No big deal nao... I fvcked a calm & pretty choir member in my church few weeks ago and even made her cvm. The next two days when I saw her in church, I just behaved as if nothing happened but she couldn't look me in the eye for a week..guess she was nervous.
She has gotten over it and we relate well in church now.

Jas80:


Do you want to go into web development or app development, I think I have some videos on web development

Sorry for the late reply Boss. I want to go into web development..also app later I wont mind getting videos on the two, thank you so much.

Jas80:
Do you have a laptop?

Yes Bro

I need a Professional in these fields that can teach me or anybody with a very Comprehensive & Detailed video tutorials.

Cool

raphroye:


1. Don't break up with her.. Just keep drawing back from her.
2. Don't ever try to sleep with her again... When she gets tired, she would take her ogbanje elsewhere.... No give her attention again. Just pick her calls and talk to her like a normal friend

Thanks

Mykel51:


He saw her sharing nudes and still calls her his girlfriend...he even mentioned a Future...men like this irritate me...

Taking abt being my gf and the "future" stuffs was before i caught her sex chatting and sharing nudes. So dont get it twisted.
I told her i'm ending the relationship immediately i saw it.

Shormiey:

Quietly leave her like this brother said......simple @supredible

I understand bro.. Advice taken.

Quality20:
Yes d girl is correct. How can u sex her when she isn't ur wife, and worse still u are thinking of dumping her after seeing n tasting her? Abeg baby harm this op if he leaves or dumps u. Women really need to take a cue from this types of girls

Did you read what i wrote at all? Did i force her to have sex with me? Your talk is offpoint sir.

samincredible44:
she noticed u are a simp that's why she's bullying u to stay.Ask yourself this question,why didn't she hurt her ex despite he cheated.

I'm not a simp bro... I'm cool though, i have never taken bullshit from her and i've told her i'm ending the relationship when i saw the chats. Thanks though.

Kaykay999:
Be careful bro
No one can tell if she’s actually possessed or something,just play her ghostmode

Ghost her and make her tired of the relationship.
Stop having sex with her
It will hard shaa but try

Thanks, Advice taken*

akinjojo1234:


I tire O. Very fake guy

If I tell you all the girls wey don get heartbreak from me right from university days to many years now I am working, yet I still keep progressing in my career and financially.

Forget all those threats. Leave the girl for your own good.

Alright, thanks...

luwiizy:
don't be a fool, a women that threatens you can actually harm you...don't be a fool once again...

quietly leave her.. she's no good for a man like you.

Thanks

We started dating last year and the relationship was moving fine. I realize that anytime we have misunderstanding, especially serious ones.. She'll always threaten to hurt me spiritually. There was a time last year when we were just discussing, she said she's not ordinary like she has a sort of connection or belongs to the marine/water kingdom. I actually got the message but we were already dating then. I wouldn't have started any relationship with her if she has told me before we started dating. I didn't even know if she's saying the truth or trying to scare me . So she came to my side by Feb to spend some days and I mistaken stumbled upon her chat where she was sex chatting and sending nudes to her ex. I reacted immediately and she started begging. I was really hurt and disappointed. I later realize she still really love her ex despite the fact that the guy to maltreat her the guy even dates other ladies. She said we won't do it again but i find it difficult to forget because d sexchat was mad... Coupled with her nude. Few weeks later, she started complaining, nagging and saying a lot of annoying things then i reminded her about the sexchat i saw on her phone. Then she started saying why do i have to remind her of something that has happened in the past, do i think i can have sex with her and leave, she will "show me pepper" I will regret it, she will not forgive me, she will punish me.. Guys that cheated her before are now regretting and begging her depite the fact that she was the one that cheated and bleeped up.

I told her i didn't cheat her, she cheated on me and i'm not in anyway afraid of her, "anything wey she want make she do".

I actually love her and plan a future with her but with her cheating attitude and constant threat, i cant take it anymore.. i have planned to end the relationship for the sake of my sanity.

How many of you guys have been in this kind of relationship and how did you handle it? I need advice nairalanders, thanks.

2Ballz:

You may need to book an appointment with your doctor again to have a chest examination, often times chest pains relieving on exercise or walk aren't cardiac but respiratory. Since you have once had Bronchitis and an asthmatic medical history,it wouldn't be a wrong idea if you have a Chest X-ray done to have an idea if anything could happening with this space.

Alright, thanks so much Doc.

2Ballz:

1)Side of chest of the referred pain? Left, right or central?

2)Do you observe that this pains comes after working some certain distance or certain level of exercise?

3) Does this pain comes with a shortness of breath?

4) Do you feel or observe if this pain is being felt on your shoulder?

5) Does the pain reduce on resting? or, worsen with rest?

6) Any history of Peptic ulcer disease?
7) Any history of Asthma?
8 ) Any history of Smoking?
9) Any history of infection or any health problem you can share with a doctor?
10) Any history of diabetes?

1)Side of chest of the referred pain? Left, right or central?

2)Do you observe that this pains comes after working some certain distance or certain level of exercise?

3) Does this pain comes with a shortness of breath?

4) Do you feel or observe if this pain is being felt on your shoulder?

5) Does the pain reduce on resting? or, worsen with rest?

6) Any history of Peptic ulcer disease?
7) Any history of Asthma?
8 ) Any history of Smoking?
9) Any history of infection or any health problem you can share with a doctor?
10) Any history of diabetes?
[/quote](1) I feel pain majorly in the right side directly under my right breast sometimes sharp, sometimes dull , i also occasionally feel a slight sharp pain on the left side close 2 the collar bone.. A kinda needle pinch pain sensation. The pressure/tightness sensation.. I feel it both in the right and left side.. Cant really say. Sometimes center.

2) The pain dissappears whenever i stand up most times.. I dont feel it when i walk on the street or or whenever i do exercise. I feel it whenever i more whenever i sit down. I also feel it when lie down in my back. It dissappears when i sleep on the left or right side. I feel it more when i dont exercise. It started again few days ago during lockdown when i didn't exercise or go out or engage in any activity. It disappears whenever i exercise or engage in activities.

3)No, i dont use to experience shortness of breath.

4)No. I dont feel it in my shoulder.

5) It doesn't reduce or worsen with rest. It's just there.. Sometimes i feel it immediately i wake up sometimes i dont.

6) peptic ulcer (NO)

7) Asthma (YES, i had asthma when i was small it later dissappeared itself without medication)

8.
Smoking (NO)

9) (a) Ok. When i was in primary school, after asthma attack...I do have this frequent cough that I do breathe heavily as if i cant catch my breath after i do a strenous exercise like running or playing football with my mates.. My mum do give me **Franol drug.. I take it and i get better within minutes.

(b) I also once had typhoid /Juandice when i was small.

(c) I just treated bronchitis...I'm very Ok now though.. I dont feel brochitis symptoms again.

(d) I want to add this... I noticed this last year, few months ago. Whenever i run or jog. When i breath hard, i experience pain in my lungs and it follows my breathing pattern. The pain dissappears when my breathing rate returns to normal. I actually thought it's because i don run or jog regularly.

10) Diabetes (NO)

I need help doctors in the house. I'm 26 years old and for a while, i've been working from home so i dont really do much exercise and i added weight as well. I went periodical check up by January and my bp reads 138/86 which i was told its a bit high that i need to reduce my salt intake and exercise more.. And i've taken exercise seriously and reduced my salt intake. Few days ago, i started feeling unrelenting Pressure /tightness sensation with some minor pain occasional in my chest region, the pressure /tightness sensation dissappears immediately i place my hand on my chest and i also dont feel it when i walk or exercise.. and it's so uncomfortable, and a dull headache that come and goes for few minutes. What could be wrong with me and what can i do about it?.

Offpoint:

I was patiently waiting to see where you'll arrive with your first comment of "LOL"

I have been been on this section for long, and few people who know me might have seen few of my comments about quack designers, whom I know most of them are beginners.
Most of the time, I'm angry at them and I always end my comments with an encouraging words instead of talking them down cause I know most are still in the learning process and eager to start making money.

I also advised them to focus on improving their skills, instead of offering cheap jobs and end up making quack delivery.
I let them know the bad effects it might have on them and even on this section, cause most clients who expectations wasn't met would not post any job offers here again.

You came here, you make mockery of them and then you ended promoting yourself.
Tell me the professionalism what you just did?
in business you don't go talking others down directly to promote your own products, it doesn't speak well.

If your attitude was displayed by a client I would have ignored, but from a fellow designer... it's pathetic the least I could say.

Most of the time I vent my anger on them, it's not because of their designs per say... but because of their ridiculous prices of N500, N1000 for a logo and so on, cause I know every designer once starts as a beginner.

There's no point mocking young designers for the purpose of promoting yourself, that's greed.

There's more to professionalism than just being good with designs.

peace

I think offpoint is right.. Mr Herbay, that your attitude of badmouthing/mocking oda designers especially the upcoming ones just to market your own services is not a professional approach. All i see in that your post is bragging and desperation. Give d OP the freedom of selection to contact others and see their previous designs. Who knows, there are others designers that he'll find their designs appealing than yours.

Ok, I expected that.
You are not even close to the level of a Professional in Graphic design. Take a look at your portfolio, full of low quality, amateur designs and you come here, writing epistles that you are a professional graphic designer when your designs says otherwise. Just check your behance portfolio.. Full of a handful of amateur designs and you are saying you have 10 years experience in Graphic Designing. Your skill is quite average in ui/ux but in Graphics, its stil in the amateur stage so stop claiming what you are not bro.

"Plenty Talk".. Let your designs speak for you. Upload them and let's see if you are a professional as you claim.

Offpoint:
I wonder when this nonsense of N500, N1000 stop on this section, these guys keep ruining work for professional designers in this section. Because after collecting N500 job, they end up delivering quack designs which will deter people coming here to post for a job.


Only an incompetent and extremely hungry quack designer will design a logo for N1000.

How much data will you buy for research purposes, how much fuel? plus time and efforts just for 1k.... pathetic

imagine you went for an operation and the surgeon charge you N500, you'll definitely run for your life.


pathetic

Exactly bro, I'll rather patronize competent designers, pay for quality and save myself a lot of stress than giving jobs to these hungry and amateur designers.

I gave a simple job to one of this hungry/ amateur designers sometime ago.. If you see the rubbish he designed.. I had to hire a competent designer here to do the job. I had to pay twice for a job i should have paid once for, So pathetic. Y'all should be patient and learn rather than charging peanut and designing rubbish.

Good evening everyone. My name is Segun, a 26 years old fresh graduate.
Basically, I'm a freelancer.. although i work with a company but it's a part time job so i only go there once in a while.

The issue is: I'm always indoor because i got to lagos not quite long, so i dont know really anyone here and i dont have friends. Sometimes i feel bored.

I reside around Abule egba area. Any nairalandler (Guy/lady) close or not too far from my area that doesn't mind meeting new people or having a new friend can drop his/her no or contact me on 09077923199..so that we can catch fun or hang out once in a while.

Did you do these designs with Microsoft Word? Just wondering. This are extremely poor designs.. Why dont you take your time to learn and improve.

2kaybiel:
What you need to do now is what I can call Capacity Building you need to develop that.

Another thing is keep doing it like that (i.e making blunders when making public speech) be consistent and in the long run you will get your ground.

Thank you ...i always feel embarrassed and uncomfortable whenever i noticed that i have committed a blunder. Besides can you shed more light on "capacity building"?

I can speak English fluently to an extent and i can also write well. But my issue is.. I tend to make/commit some expression or grammatical errors mistakes anytime i speak publicly,although most of the time i speak it just few (grammatical /expression) errors sometimes unknowingly. I'm not a shy person although i have the trait of an introvert. But that doesn't stop me from speaking in public. Another issue i have is that, I do run out of points or ideas sometimes when i'm called to speak especially if it's impromptu.

I want to be eloquent and very fluent in English without making grammatical /expression errors and mistakes.

Sometimes i feel something is wrong with me. How can i be fluent and eloquent? How can i speak for a long time without committing grammatical /expression errors or mistakes?

Nice designs

Nonsense, A good and creative design doesn't come cheap. Op is confused. I pity any designer that takes that job.