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finalboss:
haha talk2bella is fake nah all her stories are fake lies, na she dey compose all this mysterious lies her self...may be na guy self

Fake indeed

ariano10:
you of course

Ok

ItsQuinn:
Hahahaha ....sorry I can't help it, at that point I have no control over my life anymore, the female hormones are really strong and powerful

yes I know hun, I have been there, we get hornier during this period but I can't just do it while I am on, kinda disgusting tho

ItsQuinn:
I get really Hot during my period and it's ridiculous to the point of having really deep dark fantasies

Asewoooooo

Piercedclit1:
Not dirty at all If you do in the shower or on the floor no lubricants needed

thanks for this insight, I really dunno why some naija men like to pretend, some might have even done it sef

ariano10:
This girl can never grow up, always spilling trash

biko which girl?

Cutehector:
lol wah do u do in the name of sex

don't even get me started

but this aint one of em tho

Cutehector:
Having sex during one's period isn't as dirty or yurky as people think...




What sort of nonsense is this?




Some guys be saying dey can't stick their dick in for anal sex buh want to have sex with a girl during her period..


Madness!

yes its true, do u know some guys actually enjoy this? e go shock u wetin people de do in the name of sex

Benita27:
Talk2Bella plz remove that image and replace it with something else.

done

Hello Bella


I hope this email doesn’t disgust you, but I need to talk to someone about it, it happened that one day I didn’t know I was on my period, my boyfriend and I had sex, I enjoyed it much more than usual it was when he removed his penis that we realized the sheet was stained and his manhood covered in blood.


He was angry at first but when I told him I wasn’t aware he forgive me , now I know my period is almost close and I want to try it again without his knowledge, I can’t get the feeling of the last time out of my mind, I have been waiting for this day.

I read one of the post about a girl that used cotton wool, maybe that will work, but it will stop the blood from flowing and making that place slippery, please advise me thank you.


Talk2Bella.


It is not a new thing that some women get hornier during their periods; some women enjoy having sex during this time so there’s nothing disgusting about your email.


There are so many myths surrounding having sex during your period here in Africa that I would implore you to discuss this with your partner before allowing him have sex with you during your period.


If you and your partner don’t use condoms, make sure you understand the risks of STIs, other infections, and pregnancy even during your period.


Having sex during one’s period isn’t as dirty and yucky as many people think, sometimes it can be healthy for women, helps reduce menstrual cramps and all, but this has to be an understanding you have with your sexual partner please do not do it without his knowledge as it is a taboo for some men. here in Africa.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/i-enjoy-sex-during-my-period.html

I cannot imagine the amount of pms you have gotten so far especially from nairaland shemales

STENON:
Move on with your life and the best revenge is to be more successful that when you'r with him.

Thanks

Oluwaplumpie:
So I'm guessing u fell in love with him because he was exceptionally hard working? Loads and piles of crap. Take a walk and get it over with and stop looking for someone that'll make u feel good about it.

That might not be the case

Benita27:
I feel for women who marry only sons, so much is expected of them.
I don't want.

I just saw a vision for you

Nah only son and only child u go marry

When it gets to our turn that's how it will be, good intentions are overly overrated we will think we're doing it in his best interest before you know daughter inlaw go just de plan us

Benita27:
I noticed 80% of our Nigerian mother in-laws threat their daughter in-laws badly unlike their foreign counterparts, and this trend is so common,once a man says he wants to take you to see his parents instead of excitement a certain fear creeps in.
personally i'm not scared of meeting the man's father because i assume father's trust their sons to have made the right choices, but for the mothers is not usually the same, was able to ask someone if she felt same and she confessed feeling worse.
Why are our Nigerian mother in-laws so mean?.
Need your contributions, and Ladies how do you feel when getting to meet them?.

Cc: Aderola15.
Talk2Bella.
IamNawty.
Laveda.

It's in our genetic code especially if he's an only son or only child, I de pity my brother babes dem de hear weeen anytime my mother sets eyes on them

Am no longer in love with my boyfriend and I don't know how to tell him that to his face. He's not doing things that give me courage. I see him as lazy and not working hard enough. Please help me



Talk2Bella.




There are several ways you can break up with someone, but the attitude in which we carry out this act is what makes any breakup easy.


Why do you think he’s lazy? There’s a huge difference between someone being lazy and things not working out for them yet, does he sit at home all day and do nothing? No matter how you see someone, you can’ tell how hard enough they are working to better their lives.


He doesn’t give you enough courage, well sweetheart you already see him as being lazy, no matter how much he might try to encourage you, you’d never take him serious because you already see him as being beneath you.


Letting him go now might not be the best way, you might just loose a diamond in the rough because of your impatience, why not try to encourage him, build him, stand by him, give him courage and watch him become the man you want, this is no easy task but with a little more love and patience I believe things might work out.


Try it this way first, and see how it goes; remember see him as a human being first, then as a man second, then as your lover and accord him the respect he deserves.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/im-no-longer-in-love-with-my-boyfriend.html

queencalipso:
He hurt you badly and you are considering taking him back simply bcz he said he's sorry.

My dear this, is another of his lies. If you take him back, you will experience the worst deception ever known to man. Walk away fast and don't even try to look back.

A cheat/lier will always be so unless with Gods intervention.

Here's how you can stop your self from taking him back, let your memory of him be the pain and tears he made you go through, block your mind to the good times you had together Cz am very certain the bad ones out weighs them. Remember the sleepless and hungry nights you went through Cz of him and allow d picture of his bad attitude which you choose to ignore play constantly in you head.


Love is not blind, it chooses to ignore. You can walk away if you so wish.

"Love is not blind, it chooses to ignore" I love that quote

ItsQuinn:
I would advice you to move on....he hurt you really bad and now he wants to come back? If you let him in, he's going to hurt you again, even worse. So save yourself from heartbreak in the future and move on.....don't worry you will find someone way better than him someday.

He had a chance and he ruined that chance, bad luck for him

At least with this experience, he's going to learn to never fvck with a lady like that again

His Loss

Dotwillis1:
he hasn't fvckd yhu enough nd he wants you back to satisfy that. Flee

and maybe that too

Rakash:
You deserve much more bae, its gonna be difficult but learn to move on.

sometimes it good to just walk away and never look back

Waiting for daddyfreeze

Hi Bella I need some advice.

We didn’t really date for long before I found out he’s a cheat and a liar but I was already in love and decided to turn a blind eye until he started acting real funny, ignoring my calls, won’t send me messages for days, always snapped at me and so on.

I was really patient and all but when I saw where the whole thing was leading to I decided to take a walk and save myself some shame, after all I did see the signs and I decided to ignore it.

Recently we started talking again and he tells me how much he misses me and all, how he made a mistake and should never have let me go, that he was facing some issues then and needed the space, now he wants us to work things over, another chance to get to know him.

I am scared, he hurt me more than I let on here, I was devastated for weeks, would cry myself to sleep always till I was able to get over him and now he’s back and I can’t stop myself from not giving him a chance, do you think this would be like before?



Talk2Bella.



Thanks for opening up.

You see, Dating and being in a Love bound relationship are two different things and most times, people wrongly interchange them and feel they are the same, but truthfully, they are not and I can point out u skipped the part where you were supposed to get to know each other and went to fall in love blindly due to reasons best known to you. Love doesn't happen overnight, it takes a lot of effort and actions, not feelings, for it to be established correctly.


Due to the course of you two dating, you observed that he was a cheat and a liar, that alone should have made you to understand he isn't the right man for you. Someone who cheats is more likely than not to cheat a second time, and a third, and a fourth, irrespective of how sorry they are during their cry for another chance.

I advise you ask yourself what you really want in a relationship. From what I gathered in your post, it seems you like the attention from your partner and where that Is lacking, would really bring friction in your relationship so I suggest you find someone else who shares same passion and reasoning with you and pitch your tent there.

Please don't allow feelings to cloud your sense of judgment rather, stay on top of your game and be in charge of your happiness.


I believe other viewers would have some comments to pitch in which will go a long way in strengthening you to make the right decision.

Reply By CuteHector

Talk2Bella Team

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/we-broke-up-after-he-cheated-but-he.html

Thank goodness it's not all these KIA and Picanto

They won't have recovered any parts

Hope there were survivors

prittyboi:
ko easy faaaa

Not at all

EmperorLee:
Bella clap for yourself

Yes sir

We're looking for man

ucsparks:
Nice write up talk2bella, lemme tell my bae to follow you so I'll be collecting kpekus on a daily

hahahahaha

i am waiting

Vinshu:
I don't expect a hoe to agree with me

now i am a hoe {farm instrument} for not agreeing with you

kingjabz:
But Bella to know on neighbors door is not easy for guys u know that
For example; know know Bella, can I talk to u privately den what next Bella Sucking things

Hahahahahhaah
Try am first na

dmgr:
in sauti sol voice* ohh isabella.......

nice piece

Thanks