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TrapQueen77:
I juz dey sit here... Front seat taken...





It's too complicated tat I can't even munch my cashew nuts

Cant believe he's found a good girl but says she's not the right one

I have been dating this girl for a while now, to me 1yr but to her she thinks we have been dating for two years apparently all the while we have been close friend she thought we were dating as a was still playing. I got serious with her early last year. Now my problem is this


I have realize that I cannot marry her cuz she is not the kind of woman I want to settle down with. I had to tell her the truth cuz i noticed that is what she is having in mind (that am going to finally settle with her) which is wrong. She felt bad and insisted she will still be with me. I know she loves me very much which I don’t in return. I just like and respect her a lot, as a matter of fact she is one girl I value so much and a girl I never cheated on.

She has refused to let go, and I don’t know how to tell her off cuz I can’t stand to see her go through pains for my sake. Now she picks offence in most of my fb post about "searching for a wife", "wondering what my future wife will be doing". Bella the thing tire me oo..


If you know I sent this you go yab me wella. Cuz we always dig it on your fb page. Lol. Never mind. Reply abeg.



Talk2Bella



Bro, there are things in life one needs to acquire, wisdom and foresight, it really saves you from unforeseen circumstances and makes your life as peaceful as a calm river.


Now, let's go back to your post, you made mention that you value this girl whom you have resolved never to get married to and do not have any iota of feelings for her because she isn't the kind of woman whom you want to get married with. Why do u say that? If you value someone so much then you have to keep that person as a treasure.


I want to believe your reasons for that does not revolve around these reasons I’ve mentioned


Physical attributes such as beauty, shape, height


Her lack of financial stability,


Her family not being wealthy,


Her grammatical affluence


Her educational background


Her Family History


Her Intercourse preferences (that's if you have already had played with her), and


Her place of worship.


If your reasons do revolve around them then you are making a huge mistake. This is a girl who has grown to love and respect you so much; you will be surprised that you may regret your actions by rejecting her when you have come across ‎several other ladies.


Now, I’m not saying you should love her out of pity; I’m only trying to set the records straight and inculcate sound judgment to you. As long as your reasons for letting her go isn't selfish, then you should let her understand that some things are never meant to be, that not all relationships lead to marriage but are a stepping stone to appreciate the one meant for her and that friendships last forever.


But before you make that call, I need to remind you this;


A good wife is much precious than gold, far valuable than rubies. As long as she lives, she does him good, and never harm. Proverbs chapter 31 vs. 10-12


Just as I’ve advised, I also believe that one or two advice from the audience will help straighten your path. Thanks.


Reply From CuteHector


Talk2Bella Team

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/shes-not-wife-materia-enough.html

dirtyslap:
I can bet with my two balls your brother washes the panties of those girls that flocks around him. Afterall he is mr nice guy.

see how ur balls just go saaarah

WackyJ1:
Nothing in the thread about being funny..

Girls love a man with a good sense of humor.

*starts looking for my sense of humour*

yea very true

bbmpin:
Dont tempt me! #irredeemably boorish rapscallion

Abia

bbmpin:
i have noticed that*

GST121

Confirmed, it is indeed how you see yourself

bbmpin:
Elucidate me!

How is this poo helpful to any "sane" person? #crap

I have noticed poo is your favorite word is that how you see yourself?

Tallesty1:
One mustn't be a ladies man to keep female friends. A good friends stays even when you're a gays man.




Talking about female friends, sorry to say this but majority of them are parasites and a broke dude doesn't need parasites in his life.

nah I don't think so, I have been friends with all sorts of people I can tell you I'd rather be friends with someone who's struggling to be somebody those kinda friendships are forever

Tallesty1:
How can you be broke and still wants to be a lady's man? It doesn't make any sense to me

So broke people can't have female friends?

zarakay:
number 2 is so on point.
I think it's also applicable to ladies too.

Yea it goes both ways

chicoMX:
very nice OP, I will change my name to passion too

Let’s not be pretenders here and say we love broke men, truth is no one wants to date a broke man, money is one of the things that keep a relationship going and strong, it doesn’t matter who’s providing it be it the man or the woman, as long as there’s money there’s happiness

So shouldn’t broke men date? or have women flock around them, How’s it possible for someone who can’t fulfill the financial needs of women have one in his life? Let me give you a small gist using my brother as a case study, loll I hope he doesn’t read this, well he will, he can’t kill me.

My brother happens to be someone who’s isn’t financially buoyant now or really handsome but I can’t count the number of girls that flock around him, both the beautiful and the ugly and the “Somehow” type of girls, I was always skeptical like, how does he keep them and always make them happy, now it’s pertinent to know he wasn’t dating all of them, or most of them but they always flocked around him and one day I made it my mission to find out why.

These were the things I noticed during my SPY mission to find out why ladies loved this shy and gentle but still broke yet brother of mine.

You cannot be broke and have a strong name like, Chukwuma, or Obinna, Or Gbenga or Muyideen, these names don’t appease to women unless you’re sitting in an air conditioned car or something, I noticed my brother changed his name to “Passion” mind you his real name is Ikechukwu, sharp guy.

You cannot be broke and be rude, my brother is one of the nicest people I know, maybe it’s a natural gift but that guy can nice for Africa and y’all know how ladies feel about nice guys, especially guys they feel they can use because he’s nice, well na so things de take enter pant., from doing free assignments to being a shoulder to cry on, mehn I wonder how these girls flock around him.

You can’t be broke and be stingy, these girls they know you’re broke already, they chose to be friends with you even with your brokeness and all of a sudden you’re eating 100 naira bread and you don’t want to share, dude, this is one way to chase girls far away from your life, always be nice and calm, women love to spend money on men they see as “Helpless but nice” and I have noticed my brother being this way, not just with girls this time but with everyone.

You don’t have to dress expensive, but you need to dress nice, don’t overdo it when trying to impress women, even if you have one shirt make sure it’s always clean and ironed, dress smart, dress clean but always dress nicely.

Learn to check up constantly on your female friends, this works all the time, we love attention, we bask in its presence and it doesn’t matter who’s giving it to us, as a broke guy there’re so many cheap call plans you can choose from, when you call a lady just to check up on her, ask about her wellbeing and everything, believe me you’re gradually penetrating her heart, winning her over and making her like you more than usual, believe me I learnt this from my brother, that guy is always making and receiving calls.

Who says broke men can’t find the women of their dreams, all they need do is change their approach and personae and see things change for the better, do these things and thanks me later.


Isabella Ibeji

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/how-to-be-broke-and-still-be-ladies-man.html

finalboss1:
bella i dnt lie . ..lols

Hahahahahah
Indeed

RadicallyBlunt:
OK now. Tell your friend. In fact demonstrate d style u guys did on bed to her.

RadicallyBlunt

ItsQuinn:
If you want to spoil your friend's marriage please by all means go ahead

Realhommie:
The best advice is what you've given her @Op..

There's no need whatsoever to spill, let it just remain in the past. Unless she now wants to put asunder ooo and pour sand in her friends garri otherwise i can't fathom why she would contemplate such in the first place.

My 50 kobo.

Exactly

finalboss1:
talk2bella cn lie ehn

I de learn where u de

Cutehector:
Lol I think u"v posted dis before

Nah

Hi Bella, your blog is really nice; it took a lot of courage for me to send this email.

So it happened that the person my friend is married to now was once my lover, we weren’t really serious but we had fun together a couple of times before I left for the states.

But before I left we started developing feelings for each other and promised to keep in touch, when I got to the states I decided to forget about him.

I got back a couple of months ago and wanted us to hookup, I didn’t even know he was married and not just married but to a friend, we have met, nothing’s happened yet, but I feel guilty each time I get to hangout with them, I feel my friend should know I used to sleep with her husband or what do you think?



Talk2Bella



No honey your friend doesn’t need to know anything, and the best thing to do for yourself and your friend with her husband is to distance yourself far from them as possible.


It’s obvious you still have feelings for this man, why do you want to torture yourself by hanging out with them? Seeing him all the time and reminiscing on the past? You’re just hurting yourself and one day spoil your friend’s marriage.


I am sure you have other friends, even unmarried ones, hang out with them, forget about this man and his wife who happens to be your friend, move on, and find someone else or something else to keep your mind busy.


Lingering on is just going to spoil things for you both, you once had something that wasn’t just a fling, being around him is going to arouse those feelings and he might cheat on his wife with you, and he definitely won’t leave her for you, so honey the same courage it took you to send me this email, apply it to your self-esteem and leave alright?


Good luck.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/do-i-tell-my-friend-i-had-affair-with.html

teepsee:
But why is it that i have not seen any body telling this dude to visit the nearest olosho?


Well i think I'm the only pervert here. But that is my opinion ni oo....

Thank me later

he says his religion doesnt allow it

piagetskinner:
Another Chinese crap... Samsung Na Baba

Mehn Samsung got me hooked

Who de buy phones for this recession

WTF

Benita27:
Some of them think we don't.

Robot Femmes

Precel1:
well I know a really really cute guy in my school that girls just don't like talking to cos he's too timid.. so concluding that he's not handsome that's why girls won't talk to him is actually off point

I agree with you

Presh900:
Get a Soap preferrably Joy Soap,,,u won't remember girls aqain...thnk me Later

Benita27:
Lol.
This statement has weight in it. prove me other wise if i lied.

Oya prove her wrong na

samzzycash:
i just created a thread for proud virgins and here is some one whose life sucks for being a virgin smh TEAM VIRGIN.

Hahahahahah
"PROUDVIRGINS"

TrapQueen77:
Well, we ladies shud seek something worth u know?


We shud never settle for anything less.. These virgins men are like jewels in paradise...

Their naivety is a turn on

Benita27:
Don't mind that one.
When guys air their sexcapade it's cool.
When a girl does, she's a who*re.
He didn't mention anyone.

Godforbid we have sexualll feelings

TrapQueen77:
Oohh hollllly guacamole.... My love for them are on top.




#Ilovevirginman
#teamvirgin

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