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NwaAmaikpe:

lol
let it rain

Hasty decisions based on profiling without proper investigations

if his family can sue for compensation fine

this is so sad

some women and vain beauty, she was scared of having a scar on her leg, making that young man spend more than a million footing medical bills because she decided to go traditional and self medicate, I got no qualms with traditional treatments as I have engaged in such several times but there are times we know visiting a medical doctor is the only option.

Kudos to this young man for standing by her all thru his types are very rare

this is a good write up probably one of your best, but sometimes na from plat quarrel de start, when you begin to indulge and compromise your ethics and principles you begin to lose yourself, I'm not saying don't forgive, but the person whom you have been forgiving or want to forgive is he/she worth it?

bamisepeters:
Our intention most times determines the success of our relationship, not what anyone says.

Like we know that it is never possible for two people who are blood related to stay with each other for little period of time without offending each other.

So also, it is paramount that we know that two who are not related by blood nor gender can never be together in the name of love and expect an offense-free relationship.

Personally, i feel when your partner go wrong it makes you know more about them and how to handle them in the future.

I understand there are some offense that are hard to forgive, but love knows no offense as it even forgives before any offense is committed.

I have heard, read and witnessed some extremely bad situations whereby the partners of those involved still overlooked the sin and moved on happily.

One thing i used to tell those who care to listen to the sense making relationship nonsense that i say or write especially when they need to forgive their partner is that it can be anyone's turn, and it can be the other way round the next minute because we are humans and not spirit.

In a relationship, which other offense is greater than seeing your partner whom you have sacrificed all for moaning in confirmation of a great sexual experience under someone else?

For your information, I have seen couples who still moved on together after the above happened.

Believe me, it is never easy to forgive one's partner after such experience, in fact, many people will tell you to even run as far as possible from such partner.

Most times you take some decisions on your own when it comes to relationship because other are blind when it comes to what you see in your partner as they don't know your desires and the point of attraction.

This is not about the sacrifice or desperate measures you've taken to sustain the relationship, but the love making you to be as foolish enough to see reasons why you must forgive your partner.

This post is not just about cheating, it can be anything else apart from cheating.

The fact is that offense and forgiveness is what makes many relationship or marriage to be as strong as they are.

Remember, you are not a perfect man, neither is she a better woman, we are all striving to be the best to our partner.

And as your partner is trying all to be better for just you, you need to be ready to give room for mistakes.

I don't want to give some of the examples I have witnessed so as not to look as if I am on the side of one gender, because to me we are all the same, what is good for one goose is good for another goose.

As I am preaching forgiveness, it should make us to try harder at achieving great union free of scandal and divorce which is rampant this days.

This should make those that cheat see reasons why they must stop as it harms the partner emotionally.

Those that abuse their partner physically and mentally should also stop as the pain inflicted on your partner is more than your understanding, don't take the spirit of forgiveness which accompanied the love for granted.

In case you don't know; the day your partner stops forgiving you is when they stop loving you.

Don't abuse the spirit of forgiveness, don't do it to the point that your partner will see nothing attractive in you anymore.

Love is blind they say, you may not be the one to share the experience when the blindness receives healing.

Cc: Talk2bella, Rorachy, tosyne2much,

Source: http://bamisepeters..com/2017/07/relationship-is-for-those-who-are.html

he many times do u forgive a cheat?

naijababe:
Isn't Zamfara a Sharia state?

exactly they should have cut off his hands ba

while someone was sentenced to death for stealing a phone

Naija I hail thee

Most youths in Nigeria aren't intellectually mature to handle Power, they make it seem like we were born with the Corruption Gene

Reading.......

except for charitable works nothing interesting about his biography abi profile I'd vote for Kay Bello anyday anytime that dude got political Ginger

His kids are cute

kriss27:
How can I contact you? I want to discuss something with you?

tork2bella@gmail.com

Freedom of Choice

sorry to ask but how do y'all construct your written English? I know no one is perfect but a little effort will be nice.

Honestly yours is better, I have read worse on Nairaland

Deji124:
I hope she is not targeting the younger brother of the cbn gorvenon to be his babymama

is it your Target Mr Gorvenon

I love this woman, with all the negativities trailing her yet she soars

I believe him, if he says he's gonna do it, he's gonna

heck, dude's been unstoppable ever since he got outta detention, and the Ibo folks seems to love him genuinely.

saw this video where he had people protecting him by forming a circle round him, in their eyes I could see they were ready to die for him, that's dedication right there.

Anyway I am all for Restructuring

well they still had to work their asses out to get those grades

soulhighman:
Hahaha. I still dey primary school that time.
I didn't even know I would be attending model college.

lol
it doesn't matter tho
my mum would say its not how far it's how well

this is awesome

I actually do love farming

uminem02:
Ewoo!! I was still in primary school then

loool
I finished quite early tho

uminem02:
Meiran!! Maybe i can help. What yr are u talking about?

it was my first secondary sch
that was year 2000

soulhighman:
So you attended Lagos state model college meiran. Which set pls?

2000, Jss1

Metrobaba:
I'm Sorry For My Bad Manners, I Like Your DP.

bad manners?
noticed none
thanks for liking my dp

Baddestman:
i won't reply you cos you belong to my kitchen and the oza room

you belong to my Gate

lol

I think he's allowed to

besides its only a rich non military personnel that's allowed to rock Camouflage, please don't try it if you're just an average civilian

Baddestman:
Nyanmiri will be wailing and insulting yoruba as coward but they are the real cowards

your case is beyond redemption

SuperS1Panther:
See this coward mofos quacking under the threat of their Master on their own soil.

Na wa o Osus don suffer.

Their master gave them ultimatum in the Nrth, they were running helter skelter and now they are shivering on their own soil again.

It is a pathetic thing to be an Osu Jew worshipping shukudi bambiala alabiabia.

The Lunatic Scammer Dilector will not help his cowardly shivering people to deal with the marauding Master.

common sense fall on you

Jadoskii:
meiran model college !!! Close to Ile iwe junction ard ajasa

I don't even remember anymore

lol

they should just let these people be abegi

isn't it obvious I'm the one

I know the feeling, I went to 6 secondary schools and I never kept in touch, its a habit I imbibed from when I was a kid till now, still don't know how to keep in touch, my 5th secondary I made friends but only talk to one now, Tolu, please I am also looking for someone, her name is Nike Oriade, she was a huge inspiration to me in jss1, her dad was a pastor and she has about 8 vertical tribal marks on her face, pls Nike it's Isabel from Lagos State Model College Meiran

soberdrunk:
See all the 'car ajebutters' above speaking big grammar, it's obvious they are driving 'vip cars'. If car start, i put am for reverse 'he enter', no weird 'loud' noise, no smoke, no jerking then it is not due for service.....

hahahahaahhajahaa

damn

hahahahahhaa
this is Savage

, part about her sleeping with more than a thousand men got me laughing so hard

it is your motherrrrr!

btwn

ChiGurl is a success story

these ones don't have godfather

but this is a job well done

I commend the Nigeria police