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Maxxim:
Yes I saw the video, now let's assume this dude wants to speak with em even just to get some sight of him here in naija I believe the process in his security protocol would have discouraged the dude.
The western society is fair for the weak ones, including women and low income earners and promotes justice for each of the individual.
There's oppression here in the country, imagine a rich man checking you and reassuring emself that he's still richer than you just to feel special and know he's still in control.

west is a LEVELER

joseph1832:
those who eventually don't chase their husbands away turn them to boy toys. Some women even go as far as marrying men who they can control and dominate at will. I've seen this happen countless times.

YES SIR. YOU KNOW IT

WHY is worldremit exchanging at 866

b then c then A

Gerrard59:
The solution is to build a prosperous society and impose your cultural norms. That is what Chinese, Emirati and Japanese men did. I have never seen/read a Chinese politician jailed in the West.

you can't jail a corrupt chinese politician in the west because he would be killed in China first for being corrupt. The reason the west do that to Nigerian leaders is because they know they are all demons and a demon would not lock up another demon for doing demonic activities. You can't get justice in an establishment controlled by demons. They are all friends and eat and steal and laugh together. So the world knows this and so the UK feels it has a bit of moral obligation as the coloniser to lock up these men who will never receive judgement in Nigeria. But like I said, China has very strong institutions and they take care of their corrupt men very effectively. They will give you a sword and tell you to kill yourself if you are caught being corrupt. You have to fall on your own sword or meet a deadlier fate.

But yeah we need very strong institutions in Nigeria. Institutions that are more powerful than men

Coronavirus1:
Liberty and greed make women leave their husband. Abroad husband is very loyal why in Abroad but when in Nigeria he is a vampire why Abroad women become vampire be careful careful

its very true though you can't help but to think this is deserved karma. That emasculated man in the UK who has been kicked out of his home if he was still in naija and had all the aces over the woman would have like 5 side chicks that he is nacking lmaooo so in a way it is justice that these men are getting emasculated in the UK and thrown out into the wintery streets to go sleep in a bus station lmaoooooo. It's justice. Karma. Roles reversed. Power done switch hand. Everybody go collect. Hand go touch everybody lol

Maxxim:
The same reason why nigerian men become emasculated and not being able to wield any power is the same as what happens when nigerian politicians reaches abroad without no security guards and loads of escorts.

that is a very brilliant parallel analogy. Our powerful politicians come to the west and are reduced to nothing talk less of you that is a nobody . You see them in the trains looking very decrepit and vulnerable. That their big agbada hides many ailments. They look decrepit and vulnerable and you can just walk up to them and slap them . Aregbesola was almost slapped in America by this guy who saw him and ekweremadu was beaten to stupor in Germany. Ibori and ekweremadu were thrown into British prison like common criminals

That is a wonderful parallel. Even our politicians are emasculated when they enter the west and they have billions in the bank akant. Talk less of the average naija man with nothing in the akant. You will be emasculated by society to the tenth power.

BadBradley:
their are still controlling men abroad and patriarchy still exists in yhr west.

The OP nailed it perfectly. When a woman finds the husband has lost value in western society she doesn't feel protected.

Stop trying to push your own narrow , false perspective here

Salute to you

XAUBulls:
Yup! Sukkot the Grandmaster of Lekki Peninsula and Prince of Ikd... Hells of killadelphia You had to coin that straight from your bag of humor... I didn't see that coming. Very apt humor. Chicago, Philadelphia, Detroit, Baltimore, Houston... Those top places easily fit into the areas discerning folks have to beware of in terms of homicides.

But in reality, the cumulative number of folks of Nigerian descent that have passed on from vicious shootings or knife attacks (since over 20 years ago either in the U.S. or UK) has been on the upswing.

Your last sentence indeed summarizes the human experience in this present incarnation.
Gotta keep that in mind despite the pressures of everyday living.

hehe Chief truthfully there is a group from Philadelphia called THE ROOTS, it's a rap group and they do very great music and play live instruments. Well they always say they are from ILLADELPHIA which is slang for Philadelphia is ill , which means Philadelphia is dope. I just put the K In front of it to turn it to killadelphia which is very appropriate because many people get smoked in this city lmaoooo . Yeah you know our people think they are getting an upgrade in life when they relocate to these places but truly Babylon is falling and what they are doing is akin to integrating into a burning house so it's only right that some of our people would be caught in the crossfires. It is what it is. Symptoms and ills of a dying empire but hey let me jump into the fire and scoop up some dollars for myself and then BOOM, you out cold. It's a story of greed, restlessness, dissatisfaction, discontentment, you know, the typical naija mindset of trying to build huge treasures on earth, men and women running after earthly titles and always wanting to be validated. All folly. But hey it is what it is Chief. Lol. How is Austria ?

Karnice600:
Alpha these, alpha that.
You heard the popular old saying, “it’s the men’s world?”
A man need to know how the world works behind the scenes. How those ugly wirings and dirty greasy gears fit and run to give the front end life.
A true alpha male lose some battles to win strategic wars.
An alpha male is not a super hero who wins all the time.
An alpha male is good with adaptive learning irrespective of location.
An alpha male would chose to be mentally efficient over being “muscularly” effective and intellectually useless.
Above all an alpha male doesn’t say he is alpha to earn points

read my definition of alpha in post above this one. I think these redpill negros have confused you guys into thinking alpha is the same as toxic masculinity. I am not into all that redpill nonsense.

oluwasunkanmi97:
Good evening boss

yeah what's the details and how is the persons life looking like ? What's the date of birth

armyofone:
I wonder what you will do if you feathered a girl child @ Sukkot. Don't empower her, you hear.

I like how the west mellowed your alpha guys.
Bring the red, white, blue and green pills. We will swallow it together to create Alpha Couples

Keep the alpha rism at the confines of your night dreams. When you walk out the door, take the trash out - its trash day

hehe now when these redpilled negros talk about alpha it denotes toxicity but me I am not talking about toxic masculinity , when I say alpha I mean societal ability to put a man in the position to be fully capable of being able to take care of his family how he wants and the man stepping up to the plate and wholesomely guiding his family in the light and not in darkness. A kind but assertive man , strong and caring, not a terror at home and takes on the manly duties of the house. Come on nobody respects a man sweeping the floors all the time. You can do it once in a while as a form of back exercise but to assign a man full time dish washing and floor sweeping duties is emasculating which is why marriages often break down in the UK when these men start switching gender roles. It's cute for a woman to see you sweeping the floor but deep down she loses respect for you. It is what it is lol. Complex life

oluwasunkanmi97:
Boss, good afternoon, you said you would get back to me.

Oh yeah i did Chief. my bad. can you be patient till tonight ? i promise

NwaliE01:
You're so so ignorant of what you're saying.

THERE'S NOTHING like SIR abroad Mr man.
Stop spewing lies.
I have been abroad for couple of years now, I have NEVER address anyone as SIR. Oyibo don't even understand what it mean.

maybe you are in russia or chile but in the UK, addressing people as SIR and MADAM is the norm. as a 50 year old naija guy you will call your 18 year old oyinbo supervisor SIR

deyplay:
Don't mind the guy writing from a myopic perspective of someone living Nigeria. And who told you that all immigrants are dish washers. Plus, dish washing, lack of jobs and low pay is not exclusive to immigrants alone. It happens to everyone. There are immigrants who started earning in 6 digits or close to in their first year abroad. All these myths and folktales of dish washing and toilet cleaning etc are for perhaps skillless and uneducated immigrants or just few months of arrival as a means of survival.

dishwashing at home. no more maids.

AngelicBeing:
Trolling sukkot at it again but I agree with your post

you stole my pic bro lol

HeatSeeker:


This is a serious load of bullshit

oh its legit

Sanchez01:
Who empties the trash in your home, your wife? So it emasculates a man if he cooks for his wife? They will soon leave you too with this weak male mindset.

na maid now lol. pay them well though. i do not support slavery. pay your maid 100k per month so she is happy and not frowning

UnknownT:
But when they dump the emasculated man, many of them still follow a black man, who is also emasculated as the black husband she dumped

hehe with time they get to find out that there is no husband abroad. men are not breaking their doors down. so yeah some later regret the decision

SouthSouth1914:
Full of incredible conclusions on situations that goes beyond comprehension. If you have a professional job, wealthy and highly skilled. No one will disrespect nor disregard you in anyway, especially your wife.

What you wrote up there is clearly for broke people who made it by chance to overseas!

most are broke. thats why they japa in the first place

GloriousGbola:
oddly specific
the real reasons for my mans reverse japa
i always knew you were a pussy. emasculated british nigga ran to naija so he could know what it feels like to be a man

hmmm i wouldnt say i am emasculated, in fact the problem is that i cant be emasculated. i am a spiritual warrior. Orunmila baba ifa. thats me. and to harness my powers and have access to universal information in the electromagnetic ethers the angels told me i need to be close to the equator. see, the tropic of cancer and tropic of capricorn where the west exists are spiritually dead zones. Orunmila cannot thrive in a spiritually dead region. the west is my prison and africa is my throne. so i had to return to my throne

XAUBulls:
Greetings to you Sukkot. Hope you're doing great right now?

Not Chicago, it was in Philadelphia. She got shot in Philadelphia in March 2021. Najeebat Sule was 24 while doing her PhD program then, and her father's name is Adewale Sule.

The incident was quite painful to read back in 2021... even till now. Choosing the right neighborhood or U.S. State to live in really matters. I found one of the many web links on the story which you can fully read below:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9423903/amp/Nigerian-beauty-queen-PhD-student-24-shot-dead-sitting-Philadelphia.html


https://www.forbes.com/sites/laurabegleybloom/2018/09/27/revealed-the-15-most-dangerous-places-to-live/?sh=2cb7b58a4706

ok my Chief, i remember that story. its sad. these people dont value human life. that girl gone just like that. well the good book does say to be absent in body is to be present with God so she is in a better place than the hells of killadelphia

1Sharon:
That's the exact reason why they are also killing their wife. They come to the West and feel emasculated, inadequate and insecure.

They end up taking their anger out on the easy target: their wife.

true indeed

we FP. mods salute. contributors salute

hammed71:
this guy lol

et tu brute amunike. let me find out amunike is an obedient who votes against anything nigerian after peter obi loss. maybe he see agbado for osimhen pocket

ednut1:
There is one major characteristic of those men. They used money to entice the woman in Nigeria. You are a 29 years old man doing well, na 19 years old babe you go date or marry. Sponsor her through school, pay her parents rent and siblings bills. Now the bad part- emotionally and physical abuse, her opinions don’t matter, during NYSC you quickly marry and give her belle and prevent her getting a career. you know she cant leave because she is dependent on you.

But when you reach abroad, she can enter lucrative fields like nursing and tech. Starts earning good money and contributing to the bills. With her workload, child care . Many Nigerian men refuse to adjust to the realities and demand she cooks, does all the chores like in Nigeria. You still carry cheating come abroad. With time she begins to see there is no need for you and sends you packing. Many times its payback for patriarchy in Nigeria. Marriages where the man was a good man in Nigeria mostly still waxing strong abroad.

very legitimate and valid submission my guy. There is that element to it too

steeltrust:
I'm ready for that so for now lemme focus on my gaol and one of it is to travel outta naija which I’ve achieved and the rest to come

So live death
Let face life first

all the best bro. But try go taste of Chicago lol

steeltrust:
that for you. as for me, my own goal is to create a level playing field for my generation and create wealth. i dont have time for all those. The reason i'm here is to work legally, take the money back home, invest and retire, give my kids a second passport and also get them the best education since I didn't get the chance to get one. my life is simple; dont have time for frivolities

man proposes God disposes. You are not in control. Anything can happen at anytime . Death sickness etc etc

So guys we need to understand that women are drawn to protectors and alpha and strong men. It is how they are wired.

Something happens to a Nigerian man when he gets abroad and the women notice it. The man gets emasculated by society.

He goes from being a strong figure of authority in Africa to an unwanted disrespected black man in the west.

Even a 17 year old white boy on the job can almost slap that 40 year old naija man on the job and he will be shaking and calling the 17 year old boy, Sir.

The man is emasculated by society. Goes from being an alpha dog in naija to a puppy in the west.

Our women sense these things and to a woman if you are not an alpha dog you are just useless.

You start emptying the trash and making breakfast and washing dishes now as the man. Jobs that you used to hire maids to do for you in naija.

Not only can a 17 year old white boy disrespect you on the job but you are now a dishwasher at home. You have no value in society.

Anywhere you turn up you are not celebrated but tolerated.

After a while the woman starts to see that this guy is truly worthless to me, why do I need to coexist with this emasculated societal reject ?

I am better off by myself and I can get a better job than him here as a nurse.

He has become a burden to me.

This is why most women chase their husbands away from home after they both relocate abroad

Spandau:
😄 But still curious. Was there any investigation by cops? Any arrest made? Or did they just jelo like that?

oh I didn't follow the case up. I left Chicago the following year and have never been back there