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chigoizie7:
What makes u think this very lady is innocent?


I don't why women epitomise "them having sex with a guy"

BensonOkere:
You might be a graduate but you need to go back to school. This time ,choose BEDMATICS as a course. Even if he doesn't love you, so far you have the formular to solve BEDMATIC EQUATIONS , he'll keep returning visits for more lessons.
To be Frank, he left because you ain't what he builded in his imagination. You have to apologize to him for making him build on wrong imagination. Lolz

BlackAfrican:
He waited for six month. That night you guys had sex, something turned him off totally. Your ex could bear it for three years but this guy did not want to waste your time like your ex. So ask yourself what happened during the sex. That's where your answer lies. As for bellanaija, I pity people swallowing your advice. What a feminist you are.

czarr:
6months....that's wickedness!!!
Haba!!for a red blooded man?...when she is not a virgin?...and doesn't look like Kim kardashian?


That guy just wanted to make a statement, and I stand behind him ,she just want make him sperm turn powdery.

truthsayer007:
Learn from her mistake? So you mean she should wait next 1 year in a relationship before she has any sexual relations with a guy, so it can assure her that it won't be hit and run.

There is more to the story that meets the eye, I don't see myself running from a girl i just hit, that i waited 6 months for. Believe me he must have seen something that made him run. I would continually hit her.

The guy was spending money and his time, and doing romantic dates. Spending both time and money for a girl is really a big sacrifice.
Do you know what it means to wait for a lady EACH EVENING just to pick her up from work for 6 months, and they are working at separate places ?

Can you that if you were a guy?

This is clearly not a Hit and Run story. Something someone is not saying.

Fajs:
This is a deliverance case o. well if he was after you for sex he would have stayed back no man wait for 6 months spends a lot just to have sex with her once at least he would gone more rounds. my dear friend abeg u need serious prayers and counselling he has taken something from you

Enockia:
this is why i keep saying even if u have sex on the very first date or on th 600th date who wan run go run delaying the sex doesn't prove nothing

dharay99:

Aaah, ohk..I've heard you...

Goyim:
He is one of those MGTOW. They can never settle.

thesicilian:
If it wasn't the girl's fault, then that's just not good enough from the guy. As in, I don't really understand why a guy would spend months and months wasting his time, energy and money on a lady, just to have one fleeting moment of sex (hit and run as you call it). Wouldn't it have been much more practical to just seek the services of a "professional"? That would not have hurt anybody.

CrazyQuinn:
that's if they will recognize each other

CrazyQuinn:
to me when I read the story, she looked vulnerable, so the guy took that vulnerable opportunity to get what he wanted. The girl wasn't smart to see the "hit and run" coming because her vulnerable emotions was clouding her logic.

CrazyQuinn:
of course, he can't escape it ......human beings are free to do what they want to do, the most important thing is, can you handle or face the consequences of your actions? Or the karma?

Kelechi2020:
He has achieved his main aim...But after six months of waiting for sex he got it and realized its not worth it...

CrazyQuinn:
I think he's not getting sexually satisfied with his wife that's why he pulled that stunt with the girl, the guy got what he wanted and left. This is a hit and run case

dharay99:

βella, your wahala dun dey too much nowadays o,
0gini, na only you them they carry love issues qive...

CrazyQuinn:
She was so stupid to have sex with him, anyways the deed is done, there's nothing she can do about it now, all she have to do is to move on and learn from her mistakes, I hope she learns from her mistake this time. I don't blame the man either

thesicilian:
The sex was probably disappointing for him. Many of our girls are bad in bed.

Suprnov3r:
Oh puhleez, maybe in 2095

Which kind of love be that?, our culture has not deteriorated that far enough for a single man to wake up and say he is in love with his mother's mate. Even in the West with their perverse definition of everything marriage, it is not commonplace. Don't bring that equality thingy to this matter

Love in Nigeria means marriage, then babies, then forever ever after. I sincerely hope you didn't advice the young mumu to go and ask her out. He would be playing with his job



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Just read your complete response and saw you encouraged him. Good luck to him. You were quite unfair to him by not letting him know before hand what he might face because once he starts ... the only way out is down. Is he ready to deal with her adult kids?, his own family? , tonnes of baggage and more baggage? Questions, medical stuffs... u just dont tell him to go like it is 5 years difference. 20 years is 2 decades of her being sexually and emotionally involved with other men. Can he handle that. This is not just a relationship ge can start and stop anytime without huge consequences.

....if he is wise let him steer clear, if he can't let him invite her to a event like a wedding. If she is into him for real she will come along and they both can see if they can survive the awkwardness

Suprnov3r:
It does not matter how rich he is... as long as she is a kind of superior to him, that superiority factor couoled with the age gap will emasculate any man.

It is every boys dream to shag a mature successful woman. Living out that fantasy ain't for the faint hearted.

Suprnov3r:
20 years is much sha... but crushes does not make a family.

You need love, comitment and trust. While the woman will always assume you are into her for her money as well as she will feel insecure because she knows you have tonnes of younger girls out there. You too will have to deal with numerous peeps having to question your sanity on your relationship and age of your spouse. Those alone will kill your crush for her faster than ebola


Just file it under bad crushes and move on

herzern:
You have to start learninq how to enqaqe in discussion with people.......

I??....livinq a fake life??.....

Yhu cook up stories in a bid to drive traffic....

Who lives a life full of deceit??.....

herzern:
Talk2bella......

Please.....reduce/stop all these fictitious stories of yours.....

ThankYhu!....

Berlyn:

Titilayooni:
she should try to wash her vagina regularly and not pee witvout washing....She can get this drug"KLOVINAL" ts about 3 or 4K,if she visits a doctor,that's what he would prescribe to her...I read it online and she can also use vinegar wiv warm water,soak herself in it for 10mins before bathing...or get garlic peel it and insert whenever she wants to sleep at night...
Stop drinking sugary drinks,take more water....stop wearing tight trousers too...all these should help drastically

McBrooklyn:
WTF!!!






Ain't you the one seeking help here that your babe is smelling down there??