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What I find most amazing is your wife is hurt, said she had lost love and interest in your marriage and your main concern is "if she is rude and disrepsectful" for writing the letter.
Anyway, it could be one of the famous "fake nairaland" stories, if it is true, I advice you to humble yourself and count your teeth with your tongue, if its false I hope you find whatever you are looking for

We all have been contributing constructively here, but am so amazed dat we fail to see the fault of the woman in this whole issue, all arguments have been centered ard the man, I believe this problem is btw the couple and the man too has vein running through his his body and dats why he came up to share his marital issues, so let's try and find a common ground with our advises on both parties.

danyel09:
As a woman, there's nothing better than being in the
presence of a man who relishes in his masculinity in a way
that doesn't involve the obvious chest-pounding and cat-
calling, but the confident reserve of a gentleman. Now,
before you accuse me of hating men, let me be
clear; I love more things about men than I can put
into one article. This is not about finding female
empowerment though man-bashing. Quite the
opposite, actually. It's a celebration of the grown up
man's man who knows how to treat a woman. What does
this man look like, to me, at least? Well...
1. He is hygienic, but cleans his nails and trims his
nose hairs outside of a nail salon. Think about it:
Would Hemingway or Gladiator be getting his nails
buffed? Methinks not.
2. He can balance both swag and sophistication
and a career and a personal life without too many
proverbial exclamation points (and certainly not
multiple ones in a text message. No, no, no).
3. He reserves his "LOL" for actual laughter, which
he exudes out loud and often.
4. He isn't looking to play "pen pal" with you
through your iPhone because he knows that all text
and no play makes Johnny a very dull boy.
5. When he's interested in a woman, he doesn't
wait three days to call her, but he does actually call
her, and when he does, he asks her out for dinner,
makes reservations, picks a great bottle of wine
(because he knows how to) and then makes sure
she gets home safely.
6. If he wants to see her again, he lets her know,
and if he doesn't, he politely lets her know that it
was a pleasure to spend time with her, even if it
wasn't. He does, however, let her know gently and
firmly enough that he's not interested so that she
doesn't waste her time thinking it might become
something it won't.
7. He reads actual books and newspapers and
holds opinions on everything from scotch pairings
to world events all the while understanding that
not all of his opinions are facts and that not
everyone has to agree with him in order for him to
maintain his relationships or his manhood. In fact,
he enjoys it when you don't agree with him
because it means he gets to indulge you in a good
debate or leave you thinking a little bit harder
about things than when you sat down in front of
him.
8. He opens doors and takes coats, not because he
feels a woman is weak, but because he is strong
enough to show that he cares about the comfort of
those around him.
9. Sure, he might want to get into a woman's bed,
but he's also interested in getting into her head as
experience has shown him that seduction is a
delicate dance and the man who resides in her
mind has conquered every other part of her.
10. He appreciates a woman who shows she cares
for him, but he isn't interested in being courted.
He enjoys taking the lead in courting and doesn't
need to be "chased" because he's in desperate need
of an ego stroke. He also won't play "puppy dog" to
a woman who takes advantage of this.
11. He doesn't look to be anyone's father or savior,
and he doesn't pretend to be the leading man in
any woman's fairy tale. He's just a man looking for
a partner who can slay her own dragons, pay her
own bills and explore the world alongside him.
12. He looks for a woman who doesn't need him,
but wants him, not for money or the happiness or a
baby or a safety net, but solely for who he is.
13. He has a career, a hobby, a family of close
friends and a favorite way to have his steak
prepared and he isn't the least bit intimidated
when the woman in front of him shares these
qualities; quite the contrary, it makes him want
her more.
14. He has taken the time to get to know himself
and has a strong understanding of his own
character and convictions, what he values and
what he doesn't. He is a man who is honest with
himself about himself and therefore is OK being
honest with those around him.
15. He takes as much pride in the way he treats
women he's with as he does his job and the way he
looks.
16. He's not the bad boy, a good boy, or a boy at all; he's a
man. A leading man, and he's looking not for a
good girl, but a great woman. One who shares all
of the solid qualities that he brings to the table,
and perhaps, can teach him something along the
way. He's willing to wait and work for this woman,
to fight for her and will gladly hold out for her as
long as he needs to. But when she comes along, he
doesn't sit on the fence; he's smart enough to know
when he's gotten damned lucky. And when she
finds him, she should be smart enough to know the
same.

Congratulations, u've found a DOG.

No no no

akinyemitaiwo42@yahoo.co.uk

There is nothing like feminism but equal right, all those claiming feminism are confused like the DEVIL.

The Equal Rights Movements wanted things such as the right
to vote and more equality in the work force, a law against
domestic violence, maternity leave, equal pay and a law
against intimate harassment and intimate violence.
Feminism is a movement started by men hating, lazy, angry
and demonic women.(sorry I'm loose with words
sometimes). Feminism arose from the extreme frustrations of
women who wanted additional and unnecessary freedoms
like abortion, etc.
Ever wondered why Woman A's feminism is not always
Woman B's feminism?? That is because they confuse equal
right movement with feminism.
I hate feminism because it has failed to acknowledgment that
there is any inequality that oppresses men, and they are hell
bent on keeping this oppression.
I hate feminism because they tend to want equality only when
it benefits them. Their money is their money but their
husbands money is for the two of them yet they claim
equality. To hit a woman is wrong but to hit a man is self
defense.
I hate feminism because they actively seek to overthrow any
vestige of male dominance in society, to the point of
opposing the biblical roles of husbands and wives, defending
abortionon demand, and promoting lesbianism.
I hate feminism because it is based in arrogance, and it is the
opposite of the call to the born-again believer to be a servant.
I hate feminsim because they are breaking up the traditional
role of the woman in a family and society. It also causes
confusion among men and women as to where they stand in
the family that's why you hear people say my husband is the
head and I'm the neck. I could go on and on but lemme stop
here.
To The Christian Feminist. Please think twice. Feminism is
from the pit of hell. God outlines the roles of women and
men as different but equally as important. He created us
different physically, emotionally. Men and women can never
be equal. You can say 2 + 2 = 5 if you want to, but the truth is
intolerant... 2 + 2 will always equal 4. Don't allow end time
teachers to tell you otherwise.
While equal right movement is fighting for all of us, Feminist
is attacking men, marriage and promoting lesbianism and
being single.
The tussle for power in marriage is completely unnecessary.
And before you start thinking that Tallesty likes to oppress
women, lemme clear you. NO he doesn't. Tallesty believes in
equality as much as anyone, but WITHIN the teachings of the
Word of God.
It is sin in the heart that causes inequality. It is sin that causes
men to treat women in ways that are meant to demean or
objectify them. And it is sin that seeks counterfeit solutions to
counteract these inequalities. The only true cure for
inequality is obedience to God’s Word. If men and women
would walk in obedience to God’s Word then their won't be a
need to for feminism or equal right movement.

Not my word, but courtesy of a nairalander. And its indeed wise.

akinyemitaiwo42@yahoo.co.uk

bashorundon:
Good day, everyone. As the subject topic reads, a friend wants to correct a mistake on his certificate. He has collected the form and submitted back to WAEC but then, it's taking too long. The person has gotten a job but without it, he can't resume. Please, if you know anyone that knows anyone that can help hasten the ammendment process, kindly tell. Thanks in anticipation. God bless you all. AMEEN.

Get a court affidavit to that effect stating the error and the correction, It should be acceptable by any company.

@cutehector4u, pls tell the OP to stop bringing his childish imaginations and acts to nairaland, wat a disgraceful thing to think of and post.

Is this wat you can only think of, you will just sit down and decide to post sick, gross and disgusting topic, you pervert, get something serious going with your life and stop bringing your imaginations and your acts to nairaland, paedophile gay.

Thought am entitled to my opinion, your advise is duly noted hypocrite. Thanks

My advise: ( Stay Celibate).

What I feel is that there can never be equality between the male and female folks, take a look at this from the creation perspective, from the beginning we are created differently and we are saddled with different responsibilities and tasks which is carried out by either gender, furthermore, let's take a peep into the family perspective, its naturally the male's responsibility to seek and provide for his family while the lady engage in the domestic core, anyway dat comes with mutual understanding.
While still engaging in tasks and distinct responsibilities, we should keep in mind that both gender can never perform the same task either emotionally or physically, which paves way for questions like, why don't our ladies serve in the military front line, why are they so emotionally inclined such dat they shed tears in moments of joy and sadness, why do they make the loudest moan during consummation, and so on, watch out for ladies who try out men's task and you will see how they age speedily compared to there colleagues, moreover in the spirit of fairness men too have task they there not indulge. So my point is we should appreciate our differences and let it mould us to something better and then we can together make the world a better place.

@rehner, with ur contribution to this tread, I think you are a member of dis wagon, I kind of find you interesting anyway.

@tpia6, information like dis is available everywhere, including the internet, spare a little time and check for urself.

@zehner, am honestly sharing what I heard, it may sound uncomfortable to you which is absolutely normal, just hpe u are nt guilty of dat anyway, just saying, no offence my lady.

Just sharing my experience after a stressful monday.

Yes off course I did, I was even feeling uncomfortable with there discussion dat I needed to pretend as if I was pinging.

I was on my way home today, and I overheard some cute ladies gossiping one of there friends that she bought undies worth 10k and its nt more than 3 pieces, I now thot it might be that they are this type of girls wearing 6 in 1 tpye of pants for them to gossip there friend. Ladies what's ur view on dat.

Pls I need itn, my mail, akinyemitaiwo42@gmail.com

Those things listed above are the foundational or root causes before infidelity sets in.

That's a genuine point, nice one

That's the basic truth, they allow the word celebrity get into there head and misbehave.

The massive celebrity divorce cases in recent times have raised
questions in different groups. Everyone seems to be asking. Why
do celebrity marriages fail? Praise Fowowe, highlights 5
reasons why celebrity marriages fail.

1. Upbringing
I always tell people that there is nothing called a bad marriage;
you can only have two bad people or one bad person upsetting
the system. People attribute marital breakups to several reasons
but the part no one talks about is the upbringing of the people
involved. If you have not been brought up as a whole person
from childhood, by the time you get married you are already
destroyed and naturally you won’t be able to run a marriage.

2. Unhappiness
We often assume that because a person can speak English or act
or sing, we assume the person is sane but most of the time I
realise this is not true. When I counsel people and they tell me
they are not happy in their marriages, the first question I ask is,
“Have you ever been happy in your life?” And they realise they’ve
never really been happy.

3. Wrong intention
People get married for the wrong reasons. Some because they
feel it’s the next thing to do. Some feel because they have
money, while some others do it because all their friends are
married. These reasons signal that your reason for getting
married is wrong.
Only dead people can marry successfully. You have to be dead
to yourself, dead to your ego; dead to what you think is right,
dead to culture, dead to religion, dead to a whole lot of things.
I’ve been married for over 8 years so I know what I’m talking
about.

4. Pride
If I didn’t know many of these celebrities 10 years ago, I would
have thought they were not born in Nigeria, because of the
quality of lives they are living. Some of them wore patched up
school uniforms while some were from extreme poverty.
Suddenly, they start making money and they become totally
different people.
It’s shocking that we are in such a hurry to catch up with
Hollywood. We are not just producing like them; we are
beginning to act like them. For those who find themselves on the
red carpet consistently, when they get married, they don’t know
how to switch from red carpet to domestic mode so they still
carry the red carpet mentality into their homes.
At home, I’m a husband to my wife, a father to my children. I’ll
be stupid to expect my wife to accord me the respect my fans
accord me. She did not marry a celeb, she married a Praise
Fowowe. That’s why I don’t know the difference between red or
green or blue carpet. When people live their lives thinking that
endorsement deals are a big deal then there is no way their
marriages wont crash.

5. Low self esteem
We have people who think that being on the red carpet is a big
issue. If you find yourself on the red carpet and think you’re
bigger than the whole world, you have a self esteem problem
and self esteem has nothing to do with whether you’re a
celebrity or not. I realise that people who behave like that are
people who are very poor. Poverty has nothing to do with
money; poverty is a thing of the mind. When you’re mentally
poor and you have something that looks like money, you’ll be
rude to people.
I’m free enough to eat roasted corn on the road.
Because you’re a celeb, when your car breaks down you feel
pressured, meanwhile it’s a normal thing. If I have to go from
my office to Opebi and there is traffic and I have an
appointment to catch, I will pick a NAPEP and go where I want
to go. It doesn’t change me.
When people have low self esteem, it manifests in so many ways
so we call it irreconcilable differences. Irreconcilable difference
is another word for immaturity. Mature people can reconcile every now and then.

With my experience, ladies that prove hard and stubborn are the ones dat say it during sex, they won't even know when they say it, this is so funny, sme ladies saaaaaa.

@lero15, man u are a live saver, God bless u real good, thanks I really appreciate.

Pls can someone help me on hw I can resize my passport to the specified requirement which is 450 by 450 pixel, am seriously having problem editing it, my mail is akinyemitaiwo42@gmail.com. Thanks

@olaleye3 pls did u send ur credentials to there recruitment email, just want to know how u applied for RSM position. Thanks

Having launched yet another illegal war, President Barack Obama came before the United Nations Wednesday to justify American actions around the world and demand that all nations fall into line behind the US drive for world hegemony.
The speech was a collection of declamations, threats and ultimatums linked together by hollow slogans and clichés. It was delivered in a halting, ritualistic manner, one pronouncement following another, separated by long pauses and a pursing of the lips, without any attempt to make a coherent argument.
But what above all distinguished the speech was the complete disconnect between its assertions and political reality. Obama’s lies were so extreme and brazen, they took on a delusional character. When the world political situation has reached a point where those in power cannot acknowledge a single truth, this in itself is an expression of an extraordinary level of crisis of the entire political and economic order.
All the lies and hypocrisy were summed up in Obama’s denunciation of “a vision of the world in which might makes right—a world in which one nation’s borders can be redrawn by another… America stands for something different,” he claimed. “We believe that right makes might—that bigger nations should not be able to bully smaller ones; that people should be able to choose their own future.” [Emphasis added]. This statement was made by the representative of the world’s most violent and menacing country, one that has, in direct violation of the UN charter, made preventive war the foundation of its foreign policy, proclaiming an unlimited right to intervene militarily wherever its economic, political or geostrategic interests are at stake.
Since it emerged as an imperialist power at the end of the 19th century, the United States has arrogated to itself the right to bully and impose its will on small and large countries alike. The past quarter century in particular has seen an unending and escalating series of wars, invasions, covert operations and bombings carried out by American imperialism against countries in every corner of the globe. In its military actions, American imperialism is responsible for the deaths of hundreds of thousands of people.
One could cite, among others, the invasion of Panama in 1989, the First Gulf War against Iraq in 1991, the invasion of Haiti in 1994, the bombing of Sudan in 1998, the war against Serbia in 1999, and the invasion and occupation of Afghanistan in 2001 and Iraq in 2003. Under Obama, the United States has led an invasion against Libya, stoked civil war in Syria aimed at overthrowing the government of Bashar al-Assad and carried out drone attacks in Afghanistan, Pakistan, Yemen and Somalia.
In its drive to control the world, American imperialism is leading mankind toward a new catastrophic world war. Obama’s peroration began with the assertion: “The shadow of World War that existed at the founding of this institution has been lifted, and the prospect of war between major powers reduced.” This was said even as Washington and NATO continue to turn Eastern Europe into an armed camp and use the civil war in Ukraine—a crisis of their own making—to bring the world to the brink of a military conflict between the West and nuclear-armed Russia.
Only minutes later, Obama issued a clear threat of military action against Moscow, declaring, “We will reinforce our NATO Allies and uphold our commitment to collective self-defense.”
In Asia, Washington is pursuing an aggressive diplomatic, economic and military offensive against China. And the new war in Syria threatens to engulf the entire Middle East and trigger a confrontation between the US and its allies and the Syrian regime’s backers, Iran and Russia. In direct contradiction to Obama’s claim, the prospect of war between the major powers has never been greater.
Coming to the main topic of his speech, the launching of an endless “generational” war, ostensibly against Islamist terrorism, Obama declared that “on issue after issue, we cannot rely on a rule book written for a different century.” In other words, the UN Charter, which bans war as an instrument of foreign policy and bars countries from intervening in the civil wars of other countries, no longer applies.
Obama went on to describe the disaster that exists in Iraq and Syria, attributing it entirely to what he called “the cancer of violent extremism” in the Muslim world. But everyone in the audience was well aware that the responsibility for the catastrophe in that region rests overwhelmingly with American imperialism.
In one breath, Obama declared, “It is time to acknowledge the destruction wrought by proxy wars and terror campaigns between Sunni and Shia across the Middle East,” while in the next he boasted, “Together with our partners, America is training and equipping the Syrian opposition [overwhelmingly Sunni] to be a counterweight to the terrorists of ISIL and the brutality of the [Shia-related] Assad regime.”
It is not possible here to catalogue all of the colossal lies crammed into Obama’s 45-minute speech. But his presentation of the crisis in Ukraine exemplifies the collision between his statements and reality.
“Here are the facts,” he said. “After the people of Ukraine mobilized popular protests and calls for reform, their corrupt president fled. Against the will of the government in Kyiv, Crimea was annexed. Russia poured arms into eastern Ukraine, fueling violent separatists and a conflict that has killed thousands.”
Of course, the “popular protests” were financed and orchestrated by the United States and Germany and led by armed fascists who glorify the Ukrainian collaborators with the Nazi occupation and mass murder of Ukrainian Jews.
The elected president, who was pro-Russian, was overthrown in a coup, and the illegal government that replaced him, staffed with neo-Nazis and ultra-nationalists, was rejected by the majority of residents in the eastern part of the country.
The vast bulk of the thousands who were subsequently killed in eastern Ukraine died at the hands of the US-backed Ukrainian military and fascist-dominated militias that laid siege to cities controlled by pro-Russian separatists.
Only last month, Washington’s ally in the Middle East, Israel, was carrying out the savage bombing of defenseless Palestinians in Gaza, killing more than 2,200 people, the vast majority of them civilians.
It is hard to say what is more frightening, that he is fully aware of the chasm between his assertions and reality, or he has become so detached from reality that he actually believes his proclamations. Future historians may very well look back on this speech as a milestone in the American ruling class’s loss of its bearings as it hurled mankind toward another world war.

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