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EducationToo Expensive To Fail - Ufot Ekong: The Akwa Ibom Born Academic Celebrity by tabisegroup(op): 8:42am On Aug 24, 2015
I might be too long but u need to read it.
TOO EXPENSIVE TO FAIL - UFOT
EKONG
A STORY OF HIS LIFE AS TOLD BY UFOT
EKONG, THE AKWA IBOM BORN ACADEMIC
CELEBRITY
April 2009 at a young age of 19 years, I set off
from Nigeria to Japan on a journey to accomplish
a goal I had no idea how I was going to achieve.
To some unrealistic, to others ambiguous. One
thing for sure is I was determined that I had what
it takes. After a 23 hours flight, I arrived in Japan,
as I enjoyed and admired the bullet trains that
took me from Osaka airport to Central Tokyo
Shinjuku. I could not but worry about how English
was literally not used or spoken by Japanese
people. Well, all I did was pray to God.
I arrived Tokyo trying to get direction to the Tokai
University station, all the Japanese people I
approached could not understand English then it
struck me, I was in trouble, and the language
problem was deeper than I had expected or
imagined.
After settling down at the international
residence、my first trip to the supermarket gave
me a shocker, the price of 8 slices of bread was
¥120 approximately 200 naira. Then I knew
money was going to be another problem. With
two major problems, I knew the journey to my
goal was going to be a tough one but I
remembered the bible phrase “The battle belongs
to the Lord”. So I set myself to achieve this goal.
I enrolled into the language school for the
intensive Japanese course which is designed/
structured to teach students enough Japanese
language both grammar and spoken, for tertiary
education. After a year or maximum 2 years,
you're expected to compete with Japanese
students that have had 12 or more years of
uninterrupted education in Japanese language.
The language school was hectic, we had writing
and grammar tests every day, and many take-
home assignments. So for 1 year you're supposed
to just focus on nothing but Japanese. It was
difficult to do social media interactions or call
friends and relatives. Although it was stressful, I
could see my progress so I was enjoying the
learning process. When I had problems
understanding, I called on the new friends I had
made in School especially Japanese girls. (Never
mind I kept it professional.)
After the 1st semester I could speak a little
Japanese and write about 200 characters but
another major problem was back I had no money!
I lost my father in 2005; we are a family of
seven. At that time four of us were studying
abroad, New York, Scotland, London and Tokyo
sponsored solely by our mother (a widow) Even if
my mother was a millionaire, it would be a
difficult effort paying all our tuition. We all had to
work through school but she pushed us because
she wanted the best for us. It was certain I had
to find a source of finance but my university was
in a suburb, unlike Tokyo where one could find
English speaking part time jobs. I had a Nigerian
senior in his 3rd year at the same university he
was also working and schooling, He could speak
fluent Japanese, so once in a while I went to eat
Nigerian food at his house, seek some advice or
refresh my mind. He was willing to lend a hand
and keep me focused.
I applied for many jobs, I can’t count but I went
for 56 interviews and never got hired. Don’t ask, I
was depressed but the fact I had seen someone
that could do it, I never gave up instead during
summer break August/September, I bought 3
textbooks including writing textbooks and I
decided to read and learn more because the
reason I was not hired was mainly due to my
poor Japanese ability. Although it was holiday, I
would email my teacher for clarification where I
had difficulties my teacher would come to school
just to teach me in her office so I finished the 3
books and asked her to administer tests from the
books.
In September 2009 when the 2nd semester began,
I was promoted to the 5th class from the 11th
class where I started in April at the language
school, a sign of progress and then the
breakthrough came, and I got my first part time
job. I got the job at Yamato Transport, the
biggest private shipping company in Japan. It
was a hectic and power-demanding job but I
could have some kind of income the salary was
not good enough so I had to get a second job
and I got one at McDonald’s. Now, studies
became my top priority so I had to balance two
jobs and school, the faster I improved my
Japanese proficiency together, the earlier I could
start an undergraduate school.
I couldn’t afford to fail or not make good grades
because failure meant an extra semester for four
months, that would cost me about ¥700,000 or
more (about a million Naira) this was the
beginning of my struggle and hustle. I needed
money to eat and live but I could not afford to
fail.
A basic weekday I went to school from 9am till
4pm, soon after I would rush catch a bus from
the bus-stop to McDonald’s from 5pm -11pm.
After McDonald’s I would get home do some
assignments, sleep for 1 or 2 hours and by 1am I
will be off to the shipping company job from 2am
to 6am. I'd get home by 7am shower, take a
short nap with multiple alarm clocks and by
9:20am I’m back in School. This was the same
cycle all through 2009 to 2010. Throughout 2010
I had no day off; I worked 365 days even on
Christmas day.
In 2009, when I won the Japanese language
speech contest I was informed that if I completed
language school with the best results my first
year in the undergraduate course would be on
free scholarship. I was motivated, I had to read
more and remain top of the class. Again I could
not afford to fail; I needed the scholarship to
relieve me of the stress from work. I was going
through so much at that time, "stereotyping" at
work, unfair treatment and all these things for
personal reasons I will omit. However, I realized
that if I was the best in whatever I did stereotype,
racism, discrimination and many more would not
have an effect on me. Having this thought in my
head, I stayed focused.
In July 2010, I completed the Japanese language
course as the best student got the scholarship
and in September I finally enrolled into an
undergraduate course in electrical electronics
engineering. The first year was a bit difficult the
classrooms were big with over a hundred students
compared to the language school, I had to sit in
the front row so I could see the writings on the
board and hear the lecturers clearly. I had to
leave for school early which meant less sleep
from my already few hours’ sleep every day. My
apartment was 3 minutes away from school.
Thank God!
All my days in undergraduate I was top of my
class but even my classmate especially Japanese
never knew they would be asking around who
was the 1st position but only my close friends
knew. Anyhow I was always too tired to bother
myself with such discussions. In my second year,
I solved a mathematical equation that had been
unsolved for many years. My undergraduate days
were a bit better because I could schedule my
lectures for afternoons and sleep in the mornings
after night work compared to the years in
language school. Throughout the four years as an
undergraduate, I got partial scholarship because I
was top of the class thus my fees amounted to
about ¥600,000 a year (about a million Naira) so
If I wasn’t top of the class of 170 people my fees
would have been impossible to pay.
From 2nd year I started an event called
International Friday Night, an event that had more
than 500 guests and was highly rated within and
outside my university. So I had to deal with work,
event and schooling. The event was however a
source of joy. I produced the show for 2 years
with a team of close friends from the end of 3rd
year, I started research and building of the
electric car. My hands were full, I had part time
job, event, lectures and research to deal with. I
will exclude other affiliations that are minor. Up
till date that was the most challenging period of
my life. I got a 1 year scholarship from Rotary
International Club with a monthly stipend. With
this, I could reduce my working hours which I
substituted for research.
We built a working electric car, it was beautiful!
My other researches were making progress and in
September 2014, I graduated with a 1st Class in
electrical electronics engineering as the Best
Engineering Student and an Overall Best
Graduating Student. Many ask how did it feel ? I
was excited I had successfully finished and
achieved stage one of my ultimate goal to get a
PHD. I was so tired, four days after I was
scheduled to start my Master’s degree. My
fianceé and many others wanted me to go out
and celebrate but I refused because for the first
time in 6 years, I wanted to sleep for more than 7
hours without an alarm clock.
My family, friends, associates and many more
celebrated me. Most people, who just heard my
story in May 2015, wonder why I didn’t get the
news out. Honestly, personally nothing has
changed. I finished stage 1 Masters and PHD still
remaining. I still have to work and school. I have
more responsibility than ever with more
undergraduate junior students researching under
me at the laboratory. On January 1st 2015, I co-
founded an online based African accessories retail
store with my fiancée called “Strictly African
Japan” Some media reports said I work at
Nissan, at the moment I do not. They also
reported I have two patents to my name, I don’t
rather. I have been at the top of research teams
that have produced two or more patents.
However, I cannot take all the glory because it
would be unfair to many of my peers who also
worked hard to make it a reality.
I received more than 500 messages from
Nigerians around the world, I really do appreciate
it I still have 5 years of education till I finish my
PhD in 2019 and I will do my best not to let you
down and keep the flag flying. I can’t afford to
fail because failure is too expensive.
The struggle and hustle continues but I'll rather
suffer 10 years and enjoy more than 50 years
ahead. I hope to finally move back home probably
to my home town Akwa Ibom State, Nigeria to
join hands and build our nation to where it ought
to be. Let me conclude that if we had the same
learning environment like Japan we are capable
of doing greater things. Nigerians are determined
and hardworking people that’s my message and
the image I intend to leave here.

PoliticsRe: It’s Difficult To Recover Nigeria’s Stolen Money Stashed Abroad —US Ambassador by tabisegroup(m): 10:16pm On Aug 23, 2015
Ok
PoliticsRe: PDP Forced Me To Sign Fake Results–abia North Returning Officer by tabisegroup(m): 9:54pm On Aug 23, 2015
Happiness87:
see stupidity

if PDP can force you to sign fake results, APGA can as well force you to testify on their behalf
Am falling for u more n more
RomanceRe: This Is The Kind Of Man All Ladies Want ( Photo) by tabisegroup(m): 9:15pm On Aug 23, 2015
donholy28:
That was then nowadays they want a guy they will escape with from d lion in private jet....saying oh baby that lion almost killed us but let's crash at banana island
grin
FoodRe: PHOTO: Could This Be Enjoyment Or Self_punishment by tabisegroup(op): 10:08pm On Aug 22, 2015
gabazin080:
Yeah it's possible when Osun state finally pays staff 7 months salary
grin
PoliticsBoko Haram Ultimatum: Obasanjo Backs Buhari by tabisegroup(op): 9:18pm On Aug 22, 2015
Abeokuta – Former President Olusegun Obasanjo, has commended President Muhammadu Buhari for given ultimatum to the service chiefs to end the Boko Haram insurgency by November. Obasanjo gave the commendation on Saturday in Abeokuta while addressing officials of the National Association of Nigerian Students (NANS), who paid him a courtesy visit at his hilltop residence. He described Buhari’s decision as “right and timely.’’ “Buhari took the right decision by telling the military to end the Boko Haram insurgency by November. “It is not good to just leave everything open- ended; it is a strategy in the military to set target for any operation. http://www.vanguardngr. com/2015/08/boko-haram-ultimatum-obasanjo- backs-buhari/#sthash.TV8LBgAl.dpuf
FoodPHOTO: Could This Be Enjoyment Or Self_punishment by tabisegroup(op): 8:46pm On Aug 22, 2015
I attended my friend's wedding reception, lo and behold a typical brewery or alcoholic refinery was on display. NLanders wat is ur stake on this?

FoodPhoto:could This Be Enjoyment Or Self_punishment by tabisegroup(op): 8:33pm On Aug 22, 2015
I attended my friend ' s wedding reception, lo and behold a typical brewery or alcoholic refinery was on display. NLanders wat is ur stake on this?
FoodPHOTO: Could This Be Enjoyment Or Self_punishment? by tabisegroup(op): 8:08pm On Aug 22, 2015
I attended my friend ' wedding reception service and lo behold a typical brewery or refinery was on display. NLanders wat is ur stake on this?

TravelRe: 20 Photos That Look Fake, But They Are Actually Taken In Real Life by tabisegroup(op): 9:43pm On Aug 20, 2015
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Travel20 Photos That Look Fake, But They Are Actually Taken In Real Life by tabisegroup(op): 9:37pm On Aug 20, 2015
Photo editing is a usual thing nowadays. It’s used for everything – from making people prettier to creating funny pictures involving animals. But sometimes life throws moments at you that are so stunning they don’t need photo editing at all. Check out these photos below shared via Adme . Someone was just in the right place at the right time and took these 20 incredible picture.

CelebritiesRe: Omotola And Her Kids At Cool FM Radio Station by tabisegroup(m): 9:17am On Aug 20, 2015
SUGARBEE:
Beautiful children.. Breathtaking smiles..

Wish my future children would be as beautiful as this if not better
It depends on who u marry
Christianity EtcRe: Lwkmd Chaiii This Pastor Dey Vex (must See) by tabisegroup(m): 11:48am On Aug 18, 2015
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Nairaland GeneralRe: Vehicle Sinks After Bridge Collapses In Dubban Fulani, Gombe State by tabisegroup(m): 8:18am On Aug 18, 2015
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EventsRe: PHOTO: This Is The Most Hilarious Wedding Cake Ever! by tabisegroup(m): 7:51am On Aug 18, 2015
may01:
This is actually humbling smiley Be grateful for what you've got, others have nothing or less
U r very well right
EventsRe: PHOTO: This Is The Most Hilarious Wedding Cake Ever! by tabisegroup(m): 7:47am On Aug 18, 2015
handbagss:
Not Hilarious a bit
Not even a bit dear. God knows if i had my way i wud ve blessed them with a cake
PoliticsRe: N7bn Gone As VP’s New Residence Is Abandoned - TheNation by tabisegroup(m): 7:43am On Aug 17, 2015
Coolboi05:
7bill??dat money will restructure atleast 40 Nigerians to bcom millionaires
U dey maadt o! 40 Nigerians to becom millionaires? U know weting 7b means. Sharing it among 5000 Nigerians, each person will get 1.4m. So tink abt dat
BusinessBREAKING NEWS! (hilarious): Chelsea Fc Blame Buhari For Premiership Lost Today by tabisegroup(op): 11:15pm On Aug 16, 2015
Its no more news that chelsea fc lost to Man city fc earlier today in the English premiership (Man city 3 : 0 chelsea fc) but See the reaction of their manager. =picture

PoliticsBREAKING NEWS (hilarious): ;D Chelsea Blame Buhari For Premiership Lost by tabisegroup(op): 11:06pm On Aug 16, 2015
Its no more news that chelsea fc lost to Man city fc earlier today in the English premiership. (Man city 3:0 chelsea ) but See the reaction of their manager grin
RomanceRe: Must Read: For Females,what You Don’t Know About Postinor 2 by tabisegroup(m): 8:36pm On Aug 16, 2015
amzee:
The problem am facing now is that my gf doesnt want 2 take postinor or any other pill or allow me use condom(she likes it skin 2 skin) and i neither doesnt know d withdrawal method too.Pls hw am going 2 go about it without getting her pregnant?
Broo, i will advise trade with caution. Drop her if u r not ready to father a child, marry n bury her corpse in case of failed abortion in case it occur. Etc!
PoliticsRe: Photos From My journey to ph Today, Owerri port harcourt Road How Bad It Is by tabisegroup(m): 6:27pm On Aug 16, 2015
agarawu23:
blame the past govt na federal road..

CrimeRe: Man Beheads Pastor In Calabar by tabisegroup(m): 5:54pm On Aug 16, 2015
tongue
RomanceRe: 5 Reasons Some Women Dislike Condoms [must Read] See Here by tabisegroup(m): 9:24pm On Aug 15, 2015
Aitee1:
Chaiii...well catholic no be church sha, na political house tongue
Aitee 1..ur from Aks?
Christianity EtcPHOTO :goliath's Skull Found In Holy Land by tabisegroup(op): 11:17pm On Aug 13, 2015
This is amazingly amazing


I smell fp grin

Christianity EtcPHOTO: Goliath's Skull Found In Holy Land :D by tabisegroup(op): 11:04pm On Aug 13, 2015
This is amazingly amazing.
Christianity EtcRe: Fire Guts Christ Embassy Church In Lagos by tabisegroup(m): 4:04pm On Aug 13, 2015
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HealthA Man Discovered To Be 179 Years In India Says "Death Has Forgotten Me by tabisegroup(op): 6:38pm On Aug 10, 2015
“My grandchildren are dead there for years. Somehow forgot me death ” Mahashta Mûrasi is an Indian who claims to be born in 1835. It is not only the oldest man in the world but also the man who lived the longest since the history of mankind (according to the Guinness World Records ). According to the information transmitted, the man was born in Bangalore on January 6 1835.De 1903, he lived in Varanasi, where he worked until 1957, until his retirement in 122 years. official documents to identify this man support his version My grandchildren have died there a few years, “said Mûrasi.” In a way, death has forgotten me. And now I have lost all hope to die!...

Christianity EtcRe: 114 Babies Delivered As RCCG Convention Ends (Photo) by tabisegroup(m): 4:57pm On Aug 10, 2015
INTROVERT:
80% female. anyways congrats
Let me have ur math note book tongue
PoliticsRe: Nigeria’s Looted £400bn In Europe, Asia — UK Group by tabisegroup(m): 3:46pm On Aug 09, 2015
How much is £400bn in nairahuh tongue
EducationRe: 12 Important Ways To make The Best Out Of Your Undergraduate Days by tabisegroup(m): 7:30am On Aug 09, 2015
DEGREE2466:
Bros I wrote that article myself. This is not my first time of writing this type of article as you can see in the last one I wrote about types of people you will meet in night class which was copied and republished by many bloggers without giving credit to me nor to this forum.
Those bloggers must be probed tongue
CultureRe: SHOCKING PHOTO! See How King Mswati From Swaziland Select A V!rgin To Marry by tabisegroup(op): 1:54pm On Aug 06, 2015
RichDad1:
You better start your decamping process ASAP cos a similar thread with more pics didn't make it. grin
grin grin It was a rumour ..I won't decamp grin

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