Yewandequeen:
lol. Do so at your own risk

please reply your mail.. Seems like I know u in Ibadan and I'm serious about this

Should I Continue?

In every relationship, there is a stage to ask yourself " Should I Continue?

Because to fall in love is free but to sustain love requires "discipline and dedication".

In a relationship or courtship there is a stage..

√ To Accept what is...
√ To let go what is not meant to be..
√ To have faith in what will be ....

SHOULD I CONTINUE?

∆ If you can't have free conversation or dialogue, there is no need to continue..

∆ when family background, class or social status is used against one another, then you need to watch it...

∆ If you don't trust each other, you can't plant the seed of love, because love is like a ''seed'' planted on a soil( Trust)..

∆ If you're not compatible, especially in reasoning and understanding, then there is no need..

∆ If two lovers can't seat down and sort out there issues together, then what are you doing?

∆ In a relationship were you can't express yourself, opinions and visions are not respected, you need to have a rethink weather to continue..

∆ If your relationship have not affected your life positively, in character, spiritual consciousness, social domain and success in life..
There is no need to continue..


To love is a choice.
Your happiness is in your hands..

Should I Continue?

In every relationship, there is a stage to ask yourself " Should I Continue?

Because to fall in love is free but to sustain love requires "discipline and dedication".

In a relationship or courtship there is a stage..

√ To Accept what is...
√ To let go what is not meant to be..
√ To have faith in what will be ....

SHOULD I CONTINUE?

∆ If you can't have free conversation or dialogue, there is no need to continue..

∆ when family background, class or social status is used against one another, then you need to watch it...

∆ If you don't trust each other, you can't plant the seed of love, because love is like a ''seed'' planted on a soil( Trust)..

∆ If you're not compatible, especially in reasoning and understanding, then there is no need..

∆ If two lovers can't seat down and sort out there issues together, then what are you doing?

∆ In a relationship were you can't express yourself, opinions and visions are not respected, you need to have a rethink weather to continue..

∆ If your relationship have not affected your life positively, in character, spiritual consciousness, social domain and success in life..
There is no need to continue..


To love is a choice.
Your happiness is in your hands..

sekxy:
what's this one?one defamed tout like that ??i will just block him and his destiny..nonsense, potential rapist, stupid m0r0n..smh

u girls should start paying for dates as well and stop acting like a gold digger

[quote author=mhiztaNexy post=60938284][/quote] u are wicked bro.. Lol

Sholaqe:
taking a girl out and spending on her doesn't mean you have permission to sleep with her.

Why can't u spend on him on a date or must guys always be the one paying for a date?

SINGLE LADIES!!!

Many ladies always ask, "how can I know that a guy loves me?"
Many ladies have lost good guys because they cannot identify good guys. Although guys can pretend, but you can identify a fake guy and you can know whether a guy loves you or not in the following ways:

1. A fake guy will demand for sex. A real guy will also demand for sex. But a fake guy will quit the relationship if you refuse to have sex with him, while a real guy will not quit even if you don't give him sex.

2. A fake guy shows love and care. A real guy also shows love and care. But watch out! A fake guy will stop to be caring if you commit any offence, but a real guy never stops being caring no matter your offence.

3. A real guy will not like to leave you no matter the situation.

4. A real guy that truly loves you will always apologise even if it is not his fault.

5. Fake guys pamper ladies. Real guys also pamper ladies too. But if a guy pampers you to the extreme, hmm don't trust him. In most cases, fake guys pampers ladies more than the real guys.

6. When a guy uses too many sweet words all the time, be careful. He may be fake. Real guys that truly love u will use few sweet words.

7. A real guy that truly loves you will be very concerned about your problems. He will always show much concern about the causes and solutions to your problems. But a fake guy only shows more concern about his own problems.

8. A real guy will spend money on you. Fake guy will also spend money on you. But a fake guy will not give you much money unless you have sex with him. No sex, no money. Fake love.

9. A fake guy will promise to marry you. A real guy will also promise to marry you. But a real guy will always discuss with you about how to build a successful marriage.

10. A real guy can kneel down and even shed tears to beg you never to lose him. A fake guy who does not love you will not do that.

Think Twice!!!

SINGLE LADIES!!!

Many ladies always ask, "how can I know that a guy loves me?"
Many ladies have lost good guys because they cannot identify good guys. Although guys can pretend, but you can identify a fake guy and you can know whether a guy loves you or not in the following ways:

1. A fake guy will demand for sex. A real guy will also demand for sex. But a fake guy will quit the relationship if you refuse to have sex with him, while a real guy will not quit even if you don't give him sex.

2. A fake guy shows love and care. A real guy also shows love and care. But watch out! A fake guy will stop to be caring if you commit any offence, but a real guy never stops being caring no matter your offence.

3. A real guy will not like to leave you no matter the situation.

4. A real guy that truly loves you will always apologise even if it is not his fault.

5. Fake guys pamper ladies. Real guys also pamper ladies too. But if a guy pampers you to the extreme, hmm don't trust him. In most cases, fake guys pampers ladies more than the real guys.

6. When a guy uses too many sweet words all the time, be careful. He may be fake. Real guys that truly love u will use few sweet words.

7. A real guy that truly loves you will be very concerned about your problems. He will always show much concern about the causes and solutions to your problems. But a fake guy only shows more concern about his own problems.

8. A real guy will spend money on you. Fake guy will also spend money on you. But a fake guy will not give you much money unless you have sex with him. No sex, no money. Fake love.

9. A fake guy will promise to marry you. A real guy will also promise to marry you. But a real guy will always discuss with you about how to build a successful marriage.

10. A real guy can kneel down and even shed tears to beg you never to lose him. A fake guy who does not love you will not do that.

Think Twice!!!

Well, I have just seen the most foolish treasure in you... Your a product of a certified and a beautiful love peddler... Tell your mum u ain't living a fulfilled life. Useless son of a street and a community sex hawker...

Swanzi:



Your stupidity deserves my salute

When did you provide Ghana power, you must be mad..
And yet u can't provide stable power for
Urself isn't it stupidity ..

I don't really like arguing with a product of street LovePeddler.. Condom wasn't expensive those times though, your useless mother made a mistake. Omo irankiran

Love Is Beautiful And Unique

Love is beautiful and unique,
Love is wonderful and brave,
Love is loyal and endearing,
Love is innocent and naive.
Love is pure and faithful,
Love is honest and true.
Love is caring and earnest,
Love is beautiful, Love is you and your love is waiting in the group

Love Is Beautiful And Unique

Love is beautiful and unique,
Love is wonderful and brave,
Love is loyal and endearing,
Love is innocent and naive.
Love is pure and faithful,
Love is honest and true.
Love is caring and earnest,
Love is beautiful, Love is you and your love is waiting in the group

CaptainG00D:


Cute dog u have tho...
But a WELL TRAINED dog neva harm kids nomatter what.
The highest it could do is to scare the kid..
thats if the kid go extreem, it might push him down and hold him down there.

But in this situation they almost killed that boy, they nearly ate his brain out.
Who knows maybe some1 intervened thats why hez alive.

There could be only two reasons.
Its either they are hungry or they were poorly trained.

If any dog does that to my kid(God forbid).. i will kill it and send the owners to jail.

U cant compare the life of dog to dat human.
Nomatter d type of dog...

Just imagine if that kid was urs that alomst lost his lif.. would u spare those dogs.

No matter how u train your dogs, some dogs are more fiercer than other...

Just30:
more recognition than your country.
You can try comparing your country with Togo

or with liberia

PetroDolla3:


Ghanaians are black and proud of their complexion. Shitnigerians are white and proud of their complexion, right? Pus-filled pieces of garbage, that is what you shitty Nigerians are

u are nothing but a demented fool... Ask your forefathers, we are supplying your Sodom and Gomorrah electricity... Your stupidity needs a guiness world record.. Mofolic idiot

Dshocker:


Ur girlfriend belongs to us

Like MTN " EVERYWHERE YOU GO"

CaptainG00D:
Lord have mercy.!!!
Ar3 the dogs dead..?
Are the owners in jail?

for what will the owner be in jail?. I breed dogs, do u know whether the guy trespass ?... All well and good, I thank God for sparing the lil boy's life... I always tell people, most dogs will always secure their territory, coming close to them with make them feel threatened and they might do the needful... Beware of dogs

1. There is nothing that threatens the security of a man than the thought of another man competing for the attention and affection of his wife. Nothing is more painful. Nothing is more disrespecting. Nothing is more insulting. Nothing is more belittling and degrading.

2. Marriage flourishes when the couple work together as a team; when both husband and wife decide that winning together is more important than keeping score.
Good marriages don't just happen. They are a product of hard work.

3. Your children are watching you and forming lasting opinions on love, commitment, and marriage based on what they see in you. Give them hope. Make them look forward to marriage.

4. Husbands: The reason why other women look attractive is because someone is taking good care of them. Grass is always green where it is watered. Instead of drooling over the green grass on the other side of the fence, work on yours and water it regularly. Any man can admire a beautiful woman, but it takes a true gentleman to make a woman admirable and beautiful.

5. When a husband puts his wife first above everyone and everything except God, it gives his wife the sense of security and honor that every wife hungers for.

6. A successful marriage doesn't require a big house, a perfect spouse, a million dollars or an expensive car. You can have all the above and still have a miserable marriage. A successful marriage requires honesty, undying commitment and selfless love and Jesus at the center of it all.

7. Pray for your spouse every day; in the morning, in the afternoon and at evening. Don’t wait until there is a problem. Don’t wait until there is an affair. Don’t wait until something bad happens. Don’t wait until your spouse is tempted. Shield your spouse with prayer and cover your marriage with the fence of prayer.

8. The people you surround yourself with have a lot of influence on your marriage. Friends can build or break your marriage; choose them wisely.

9. One spouse cannot build a marriage alone when the other spouse is committed to destroying it. Marriage works when both husband and wife work together as a team to build their marriage.

10. Don't take your spouse for granted. Don't take advantage of your spouse's meekness and goodness. Don't mistake your spouse's loyalty for desperation. Don't misuse or abuse your spouse's trust. You may end up regretting after losing someone that meant so much to you.

11. Beware of marital advice from single people. Regardless of how sincere their advice may be, most of it is theoretical and not derived from real life experiences. If you really need Godly advice, seek it from God-fearing, impartial and prayerful mature couples whose resolve has been tested by time and shaped by trials.

12. Dear wife, Don't underestimate the power of the tongue on your marriage. The tongue has the power to crush your marriage or build it up. Don't let the Devil use your tongue to kill your spouse's image, self-confidence and aspirations. Let God use your tongue to build up your marriage and bless and praise your spouse.

Please, send this to as many couple as you know, love and care about...

Also send to singles to help prepare their minds for marriage. God bless you.
Adopted By Apostle Pride Sibiya
http://www.pridesibiya.com/2017/07/hardcore-truth-on-marriage-david-oyedepo.html

1. There is nothing that threatens the security of a man than the thought of another man competing for the attention and affection of his wife. Nothing is more painful. Nothing is more disrespecting. Nothing is more insulting. Nothing is more belittling and degrading.

2. Marriage flourishes when the couple work together as a team; when both husband and wife decide that winning together is more important than keeping score.
Good marriages don't just happen. They are a product of hard work.

3. Your children are watching you and forming lasting opinions on love, commitment, and marriage based on what they see in you. Give them hope. Make them look forward to marriage.

4. Husbands: The reason why other women look attractive is because someone is taking good care of them. Grass is always green where it is watered. Instead of drooling over the green grass on the other side of the fence, work on yours and water it regularly. Any man can admire a beautiful woman, but it takes a true gentleman to make a woman admirable and beautiful.

5. When a husband puts his wife first above everyone and everything except God, it gives his wife the sense of security and honor that every wife hungers for.

6. A successful marriage doesn't require a big house, a perfect spouse, a million dollars or an expensive car. You can have all the above and still have a miserable marriage. A successful marriage requires honesty, undying commitment and selfless love and Jesus at the center of it all.

7. Pray for your spouse every day; in the morning, in the afternoon and at evening. Don’t wait until there is a problem. Don’t wait until there is an affair. Don’t wait until something bad happens. Don’t wait until your spouse is tempted. Shield your spouse with prayer and cover your marriage with the fence of prayer.

8. The people you surround yourself with have a lot of influence on your marriage. Friends can build or break your marriage; choose them wisely.

9. One spouse cannot build a marriage alone when the other spouse is committed to destroying it. Marriage works when both husband and wife work together as a team to build their marriage.

10. Don't take your spouse for granted. Don't take advantage of your spouse's meekness and goodness. Don't mistake your spouse's loyalty for desperation. Don't misuse or abuse your spouse's trust. You may end up regretting after losing someone that meant so much to you.

11. Beware of marital advice from single people. Regardless of how sincere their advice may be, most of it is theoretical and not derived from real life experiences. If you really need Godly advice, seek it from God-fearing, impartial and prayerful mature couples whose resolve has been tested by time and shaped by trials.

12. Dear wife, Don't underestimate the power of the tongue on your marriage. The tongue has the power to crush your marriage or build it up. Don't let the Devil use your tongue to kill your spouse's image, self-confidence and aspirations. Let God use your tongue to build up your marriage and bless and praise your spouse.

Please, send this to as many couple as you know, love and care about...

Also send to singles to help prepare their minds for marriage. God bless you.
Adopted By Apostle Pride Sibiya
http://www.pridesibiya.com/2017/07/hardcore-truth-on-marriage-david-oyedepo.html

tukdi:
I must confess this thread is good, kudos to the OP!

To show you that our childhood in Nigeria in the 80's/90s and early 2000 was great, I went through this thread without finding any tribalistic comment! I mean we were very much united (Nigerians) that time before things fell apart!

The good old days!


God knows best!!!

Thanks boss

Dear Lord,

I sincerely thankYou for giving me a yesterday's Wife.

TMC.

Comparative Analysis Between Wives of Today and Those of Yesterday:

1). *Yesterday's Wives* :
Welcome my husband, hope the office was not stressful., your favorite food is ready, let me lead you to the bathroom first, then you take your dinner, you look so tired, am sure you'll be okay after taking your dinner, welcome my one and only.

*Today's Wives*:
Please don't put unnecessary pressure on me, you can go to the fridge pick up the stew, microwave it and boil the remaining rice, I am your wife and not your cook.

2). *Yesterday's Wives*:
Darling stop thinking about our lack of money. It's going to be temporary. God will see us through and we are going to come out of it stronger. After all, we can still feed ourselves and the children. We need to give the Almighty that glory. I am with you through thick and thin, my husband, the owner of my dowry.

*Today's Wives*: ________________Look I am sick and tired of living in this abject poverty with you. Why did you bring me to your house when you know that you are not ready for marriage? Every day is one complaint or the other. Are you the Complainant General of Nigeria. We don't have cars, our house is Face me and slap you, when your mates are in GRAs. Look if you don't find solutions to your problems, you will come back and not find me in this your rotten house.

3). *Yesterday's Wives*: ____________My husband, we only have 2 children, don't you think we should have more. You know children are gifts and mercies from God. And the more the merrier.

*Today's Wives*: _______________Look am sick and tired of this marriage. You won't allow me to rest by your constant urge to have more children. I am okay with our two children. I can't allow you to spoil my figure 8 by bearing another 4 children. You are so wicked that I feel you want to spoil my psychedelic looks. If you dare force me, I will sue you for rape.

4). *Yesterday's Wives*: ___________My husband, take heart and don't worry. I shall go with you to Zaria. Your being transferred from the glitterati of Abuja to Zaria might be a blessing in disguise. We shall take the advantage of the educational institutions to advance our education. Some disappointments could be a blessing.

*Today's Wives*: ______________Me I can't follow you to Zaria o. God forbid bad thing. From Abuja to Zaria? I can't cope with such a demotion. To start living in a village? You had better look for another wife. I can't live in a city without silver birds, Amigo Supermarket or Dunes

5) *Yesterday's Wives*: __________My husband, I have enough clothes. This N30.000 you are giving me, pls keep it and save for a rainy day.

*Today's Wives*: ________________Why are you so stingy? Do you have super glue in your palms?What an insult. What kind of shopping do you want me to do with N50,000?What can I buy? Is it Swiss lace or Dubai gold. I am disappointed in you. Your mates are giving their wives $5,000 to shop, here you are humiliating me with naira. I don't blame you. It is because I refused to marry Chief Antonio that's why you are messing up with me.

*Yesterday's wives ________________ Darling our children will resume next week, I have bought new bags and sandals for them, I have also kept some money for their text books, may God bless u for their tuition fees.

*Today's wives _____________ Your children are resuming next week, I don't want to hear story of no money o, they will change their school bags, sandals, water bottles etc and their textbooks, make sure the money is completed this time o, afterall they bear your surname not mine.

*Uhhhm!! Though we still have some good wives in today's wives. But Where do our wives belong? Yesterday or Today ��??

Dear Lord,

I sincerely thankYou for giving me a yesterday's Wife.

TMC.

Comparative Analysis Between Wives of Today and Those of Yesterday:

1). *Yesterday's Wives* :
Welcome my husband, hope the office was not stressful., your favorite food is ready, let me lead you to the bathroom first, then you take your dinner, you look so tired, am sure you'll be okay after taking your dinner, welcome my one and only.

*Today's Wives*:
Please don't put unnecessary pressure on me, you can go to the fridge pick up the stew, microwave it and boil the remaining rice, I am your wife and not your cook.

2). *Yesterday's Wives*:
Darling stop thinking about our lack of money. It's going to be temporary. God will see us through and we are going to come out of it stronger. After all, we can still feed ourselves and the children. We need to give the Almighty that glory. I am with you through thick and thin, my husband, the owner of my dowry.

*Today's Wives*: ________________Look I am sick and tired of living in this abject poverty with you. Why did you bring me to your house when you know that you are not ready for marriage? Every day is one complaint or the other. Are you the Complainant General of Nigeria. We don't have cars, our house is Face me and slap you, when your mates are in GRAs. Look if you don't find solutions to your problems, you will come back and not find me in this your rotten house.

3). *Yesterday's Wives*: ____________My husband, we only have 2 children, don't you think we should have more. You know children are gifts and mercies from God. And the more the merrier.

*Today's Wives*: _______________Look am sick and tired of this marriage. You won't allow me to rest by your constant urge to have more children. I am okay with our two children. I can't allow you to spoil my figure 8 by bearing another 4 children. You are so wicked that I feel you want to spoil my psychedelic looks. If you dare force me, I will sue you for rape.

4). *Yesterday's Wives*: ___________My husband, take heart and don't worry. I shall go with you to Zaria. Your being transferred from the glitterati of Abuja to Zaria might be a blessing in disguise. We shall take the advantage of the educational institutions to advance our education. Some disappointments could be a blessing.

*Today's Wives*: ______________Me I can't follow you to Zaria o. God forbid bad thing. From Abuja to Zaria? I can't cope with such a demotion. To start living in a village? You had better look for another wife. I can't live in a city without silver birds, Amigo Supermarket or Dunes

5) *Yesterday's Wives*: __________My husband, I have enough clothes. This N30.000 you are giving me, pls keep it and save for a rainy day.

*Today's Wives*: ________________Why are you so stingy? Do you have super glue in your palms?What an insult. What kind of shopping do you want me to do with N50,000?What can I buy? Is it Swiss lace or Dubai gold. I am disappointed in you. Your mates are giving their wives $5,000 to shop, here you are humiliating me with naira. I don't blame you. It is because I refused to marry Chief Antonio that's why you are messing up with me.

*Yesterday's wives ________________ Darling our children will resume next week, I have bought new bags and sandals for them, I have also kept some money for their text books, may God bless u for their tuition fees.

*Today's wives _____________ Your children are resuming next week, I don't want to hear story of no money o, they will change their school bags, sandals, water bottles etc and their textbooks, make sure the money is completed this time o, afterall they bear your surname not mine.

*Uhhhm!! Though we still have some good wives in today's wives. But Where do our wives belong? Yesterday or Today ��??