₦airaland Forum

SafeDavid:
Be kind to ff back for a Pm

SafeDavid:
You should do something about your voice recording tho' Its not so loud.

By the way, who does your make-up

SafeDavid:
Are you for real?

Thought you were Igbo.

SafeDavid:
but why Ibeji?

SafeDavid:
You're not looking bad tho'.

Tajbol4splend:
Talk2bella, on Feb 14 when nairalanders have a party, even if my gf is there, I will propose to you and I promise you that you will say yes to me.. I come get you and tell you.

Collyno82:
am not aunty am ur brother n husband. am a he

firstking01:
What does it mean?

Mypeople2:
Bella I think you need a man in your life.Someone that will erase what you just wrote from your head.May God give you a good man

FortuneTeller:
Everyone is not destined to marry. There are men in jail, gay, and mentally challenged. Even if there are single men available in China, should a Nigerian woman run to China to find one? Even the Bible speaks about who should be content with being unmarried. It may sound sad, but it's the truth.

firstking01:
Bella still follow for the name na?, hope you know what it means?

firstking01:
You won't talk nau, bella...hope you know what bella is?

Collyno82:
talk2bella, ur wrong. the Bible said that is not good for a man/woman to be alone. Don't tell me that u can't find a man Destined for you in the whole world. stop spreading this falsehood in the name of being a realist

Collyno82:
u talk from experience n exactness. is like u been visiting dem. that u choose not to marry does not translate to the caption of ur write up

firstking01:
Chai, you are a failed writer and blogger, you need help asap....you sound asif they forced people to getting married...even in christiandom we don't force people to get married...i said it's a necessity if you are a christian...as i'm typing this i have apostle paul's bible backups if you wil……


For the woman who chosed to go in as a second fiddle, na her choice....i dnt even know why i'm answering you sef...


Goan work on yourself girl...on stuffs like this i'm grouned, just that we no dey make noise until the occassion calls for it


Have a good evening .

dollyjoy:
The message should be 'don't allow societal pressure force you into an unprepared marriage'

I' m sure by the time you start getting close to menopause without any hope of settling down you'd start running from one spiritual house to another forgetting you once stated that 'everyone isn't destined to get married'

firstking01:
I doubt if you didn't plagiarise this article...was expecting you to give me cogent reasons and prove me wrong as to why you said not everybody is destined to marry and not to use the failed marriage of one man in the name of pastor who married out of his selfish desires to castigate others...


Now know this for your own good, it's not every "man of God", or every "christian"5 God must speak to before he/she gets married, innukwa?, omokop odo?, so, soil away that mentality from your brain.


Secondly, even some of them that God speaks to in the long run they give the devil an oppprtunity to enter their home either because of sin or they did not heed fully to the directions of the holy spirit,...that's the case with that of chris okotie, i'm a witness to such case but that's a story for another day



As a christian you know divorce is frowned at yet we keep encouraging people to marry....now, question is, the other christian family that are living happily and fullfiled what will you say about that??...if you believe in marriage you must be ready to make work, and how can you make it work?, by first setting your priorities right by following those simple tips i gave earlier....nuff said.

Synord:
Well done

Destiny kids volume 1
Creator
mummy in Israel..
the carver of destiny who destines some people not to marry

allocator of Marriage

mrs isakaba

firstking01:
Rubbish, if you are a christian marriage is a necessity....how can you come into this world and go back as an island huh……


See, talk2bella ma tell you wetin you no know, that your marriage failed doesn't mean you are not destined to marry, samething applies to those who are experiencing failed relationships.


The reason is because we do not want to marry for the right reasons..


We do not want God to direct us of whom to marry...


We allow our instinct and emotions to control us whenever we want to marry..


We think that marriage is all about a woman and a man coming together to stay under one roof either because they love themselves and have fullfiled every marital right, NO, that's not why you are marrying...



We marry because there's this compatibility between us and hence we believe we can tolerate each other...


We marry because we have the same moral values...


We marry because we have the same spiritual values...


We marry because we have the same sexual values....


And the reasons why we marry goes on and on and on...



If you marry for the reasons i stated above thraeds like this will be useless to you.

NairalandDSS:
NICE ONE UP THERE AND I LIKE YOUR POSE

Benita27:
Crap! Crap!! Crap!!!.

Can't you drive home your point and not bring in pastors?, "marriage is a sham", but you hope to someday.

Opakan2:
so you even know.. then stop spilling trash

live and let's live. stop guaging people's life upandan, you're not God

Xiadnat:
I will drink to that. Valid points.

Yes! Celebrate freedom from that shackle called marriage.


Disclaimer: i do think marriage when restored to its pure intentions can be sweet. I would like to someday find that "sweet spot".

Opakan2:
Talk2bella or wetin dem call you.. go make yourself useful and let your existence count

stop posting trash like your own life is perfect or you know it all.. you're welcome

homesteady:
I don't understand, please can you explain more?

Presh9OO:
I bought mine for 2.1m

Presh9OO:

Presh9OO:
Talk2bella... How much did you buy urz??