cute etc
So no woman will find all these in a single man and women are loyal to their feelings irrespective of your sacrifice for them.So no matter how perfect her relationship or marriage seem to look, she will always want to explore outside the part her man is lacking behind in another man.Never let the innocent look of a woman deceive you. She can cheat on you without remorse.
A woman might decide not to sleep with you for a long time in a relationship but she will sleep with that bad guy she met on the first date.

ok I see you bro and the answer is spot on but I need you to know that the PERFECTION I speak of is hypothetical 😃

Mindlog:
My professional income is tied to "keeping an open mind", so I can't afford not to.

hey as they say brother, kachinggggg 👀😄