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uhuru2015:
Yekቀa But you know the earlier the better. where do you have in mind?

I already know I'd be posted to the north

uhuru2015:
Lol! Don't be o and ቀray for God's will o...

Haven't even registered cos of fear

moyakz:
have u tested ur facts,personally??

Yea I have

This is funny

Warhawk:
Dear Talk2Bella are you single??

No

moyakz:
is that all?

yes

bbmpin:
i see!

Is there anyone with a "functioning brain" that isn't aware of these "public knowledge" common sense?

i get it that you want to promote your channel but you have to be creative, recycling old already known information isn't the way!

you behave like an adult with a childlike sense of wonder #immolated trash

ok

So many relationships have failed because of words, sometimes too much words or a lack of it. Words when said cannot be taken back, most people say the most vile things in a spate of anger or just out of pure hate, they don’t think well sometimes they do, they say calculated hateful things to their partners at their lowest, do not mock a man when he is low for that’s when the most evil of all thoughts comes into his mind, he might act it out on himself, those close to him or to that person who’s said such words to him.


Some men lose their jobs and their wives use this opportunity to remind them having a manhood doesn’t make them men, these women remind them of how useless they’re for not being able to take care of their families.

When men become depressed, they’re mocked because they are seen as weak, women who are supposed to stand by and with them become the microphone who announce to the world that their husbands are simpletons, men without spines, men who cannot take a beating, theymocked, abused verbally and emotionally.

Women aren’t left out, some men say the most vile things to their partners you would begin to wonder if love is the foundation of such relationships, get out of here you fat pig, why do you stink so much, don’t you see how other women dress, why do you always have menstrual pain, why can’t you pass a simple exam, why are you so weak, these things go on and on, sometimes you might think this is an encouragement but vile words have led so many people to their graves, become suicidal, experience depression, so instead of talking down to your partner how about try saying words like this.

He loses his job----- Pray with and for him, don’t remind him every instant, don’t even give him the notion that he’s doing less as a man, respect him, pamper him, but always whisper a soft reminder that he can do better by searching for other jobs, he shouldn’t wallow in his current stay, it might take a while but things will bounce back.

So your girlfriend/fiancée/wife is gaining weight----- don’t be vulgar about it, gaining weight sometimes can be due to a lot of things, it’s not only when you eat too much or lazy around you gain weight, it can be a sign of depression or health related issues, find out why and how she’s gaining weight, sometimes it might be good for her and other times bad, sacrifice your time and food timetable; eat healthy with her, exercise with her, don’t threaten her or chastise her you will be surprise the amount of problems you can solve with patience and understanding.

So your man/woman has body/mouth odor----- why are you always covering your nose? What measures have you taken to help out? You keep discussing him/her to your friends, telling them how you can’t stand the odor that oozes out of their bodies. You come back home and do the same, you won’t kiss them, eat with them, sleep on the same bed with them yet you claim to love them, do you know what love is? I don’t think so what is wrong with you? You think love is superficial? Outwardly? Or you’re in love to impress a couple of people think again.

So they don’t have a job yet an you do---- support them, don’t just support them, support them without keeping tabs or expecting anything in return like marriage or payback or turn them to maids, what is wrong with you? Don’t remind them of their jobless state you’re not good neither are you fate, love them, love them so much even if things don’t work out that gesture will never be forgotten, be kind, buy them things, give them a little allowance, help them search for jobs, don’t be bossy because you have a job now, be modest because their miracle might elevate you more.

So she doesn’t have a child yet, you go about telling people she’s barren, useless, she’s a man, so he has low sperm count and you tell the whole world your husband is less of a man, common, there are better ways to encourage someone, there are better ways to look for solutions, there are better ways to take care of situations, it doesn’t have to be mean, vulgar and vile.

I have so many things to say but I know you get my point and most of us are guilty of these, change now before it’s too late, pride and arrogance coupled with envy and hate are what brings down a soul, you’re guilty, I am guilty but we can make amends from somewhere why not start now and be a better person for your partner, sometimes a stranger too who knows your light at the end of the tunnel might be at the beginning.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vUdysjSLP-Q


Isabella Ibeji


http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/11/things-you-shouldnt-say-to-your-partner.html

deturla:
Hi Bella,

Can we do WhatsApp??.....

You can DM me then we exchange numbers!

alright

now am scared

lemme go buy land

I'd sincerely love to be a part of this, do let me know what I can do to be a part of this

sorry love get well soon, I myself have been in the hospital for like a week, sotey my mother told them to run pregnancy test cos I kept throwing up and refusing to eat, but hey I survived so will u

Collenshy2020:
Jocund shout out to : itsquinn,Cutehector,talk2bella, tonyebarcanista,tosynetumuch,ishilove,introvert, ladyf may God uplift you all and credit your worths in billion folds, unah life nor encounter untimely disaster, Amen...
Happy new month to dah crew above mentioned.

Thanks love wish you same

jahsson:
Talk2bella........

U dont ave to choose... U can have both now... A time will come when you wouldnt feel as beautiful as you do now... Then the wolves in sheep clothing will come in their hundreds...

Find the one to grow with... The one that wouldnt make you choose... Hold am well well... Continue with ur career and succeed...

"had i known is the senior brother to Mr. Regret"..

Be wise but not in thine own eyes....

Thanks lemme go strengthen my relationship the more

Urrrrm when did she turn super model

rossyc:
Talk to daddy and mummy dear.

Hahahahaha
That option is long gone

ladyverere:
You can only be truly successful if you can balance your relationship, be it marriage or dating, and your career. Each needed needs the other for a balanced and content life. If you put career first, what happens after you have gained everything yet there is no spouse or partner to share it with? No kids to love and scold? If you choose relationship, what happens when you become discontent, frustrated and unfulfilled? None is more important than the other. Both must be balanced. Of course this will only relate to those who have ambitions and not to the laid back types. I know a banker who gave up her career for marriage and now she is at the mercy of her husband who just served her a divorce petition barely 3 years after the wedding. Now she is adrift with 2 toddlers in hand. I am all for balancing career and relationship.

Can't I just buy husband joke

But from the comments I have read so far it seems y'all agree it's only a women who career affects but I don't think so, it affects men too but theirs are well hidden because of the age factor

Taiofil:
Life they say... as meaning and filled with love in a communion (marriage) u see talk2bella in my own opinion relationship(marriage) and career both work in tandem with each other if 1 is to become huge succes in life with the right partner. There is this saying that two heads are better than 1, and 1 will kill a thousand while 2 will kill ten thousand, and this applies in all aspect of live because there are gonna be days of plenty (flourish) happiness, and days of little (recession)and sadness, you see in these times a wise man or woman needs a shoulder, a helping hand, a listening ear etc... without your significant other it becomes a difficult task for one to achieve his/her ''real'' goal in this life! Show me a woman or a man who singlehandedly raised a child and wen asked said she/he neva wished or coveted a companion/partner to help raise her/his children... Then i will show you a STINKING LIAR AND A BITTER WOMAN/MAN! Career is for now buh companionship is for ever! Please take heed because an holy book said there is time for everything under the sun!

I have seen career driven people both men and women who were strongly driven to focus on career while relationship suffer regretting it at the end of their life when they can no longer work buh have money to spend! It drives these people into deep depression especially for the women whom @ over 50 no child no husband lives in a duplex as house round lagos n Abuja buh no one to call her baby swthrt or even beat her for not cooking him or her children! She's now looking for a widower who want to remarry just to make herself happy (true life story) buh none is forthcoming! Because she missed time under the sun for right partner!

So in my conclusion marriage/relationship out weighs career in all ramification buh with a perfect (right) partner in a relationship career is a stepping stone for greater things to come!

In other words without an understanding partner which is very rare in this part of the world career and a good relationship can't work

IVORY2009:
For wat purpose? Ur profile says u are a lady, perhaps for cumcuber?

Please I don't understand your response, as a lady I don't need a sister

I need a sister ASAP

Your efforts won't be in vain amen

MissHatey:
A good friend of mine is in this kind of situation. He talked to me last week and I gave him my idea.


I said he should sit her down, tell her he did not see himself getting married in the next 5years(on top say he want to make some dough of which is not true) and that he did not want to waste her time(the babe is set for marriage). I told him to tell her that she should not depend on him and whenever she sees a better man, she's free to go. It's very simple to me.



Guys don't be a time waster! If you are not feeling it, let her go. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Yes, she will be hurt but she will be happy that you did not deceive her and later dump her when it's getting late.


Time heals all wounds!

Clap for yourself

I wish you all the luck in the world mercy, we will all get there soon

krissconnect:
Thanks very much. I know why I mentioned you.

Glad I could help

vchykp:
i once had a girl like that, she bought this phone am using presently for #45k.. the sincere truth is that i dont love her for one second yet she spends lot on me even tho she knows i could afford it,she went to the extend of wanting to sponcor our marriage, it was very difficult for her to free me, she was allover me, i bet you..! leaving this kind of people is the most difficult task ever, but the advice i will give you is to try your best to allow her go bfore its too late for you, its for your own good my brother, if you are not inlove, please dont risk it, let her go because she can kill to have you, make her see resons because those kind of ladies can hurt you if they feel betrayed.

How did you let yours go?

Hi Bella can you please share my story? I have been hurt so many times, many girls have taken me for a fool I used to spend money on them buy them things take them places but it ended up the same way I always get hurt so I decided to stop.

I decided to just sleep with them and leave them since I couldn’t fund love not until I met this lady, she’s matured homely but not beautiful I wooed her and she accepted but the problem I have with her is the way she spends on me, she does not allow me buy her anything not even pant, she pays for everything and this is making me loose interest in her, how should I tell her I am no longer interested.



Talk2Bella.


You don’t love her but you wooed her? You were heartbroken because the other ladies just wanted money from you? She’s smart independent homely but not beautiful? She picks up the bills and this annoys you? Please what do you want?


You have someone who’s willing to do what others weren’t and you’re complaining, you have a goldmine sitting on your laps and you still want to go mining around, you really don’t know what you have until you lose it.


If you don’t love her because she cares too much for you please let her go soonest, tell her immediately let someone who will appreciate her find her, this is very easy, next time she wants to pick up the bills tell her you can afford it, don’t even wait for her to bring out money, pay immediately, take her out, spend for her, before she offers do the offering, her types are very rare and you should consider yourself lucky you found a matured woman and not a demanding girl.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/i-have-girl-who-spends-money-on-me-but.html

Akanbibabatunde:
oh! That one ....and what does mbok mean?? I have received so many mboks lately and am confused...

Oya na or abegi

I think

Now I know what happened to her, we're Facebook friends and she's always clamping on APC mehn one needs to be careful what they say on SM during this administration, she and Goodluck close die and any photo shopped pic of madam bubu visiting hamerica trust her to find it out I am sure she was locked outta Facebook cos of this

Akanbibabatunde:
hey Bella my sweetheart, you shouldn't be asking for his age... Btw I still stare at your pic day and night

I modified the comment already

Which pic mbok

Congratulations dearies

How old are you?

Okay read the comments and saw you're in your early 20's what I can deduce from your writeup is a child's game, she doesn't call she doesn't text bla bla bla some people are that way no matter how much you preach they won't change and distancing yourself from her won't help learn to love her that way give her your best if she doesn't call you call if she doesn't text you text let her know you would love her despite her flaws relationship ain't a competition to know who calls or texts best it's loving someone despite their flaws