₦airaland Forum

Slimzjoe:
You never Jam babe wey go Suspend her Fight to Face you

lol,true sha

starlingslimnet:
Sweetheart I think you are having malaria and I suggest you visit any nearby hospital for treatment.

lol

MrsChima:
Damn!

I just dnt like their ways,I'm hurt

AdeniyiA:
Any act against God's instruction or disobedience would ALWAYS end in regrets and self-guilt
ask Adam &Eve, I'm yet to have anyone tell me the real benefit of immoralities, in any form.
The one who regrets this act would still chase after anoda nd the vicious cycle of evil continues.
Devil is really working hard!

I'm telling ya

MrsChima:
Put on your full armor because manbishes will insult you.

let them start now,I will insult them all,those useless bastards of a men

Bleep guys abeg,they aren't worth it :'

angieberry:
Is this andyblaze?

ehn,lol

Finestlex:
How come the only Canadian I dated was full of shit. Am a Nigerian and I won't say am perfect. We all have good and bad sides but we must embrace both in someone we love. I broke up with my girl last month cos she's too proud of herself that she's Canadian and am not. She believes I need her and she doesn't need me. Of cos I can't be an option to anyone when I make you a priority. I never knew she was Canadian and never asked her, she told me. I couldn't cope with her feeling I only met her in order to have my papers. We barely dated couple of weeks and she asked me to get her pregnant so she could help me with papers. I told her I wasn't interested cos am not in a haste. Back then, whenever we have any argument, she'll tell me am so African. She sometimes say she hates black but she's a dependent of Jamaica. She's likes to be in charge. She asked me to move into her apartment and I said no, she told me I was staying at my place so I could cheat on her, I had my place before I met her. I perfectly understood we got different backgrounds but she wanted me to act Canadian when am not. Am just a year old here. Smiles. Still single and searching anyways.

good,dnt let any woman control how u live ur life for u

[quote author=sexylogan post=35049403][/quote]eish,u never said it well than dis

boganj:
OKAY yall i have been going wih this man for about 2 months and we were almost perfect from the start until thing start crashing down i although when we started dating i had no idea he was nigerian untill a week after us being together i never really cared to much because he seemed to be a great guy i also new that thing that he does was going to be different from thing i wasnt use to but i was willing to see pass that because i was really falling for this man he did everything i asked of him and vise versa he always wanted to be dominate and controlling almost possessive but i took it as he loved me which he did i tried to be very patient but he had a very bad temper which but a dent in our relationship i am 19 years old and he is 21 which he felt was a problem at first but we got passed it i started to really love him but his actions wouldnt let me he is very controlling insecure and sometime mindless he felt his word was always over mine because i was young and a american i actually dont put nigerians down because some of them are great just have to have patients to deal with them

all nigerian men re vry possessive and abusive,and they also treat their women vry bad,why dnt u try date a man frm ur own country

lindabon:
Muhahaha. . . .

I Wonder what happened to d OP and her 9ja bobo after every. . .

maybe they ve eventually broke up,who knws

I can't even see d thing well,lol

Jacksparrow0712:
Smart ass It's a he in a she profile Phukin troll

lol

onismate:
Oya my friends.... Make una read this tori tooo.. Lighternote chimaamaechi17 onatisi suzzy16 SkinnyDude JayJustus Soyedele1 johnsonsegxy Iamoilprince bimbofela honeric01 Moana tosynbolade Phema zeenhle BALLERON otokx

tanx for d mention and piece

Jenepas:
Very insensitive of them.

yeah

2dice:
Most ladies don't ve shishi to offer in a relationship ...So when the n!gga Hit the Jackpot ...what else *Contract-Terminated ..... On to the Next

wicked idea

littlemistress:
..simply because when you give others priority over your life, they feel so empowered!!

he feels in charge because the ladies makes him feels so.

too much attachment, attention & "i cant do without u attitude".

yeah,its like dat

McEwen:
hmmmmm

yeah,why did u said hmmm

onismate:
Lighternote chimaamaechi17 onatisi suzzy16 SkinnyDude JayJustus Soyedele1 johnsonsegxy Iamoilprince bimbofela honeric01 Moana tosynbolade Phema zeenhle BALLERON otokx


Have u people read this story?

I'm in already,lemme read it

McEwen:
same here sweety,wats ur schedule for today?

nothing,free for today,just lying on my bed and clutching on my pillow,lol

McEwen:
Maddest of all time!!!

lol,vry funny

McEwen:

okay,its raining and vry cold here

guardian09:
Me think it all boils down to exposure...as much as dating or going out between the sexes is a mutual agreement it will be expected that everything be spilt equally bills inclusive which is obtainable in the Western world, but this is unobtainable due to the following facts

1. A great percentage of Nigerian men see it as being less of a man if a lady picks up part or pays up the bill for a date. This is stemmed from the fact that in the typical African culture a male is seen as the provider for his family or the society which he exists. This makes it less likely for a lady to consider helping out in footing the bill to a date. This can be seen from the example given earlier by Whizqueen(I used to belong to this part of the spectrum until some years ago, that is believing it is wrong for a lady to help out at all).

2. Following the above stated fact a great percentage of ladies will see a lot wrong with footing the bill to a date therefore leave all to the menfolk which has sadly encouraged some ladies to be greedy sometimes asking for as much as 5 plates of food to take back home or come with her female friends when she did not tell the guy she will be coming with a friend/friends and the lady will not help foot the bill for the outing which clearly is wrong.

3.To prevent the above scenario playing out where a guy is considering not to spend too much on a date, he opts for asking the lady to his place for a date which he considers cheaper as he can at least be in control of what the lady orders or how much he spends. Sadly this can also be misconstrued by the lady that probably the guy wants sex after(which I wont blame her for as most guys this is what they want in actual fact).

To resolve this a first date in an open place eg Park,Zoo etc should suffice as I believe expenses will be kept low,with both sexes picking the bill if they so agree to that. This will offer an opportunity for both sexes to get to know more about themselves rather than worry about who pays for what or its too expensive or does he want sex by inviting me to his place etc.

My 2 Kobo

I agree vry well with ur number 3

McEwen:
you my e-baby now,i like u no be small
kingtom can testify to this also

lol,tanx for d likeness then

tpiadotcom:
why are two guys talking to each other in coloured cursive font?

three guys, if you count italics.

u also sabi dat,imagine

angieberry:
I'm an average Nigerian girl. I don't have those tendencies.
Again, the wrong girls.

thank u,and me too o,I dnt knw why they keep generalizing sha

AgapeCharis:
[color=#27408B]I beg to differ miss. An average Nigerian girl has leeching and gold-digging tendencies. Some leech consciously as in intentionally milking a guy's pocket while the others just see it that it's a guy's responsibility to foot her bills.[/color]

smh at dis post,nt all Abeg

McEwen:

lol,why re u following me about

Jollyjoy:
like seriously? U asked a gal out and u sure expected her to pay her bills? Infact u are nt serious! So why hammering "it a man's world" mtheeew uhu? Common bill o.

gbam

Jollyjoy:
aren"t u ashamed ?

lol

Teempakguy:
If I invite a girl on a date, I will pay all the bills.

good guy