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Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

can you listen to yourself? You did your best and it's not good enough, he keeps comparing you with his exes or other ladies yet you are still there, he never appreciates you yet you keep pushing. Either you are jobless or don't know your worth. You are begging for love that doesn't exist and allowing yourself being used as trash. I can't help but imagine how used you are. My dear face your life and never beg to be loved. A man that values you would celebrate you no matter how little you offer him. He won't compare you with others and if he does it is to celebrate you. Get a job keep yourself busy make yourself worthy for others and not begging for love. You will find the right man out there that truly sees you as an angel. Not one that see you as a leech or nuisance. Go to were you'll be celebrated not Tolerated. A word is enough for the wise.

CoronaVirusPro:
Fubara will go and bulldoze the state ministry of justice anytime soon!

Fubara will be taught a lesson he will never forget!

Verified sources even has it that, he is planning to demolish the engineering faculty of RSUST because the Dean is an adherent supporter of Nyesom Wike.

who would teach him a lesson? You or Wike? For your information Wike is dying political man in Rivers State

Dumbass

They're lots of them... One particular one that scammed my husband EUC homes and Edge homes...

primitive folks

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I hate that word Biafra with passion. Any entity clamoring for the break up of Nigeria should be treated as an enemy of the state. This is why we sane nigerians support the continuous incarceration of Nnamdi Kanu

you mean insane Nigerians. Is Nigeria a working entity? How have Nigeria benefitted you since you were born? A country you cannot express your full rights and be forced to follow foolish idiots as leaders either by vote or thuggery. I don't wish for breakup either but I strongly wish for restructuring which can only be achieved by violent struggle until our corrupt leaders are all eliminated. So for now Biafra is going to trend until our leaders start getting things right. As for Nnamdi Kanu he has made his voice heard and either ways inspired people to know that Nigeria is Failed Zoo. Then as for the fool and APC sponsored Simon Ekpa his time will come.

Truth be told democracy wasn't designed for Africa. Naturally an African man has an entitlement mentality, give an African man a cup of tea he would drink the tea and seize the cup. An African man would turn power into a tool for oppression. An African man has no respect for institution as long as it doesn't favor him. An African man would turn laws into what suites man, he would bend the constitution to favor him. An African man believes power is a right forgetting it is a privilege. In short Africa man is worse than a bloody white Racist.

CoronaVirusPro:
Exactly!

The US consulate and UK High Commission are already putting pressure on Nigeria to include tribe on our Nigerian travel transport. One of the cogent reasons they gave was that, it will enable them in tracking-down criminals. They also emphasized about how their statistics has shown that, a particular tribe in Nigeria is highly involved with crime and drug trafficking.

yes you are right because Yorubas are being profiled as internet criminals and cyber crimes I actually witnessed it Barking police station UK early this year when I went for a seminar. Yorubas are being profiled in the UK because they are being seen as Cyber Criminals

Quick Disclaimer: I'm not an employee or affiliated to any loan company operating in Nigeria or anywhere else in the world.

I've read so many threads both here and other media outlets about how online money lenders also known as loan sharks go about harassing their defaulters with threatening calls and demeaning messages some even go as far as sending messages to their contacts calling them criminals on the run or wanted persons. Even though I strongly object to this cruel and barbaric method of recovery but the question still remains why collect from these sharks in the first place?
Most Nigerians are terrible debtors if given the opportunity to access a credit facility, many people borrow with no intention of paying back, some see these loan money as free money even though most of them come with outrageous interests. I have even recieved messages on my phone telling me someone used me as a guarantor I called and ask how come why didn't you call me first to know whether I can even stand as one in the first place? The person told me he didn't use me that they just got my contact and sent it. I ask him did you give them permission to access your contacts he said yes. Then why blame them. When you knew you couldn't pay back their loan at the stipulated time why did you go ahead to collect it.
Money business is a serious business when you borrow money from faceless people with no intention of paying back at the stipulated time you are inviting trouble, because they can do anything to you, even if you take them to court they judge will ask you why you borrowed money from them knowing fully well they can harm you with threatening messages. It's like going to sleep with a prostitute without paying of course you know the prostitute can harm you or embarrass you, that time who will come to your rescue or who'll you cry to? Maybe you will come to Nairaland and ask for advice on how a prostitute harassed you because you didn't pay her after having sex. That's the exact same thing that happens when you borrow money from online loan sharks without intent of repayment. Any harassment you get from them is well deserved because you asked for it by agreeing to their terms and conditions in the first place

In conclusion, if you have to borrow money, borrow from a reliable source you know that won't threaten you or harm you even if you default. Don't borrow from a faceless organization thinking that they'll understand your plight and sympathize with you if you default. Like I said earlier money business is a serious business.

Cheers*

A friend of mine called and told me that a business is on ground, that her cousin in Ghana wants to bring in some money in Nigeria and they need a trusted accomplice. I ask how much she said about 2million dollars. My mind immediately went to scam but just to play along I sent someone to check out the business the person called me and told me that he's with them that for the business to work I have to bring 2million and the money is protected, he said that the person brought out a black note washed it in hiding and brought out 100 dollars. He told me that the black note is worth 2.5 million dollars that for me to get the whole money I should pay 1.5million naira. The gave me a security paper to verify. Immediately I confirmed they were scammers but I want them to be exposed. Below is a picture of the waiver...

Please Mods kindly move this to FP. Because I want those criminals exposed

DevilsEqual:
So u voted APC.

Na hypocrite una be like Kete henshaw like u


I just pity mumu obidients who dey follow troll Apc politicians thinking their man is a saint

I didn't vote APC because I'm not from Imo state my husby did. Besides my PVC is in Abj registered

CilicMarin:
E pain am

na u wey need help. I'm even celebrating Hope's Victory because he's a family friend and guess what we are in Owerri currently lodged at Protea hotel. His administration benefits me wella I'm working in Abj because of Hope😝

Igboslayer:
Werey Wetin be the end result? Bitter say we lose Lagos and Abuja and still win the General election and also defeated your woman voice candidate in court.

You are the one that’s bitter instead. Pele, I know the thing no easy… stop fooling around like the thing no pain you. Awon Werey gbogbo.

See your ugly face like youngyduuu own.
Una mind no go reach ground Aje!

see this clown. For your info hope uzodinmma is a family friend of ours so I'm even benefiting very well more than you!

CilicMarin:
Twice beaten..

diss all you can the joke is on you

Igboslayer:
Werey, which table dey turn. Igbos are fargone on political relegation in Nigeria. Continue doing your yeye ELUPPPEEEEE thing and see for yourself. People face front na back igbo people face.

you are only bitter because Peter Obi defeated Tinubus ass in Lagos and Abj.

franchasofficia:
It is so worrisome and at the same shameful how modern Yoruba youths of today have become lovers and supporters of iniquity.



Why do Yoruba youths of today love injustice and support anything against positivity?


Why do Yoruba youths of today support evil even when they know something or someone is evil they prefer to always support and align with that which is known as evil?


Is there any Nigerian alive today that doesn't know that Imo State Governor Hope Uzodinma is the worst Governor in Nigeria who is also hated by Imo State indigenes and more interestingly Hope Uzodinma is the only Nigerian Governor that is hated by his own community.



Hope Uzodinma comes from Orlu in Imo State, Orlu is a no go area in Imo state as Hope Uzodinma have used federal sponsored security and his personally created Ebube Agu regional security outfit to kill and maim lives of his own Orlu indigenes such that majority of young ladies in Orlu are now widows who have lost their husbands to Hope Uzodinma's sponsored bullets.



For none Imo indigenes to know, Hope Uzodinma doesn't visit his hometown even as a ruling state Governor because his community people have burnt down his private residence in Orlu and have vowed to avenge all the evil he has perpetrated in their community but here are Yorubas cheering Hopeless Uzodingba using state sponsored security, thugs and heavily influenced INEC to massively rig elections all over Imo state even though majority of Imo indigenes already lost hope in INEC and already knew that Hope Uzodinma and APC will use every means to rig the election and announce Hopeless Uzodinma as the winner.



Yoruba people continue supporting evil, the evil you all are supporting today will come back to you, life is more spiritual, mysterious than the politics of hate, division and conquer you all think you are playing now and winning, time will teach you modern Yorubas the bitter lesson of life.



Majority of your forefathers chose the path of justice and peace which helped your region to become one the most peaceful regions in Nigeria, but you modern Yorubas brainwashed by a certain criminal politician think supporting and following injustice and criminality is the way, we shall see to it.

They are not Yoruba youths they're paid APC agents

This should not be tribalized but you mischievously brought it up because it has to do with your Igbo stereotypes learning apprentice

Lol I smell conspiracy against hope. And for the fact Lukman said Hope betrayed Tinubu in the last Selection I am not surprised

FreeStuffsNG:
If the part allegedly played by HE Hope Uzodimma is true then those widespread massively rigged 'Agulu results' rigged against the President all over Igboland, as rightly suspected, was because of the half-hearted commitment of APC South East, to getting their party's Presidential candidate elected.

Though election is now gone and the President is focused on governance, the party will learn a lot by ensuring that the Asiwaju Tinubu tenure is not sabotaged by politicians who are not loyal to the party.

Just the allegation that a Nigerian of Southern extraction, Igbo Governor HE Hope Uzodimma, opposed the ambition of Asiwaju Tinubu and worked for the emergence of former Senate President Lawan , a Nigerian of Northern extraction, to succeed President Muhammadu Buhari, patriotic Nigerian of Northern extraction who genuinely wanted Presidency to go South, is really revealing.

It's truly revealing because at the same time HE Hope Uzodimma was allegedly working for the emergence of Senate President Lawan, his fellow Igbo who are top APC Igbo Leaders and Presidential aspirants like his HE Orji Uzo Kalu and HE Ogbonanya Onu were literally blackmailing the rest of other APC faithfuls that it was fair to cede the ticket to the South East.

As a matter of fact, that night, HE Ogbonanya Onu used very strong words to blackmail others on the APC Presidential manifesto Primary night. He didn't come straight with the rest of us that all the blackmail was an attempt to block Asiwaju Tinubu so that a dark horse like Senator Lawan will emerge to lose against an Alhaji Atiku in the main election and thus make 16 straight years of Nigerian President of Northern extraction a fait accompli. So that cry HE Orji Kalu was crying that the APC was unjust against Igbo was to benefit Senator Lawan and dash PDP's Atiku the Presidency. Smh

They must have thought the South West folks are naive enough to buy the PYO option they were dangling as if we don't know that Asiwaju Tinubu lokan. Smh.

That book will be very interesting. I will urge the author not to relent, he must keep appealing to those he needs their help to find the favour of Mr President.

Right now, APC has election to win in Imo, Kogi and Bayelsa states this Saturday. We will come back to this book after the APC's '3 over 3' victory lap. Check my signature for free stuffs!

useless lamentations.. see how you are talking as if politics is about loyalty? When Tinubu worked against Jonathan including the whole SW for a Fulani man Buhari did u lament? Interest is what politics is all about

Deltancapo:
The price Palestine is paying Igbo will soon start from there imminently.

See a tribe that cannot survive without forcing themselves on other claiming to be Israel African.

Igbo should be ashame of themselves.

wow, after what happened during the civil war yet Igbos are stronger. I think you are they bigger coward here start by fighting off those UGM in your region then maybe we can take u serious

garriAndsugar:
Hope when they misbehave you will caution them because I noticed you yorubas support anything from Yoruba even if it's a goat

fantastic reply

One sided story

AutoConsult:
What a stup!d post! You lots are just brain dead.

very stupid post

Wujio:
If you dont want to maintain loyalty in life, climb up yourself without help. Returning loyalty must not be questioned after gifts and promotion have been received.

loyalty must be a personal business not a government business

Wujio:
Everyone needs to stop assuming Wike is wrong. All thats happening may make him appear guilty, but he couls just be trying to avoid what Okowa did to Ibori. You cant take out the foundation that eas used to raise you up, rather you consolidate resources for improvement not try to clean the ground

I find it difficult to believe that a human being wrote this? So someone should be a slave because of another's selfish interest abi? Honestly na Military fit Africa

someone here on Nairaland once said by next year Tinubu and Wike will exchange blows in Aso villa. I think is fast approaching. Very soon Wike will tell us he sucked Tinubus balls just to minister

Hehehe banana republic

This dude is even worse than airforce1 when it comes to inferiority complex

this drunken fool has been humbled

Honestly this goat needs a job. After all his trash write up yet Tinubu hasn't given him any appointment?

Urheadmaster:
Before he was impeached or before the impeachment

no more impeachment