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gbosaa:
So because she's white, the story must be true. Sorry there are liars everywhere.

urrrrm hope you understood what you read

so I'm not seeing the regular twitter users and lies because this story was told by a white woman and hence it's believeable

is it by force

please he should go to where the protesters are and say this same thing Biko

hahahahahahahaha

awesome

kayswag100:
Agodi Garden is located off UCH road.

from Mokola round about, take a bike and tell him you're going to Agodi Garden.

gate fee is 500

the lions are usually fed around 1-2 on sundays. it's a sight to behold...

thanks alot

kayswag100:
please go into the famous Agodi park. your Gate fee allows you free access to the zoo within.

most ppl don't even know a zoo exists within as they are only there for picnics

I am new here is it the agodi at old ife road please gimme directions and how much is the gate fee

kayswag100:
meanwhile, see our lions here at Agodi Zoo, Ibadan having their largesse.

4 live goats in a week for each of the 2 lions

where in agodi is this zoo you speak of?

dedegbe:
Thanks so much. Yes, they do. It was so hard. I am actually deleting everything right now. I made the right decision by coming here. This is the first time I posted on a forum about this. Thanks alot.

glad I could help

you already took the first step now just give it time he obviously is into shady deals and wants to implicate you

it's not easy but stop all communications with him those kinda men are psychopaths they twist you feelings and emotions and use it against you

he doesn't deserve your love he's a leech who just want to keep sucking till you're dry

Looke:
How can you give this sort of advice? So the girl is stressed out to talk to her man but she hangs out with other men and even has the time and energy to chat and call others?

Why shouldn't she be comfortable talking for to her man when the guy is there? Doesn't the guy know that they are dating? Haven't they established the fact that they are in a relationship to the knowledge of the guy? What sort of silly excuse is that?

No offense but your advice is rubbish.

other men?

lofty900:
Ur babe didn't go for Nysc, she went for Big Brother Oyo since she's squatting with a guy in oyo. Just wait for this edition of Big brother oyo to finish so she can come back to you that's if she doesn't get preggy b4 then. Adios

you're mean loool

dingbang:
Bella! don't get me angry with you!


So u want to tell me now that if the roles were swapped and it was d guy in the lady's shoes and she was the one worrying, would u have advised same? How can a male and female sleep on the same bed without fvcking each other? Who just does that..

a man and a woman can sleep on the same bed without doing the do lool

I am hurting so much as I type this, my story is long but I will try and make it short.

She was posted to the north, I spent a lot of money to have her relocated back to Lagos but it didn’t work instead she got Oyo state where we didn’t know anyone, getting an accommodation was hard because she refused to get a cheap one and I didn’t have the money for an expensive one so she decided to squat with this dude who she claims is just a friend until I can raise moneu to get her an apartment, Bella that’s where my trouble began.

Anytime I call her at night she doesn’t pick, whenever she picks she says she can’t talk she’s tired; when I chat her on whatsApp she says its late and wants to sleep but she would remain online for hours, when I call her on whatsApp it would say user on another call, my heart is aching.

I asked her why she’s always online she says she isn’t that the guy was using her phone to call and chat on whatsApp, when I tell her on phone I love her she won’t say it back, claiming she can be talking about love when she’s staying with someone so the guy won’t be offended, they sleep together in the same room but she claims she sleeps on the bed.

She’s always uploading pictures of her going out with the guy in his car having fun, when I ask her she says it’s nothing that the guy likes to go out when he comes back from work and doesn’t like to leave her at home, she says if I don’t trust her I can come visit her that the dude knows about us and he’s really friendly, I only spoke to the guy once and thanked him for harboring my woman.

Two weeks ago I got angry and have refused to call her and she hasn’t called me back since then, I don’t feel good, I love her how do I get my girlfriend back?



Anonymous.




Relocating to a new place can sometimes be strenuous and have a toll on relationships doesn’t necessarily means your girlfriend is cheating; I am saying this from experience.


I was currently in this position and it put a strain on my work and my relationship also, my routine was changed, I was in a strange land where I knew no one, I barely spoke to my family because I was trying to settle in.


You need wisdom to tackle this, getting angry will not solve this, ending communications with her will only worsen things, she says you can come visit have you tried that? She might really not feel comfortable talking to you while the guy is there; you should try and find out why.


Like I say in all my write-ups love isn’t about money, money is just a criterion that spices up love, love is about sacrifice and compromise, you need to sit down with her and have a long talk, she needs to get a cheap apartment, it’s just for ten months and NYSC is over and if she refuses maybe it’s time to take a walk, don’t give up so soon, people get carried away sometimes, you need to fight for what’s yours and from your email I can tell you really love this girl, why not give her another chance, call her, try to know how she’s coping, tell her you would like to visit her and know the next step forward and get back to me on her response.


Talk2Bella

http://www.talk2bella.com/2017/02/my-girlfriend-went-for-nysc-and.html

dingbang:


Talk2bella oya come and reply this one

I weak loool

double short sleeve

Naija politicians never relinquish power

sad

BabaAduras:
Follow 'Discovery' Channel and just do a wild search on internet you will be amazed at all the work that has been done on this topic.

Let me add my own posers. Is Judas that betrayed Jesus a product of (greed) environment? Are those suffering from cancer, high blood pressure, diabetics, mental disabilities etc are product of what they eat (environment)?

diabetics cancer mental disabilities are sometimes hereditary

does he mean nightmare

who on nairaland should we test it on now lool

if it's real awesome Mehn people really need it as long as it ain't expensive

Nigerians are blessed

Igbo men are really intelligent

Biko Nwanne e remain cancer

find a cure for it soon Dalu

BabaAduras:
Science has proven that some of the evil personalities of this world are genetically predisposed to committing evil. Scanning of brains of some of the notorious serial killers of this world have also shown elements of genetically predisposition to evil. So, what do you call genetically disposition? You are born with it, it has nothing to do with environment.

I totally agree that experience and environment contribute to whatever we become, but some things are simply hard wired into us all from the eggs of our mothers and sperms of our father. Simple as abc.

where did you read about this please

thaoriginator:
LOL.. You think it's funny right?
A true me a talk gyal...
We nuh tek chat We nuh tek talk Any bwoy diss a quick fi get shot..
Dem nuh know say we get we weapon from the Asians Any bwoy weh diss a gwan be a spartan invasion...
Big up gyal, big up. Me sight pon di big black gate enuh

I love the accent

Nigerians and inventions , that revolver Dane gun combo tho

thaoriginator:
Bloodclaats!
A weh dem a run guh?
Dem guns dem a roar like a lion pon di sky deh
And any bwoy wey diss a quick fi get a bullet inna dem teeth enuh
And one inna informer eye fi di looking...
Dem fi get a rifle slap round yah...

hahahahahah I can't believe I actually read all that word for word
cute

BabaAduras:
Talk2Bella,

She said she does not love him anymore. She should leave the stupid liar.

I do not agree with you that no man is born evil. Some men are simple born evil.

no one is born evil

check out the history of the worst serial killers on earth something happened to them during the course of their lives

[quote author=MzLarem post=53355167]Is your fiancé's name Jude?

what did Jude do to you

Tominiola:
She should dump him o jare. That's how I met someone last year, he told me one big massive lie that I believed. Once I found out. I quietly dropped him like a bad habit. I didn't pick his calls or reply his messages or anything cuz there's no point. I don't understand why people can't be themselves. The funny thing is he was now trying to make it seem as if I was beneath him When in actually I was better off without him. When you lie it makes you look weird. Dump him because if you don't what you allow is what will continue in the marriage. I don't even understand why Bella is defending this guy. It doesn't make sense.

I am not defending him

she knew he was a liar she stayed and even got an apartment with him after she found out he was the squatter

she encouraged his lies by giving money to people he promised to help because they felt he was rich

dear truth be told she wouldn't have fallen in love if it weren't for the lies

we need to be honest to each other most women are just superficial

dimexy247:
Beat her whenever she steals

really

Oma307:
for such a kleptomania, u have to take it spiritual I mean prayer because there is a reason for that which she might not know

prayer and therapy

obiorathesubtle:



Report that thief to the authorities jor.. Ole!

it is still a family affair