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SKhanmi:
Who wants to be friends with a mad or crazy ex? The type all your family sows aso ebi, follow you go church for Thanksgiving when u finally gree break down & up

Your village people still get awoof for u be that

u dey craze walahi

Brooke60:
Good points.....I see no reason being close to someone you used to love.
The only thing I do is to text HBD once in a year.
Call regularly at your own risk

u full of wisdom

divinehand2003:
The love of God has been shared abroad in our hearts. Love never dies. Only the selfish human way of loving ends up in hatred. We ought to apply 1 Corinthians 13 as we love in our relationships. That will save us from a lot of problems in our relationships and marriages today.

what are u inisinuating ?

“It’s over, but we can still be friends.” How many times have we heard that line? Probably more than we’d like to remember. There’s always that ex who wants to still be friends after the breakup. Maybe they just say that to make the situation better, or maybe they feel bad about breaking somebody’s heart. Or maybe they just want to have some remaining control over the life of their now ex. It’s hard to say what makes people want to be friends after a relationship is over, but no matter what the motive is, it’s a bad idea. We’ll say that again, it’s a very bad idea to stay friends with your ex after a breakup.
There are those people who are strong enough to pull off such an arrangement, and we give kudos to them. However, most people only agree to this friendship after heartbreak arrangement out of the hope that fences could probably still be mended. Like we said earlier, bad idea. We’re not saying you should hate your ex or be sworn enemies, but you need some space to heal and get used to not being with them anymore. It’s not easy to deal with a breakup, but deciding to be close to your ex will make it even more painful.

Here are four reasons why it’s a bad idea to be close friends with your ex after a breakup:

1. It will hurt like relaxer on a freshly washed scalp
No matter how strong you are, you still need time to grieve like a normal person. You’ve just lost the person you love. They don’t love you anymore or you don’t love them anymore. Either way, trying to be close immediately after the breakup will cause you more pain than necessary. Give it some time and space. You owe that to yourself and your heart.

2. It’ll make it harder for you both to move on
Even if the breakup was a mutual decision, which it rarely is, it’s hard for both parties to move on. Insisting on being friends will make it even harder for you to put the relationship behind you. This situation is usually worsened by the fact that one person probably didn’t want the relationship to end.

3. It’ll annoy your new partner
Being friends with your ex will not go down well with your new partner. Before you say “he’ll just have to deal with,” put yourself in his shoes. Would you like that? Uh huh, we thought so.

4. It’s just unnecessary
The world is full of new people you can be friends with. Put the past and your ex behind you and move on. It’s not easy, but you can do it. We believe in you.

Is there any good reason to stay friends with your ex? Share with us below.

Source: http://www.zumi.ng/life/just-friends-your-ex/amp/

Lonestar124:
Capital No!.....Procreation is the primary essence in marriage. Also biological children consists a family....Any lady without a womb should remove marriage from her book of fantasies.

or commit suicide

ShyCypher:
After swappin' your womb for iPhone 7 last year, you are here askin' us JAMB questions.

Anyway, I know you're askin' for a friend.

Haaa!!!!! Funke!!!!! Chai!!!!

Get your findings right, she was born in 1979 cos I could recall and remember dbanj dating her and said it in an interview that she is one year older than he is

I slept with a mother and her daughter at ondo state

chilariye:
THE POWER OF INTEGRITY

He snubbed Angela Markel in White House; refusing to shake her hands in oval office.
He shocked President Al Sisi of Egypt. Told him point blank in WH that he will cut aid to Egypt.
He called North Korean leader Kim Jung Un , the 'Rocket Man'.
He has chastised President Putin. Heaping sanctions on his close associates.
He called out Theresa May of Britain.
He criticised China and her leaders. He took a risk of trade war with China.
He called Mexicans rapist , drug peddlers and unsavoury names. Even plans to build a wall.
He fought American footballers who refused to honour their anthem.
He is fighting the largest media platform, CNN.
He is fighting establishments in US; FBI, CIA, JUDICIARY etc.
He knocked NATO allies. Threatened Iran. Shot into Syria.
He fights with his appointees if needs be.
He called black Americans 'LAZY' before his elections.
He called African nations 'shithole'.
He is not afraid to tell it to u , no matter who u are because he is the POTUS. He says it exactly the way it is, snubs, Bullshits even world leaders.
He rarely gives compliments
BUT
when he met President Buhari, everything changed. He was so excited that he could not control it. To d extent that he was even longing for a 'selfie'/ close shot, smiling to the camera. Meaning it was deliberate. Gave PMB d full presidential compliments he has hardly given any other leader since assuming office.
He didn't stop there, he went on and on with eternal compliments.
Buhari became a Rock star to him.
WHY?
The honour and unusual integrity , dedication and commitment of a black man.
Finally he said, " I have tremendous respect for President Buhari.....Buhari is a honest & great leader Africa has produced ....For your sake, I will like to visit Nigeria pretty soon."

He also called him the No. 1 President of Africa.

Keep your honour. It will speak for u someday.

If the Hater's hero can say this about my President , why should I attempt to support or vote another.

It took a 75 year old President to attract such an honour to Nigeria. What far younger ones couldn't do for years. It is an honour for us all; all Nigerians not for PMB alone.

Buhari Again 2019.

Proudly Nigerian.

May Almighty Amadioha fire u to the point of death... Ase edumare

RETIREDMUMU:
will u stfu?

She is ur gf,not yet ur wife

do u want her to be ur slave and u will eventually dump her when u are tired of her

my gf even do better but later i got tired of it,it later turn to a stale thing to me.

U ain't qualify to be in the categories of men with your myopic state of reasoning... They took that meal together, cleaning it won't kill her... There are some skills and home training that ladies needs to exhibit that will forever earn them a full respect from their man and not the idiotic gibberish u are spewing this morning .... Seriously, if u don't have anything sensible to say, keeping shut would have earn u my respect ...

decatalyst:
When will airforce1's brain start germinating?

when he stop smoking Benson & Hedges

Nwanyiocha247:
Funke....

Are you Normal

I don't think so

Uyiii:
what's up man, evening.
I hope you didn't send her the money and we should all presume she's been long reported to her sister?
If it's not in the affirmative, honestly I don't know what you waiting for.

reported with evidence.. Her sister was surprised, she added one plus two and told me her sis can't do a day without talking about me to her on the phone.... Lol... Ladies and their awkward way of reasoning sha

myself13:
A woman's stupidity and hollowness is six times larger than that of the average man. The latter is often witnessed occasionally, but the former happens or thrives like day and night.
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Oh yes women will never change. Remember, women fell twice and were ripped off of almost every iota of common sense in the garden of Eden, unlike men that fell just once.
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BTW, I just fast and pray that you don't give into her sex schemes and temptations, for she is architecturing her means to destroy whatever beautiful life you had with her sister. What a jealous jade!
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She deserves to be excommunicated. Why do women hate themselves this much?

she's still adamant on her decision. She won't rescinde it.... Sex and money and no money without sex and I must five her both.... Well, I'll have to report her to her sister with the WhatsApp message as a concrete evidence

pocohantas:
This is serious then.
Hope she isn't trying to blackmail you.
Why is she asking you for the money, when she can easily ask or go through her sister? Be careful with her.

seriously, what if her sister get to know?

God bless u... All she needed was 3k when she called but I raised the offer from 5k to 10k but she still insisted on having the sex in exchange for the money cos she said she doesn't wanna be indebted to me cos of the money but I refused

GODPUNISHUNA:
They are all still there.

Go over all your posts in which you added the pictures. Click on modify post. On the edit page go to the section where you have your attached image files below, click on remove.

help to repost the edited pix bro

GODPUNISHUNA:
Remove all the images. I have saved it. I will blur it and repost it for you.

done

donstan18:
Why are you publicizing her account number?

Can't you blur it?

I don't know how to blur

Safiaa:
So what is the essence of this post? What is moral story of the story?

She needs the money. I don’t think you’ve ever been in a situation where you desperately need money and have no one to turn to. Not that it’s right that she’s offering sex, but sometimes keep things to yourself. Please.

then shut up and pass. Nobody invited u here to comment.... Bunches of hoe-losho

Olalan:
Is she for real? sex for money from her sisters fiancée. really sad how many ladies in this generation are cheap prostitutes doing anything for money.
BTW don't say she needs the money desperately cause this one seems as a hoe

This is how the story goes, I asked her out and age told me she has a boyfriend but she's a single mother, but she likes me and she decided to introduce her sister to me to date and I have been going strong with her sister but how she started all this drama today is really baffling

I swear to God, it is real... No gain in framing things up

This is real and happening right now, I swear to God Almighty

Cutehector:
I think this chat is fake.. Don't you think so?

I swear to God almighty, it is not

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