tpapi: I used a condom n stil got an std, up til today am stil wonderin wat went wrong

body fluid contact. microbes live in body fluid. and when they come in contact with the skin, then can penetrate thro the skin pore into the blood system. beware

the notice on liberty reserve website.
cant anybody sue these americans to court. justice should be give to those using LR for legal business. why shld some1 lose thousands of dollars just because some1 used a payment processor illegaly. so, a bank can as well be shut down just because the board members used it to transfer illegal fund?
or can't another company buy liberty reserve?

Every 10 minutes, 12 hysterectomies are performed in the United States. According to a report published by Obstetrics and Gynecology, 9 of them probably didn't meet the guidelines set out by the American College of Obstetricians & Gynecologists for hysterectomy.

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~600,000 hysterectomies performed annually in the United States (~170,000 - ~300,000 due to uterine fibroids)
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Over 5 billion dollars spent annually on hysterectomies (medical expense of procedures only)
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Average time off from work to recover from a hysterectomy is 6 weeks (~144 million lost work hours)
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~60% of all women undergoing hysterectomy have their ovaries removed (castration)
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Over 5 billion dollars spent on hormone replacement therapy annually
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37% of all women undergo hysterectomy by age 60
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Myomectomy is performed less than 40,000 times a year in the U.S.
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Over 25,000 uterine artery embolizations have been performed worldwide since 1996.
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For every 10,000 hysterectomies performed, 11 women die. (Approximately 660 women die each year in the United States from complications of hysterectomy.)

Possibly as many as 80% of all women have uterine fibroids. While the majority usually have no symptoms, 1 in 4 end up with symptoms severe enough to require treatment.

http://www.nuff.org/health_statistics.htm

wooooow! God save women.

Current statistics show that African-American women are three to five times more likely to develop fibroids than women of other racial groups[1]. Women who are overweight or obese for their height based on body mass index are also at a slightly elevated risk for developing fibroids as compared to women who are an average weight for their height. Research shows that women who have given birth are also at lower risk for developing uterine fibroids. However, because researchers don't know what causes fibroids, it is difficult to decipher all the risk factors.

http://nwhn.org/fibroids

obesity?

Dr. 'Malik:
True, nature abhors vacuum! There's an increase risk of developing fibroids with increase in age. There are, however, other predisposing factors.

The earlier, the better. Medically, ideally, it is advisable for a lady to be through giving birth by the age of 35! 18-35years is the best for child-bearing.

Fibroid is associated with late marriages and delayed pregnancy.

Sad. Why should a lady's health be at risk for late marriage/pregnancy? and the society is not helping matters with the amount of money spent for marriage, and the stigma on having a child outside wedlock. If the ladies r aware of this, then they should stand up to protect their health.
any other things that can reduce the chances of having fibroid? maybe diet or exercise?
and the dr. was saying something about early detection and treatment.
anyone with the statistics of those affected with fibroid in nigeria and the world?

Blendy77: Late marriage/pregnancy is not the only cause. Genetics is also another factor. If it runs in ur family like ur mum had it, there's probability that u might have it. I have friends who discovered they had massive fibroids in their early 20s and had to operate it. I also have aunties in their 40s who have never been pregnant and they don't have fibroid so apart from age, hereditary plays a major role.

genetics r there things those that r genetically prone can do to reduce their chances of having it? maybe diet or exercise. and is surgery the best solution for those that have it or are there herbs that dissolve it?

kiwi5: So pls at what age is it considered late for a woman.

The chemist told me from 20 years old

was in a chemist shop where i watched a doctor speak abt fibroid on tv. had a discussion with d chemist on d cause of fibroid. he said fibroid is a growth in a woman's womb. there r hormones responsible for developing a baby in the womb. when a baby is not forthcoming early enough, these hormones malfunction and start developing fibroid. hw true?

Getting Touchy Feely with Your Partner

by Amy Waterman

According to Howard Markman, Ph.D., professor of psychology and head of the Center for Marital and Family Studies at the University of Denver, "The quality of the couple's communication before marriage is one of the best predictors of future marital success." It's not the differences in opinions and preferences that matter;
what matters is how those differences are dealt with and resolved.

This requires strong communication skills, skills that few couples develop before it's too late. Once a marriage has broken down, neither partner feels inclined to communicate or open up to the other person.

Markman's solution is to teach constructive arguing techniques before a couple marries, but that doesn't help the millions of couples out there with advanced marital problems.

Are You a Good Communicator?

If, as Markman claims, 30% to 50% of couples are mutually abusive, or respond to verbal or emotional abuse with like abuse, then it's little wonder that so many marriages are dysfunctional. Do you have any negative communication patterns or attitudes? Check any that fit you from the list below.

- I act defensively when my spouse brings up any criticism of me or our marriage.

- I always have to be right,

- I always talk about the negative side of things; it's more realistic.

- I avoid conflict by turning off emotionally.

- I blame my spouse if it is his or her fault.

- I bring up the past in arguments.

- I criticize my spouse in front of others.

- I don't ask for what I want directly. If my spouse loved me, he or she would read my mind.

- I don't believe that I have to do everything I promise to do.

- I don't have to be respectful to my spouse. We're married, so we can treat each other as we like.

- I don't share everything with my spouse and keep my feelings to myself.

- I don't tell my spouse everything. Secrets are okay.

- I find it difficult to say, "I'm sorry."

- I find it hard to wait to speak until my spouse has finished talking.

- I let conflicts last for days or sometimes months.

- I mock or ridicule my spouse.

- I never forget anything my spouse has done to me.

- I often find myself raising my voice when I disagree with my spouse.

- I often talk over my spouse.

- I resent my spouse for comments that he or she has made in the past.

- I tease my spouse in ways that my spouse finds upsetting.

- I want to win every argument, not reach a solution.

- I'm afraid that sharing my most personal thoughts with my spouse will allow him or her to abuse them (such as by ridiculing me or by sharing them with others).

- If my spouse misinterprets what I said, I get angry.

- If something that my spouse does bothers me, we have an argument about it.

- My attention often wanders when my spouse is talking to me.

- My spouse is too sensitive to what I say.

- When I don't feel like talking about something, I end up getting angry.

- When my spouse doesn't know anything about a topic, I let him or her know it.

- When we have an argument, I often end up yelling, crying, or storming out of the house.

It is hard to create an environment of positive, loving communication when you've never experienced that kind of environment yourself. People who grew up in dysfunctional families with negative communication patterns often find themselves falling into those same behaviors themselves when they get married.

Nevertheless, bad communication can destroy a marriage. If you can...

- Replace criticism with praise,

- Replace accusations with attempts at understanding,

- Replace talking with listening,

- Replace defensiveness with openness, and

- Replace silence with sharing,

...you'll be amazed at the difference it makes in your marriage.

Getting Your Spouse to Open Up Again

Often, both partners in a marriage want to be perceived as "tough." They don't want to give in first. They want to show their partner that they don't need him or her. As a result, the communication gap grows wider.

Neither person will confess what it is that is worrying them. Mistrust fills the gaps created by silence. Soon, differences feel irreconcilable.

They aren't.

If you want to get your spouse to open up and break the silence barrier, there are a few things you need to do.

Often, the reason that your spouse isn't talking is because he or she doesn't want to create conflict by confessing their feelings. We all have negative feelings about our spouse or our relationships from time to time. In many marriages, partners zip their lip and say nothing, repressing their feelings until resentment seeps through.

In other marriages, partners react angrily towards their spouse and express their feelings through criticism and verbal abuse. Neither option makes for a healthy marriage.

Even if your spouse isn't saying anything to you, chances are that he or she has a lot to say. It's just that your spouse doesn't know how to bring it up, is afraid of your reaction, or doesn't think it is worth the effort to share with you.

You can get your spouse to open up to you again by creating an environment in which he or she feels comfortable talking. Tactics not to try include:

- Demanding that your spouse tell you what's wrong or why they won't talk.

- Accusing your partner of giving you the silent treatment.

- Getting angry at them for not contributing their part to the conversation.

- Feeling resentful that they're making life difficult for you.

Instead, what you need to do is:

1. Practice your own listening skills. Instead of filling in the silences with chatter, allow those silences to remain. Often, one spouse compensates for another's lack of speech by talking too much. Your partner may feel that you never give him or her a chance to speak because you're always talking.

2. Cultivate an attitude of non-judgmental acceptance. This means that you unconditionally love and accept your partner, no matter what he or she says. If you often respond defensively or critically when your partner shares his or her thoughts and feelings, you are actually punishing your partner for opening up to you.

If your partner tries to open up, acknowledge his or her comments to show that you are listening, but refrain from adding your own opinion until you've heard everything that he or she has to say.

Sometimes, we just need to be heard, and it feels better knowing that our partner has listened to us all the way through without criticizing or condemning us.

3. Learn how to apologize and mean it. One apology, meant sincerely, goes a long way. When your partner shares a concern or problem that he or she is having with your marriage, don't resort to an angry retort. Listen carefully, without criticism or a knee-jerk self-defense.

If you are too upset to think clearly, tell your partner that you appreciate hearing about his or her concern, but that you need time to think it over. If you come tothe conclusion that what your partner has told you has some truth in it, apologize clearly and directly.

Instead of muttering, "I'm sorry," look at your partner in the eyes and tell him or her, "I am sorry for X. I am sorry for having made you feel like you did."

By telling him or her in your own words what you're sorry for - in other words, what you did or said that made your partner feel hurt - you show your partner that you really do understand.

4. Making opening up to one another a positive experience. It may sound wishy-washy or fuzzy, but verbally thanking one another for sharing thoughts and feelings is valuable positive reinforcement. A hug after a difficult conversation can make all the difference.

It doesn't matter if you agree or disagree with your partner; what matters is that you show your partner that you really do care about his or her feelings and opinions.
Every time your partner shares something, no matter how little, express your gratitude.

Tell your partner, "I'm glad I know that you like that/feel that way/believe that. I like knowing more about you. It makes me feel closer to you."

How to Argue

Most couples are exceedingly poor at resolving conflicts. In my book, Save My Marriage Today, I give you a number of techniques designed to teach you healthier conflict resolution. Today, I'll just outline the most basic ground-rules for arguments. Discuss these with your spouse and agree on them together.

1. Abuse and physical violence will not be tolerated. If things get too hot, take a break or take a walk.

2. Avoid assigning blame. Instead, talk about how your partner's actions made you feel.

3. Be honest. Don't argue about one thing if something else is bothering you.

4. Don't take things personally. When someone is upset, they can say or do things that make it worse.

5. Focus on resolving the issue--not winning the argument. Think negotiation, not competition.

6. If your spouse hasn't understood your motives or misunderstood what you said, don't get angry. Explain yourself.

7. No bringing up hurtful events from the past. Stay in the present.

8. No going to sleep on an argument.

9. No name-calling.

10. Once an argument is resolved, forgive and forget.

The Silent Poison: Resentment

When hurt piles upon hurt, it is easy to feel as you and your spouse are in a competition where the more you can hurt the other person, the more points you get. This is a dangerous and deadly way to think of conflicts.

As your marriage continues to crumble, you'll begin to feel more comfortable thinking about your spouse in terms of resentment, blame, and disappointment rather than in terms of love, forgiveness, and teamwork.

Every negative feeling that you have about your spouse builds and builds, even if you don't act out on those feelings. Unless you do something about those negative feelings, you will find yourself becoming more and more resentful of your spouse and his or her ability to make your life unpleasant.

There are several things you can do. I suggest consciously counteracting every negative feeling with positive acts of love, affection, and respect. You should also learn how to talk to your partner about your feelings in a neutral, non-accusatory, calm way. This is extraordinarily difficult and will take a long time to master.

Negative feelings expressed in anger or as a knee-jerk reaction grow and become worse. If you can learn to express your negative feelings neutrally with the express purpose of finding some way to resolve them, you may find that they dissipate with the mere act of sharing them.

There's Much More to Learn

In this lesson, you've learned about the importance of communication and some danger zones to avoid. I explain much, much about communication and conflict resolution in my book, Save My Marriage Today! For more information, click on the link below:

http://www.SaveMyMarriageToday.com/course

Tomorrow, you're going to learn how lack of commitment to a marriage can sabotage it ... and how to get your marriage back on track.

the 50% deduction from insta affects only deposited amt. and does not affect ur profit.
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07:36
Support manager 43
For example, you deposit 100 USD and get profit 100 USD, you may only withdraw 150 USD. The 50% is reduced from your your deposit not from your profit.
07:38
You
ok. ur 50% deduction will not affect my profit?
07:38
Support manager 43
Yes, it is.
07:38
You
ok. bye

i hav decided not to use only one broker again. at least 3 is ok. as for insta. i'll continue to trade my acct there until it grows to 2 million dollars, no matter hw long it takes. then if they like let them take 50%

Kirinwa: I have gone through some exchangers selling other eccurrencies.It's a huge rip off!The difference between buying and selling price is too large when compared to that of liberty reserve.
Over the years I have watched 3 eccurencies disappear one after another.
E-gold,E-bullion,now liberty reserve.Now am considering using wire transfer but it seems the fees charged are much and it takes long to be processed.

What other choices do I have?Please kindly advice.Am considering using liteforex and/or forextime.Any other reccomendation is welcome.Anyone using them here?Any issues?Thanks....

if u use markets.com , u dont need e-currency exchanger. just go to gtbank, open a dollar dorm acct. request for a dollar mastercard. buy dollars from any bureau de change and deposit in ur acct. then u r ready for business without any stupid interference.
you can fund ur markets.com acct from ur dollar mastercard and it wld reflect in ur platform instantly. u can also withdraw into ur mastercard and is process in less than 4 days. and the best part of the news is that u can go to the atm and cash ur money in naira.

also forex-metal accepts, nigeria issued mastercard

rozayx5:

Insta are using their own hands to kill themselves, smh

Just got my FX CM account today

migration time

Moving back to markets.com i can fund and withdraw with gtb dollar master card.
insta pple r criminals. i've been suspecting them for not being strict on id.
lately i noticed their bank acct is domiciled in cyprus. they must have been badly hit by their economic crises and are looking for who will pay 4 it

this is my conversation with them now...


partnersmanager11
Hi, how can I help You?
Hello
How can I help you?
14:18
You
what is the fate of those that deposited money to their accts via liberty reserve?
hw do they withdraw?
14:19
partnersmanager11
They can withdraw by local depositors
14:19
You
bank wire?
14:21
partnersmanager11
If client used just small part os deposits by LR, he can use our local depositor for withdrawal
For the clients who deposited by bank decision will be announced once we have any official information about LR. (or lack of one during adequate period of time)
14:23
You
what is the meaning of small part os deposit?
u have a local depositor in nigeria?
are u there?
14:26
partnersmanager11
Please send this question to partners@mail.instaforex.com for detailed answer

Prettywoman: Dear customers,

We have to inform you that cooperation with Liberty Reserve has been terminated as the payment system had shut down.

The case falls under Clause 7.7.1 of the Public Offer Agreement, according to which all the funds deposited through the payment system that later disappears are deducted from the trading account of a customer, as the company is not a guarantor of any payment system, and the money received through the payment system is stored on the company's accounts with the system enabling the company to quickly process your withdrawal requests.

Nevertheless, the company's management has considered that a lot of partners and customers used Liberty Resserve for funding their accounts and made a decision that Clause 7.7.1 of the Public Offer Agreement should be exercised in the following way:
1. Withdrawal of the funds deposited through Liberty Reserve is restricted for 6 months starting from May 30, 2013;
2. Since November 30, 2013 the withdrawals will be available, provided an account was used for trading during these 6 months;
3. Since November 30, 2013 at processing the withdrawal request, InstaForex shall deduct from an account 50% of all the funds deposited through Liberty Reserve. The amount of a requested withdrawal should include this deduction.

We strongly recommend that you use reliable payment methods such as bank wire, international bank cards, local transfers, Skrill, LiqPay, Payza.



What is this one from Instaforex,they cant be serious ooo

does that mean if some1 deposited $100 via liberty reserve, he can only withdraw $50?

zeongeon: The question should be after sex what next If sex was that important then guys should b happy to pick a wife from a line of prostitutes...sex or no sex if a relationship will hit the rocks it will...the irony is that guys no who they will marry or end up with so if a gurl like she should b a sex machine if d guy won't marry u he won't...and with the rate of sex most gurls if not careful will end up as reminants for their hubby.....there is more to a relationship than SEX

Yes.I agree with u. Relationship is more than sex, tho sex is important.
haven't seen any guy that wld like to marry a lady that sleeps around even if she is beautiful. love is jealous. some other factors include submission, intelligence...

Non Farm Payrol:

they are registered in belize, visit the site for more info

Those guys dont identify their users and will soon go the way of liberty reserve. use them with caution. never leave any fund in it. bank wire is the best option. instaforex has a mastercard. will request for it and check if it can be loaded via dorm acct.

playmode: [size=15pt]Why is this donkey always flagging off projects In other countries ,the government do not flag off construction.They just pay for the project and the contractor begins work immediately.It is only after the project is complete that they commission it with little fanfare.Nigeria and it's rubbish Government protocols.

Secondly why a mere 700MW dam? Why not buy 2 or 3 turbines so that the dam can at least generate 1400MW or 2100MW ,this donkey is a big Joke.In South Africa the minimum power generating plant they build generates at least 4800MW but in Nigeria odenathan builds a 700MW dam.FRESH AIR bunch of morons!

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1.Check his records. Hw many projects has he flagged off. How many has he completed.
2.If u think 700 MW is small. Hw many did past administrations before him build? how many has been built during his administration alone.

i'm beginning to realize that no matter what u do, some people will still talk bad about u. Even if Gej cuts 2 of his legs and hands for nigeria, some people will still complain why didn't he cut his head.

the best is for u to ignore such pple and do the best u can do to improve human life and for the records. That's all.

see why national id is necessary

sophieLL: Nice sharing. Sometimes, listenning is important and it helps you know what your partner thinks,and the wrong words really hurt.

yes. asking the right questions and listening. instead of making assumptions.
your partner maybe ignorant of what u think they know. and may have good reasons for doing what think they should not have done

must u propose in public while kneeling down?

sold usdcad @ 1.0355 for 200 pips

Marriage Relationship: Five Keys To Effective Communication

By Christopher UI Ogholoh

The importance of effective communication in marriage need not be overstressed. Love, money and other 'goodies' purported to make a successful marriage will only work if effectively communicated. Some people say money answers all things, others say love is everything, but I have observed from theories and practice that effective communication is the key. Join me on this journey to discover five communication skills that will make your union a success.

1. Choose The Right Words

Messages are better transmitted in words. To effectively promote the desired love, unity and intimacy in a relationship the spouse must learn to choose words that are seasoned with respect, love and submission. The right words used at the right time will douse doubt, fear and wrong judgement. Let the wife's use words that express her loyalty and boost the man's ego. Husbands must not choose words that will hurt and disrespect his wife.

2. Avoid Assumptions

Most partners in relationships always presume some things. This can be very harmful to harmonious marriage. For example, Adam in the bible, presume Eve ought to know God's mind about the tree of good and evil in the garden of Eden. Hence, he did not bother to enlighten her about the implications of eating of it. The devil cashed in on it to deceive her. If Adam did not presume, Eve would have known the right thing to do. This same thing is common in many marriage relationships. You know this through some common utterances like: 'she ought to know... At her age' and so on. Use straight clear words. Avoid the use of parables because your spouse might not be able to interpret your intentions accurately. Also, it is better for the hearer to ask questions about issues that are not clear than to do the wrong thing.

3. Choose the Right Time To Speak

''To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven... A time to rend, and a time to hate; a time to keep silence, a time to speak'' (Ecclesiastes3:1-10). There is the need to know your spouse's mood and temperament so as to be able to know when and how best to discuss some critical issues. There are issues for bedtime; there are issues for dining time; and there are issues for special lunch hours. No matter how overwhelming the matter might be, learn to hold in until the right time. What should be uppermost is not an emotion but a peaceful relationship.

4. Learn To Listen Well When The Other Is Talking

I support the popular saying which says ''when two people are talking nobody is talking''. Communication, being a two-way thing, requires the cooperation between the speaker and the audience. Therefore,it is wise for one to listen attentively to the other in a relationship so as to be able to pass sound judgement, make good decisions and give accurate feedback.

5. Be Open And Truthful

Truthfulness and openness to each other in a marriage relationship can heal any wounds. They must be sincere and honest in their communications so that they can build confidence and trust in the relationship.

Finally, communication is an art that must be learned and internalized by both partners if they are to get the best in their marriage.

Here is a Free ebook from my friends Andrew and Amy. Download this Free Ebook and Discover The 6 Most Common Reasons for Divorce... And How to Stop Them Happening to You!!'

http://www.savemymarriagetoday.com/products.php?hop=mila123

rozayx5:

1 luminous inverter batteries cost 60k, the cheapest good set you can get is like 100K with installation

i use 3 batteries here, and an inverter, just get an Acer Mini, 7 hours battery

You mean with 100k, i can get an inverter that wld power my laptop for 1 week?

They say independence is a good way of measuring adulthood

if u r 30 and above and still lives with ur parents, u r still a child. right or wrong?

naijababe: Boys, it is done and sent o.

Babe, i'm also interested. valid.sucess@gmail.com
Thanks.

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ur email?

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http://thebotnet.com/general-off-topic/208504-flash-liberty-reserve-owner-arrested/

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i just spoke with instaforex customer service. No issue with LR yet. but if it happens, finance dept will redirect us to another payment processor.