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 Romance › Why Do Nigerian Men Come Back Home To Marry? by Talk2Bella(op): 6:41pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
This is something I’d like to understand, are there no good Nigerian women abroad? Most Nigerian men always want to come home to marry, sometimes virgins, they tell their parents to get them wives. They say most women abroad are just good for citizenship papers, work permit, where to stay, do they even realize they hurt these women in the process? Using them like that and running back home to get married. THUNDER FIRE THEM{THE ONE’S WHO USE WOMEN} I see our men, asking for Nigerian wives, having fiancée back abroad; they come home to do secret weddings, impregnate their wives here and run back to their abroad lovers, what the hell is wrong with this generation? We need to stop this form of fraud, and slavery, people aren’t toys to be used and discarded, and the funny thing is we don’t do it to white women alone, we do it to our own African sisters, we say once they get there they change, they don’t want to come back home, they report to the police when we hit them, they lie to get the house and child support, so we want someone who would listen to us and obey our every word and then they rush back home to marry one innocent girl they want to frustrate. I am not against genuine men who want to come home to marry MBANU, I love LOVE, but when I see a man who thinks my African sisters are baby making machines, who they want to come home and impregnate every time, who they want to use as a tool to carry on their linage then I get angry, I get angry because they see us as a commodity, I get angry because they see us as a means to an end, I get angry because love isn’t an equator in this arrangement. I wouldn’t blame all the men either, our women have become cheap cormorants over the years, searching the air like birds, sniffing a whiff of an abroad returnee who they want to perch on, leech on, suck and bleed dry, our women have seen these NDIOYIBOS as a means to an end, all they want to do is sit down at home, he opens up a business for them, and when he comes back they open their legs like a compass and be dutiful, the womb is ready to be filled for the next nine months. We have become sardines, cornered into a space, waiting for the biggest to be picked, and then we jeer our peers, tell them oga de for obodo oyibo, sometimes we don’t care what our abroad husbands does for a living, we just want to sit back home, enjoy his money and sometimes Bleep the ones we love while he’s away. There are good women abroad, and this habit I am sorry to say is common among the Igbo people of Nigeria, they go abroad and hustle and want to invest back home, i have no problem with this, but who will now marry that girl you have been deceiving there? Who will heal the heart of that white woman you have been deceiving. These white women sef, you have used your heads to carry wahala, you agreed for an arrangee wedding and then you go fall in love, how low has your esteem fallen? Why do you want to make our African men worth nothing, you have frustrated them to the extent they see you as a thing to be used and discarded, when and how did you become scums that a black man will ride and plough you until he gets tired, haba na, oyibo pepper ogini, give our men peace so they can value you, not every small thing you will call police for them and everything he has saved all his life will be yours, please I am begging this needs to stop, don’t be the tool that will be used to unscrew the nut holding you heart. Umu woke anyi, biko, gbaraa these white women, they have suffered, pity our African sisters, they have suffered to, anywhere you see love please settle down, love doesn’t come with a manual, it doesn’t base its foundation on ethnicity, religion, color or country, its pure like water and flows effortlessly like a calm stream, don’t in your search for something better end up with a viper. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=937So_VluXQ Isabella Ibeji http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/why-do-nigerian-men-come-back-home-to.html 8 Likes 1 Share
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| Travel › Re: A Nairalander Shares His Badagry Tour Experience by Talk2Bella(f): 6:10pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Cutehector:i dnt even know those places  more of an introvert when im home |
| Romance › Re: It Pays To Be Loyal To Just Her - Bamisepeters' Blog by Talk2Bella(f): 4:40pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
bamisepeters:heheheheheheh mehn aswr |
| Romance › Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Talk2Bella(op): 4:39pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
SwagPower:hahhaahahahaahaha damn that got me 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Talk2Bella(op): 3:26pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
SwagPower:hehehehe dah was a joke, this ur own ehn play play, play play u don clock 40 and u never marry  |
| Romance › Re: Is There Love Without Money? by Talk2Bella(op): 3:12pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Lovechyld101:so u used to claim what u were not |
| Romance › Re: It Pays To Be Loyal To Just Her - Bamisepeters' Blog by Talk2Bella(f): 3:06pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
will they hear, no o, they will say one soup use to tire them  |
| Romance › Re: The Devil Lives In My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 3:05pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
RabbaRabbi: |
| Romance › Re: The Devil Lives In My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 2:40pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
RabbaRabbi:loooool the pic is an example of when implosive anger becomes explosive shey u knw what happens when the hulk transforms na, he's uncontrollable and sometimes he listens to his girlfriend. |
| Romance › Re: The Devil Lives In My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 12:54pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Beesluv:really? |
| Romance › Re: The Devil Lives In My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 12:40pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
HungerBAD:Nigerian definition of madness is only when the person is raving on the street stark naked, they don't know there are other forms of mental disorder 2 Likes |
| Romance › The Devil Lives In My Boyfriend. by Talk2Bella(op): 12:30pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
How do you control a man whose temper sparks and lights like a transformer, the neighbors know him as Mr. Trouble, our street people are so scared of him, when he talks everyone keeps quiet because the next thing he does is pull off his shirt, breaks bottle and start chasing that person, he just picks anything he sees and uses it as a weapon. He doesn’t beat me, sometimes when I see him act I wonder if it’s the same man whom I make love to every night, he’s so gentle with me, pets me, cooks for me sometimes even helps with laundry, I am beginning to think he’s possessed, because he doesn’t act like himself when his outside. I have talked to him, preached prayed and fasted and it’s getting worse, do you think it might be some sort of mental illness? He snaps easily when he’s outside, even when I provoke him he’s the one who apologizes, I don’t understand this at all please help. Talk2Bella. For someone to react in such manner, it means someone really got to his nerves, I don't think he just does that anyhow, please try to understand that, or he really has anger issues which he finds very difficult to control, little things people he doesn’t care about do piss him off. It's good that you are aware of his other side, sometimes men could act so caring to a fault just to win your heart and the moment you two get married, just try pissing him off and you will be sorry your last name is Mrs. Doe. Now you mentioned that he doesn't display all that when you annoy him right? Well I advise you never do that which would hurt him, it's like living with a Lion or a ticking time bomb, just as he is able to protect your from other predators, Same way he will frighten you one day should you push him to the wall. You should continue to do that which makes him happy, unless you know that you are the type that can say rash things to a man, please do not make the mistake of pushing him to the wall if you are such type of person. you’re the only one who understands him at this point, you know what he likes and doesn't like, please never forget that, allow him to continue being the Man, and then you won't have a problem. And as for his behavior in public, I suggest you relay how hurt you are each time he fights someone, you don't have to scold or shout or engage in 40days and night prayer and fasting because you want to change his character, no Simply, continue to let him know he breaks your heart each time you get to see him engaging in fights and that you fear for his life should something really funny happens. Remind him that he'll soon be a father (that's if you both don't have kids yet) and that you don't want to live without him, I believe it will sink into his thoughts and gradually change his odd lifestyle. And if these things don't work out, like i said it’s like living with a time bomb, one day he will snap and when no one is there for him to vent his anger on, who do you think he will turn to? You of course, he needs huge amount of therapy, this is something you should talk to him about, a shrink needs to evaluate his mental health and see if he's fit to be in society, there are different types of anger, i happen to know about the explosive and implosive type, the implosive type happens to be more dangerous as one can snap anytime without warning, you man might have this type of anger towards you and all you need to do is look at him some type of way and boom he explodes. He isn’t facing you now doesn’t mean your turn won’t come, are you ready to wait to that day should be the question you should be asking yourself. Good luck. Reply From CuteHector And Bella Talk2Bella Team http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/the-devil-lives-in-my-boyfriend.html
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| Romance › Re: Is There Love Without Money? by Talk2Bella(op): 10:32am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Linqsz: you're funny 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Talk2Bella(op): 10:01am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Prechy08:Using my post is not the problem, the question is how sincere are you? |
| Romance › Re: Is There Love Without Money? by Talk2Bella(op): 8:29am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Linqsz:U can share your story with us @tork2bella@gmail.com  |
| Romance › Re: Is There Love Without Money? by Talk2Bella(op): 8:28am On Oct 23, 2016 |
VaginaTerrorist: 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Is There Love Without Money? by Talk2Bella(op): 8:26am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Cutehector:U2 darling  |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy For Female Presenters by Talk2Bella(f): 12:30am On Oct 23, 2016 |
Can I increase my age? |
| Romance › Re: Is There Love Without Money? by Talk2Bella(op): 11:48pm On Oct 22, 2016 |
pressplay411:when did men start loving broke girls? |
| Romance › Re: Is There Love Without Money? by Talk2Bella(op): 11:33pm On Oct 22, 2016 |
Doctorfitz:hahaahahaahaah at the bolded I am sure they had something equivalent to that and our mothers weren't greedy, because our fathers had sweet mouth |
| Romance › Re: Is There Love Without Money? by Talk2Bella(op): 10:40pm On Oct 22, 2016 |
ArabMopol:money is not the foundation of any relationship, this is why there's no love anymore because u mistake the need for material satisfaction to love |
| Romance › Re: Is There Love Without Money? by Talk2Bella(op): 10:38pm On Oct 22, 2016 |
HabaSeun:why u no enter bush fry lizard toad and snake for am |
| Romance › Re: Is There Love Without Money? by Talk2Bella(op): 10:37pm On Oct 22, 2016 |
| Romance › Re: Where Are All The Good And Responsible Guys?? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:09pm On Oct 22, 2016 |
adedayo3193: 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: What Name Did You Save Your Partner's Contact With? by Talk2Bella(f): 10:06pm On Oct 22, 2016 |
The other room |
| Romance › Re: Is There Love Without Money? by Talk2Bella(op): 9:14pm On Oct 22, 2016 |
Mujaheeeden:I am not talking about the total absence of money I am talking about the understanding which comes with the lack of it |
| Crime › Re: Rapists Kill Pregnant Woman In Ikorodu, Lagos (Photos) by Talk2Bella(f): 9:00pm On Oct 22, 2016 |
God of thunder I thought badoo was dead? It's such a shame that they have called those men in black since morning and they didn't show up, we're they scared? Bribed? Or just plain stup** God please comfort these families Heal the ones in the hospital Touch ambode to relocate and establish them They will never know peace Let the blood of the unborn child who was murdered in the mother's womb haunt them till they stand in front of trailer or train and die gruesomely One day all of them shall meet their doom on the same day Let their be confusion in their camp or wickedness evil and atrocities Peace has eluded them from this moment Let the fire of the holy ghost torment them day and night Oh lord That innocent girl that was murdered Lord though she's dead fight her battle Don't let her death be in vain Thunder lightening strike them where ever they are I am so angry I am so hurt This Ikorodu is becoming an outcast In lagos state The government treats them like they don't exist They have been complaining from the beginning of this year All those government officials on nairaland if you're reading this you have failed us 8 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Is There Love Without Money? by Talk2Bella(op): 8:58pm On Oct 22, 2016 |
Pierocash:Big lie |
| Celebrities › Re: Tee Billz Returns To Social Media Quietly by Talk2Bella(f): 8:58pm On Oct 22, 2016 |
YorubaStinks:Abia |
| Romance › Re: Is There Love Without Money? by Talk2Bella(op): 8:40pm On Oct 22, 2016 |
midehi2:Lie joor |
| Family › Re: Woman Gives Birth To Twins 18 Years After Marriage. Photos by Talk2Bella(f): 6:12pm On Oct 22, 2016 |
IVF Praise God for science 3 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: Laura Ikeji Blasts Man Who Told Her She Is Nothing Without Linda Ikeji by Talk2Bella(f): 6:10pm On Oct 22, 2016 |
astarotte:Well you have a point there |
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if to say I no be man ehh, na run I for take comot for this thread...
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