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butanep:
your head dae there...

School was fun then... where someone won't look an the textbook but can recite the full book...

I'm telling ya

Jenepas:
Thanks. I know you're really worried about me but don't worry, my love ain't stupid or dangerous. I know my limit.

okay o,cool

Jenepas:
Thanks dear. I'm trying.

seriously,pls,d guy dnt love u,dnt u get it,dnt go and do d mistake. Of getting pregnant. For him o,he will leave ur sorry ass,those guys re like dat,especially in lagos here,be vry careful

sandrannna:
U look like a goat. Shave dat beard, it makes u look like a goat. M sorry.

Shave it and post another picture, u will be a bit handsome.

lol,u re nt good o

sinestro24:
your junior bro?
you can lie for africa my guy.

na him o

sinestro24:
what if the person you chose, you are not his type.
its a 2way stuff, remember

lol,its like that o

dharay88:

ßUSTED.

lol,busted for real

Jenepas:
Thanks dear.

He asked how I was and apologized for his late reply to my earlier msg because he didn't know what to say when I told him he can do what makes him happy because he's not happy about our break up. He has sent two msgs but I haven't replied.

I love him so much!

okay,just be careful noni and love with ur brain,nt ur heart

Jenepas:
I don't love this guy because I slept with him though. I slept with him because I love him. Not the other way round.

wait,what did this guy now said about not contacting u since,and what red reasons he gave,did he come back to be with u again,or destroy ur life once more,Abeg,I need reply to dis. P.s:dnt let any guy take u as an option in his life

grimandevil:
All she is saying is that she may not be a virgin till marriage. She wants to try out 2-3 guys max before settling down.

I keep saying it. If a kid of 16,18 yes talk about virginity I just laughter. Truth is guy can keep der virginity till marriage more than girls. Girls a been hit on constantly . so d think of sex more than guysguys.
Onila is your life but good thing is that now you know it isn't easy to keep it

gbagaun

onila:
after sometime now or anytime soon, I will have to deal with this

the fear and anxiety. I am going through now, I cant explain

I don't know if I will be the girl who sees sex as a sport or sex as no big deal. and have sex with 2 or three guys before I get married

or will I be the same Onila, who believe sex is sacred . and keep my virginity till I get married

all I can say now
I am just very grateful. I had the chance to think and know abt sex before I start having sex
I had the time to mature a little or see other girls experiences before getting into it

I have to start praying now, and ask him to direct me to make good decisions

thanks for reading, Onila

Love you all my Nairaland friends

my dear,keep ur virginity o,till marriage,guys outside now re nt smiling,they just want to ve d taste of it and dump u afterwards,be wise and keep urself

Mcbussy:
There's no need to say too much, d fact that she confessed and told u herself without u probing her suspicious movements shows that she loves u and her conscience pushed her to talk. Alot of girls do these things and feel no remorse...you don't wanna hear some crazy stories about cheating gfs.

If you start a proper relationship wif her, there's a high chance that she won't do it again. So I'll suggest u forgive her and make ur intentions for her official so that she'd be sure of her stand. Ladies easily get confused when they're unsure about their stand...and this is an example of what such confusion can lead to.

gbam,u re 100percent correct

publicenemy:
50k too much sef....






Just impregnate her,she will move into ur house free of charge...

lol

jboy73:
Mind how u shake your big head b4 it Falls to the ground o.

If e fall, nobody go help u jack am.

u re so irresponsible

HungerBAD:
That is why women should date MEN and not BOYS. Which serious man actually chats on phone?which man actually has the time to be typing away on a phone?MEN make calls and do not CHAT.

To the OP so what exactly did you expect from him in 6 months?to cut away all his past because he met you?people like keeping their options open, and he might still be craving for something from his EX you do not possess while still be hanging out with you. Who knows, there must have been something about you that keeps bringing him back since the relationship has not even gotten sexual.

You were single when he met you, you can also choose to go back to being a single lady as the choice is yours. But, as i always tell people, especially GIRLFRIENDS/WIVES and that is do not go snooping on your MAN'S phone as you will see things you are suppose to find,save yourself the headache.

Why did you go over his phone?why take the time to be reading all his private messages?he is not your husband, if i was him i would kick you out of the relationship for doing that.To be going through all his messages even shows your level of maturity and insecurity. And if you had slept with him you would have killed yourself? that line was funny.

You don't get it do you?9 out of 10 Nigeria ladies give sex freely like candies and that is why nobody takes you guys seriously, your friend he was flirting with probably has slept with him, you are not special.

Going through a man's private messages and coming here to do the cry baby thing. NONSENSE.

gbam,stop going into ur mans phone,if u dnt want problem for ur head,some things re better nt known

bukatyne:
I actually laughed aloud

me too

starlingslimnet:
What the heart can conceive

okay

jboy73:
Lil dip sh it

smh for u

Tolexander:
And these people will get home to tell their families and friends they went to swim!

Where is the swimming in this?

Is this swimming or people caught up by flood!

lol,true

MrsChima:
I bet that pool is filled with piss!

lol,inyama

johnnysmart:
Imagine, calling a gal on phone and after d long discussion, we both agreed 2 meet somewer later in d day...i came arnd on d agreed time, called her, she pleaded that i shud wait her 2 take her bath..i give in and demanded she call/flash me once ready...brother 4 ova one hour no shw, i called her again, she responded wit a polite voice dat she already on her way...i waitd in a closeby bar wit ma bootle of heineken 4 ova 2hours..omo dis gal dn Bleep ma style oo: dat was all dat was running in ma mind.
To cut d whole story short i leftd dat venue, on ma arrival 2 my houz i settled dwn nd cnt figure out wot wnt wrng, so i decided 2 call again only 4 her 2 tell me dat i was supposed 2 call concurrently 2 knw wether she wil mk it...imagine that

lol

Mykel4God:
I force you come here?

lol,abi

jboy73:
I don't have plans of marriage now.
I love babies not ladies.

Your advice is a long piss of sh it

men of dis days,smh

sandrannna:
She is ur baby mama, u r her baby papa.

How to prepare for the arrival of the baby?
1. Make a lot of money


2.covert her from baby mama to a legal wife b4 d arrival of the baby. Automatically u will be a baby daddy if u do dat.

3. Secure an apartment: u don't want ur baby to live with a friend of urs, ur family, ur cousin, do u want dat? No u don't. Get a befitting apartment where a new baby will modestly grow. Nt a face me I slap u where ur baby will be easily influenced by the things him/ her sees around.


5. Place ur intending wife on a monthly salary whether she is working or not: it will ginger her to luv u more. It will also show dat u r a caring husband to be. which woman nor like money?


At this stage u must av done the above, so she can be legally called ur wife.


Ur wife's job: she will get all the materials dat d baby needs. In fact we don't need to tell her, she knows the right thing to do.

lol true

booqee:
you got banned because of yourself. Mrcork is a fecking troll!! if you feed him you don enter one chance be that.. he's just a dark-skinned silly and funny troll who actually lives in mushin claiming london. Just come to his thread and laugh my dear

lol,I've started laughing even

McEwen:
Suzzielee

I dey o,mcewen,we don settle sha

starlingslimnet:
Truth is I don't get hurt...surprised? It's called emotional balance..... And if you don't wanna get hurt don't attach feelings to whatever your partner do or anybody does,hard? u might do the easy one then "Don't involve your heart in a Relationship"

hmmm,is dat possible,dear

major466:
I watch movies n read Bible. Nothing feels better than the Bible when u realise that every disapointment is a blessing in disguise.

yeah I think,its just best to move on

Teespice:
Obviously you did not see the sarcasm in the simple question I asked
smh.

I didn't noticed dat

Orijin101:
1. Bring friends along like Protocol officers.

Hmmm. . . I had that experience once with Folake, i met the biatch on Facebook and i later realized that she was not too far from my hood then we plan how we were gonna meet up. On that faithful day, in front of God and man, i had just N500 on me with the hope of spending just N400 for snacks and bottled water. . .

Exactly 5.30PM, i was awaiting her at the restaurant with a bottle of water on my table, sipping it with straw just like one mumu nairalander did the day he made a proposal to his babe.

Lo and behold, i saw Folake coming with gangs of friend just like Jesus Christ roaming the street of Jerusalem with his disciples. . . Jeeeez! I was dazed for some seconds and i thought within me, Orijin you have just N500 with you and you must feed these 7 hungry looking lions, what will you do?

Then i remembered the word of God which says "Blessed be to the servant whom applied wisdom", omo, na so i wisdomly sneak comot for the restaurant ooo. . .
Few minutes later, my phone started ringing, behold! It was Folake, and she was like, I'm already there, where are you? I replied, i will be with you in a jiffy, order the foods and drinks on me. . . The she-diot and her friend stupidly did that, 30 minutes later, my phone rang again but i declined her call and i replied her with a message saying "GOD PUNISH YOU!!!!!" switched off phone. . .

cc: wristwatch

lol,u re bad o

Jollyjoy:
Drchristian, correcturself,levul, suzzy16,kgbreast and the rest plz go and vote agarawu for mrnairaland.

tanx for d mention,dear

Teespice:
KFC, barcelos. name it, where do you want to go?

I would prefer kfc,bt I'm nt a freak for dat