₦airaland Forum

BiafraBushBoy:
Bella... Festac woman... Igbo woman..

lol

More like Badagry babe

BiafraBushBoy:
Funny thread...

I laughed tho...

Glad I could make you laugh

STFUareyouGod:
now she scared. Lol. I'm just talking to Bella, fear not

Thanks lovey

KissChrix:
For everything

My transport fare

The food I eat

I'm ready when you are

Transport ke I'd do the cumin

eph12:
Close your mouth fly is coming

From?

STFUareyouGod:
lol. Why she winking? the last lady that winked at me ended in the other room

Hahahahhahahaah biko lemme unwink

Presh900:
being my most polite self...

Lool

KissChrix:
On one condition....

I'd pay

STFUareyouGod:
Are you always this cool?

Not always

STFUareyouGod:
perhaps I lost my sense of humour. Don't you think?

Nah I don't think so

We can't all find the same things funny

Presh900:
sorry, Bella, but am i supposed to laugh??

Why you saying sorry?

STFUareyouGod:
ma'am, that thing up there is far from being funny.

Dunno about you but I'm still laughing, should I say you aren't getting it cos you're a dude

STFUareyouGod:
Why am I not laughing?

How should I know?

tosyne2much:
Do guys still demand sex from ladies in this period of recession? Shebi na person wey chop bellyful dey think of sex. Nawa ooooo

Recession is only on Nairaland

KissChrix:
Sorry, but I don't find it funny


Try again later

Come let's go to buka

This picture got me Lolling

Not all dinner dates end in the bedroom tho

But sometimes s*x on the first date leads to happily ever after

I'm just gonna leave this here for humor sake

My Mum and Myself

Lalasticlala

Yesterday I had a feel of what the Igbo culture is about, “I am a Nigerian first and an Igbo woman second” I had always said, I think I need to change that phrase to “I am an Igbo woman first and a Nigerian second”.

Nigeria is just a name that was given to us by our colonial masters, many people see this as a big mistake myself included, we did very well together before the amalgamation, there was more peace and unity between and amongst us, there was no power tussle for land, every tribe and ethnicity knew their geographic location and stayed in place.

But we can’t all say the amalgamation was a bad idea, it did bring us together, made us mix with ourselves, now we can inter marry, teach other tribes our cultures and traditions, most of our languages and spellings are more similar than we realize, Okute in Igbo means stone, while Okuta in Yoruba means stone this is just one example of many.

We are more alike than we realize so I am all for one Nigeria. Ohanaeze Ndi Igbo is one of the best things to have happened to the Igbo community, how do you get millions of Igbo people from all parts of the country and the world to come under one umbrella? Whoever brought this idea is a genius, we have all Igbo states representing their various communities, we speak the general Igbo tongue when we gather, we practice the general Igbo traditions when we assemble, there’s accordance, unity, togetherness and harmony and lastly politics, I experienced it first hand and now I want to participate more.

Ohanaeze Ndi Igbo was formed in 1976 and her headquarters is located at Enugu, After the Nigerian civil war, some prominent Igbos gathered to proclaim the need to unify Igbos under a common umbrella body. This initiative was much welcomed considering maximum displacement of the Igbos during the war and its aftermath. An organizational assembly was created, referred to as the Igbo National Assembly (INA). This organization was later banned by the Federal Military Government at the time, probably due to the Government's fear of a grand suspicious agenda being cultivated by the Igbos via the organization; hence, the creation of Ohanaeze Ndigbo, in 1976.

Like I said one Nigeria, other states in Nigeria and other countries in the world have recognized this formidable body, they are welcomed as Kings and Obi’s in other states in Nigeria , other local governments, and abroad I am still in awe how this was achieved considering how we have been painted as a nation with major ethnic rivalry. Yesterday one of the Igwe’s of Ohanaeze in Badagry, Olorunda local government celebrated the New Yam Festival and invited major Yoruba Kings and tribal leaders in the community, I have never seen such unity amongst Nigerians before, I was so impressed I felt patriotic, this is how every Nigerian should feel at heart, we are all one, don’t let anyone deceive you.

We’re a nation with rich several ethnic backgrounds, one cannot out rule the other, living in peace and harmony should be the anthem of every Nigerian, no need for tribal displacement or favoritism, no need for ethnic superiority or terrorism, we’re stronger together than apart, we’re so reach in culture that the uniqueness of one will amaze the other.

I haven’t been to my village in ten years, so you can imagine the joy I felt when I saw my village masquerade, I jumped up and down, I cheered them,

I said these are my people, that’s my village masquerade, I know them, I can remember my father would take us home for the festival “EKPO”

He would carry me on his shoulders and when the masquerades were flogging others he will standstill speak their language and they would move, I am from Abia state so I remember a little but that was a very long time ago, I shall be visiting my place soon because of this experience I hope I can find my way back.


Dancing Masquerade


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAE2x54g_2M


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xtJgOrT0v3c


Pardon the video quality i will do better next time.

Ohanaeze Ndi Igbo! Otu Olu {One Voice.}

For more pictures click this link.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/11/pictures-from-ohanaeze-ndi-igbo-new-yam.html

Isabella Ibeji

Bella please I need your honest advice on this, I am dating this guy and we love ourselves a lot it’s been going for close to five years and we are planning on settling down soon.


I don’t earn a lot and neither does he, I teach in a private primary school hoping on God to bless me with a good job soon. My fiancée on the other hand is a fashion designer who doesn’t earn much daily as work is scarce, he was learning while we started dating but he owns a shop now.


He has been discussing marriage plans with me and the possibility of having kids soon but I don’t want my children to suffer ma, how can we get married in this harsh condition? Things are bad I haven’t been paid in months and he’s designing work isn’t bringing in a lot yet please help me please I love him with my life but I am so scared things might never get better how do we even plan a wedding rent an apartment together and start raising kids I have been thinking so much of late and really need advice.




Talk2Bella.



Honey worry about the present and plan for the future, you have been with him all these while and you stayed, he’s not lazy else you would have left him, you see a bright future in him that’s why you stood by and with him all these years.


He sees your worries and knows your pains, he won’t talk about marriage if he doesn’t have future plans, things are bad now doesn’t mean it will remain that way, remember “Humble Beginnings” I admire your courage hard work and sincerity and I am praying things get better soon.


As for the wedding, court weddings aren’t expensive, it’s about love and not flamboyancy, gather a few people and bind your relationship, get a cheap and modest apartment, live within your means and be happy, with happiness and peace of mind comes opportunities you will be amazed.


Talk this through with him and hear what he has to say, congrats in advance I know things will work out well for you.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/11/hes-tailor-with-low-income-who-wants-to.html

wellstryme:
LoL I haven't even say what I am thinking

Heheheh
Uhun

blessedqueen:
U watch too many action movies

Hahaha hahaha

Horror fan

tosyne2much:
Eeehyah... Are you using an android?

A laptop

wellstryme:
You guys are not thinking what I am thinking

Gerrrrrarahia

She's so pretty

Warhawk:
can remember when i took a selfie in front of a moving trailer....

Hahahahaahaha

Damn

Hehehehehehe

bitchcrafts:
Come and meet me in the other room to test the virility of yor claims...

Hehehehehehe

tosyne2much:
Never despise anything. It doesn't matter whether you get paid or not

Never despised it, my system has been battling virus for ages, been choked up with activities to take it to the guy who fixes it for me when I got the email to download the form was problem ehn chai, emailed and asked if I could do it manually and they said yes, that's where doubts came in you know

Legend of the seeker

Might be a symptom of bad water

tosyne2much:
Let's rock and roll

Soon love very soon