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euromilion: I was driving through a bridge in Dublin City Centre on a cold winter nite of temperature in the minus, I saw huge crowd of people gathering with police and other emergency services, I then stopped to find out what d matter is!.

I discovered that a young woman felt suicidal and jumped in, fortunately, one man out of over 200 on looker went in to save this girl before d rescue team could arrive unfortunately she died the next morning. This got me to ask this question. . . .

Please no lying here if you can't then you can't, if you can then you can. For me I can't. Better don't respond than to lie please.

Can u jump in to save her knowing fully well that she jumped in intentionally and beside you don't know who she is. can u jump in to save her ?

rimzo: Is it proper as a father to ask your daughter (above 18) if she as never have sex before.

I'm talking of the girl child still under your roof as a single girl.

euromilion: I was driving through a bridge in Dublin City Centre on a cold winter nite of temperature in the minus, I saw huge crowd of people gathering with police and other emergency services, I then stopped to find out what d matter is!.

I discovered that a young woman felt suicidal and jumped in, fortunately, one man out of over 200 on looker went in to save this girl before d rescue team could arrive unfortunately she died the next morning. This got me to ask this question. . . .

Please no lying here if you can't then you can't, if you can then you can. For me I can't. Better don't respond than to lie please.

Can u jump in to save her knowing fully well that she jumped in intentionally and beside you don't know who she is. can u jump in to save her ?

dokunbam: my wife let us grow old together

Atandav: the badt guy use him money finish.

binger: This is soooo Cute! Makes me wanna get married now!

RudySmith: @OP
In my opinion, online flirting and the real thing is the same thing. The only different is that they haven't found the time 2 meet yet.

greatgod2012: In my opinion, online cheating can actually become physical cheating, because, it may lead to unconsciuos closeness between them, and d two parties may become crazy over each other, which may lead to having to arrange on how to meet physically, and once they meet physically, nothing but real cheating will be involved, so if anybody claims to love his/her partner, he should be able to stay thru thick and thin and stop hypocrisy. I see online chatting as hypocrisy, because he will have to deny his marital status to d person online. To me, it is not a good thing and should not be encouraged. It can lead to emotional disturbance to d spouse.
Thank God for d woman who is comported enough to confront her hubby, but how do we know d hubby was actually saying d truth?


**If u want to be faithful, be faithful, dont add hypocrisy to ur faithfulness.**

CrazyMan: I came across a story where a pregnant woman accused her husband of cheating on her.

Her words..." [b] I needed to use the computer and when I got it out of sleep mode there it was... A chat session my husband was having with some 20something year old girl.

They were flirting a lot and he called her honey. I was going to leave him... but then i decided not to run away.. I decided to confront him.

When he got home from work I straight up asked him if he was cheating on me. He said no that he had been talking to her for a few weeks and it was nothing physical.

He said that he had been feeling lonely (since i was on bedrest) and she filled that void. I think that statement hurt me the most.

I think it would of hurt less if he said it was just physical pleasure over the net rather than saying it was filling an emotional void. Anyways... He quit chatting online and I thought everything was good.

Then i found pics on his computer. Not sexy pics but pictures of girls he met online. They were older pics from when we were dating... but then I started to think ...How long has he been doing this?

He doesn't think its cheating... To me it is. I confronted him about the pics and he deleted them and said they were old from before we got married.... He didn't say before we were dating...but before we got married.

He told me I had nothing to worry about that he wasn't chatting with girls online and that after i confronted him last time that he "recommited himself to me" That statement alone upsets me.

Do i have a right to be concerned?? Before this I never would have even worried... now its been about 7 months and i am always wondering.. Am i crazy to be worried? " [/b]

I read the story, and some questions came into my mind...

Is flirting on the net cheating the same thing as cheating...?

Why do most women over react when they notice that their husband has an online lover?

Is it right for a married man to have an online lover, with no physical contact...(eg a married Nigerian man, flirting online with a lady in Germany)

pleep: If you mean seriously dating two 2 women at the same time i never do this, i just cant love two girls at once.

and i dont talk to women who are talking to other dudes... it is a very good way to filter out the real ladies.

rodeo0070: Owing to my mistake in the past, its a no-no for me.

rodeo0070: Well, I don't wanna to toot my horn here, but...

didadavid: I heard some guys discussing how they chat up a girl via the above medium, invite her home, copulate with her and thats the end. They pick up another girl and the circle goes on.

I think most of the people on these online chatting apps flirts with the people of the opposite gender. Its like this: Guy adds her, she accepts, guy invites her, she goes to see him, guy bleeps her, guy never calls again, girl is worried for a short period, girl jumps on another guy, guy jumps on another girl, the game goes on.


What would you do if your partner is addicted to these apps.

S'y my absence from these apps. Is my motion about them wrong? Is there any other thing they do other than this?

Posman: THIS IS ONE OF THE BEST CREATIVITY I'VE SEEN SO FAR!

k2039: Her picture please.


Om matter s arising dont try to date the both of them,remeber they are close friends,if you attempt to date them,it will boomerang and you have all to lose.


Just tell the sturborn girl you have moved on and u have a gf.

binger: IMO, sexiness has nothing to do with the face. So,by being sexy,these 3 parts of a woman's body must be s3xually attractive- Boobs,Arsse and An Hour-glass figure