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The reason behind failed relationships and marriages is simply the popular advice: "Follow Your Heart"

A failed relationship is not necessarily one that ends in break-up, enduring one is not far-fetched.

How can you tell me to follow my heart when you don't even know the content of it?
Many things influence a person's reasoning including background, environment, up-bringing, peer, religion etc..., all these eventually establishes a psychological citadel.

Now, When i follow my heart, which allows me to fall in love with a guy out of pity, because i feel the guy shouldn't be passing through what he is, then, the relationship deserves to break.

If i want to go into a relationship because i want to take a revenge on a guy, without telling you, you advice me to follow my heart? Hmmnn

This is the point, Never tell anyone to follow his/her heart because may be responsible for the outcome of the relationship!

The heart can be influenced and manipulated either for good or bad.

Only God knows the human heart.

As honest and harmless it sounds, be careful before you Follow Your Heart.

three things for you OP, and this is not a joke:

- give your life to Christ

- take responsibility and face the consequences boldly (making sure you keep the lady and her baby until marriage)

- get a job quick.

OP, are you a learner virgin?

ajayioluwatobi: 1- Try not be so ugly". (make ur outfit nice).
2- Try not be as much of a Arrow".
3- Get a nice ride".
4- Learn how to lie to a girl, but sound sincere".
5- Become awesome".
It really is that simple.........

op, ur post is conflicting ur signature.

what a shame? the things that used to make people cry and hide their faces is now being celebrated openly?

why?

hmmnn 3rd

Petraman: Although all of these set of people are heartless, but who among them is d most heartless?
1. A man who takes ten different girls for abortion four four times;
2. A lady who has done abortion to d extent dat her womb is removed;
3. A man who engages himself in carrying children for ritualists to perform rituals

they are not heartless, they are 'Godless'!

who has seen season four? what's d latest? break-ups?

Feraz: I wouldn't say I'm very familiar with the characters in glee but they all have wonderful voices......the last I watched was when rachel had admission into the musical school or university and they bade her farewell and finn and rachel cried......

i think that's d last episode of season 3! really touching!

[quote author=Gifted_hands]I realy admire Sue Sylvester character. I love d endless rift btw her and William Shuester...i like it when she teases shuester curly hair, in her tone *U knw wat Shu, i can't stand it seeing wandering spirits of some innocent chicks on ur hair, u make me wanna puke!*[/quote]

chiboy1928: vivian u are the kinda of lady I have been looking for were have u been,can't wait to met u,u are the most wisest person I have seen in dis country the rest girls Are wash.pls holla me BB 22AFBC88 or 08062251431. Would love us to build a serious relationship tanx and merry xmas.

vivian deserves more than this na! bros tochukwu!

mosho2good: Glee is one of my best tv series and. Wat I luv most about d movie is d muzik and I lyk racheal a lot she's a good artist

i couldn't agree more! racheal is d best, but i just enjoy seeing those crazy roles by puckerman!

do u watch it on tv? i had to download seasons one to three...waiting for the completion of season four!

Have you seen any season or episode of glee? what do you think?

Most secular music lovers will definitely love the series.

Lots of twist and turns in the movie.....great one indeed.

I've seen seasons one to three...i think four is being worked on currently!

what are your opinions?

when his mates were reading!

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PayWell: Suzuki is rugged. I changed from toyota to suzuki and i can tell you authoritatively that, cost of maintenance is almost zero. It has a lot of in-built fail-safe mechanisms. Its my 1st,2nd and 3rd choice anyday. lol.

pls i need more details.... did u buy the suzuki new? how much was it? and what model?

hehehe

Valiantvaliant: well 'Yakubu' is my surname, i couldn't just watch and pass. I felt insulted so i had to take it personal.

it was on a lighter note na! hahahaha yakubu

YAKUBU (Ya-ku-bu)
Ya*ku*bu, Ya*ku*bu*ed, Ya*ku*bus

1. To utterly squander once-in-a-lifetime opportunities, especially one that will cause pain to/mourning among millions of people

2. To mistake a platter of gold for a potty, and to go ahead and defecate all over it, while millions watch in distress, dread and disbelief

3. To be presented with an open door of success and to woefully fail to step in

4. To lack the zest, fervor, and drive to complete the easiest of tasks

5. To fail awfully at a very easy and uncomplicated task

(Etymology: Derived from Yakubu Aiyegbeni’s horribly missed opportunities during Nigeria’s lackluster performance against South Korea at the 2010 Soccer World Cup)

Usage:

"Mrs. Marriage Counselor, I am terribly pained! It was our wedding night! I was ready. . .But. . . But. . .He didn’t know what to do! I tried to help, but he Yakubu’ed!”

"All she needed to do was show up and the get the job that was waiting for her – Guess what? She Yakubu’ed the opportunity.”

Prayer: "Father, may I not Yakubu any door You open in my life in Jesus name!"

Example of the pain/mourning referenced in #1 above: “Yakubu! My unborn child won't forgive him” (Source: Acidosis)

Synonyms:

1. Waste foolishly
2. Fritter away
3. Dissipate casually
4. Lose effortlessly
5. Waste pipe (Source: chi-baby's papa!)

OTHER MEANINGS AND DERIVATIVES

[b]YAKUBUOLOGY (Ya-ku-bu-o-lo-gy)
n. Ya*ku*bu*o*lo*gy

A situation where family demons travel long distance (no visa required) with a person, wait for that individual’s moment of glory, and strike that person with a persistent lack of common sense.
Usage: “That man Yakubus from time to time. That’s why nothing works for him!”

YAKUBU (Ya-ku-bu)
n. Ya*ku*bu, Ya*ku*bu*ed, Ya*ku*bus

Sociology: A situation where the ghastly performance of ONE individual triggers large-scale cases of hypertension, screaming, collapsing, sighing, and sometimes, extended periods of loss of appetite among OTHER people in the society. Please note: The perpetrator remains perfectly healthy.

YAKUBU (Ya-ku-bu)
n. Ya*ku*bu, Ya*ku*bu*ed, Ya*ku*bus

When an individual or organization capitulates or fails to perform the least of its expected duties
Usage: "I'm pissed the bank is Yakubued; how am I supposed to get some money now?!"
(Source: OgidiBoy)

OTHER USES

"Afolabi is a Yakubu waiting to happen! Etuhu, Shittu, Ayila? All of them are Yakubus waiting to happen. Tragic!"

Kx: Divorce Gown, not divorce wedding gown imo

hahaha no mind d grammar school graduate #nooffence#

Nwa oguta: Make una give me d cake 2taste i dey hungry.

i do not wish that for you oo

Abujafood: It would have been better if the groom pushed the bride! If you catch my drift Say hell yeah!

hell nah!

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]thank u [/quote]happy birthday

if i tell this woman what's on my mind, this post will be hidden!

lafflaff123: @mod so becky and livi are disqualified?regret voting for Livi anyway after I witnessed all the drama that went down hours ago.

So can I revote afresh?or need to replace just those two?

Saw myself and Rokiatu in my dream running around with our 8 kids in our own little garden.

Rokiatu, I nearly spoilt my phone and computer in the night turning them upside down just incase your dress will slip down a little.

Rokiatu what do you say about us having a NEPA-LITE DINNER?or we can have the ATUKPA-LITE DINNER?atukpa is the local kerosine light in Nigeria. Me and you staring at the sky together,holding hands while we eat our Ijebu Garri with Agoyin beans. Romantic right?

*gives him a knock*
wake up boy, u're bedwetting already

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Finals will be on front page tomorrow morning.

This will be hotly contested.
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can't wait...[size=3pt]as per alumnus/ex-beauty queen[/size]

Obinoscopy: G1: Sweetlemon

G2: Tashamania

G3: Livialives

G4: Achukwunet

G5: Itsmodella

I had wanted to marry one wife buh now I'm kinda confused

smh

the cake designer must be a woman with a lot of heartbreak from her man! feel for her.