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finalbosss1:
cooked up lies.. laila nd talk2bella two fat lairs... they do anything for traffic..

Liars

Targaeryian:
My gf of 3 yrs broke up with me last weekend because she said I don't have her time.

Long distance relationships are hard.

Add to that being a resident doctor

If I'm not on call, I'm preparing for a presentation or doing some extra work on the side.

This life sef...

No one is every really busy

Maybe communication might not have been her main reason for breaking up with you

Cutehector:
lol how do u even get paid sef? Is all this blogging shii for free?

Mine is driven by passion

Getting paid isn't the goal for now

This is for the girls who think it’s fun to sleep around or have different men who give them money for different things while they have one boyfriend who they claim to love.

Just imagine your life is like this every day, you speak to Alhaji, you thank him for the money he gave to you, and what next? You book an appointment with him, selling your body in the process just because of money.

Your life is in shambles, stick to one man, it pays, there’s no gain in that life, you have different men who cater to your different needs but at the end of the day you’re no different from ladies who sell their body for money.

You know all languages to communicate with the different men in your life, but when your boyfriend calls you, you speak like a Briton, deceiving him, assuring him of the non-existent love you have for him and still collecting the little he has, my dear, body go tell you.

We are in ember month, please be careful, so many evil men out their looking for girls to use for ritual purposes, don’t let your parents efforts be in vain, don’t lose that man who would give all to be with you just because of money, he’s poor today don’t mean he won’t make it, encourage him, be his neck and backbone, a word is enough for the wise.

This Is Funny And Entertaining But Also Has A Message In It For Our Ladies.

Please like, share and subscribe.

Thanks and Godbless



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lnysKdP0_2Q

Isabella Ibeji

Savvy2:
Thank God for "Weekends" you could do something meaningful with it...

very true

Cutehector:
Talk2bella

thanks I think i'm on point so far

what do you think?

I saw your YouTube video and remembered your big head loll; you were my senior in secondary school just a year ahead, you didn’t spend much time but the little you spent impacted my life in a nice way and seeing what you do now it’s no surprise because you were this way back then, always wanted to help out.

Now please keep my identity anonymous, I also have that communication problem with my man; but it’s only when I’m at work I get carried away and won’t reply messages in hours or return his calls.

I am a banker so you can imagine, I rarely have time and I work in a busy branch and when I get home I am very tired I just have dinner and sleep right off. We don’t stay in the same state but these days I feel the strain on our relationship because of my job, how do I balance work on my relationship?



Talk2Bella.



First things first I don’t have big head loll and I am glad I made a little impact in your life years back.


Career has been the death of many relationships, time, availability and communication; these things are necessary for a relationship to be successful and I always say no matter how busy anyone is there’s always a little time to send an SMS, place a quick call to someone they love and care about.


No one is ever really busy in the “Sense” and all your man needs is an affirmation that career won’t come first before him. I know how tedious your job can get and some banks don’t allow their staffs bring in their personal phones to work so they don’t get distracted but sweetheart immediately you leave the office, give him a call, send him an SMS let him know you’d be tired when you get home and in case you don’t call or cant receive his call you love him and always think about him, trust me this will make his day and lift up his spirit.


Communicating with our partner doesn’t have to be long and lengthy; we make it seem like a big deal it’s the little gestures that matter, even if it’s for a little while, that show of remembrance is all that matters, communication goes both ways and if he’s doing it all the time he definitely is going to get tired someday.


I know your job is important and you love it, but there’s someone who needs that love also and would do anything for it, don’t lose out on something beautiful because you don’t understand the basics of communication, a simple hello would lift a spirit, and a simple I miss you would make someone love you forever.


http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/my-job-is-ruining-my-relationship.html

hollywater:
AY u 4 my hand. Must u make it public? Even my uncle spent the same amount as far back 2006 to send me Europe, he never tell anybody.

Your uncle no announce am cos social media never popular that time

while I commend hi's effort I am just hoping it's only today he gave him 1M I hope he has been giving him much more than that

AY is worth a lot by now Yomi''s design should be competing on international standards.

See how Linda pave way for Laura even tho we dunno what her job is, it should be the same for every family one person must be the Moses that would part the Red Sea

fuckboy:
my pastor cannot even give someone biscuit not to talk of car he'll naw be telling people that do not have to sow seeds

At least he's not telling you my God is not a 20 naira God

Same thing happened to me yesterday

Had nothing

Someone I don't know just dash me 50k

I cried uncontrollably Chao

Broke days mehn

I must become a model

Me that I'm looking for who would subscribe to my YouTube channel

ItsQuinn:
The story is funny though ....bella, that person that sent you this story is a bloody troll

Wasn't funny fa

PulloutGameA1:
Bella lemme buy you a drink.

Time and place

eyinjuege:
Why do I have a feeling that this story is cooked up just to draw traffic to someone's blog?

Anyway, why not write it as a diary, a fictional one?

People will still read it na

Shebi is only feeling that you feel?
No it wasn't cooked
It wS stylishly prepared

TrapQueen77:




What happen to ur moniker?

Nothing o
Sometimes nairaland won't lemme post with that

Don't forget to subscribe to my channel mbok

stiflerdrug:
You have to look good to make a nigga stay.. + cook real nice chicken sauce

Efo Riro

Cutehector:
Most people blame the reason for their single status on the opposite sex.


Dats nonsense.



Y'all single because you want to be single! Those in fruitful relationships don't have two heads! Those getting married every Saturday aren't angels! They are humans like us, they understand that there is never a smooth relationship and they endure through all the hurdles.



I can never say i'm single cuz i'v not found the right girl, I will say i'm single cuz i've not made myself available.


Xoella

Uncle Hecky

Presh900:
somewhere in Ikeja, anty Linda is crying over why she chose her career over her dating life

Please educate yourself

http://nigerianfeminism..com.ng/2016/10/the-feminism-in-linda-ikeji.html?m=1

dasparrow:
See epistle. I have always wondered why Nigerians are so obsessed with other people's relationship status? Like how does that affect the price of fish in the market? Newsflash, your country Nigeria is going down the abyss, your currency is turning into a worthless piece of paper, your leaders have no clue what the hell they're doing, prices of food stuff are going through the roof leaving many Nigerian families hungry and all you are worried about is why a person is single? Alright, here are some reasons why some people are single:

1. They do better on their own than in a team.

2. They have not found that special person that they can picture spending the rest of their lives with.

3. They hate or abhor sex and as such cannot be in a relationship where sexual intercourse will be required of them.

4. They were sexually abused either as children or adults and as such, they don't trust people with their bodies.

5. For religious reasons: They want to spread the good news of the kingdom of God like Apostle Paul in the bible did and being in a relationship will be a distraction for them.

6. They just don't want marriage, period.

7. They are afraid of contracting sexually transmitted diseases especially at the rate with which people cheat on their significant others in relationships nowadays. This especially seems to be the case in Nigeria where most married men cheat on their wives at some point anyways. We all know abstinence is the best form of protection from those nasty sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies.

8. They don't want to fornicate and most people nowadays require that you Bleep them once you choose to date them so they choose to remain single rather than offend God and risk hell fire after death.

9. They want to focus on their studies or career for now and don't need any distraction.

10. They are not emotionally ready for any relationship right now.

11. They are gay and being in a same-sex relationship here in Nigeria will land them in jail for 14 years. So they rather stay single rather than date someone of the opposite gender whom they are not sexually attracted to.

So there you have it. The above are some reasons why people are single or have chosen to remain single and we should all learn to respect their choice. After all, pressuring anyone into a relationship they are not ready for helps no one.

And you accuse me of writing an epistle

Mercykayy:
#smiles. Taken?

Yea
Career

Tiny23:
very well,thanks

You're welcome

Tiny23:
indeed!how did I attack her?
only asked a simple question with no pun intended...

Sorry for the misunderstanding
I Bring here as no one is an island
No matter how nairalanders joke there's always an atom of truth in how they give advice and I learn from it.

This place is also a good advertising platform

Does that answer your question?

UrWorstNitemare:
Mehn !!

I give up

... can't even spell Love... chai !

Luff

emeraldknytt:
With a whooping 1.8million active users and well a highly numerated number of guests, a huge number of people will benefit from the A2A. Some, like me, will implement the solution(s) proferred and modified by NLers. Bella ain't stingy, it is a revolution.









sorry about the 'it', dunno if you are a male or female.

I got so much love for you right now, thanks

UrWorstNitemare:
kk ya doin Web bah ?

WobiWossWossDotTalk2BellaDotCom...

Doesn't change nada**

SMH 4u...

My new luff

ndcide:
Both the @op, and those wasting their time supporting her weak attempt to justify modern day foolishness are living in denial.

You want equality yet want concessions because of your gender.

But my "weak attempt" brought you here

MrsPhyno:
The most common argument against feminism on NL is "so are u gonna foot the bill on dates?!" "Can we go Dutch?" "Will we split the cost half and half?"

Comes off as a bit pathetic. Women don't dictate the terms to u, you're (I presume) the one asking to date them, no one is stopping u from telling them to pay for everything.
That is the least of the reasons feminism needs to exist, because Nigerian guys don't wanna pay for some chingum girl to gorge at KFC.

It's only ignorant people who see feminism as only going Dutch if only they knew what feminism is about