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does age require the amount of times someone can get pregnant?

fullstreets:
How will you get pregnant so many times, how old are you?

ur funny

NairalandEFCC1:
abeg she get the doctor when do these multiple abortion number? the guy go sabi work

she should just walk

DesChyko:
If you want to kill him, then do that by all means. Everything is fair in love and war.

I just wish the media won't bug us down with crimes of passion.

I am done for, my boyfriend just told me this morning its over that his mother doesn’t want him to marry me, I think he’s mad, he must be after several abortions in fact he’s very stupid, what should I do? I’d rather kill myself or kill us both.


Its five years and he just realizes he doesn’t want to marry me, how can people be this callous, whenever I got pregnant he would cajole me to abort it, saying it wasn’t the right time and things were not great for him financially, I just did another abortion two months ago now he doesn’t want to marry me anymore, I feel used and suicidal, I won’t go silently.



Talk2Bella.


My dear, you need to calm down and take it easy, don’t get worked up over nothing, not all relationships will lead to marriage, although he might have suggested the abortion you willingly went under the knife so don’t apportion blame to him alone.


Don’t kill yourself and don’t kill your boyfriend, it will help no one, what you should do for now is take time off, go somewhere, leave him be, start over, yes its hard and painful and might seem almost impossible but you will look back to this day and find out he never deserved you.


Just let him go, he’s not worth death or jail time.


http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/08/after-several-abortions-he-wants-to.html

hehehhehe, try talk2bella.com then

yorex2011:
Talk2bella..com.ng??

I'll pass

Like I had foresight and wrote this, Naija men and criteria


Nigerian Men Criteria For A Wife Material (100 Yards)

http://talk2bellaa..com.ng/2016/08/nigerian-men-criteria-for-wife-material.html

Honestly I am sincerely tired, at first it was fun and I loved her for it but these days, it’s like she’s a nympho.


We do it every day and worse we live together, there’s no break, I’m afraid that if I finish all the sweetness now what will I enjoy in marriage and I can’t even say no to her, sometimes I try but she’s just to seductive and we end up doing it for hours.


Is it possible to finish the sweetness, I feel we should take a break, these days she’s always Hot, as soon as I’m back from work she hurriedly feeds me and voila we tearing each other down, sometimes she makes me take Viagra just to satisfy her, it isn’t fun anymore, please I don’t want to die.



Talk2Bella


Loll, you sir are very funny, it’s obvious you need a break from her, but who gets to leave the house? You stay together so I’m assuming you share the rent, why not sit her down and talk or better still buy her a love machine to ease this stress from you, trust me this will work.


http://talk2bellaa..com.ng/2016/08/help-me-bella-all-my-girlfriend-wants.html

So Dipo and I have been dating for a very long time, one time we had problems like every other young couple, but I got carried away, I was more exposed and loved having fun than him, he was a little reserved and was more the indoor type. During this period I began to have doubts about our relationship, I began to ask myself I wanted to spend the rest of my life with someone as boring as Dipo, then I met someone else, he was exactly my type, we got along so well on the first day that I knew we were gonna do it soon, well we had sex and the whole excitement died down, and I went back to Dipo, this was 10 yrs ago.


Five years after that incident, Dipo and I got married, we were happy for two years, we bought our own house, we had great jobs and our first baby was on the way, I felt like the most blessed person on earth, after I put to bed that’s when my trauma began, Dipo became a completely different person, it started from the drinking, I didn’t mind, as long as he didn’t come home drunk, I never suspected cheating, I knew Dipo was old fashioned and would never do that so when the late nights and absence from home began I just thought work toll, never for once did I imagine my husband to be cheating, not just cheating but with multiple women.




I just had a baby, I was on maternity leave, Dipo wouldn’t let me hire a nanny or a maid, so I was home full time, taking care of our baby all by myself, I was getting tired of him not helping out, so one day he comes back from work very late, I was up and I told him how I felt, I couldn’t control the rage anymore, I shouted at him, and told him what a piece of sh**t he was, he calmly looked at me, went straight to our bedroom, into the bathroom to take a shower, I just couldn’t hold it anymore, I followed him, when I got to the bedroom, his phone kept buzzing, I wanted to pick to tell whoever was calling to go to hell, who calls a married man this late anyway, I wished now I hadn’t picked that call, the next words I heard made my heart froze “Darling you home, hope you wife wasn’t angry, we had a nice time and I’m still sore”.


Right there and then my world crashed, I was in shock, I didn’t believe my ears, I thought maybe it was a wrong dial, but she had called his name, he came into the room and just looked at me, he knew I knew, I could see the hurt in his face, I asked him “Temi have you been cheating on me” we call each other that, that’s our pet name “Temi” he didn’t deny, he just said yes, I wanted him to deny vehemently, wanted him to say anything other than a yes, he told me “Temi and she isn’t the only one, I don’t know what’s wrong with me, ever since you cheated in school, I never forgave you, I wanted to pay you back for what you did but since I started I can’t stop please help me”


Well I woke up in the hospital, I must have fainted after hearing that, how could anyone hold a grudge for almost a decade, who does that? He’s been pleading, our marriage is really young though we have been together for a long time, I wanna make it work, but I know he won’t stop cheating, please what do I do?


Talk2Bella

http://talk2bellaa..com.ng/2016/08/i-cheated-once-now-my-husband-wont-stop.html

which one is p-nut again

jaybillionaire:
I mean y don't u go to church at all. U sound as if u so much hate church, u got a bad experiences from d pastor's? Lol. Bella u must be a p-nut and I like p-nuts

heheehheheeh indeed

frenchwine:
Though he is guilty of frotteurism, you're guilty of voyeurism.
My deek, my body. Let's not even get started on what ladies do, dang!

We know our Nigerian men can be really funny and weird but we love them none the less. Before a man and a woman feel very comfortable in a relationship, like farting in each other’s presence, snoring, taking baths together, these are things a Nigerian man hurriedly does in the bathroom before the lady comes to join him.


He checks his balls out: hehehe, yea, funny, but it’s the truth, I happen to have peeped one time and I saw this dude congratulating his balls, I’m like WTF what’s he looking for down there.


He farts and air freshen the toilet, and he does it very quickly, and waves his hands all over the air to chase the smell away, how silly


He smells armpit


He shaves real quick, armpit, down there, face, you don’t have to blame him, a brother is trying to get laid.

He hurriedly takes a shit






He strokes Penis, plays with it, looks at the tip and then if it’s the big size smiles to himself and keeps saying to himself, she go hear wheeeen today


He just keeps looking himself at the mirror, I keep wondering what he’s looking out.



Talk2Bella


http://talk2bellaa..com.ng/2016/08/things-nigerian-men-hurriedly-do-in.html

I am confused as I write this, I don’t know if it’s anal sex my boyfriend likes or he just likes sleeping with men, because at first he just wanted to try anal sex with me, now if he doesn’t invite a man into our bedroom, our love making is not complete.


At first I was cool with it, I just thought he loved being kinky like me but this one don pass my power, during sex he doesn’t even touch me anymore, it’s the other guy we invite that does the touching, he bleeps my boyfriend in the ass and bleeps me in the pussy, I have asked my man several if he prefers men, he said no he just likes party.


How do I get my man back, I love being kinky also but I’d like for him to either tell me if he’s gay or not, I really don’t mind if he’s gay I have no problem with that but for him to cover it up in the name of being “Kinky” is what pisses me off.


Now I am tired of all these whole party, he hasn’t touched me in months, the different men we invite does the touching, he won’t even allow me suck his dick, he won’t even let me kiss him, he says “Kiss the guy and let him kiss me, you know it turns me on baby” imagine, I am now the third person in this whole thing.


Please I need help, do I leave or just manage him like that, real boyfriends are scarce especially when you find one who’s as weird as you’re.











Talk2Bella


My dear, your man is Gay, you either accept it now or later, are you going to be having sex with different men all your life? Have you tried for the other partner to be a woman? Must it always be a man? Leaving is entirely up to you, it seems both of you have a perfect working arrangement and you like it, the only problem here is your man doesn’t touch you anymore he prefers the company of men rather than yours.


If you end up with this guy, your life is going to be sexless, you’re just gonna be a statutory wife, he’s gay and you should either accept this fact and stay if you want to, or remain at your own peril.

http://talk2bellaa..com.ng/2016/08/my-boyfriend-brings-in-men-to-have-sex.html

indeed

sorextee:
my mum tried to hook me up with dangote's daughter. I refused, but I know shes madly in love with me. buy the girl I love deeply is in the village..

I have been sharing other people’s stories now I will like to talk about mine, it might sound funny but these sort of things happen always where a member of a family tries to marry someone out without their permission; sometimes these arranged marriages work out, other times it’s a disaster, here’s my experience with someone who said he wanted to marry me.


I got to admit I got a step-dad who’s nice whenever he wants to be; he has his good and bad days, doesn’t everyone? We rarely talk though except for the usual, I don’t tell him personal things so I was surprised when he and his friend decided to marry me off to one of their friends without my permission.


I don’t like calls so I rarely receive any, one morning someone called me and said he wanted to marry me, this was how our conversation went


Man: hello, hello, someone from your church gave me your number, I want to marry you, I stay at Abuja, I do business, the person said you’re a very good girl and will make a good wife material.


I was already boiling with anger, who would want to play such an expensive joke on me? None of my friends would do something like that; they know how I felt about marriage so I ruled them out, maybe someone had given out my number, a million thoughts went through my brain in the space of a minute, so I responded


Me: hello who’s this?


Man: my name is so so so, I’m calling from Abuja, I want to marry you, someone from your church gave me your number.


Me: church? But I don’t go to church, you much have the wrong number, and please don’t ever in your life call me, I dropped the call.


Well he called again and began to brag, saying how I don’t know who’s who, I shouldn’t hang up on people, do I know who he is, he wants to marry me, that I sound very hot tempered, so I asked him


Me: Someone gave you my number?


Him: Yes


Me: Who? What’s his or her name?


Him: That’s not important, will you marry me or not


Me: alright, what’s my name?


Him: ermm ermm, well I want to marry you


Me: whats my name?


Anyway he kept blabbing, the husband material had apparently forgot to ask for his potential wife’s name, he kept saying how my name wasn’t important all that was important was that, I am a godly girl, I am a good wife material, I go to church and all the rubbish he could think of so I told him


Me: Oga, I don’t know you but it’s obvious you have been deceived, I don’t go to church, I don’t know what’s the criteria for being a wife material and I am possessed with marine spirit, keep calling at your own peril, well this time he hung up, mission accomplished.


I wasn’t expecting this to be the handiwork of my step-dad, so I was shocked when he came back and started talking about marriage plans, What! Wait! It was you; you gave someone my number without my permission? How could you even do that? He said he didn’t want to his friend convinced him, so he called his friend, that one came over, when I gave him a piece of my mind, he apologized and asked me what my decision was I told them what the potential husband said on the phone, how potential husband didn’t know potential wife’s name, they all agreed he hadn’t gone about it the right way.


Well that’s my own arrangee story, what’s yours?

Talk2Bella

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/08/my-step-dad-tried-to-marry-me-out.html

please I need urgent help

I just registered my domain with smart web and they have started giving me problems.

I paid for a domain yesterday which I thought was going to come with hosting it didn't , now im trying to pay for hosting with them only for them to tell me the domain name is invalid, I sent them an email hey replied I should go and ahead and pay first and they will rectify and activate it from their end what do I do?

When a Nigerian man asks you how many men you’ve been with?

Lie! I repeat lie! This is a trap, he’s going to say he doesn’t mind, and then when you tell him the truth he looks at you differently. If you have been with 10 men say 2, if you have been with 20 say 4 and if you have been with uncountable men just tell him 7, if you ever tell a Nigerian man the true number of men you have been with, well let’s just say you’d never leave the girlfriend race.
Are you bisexual?

He’s going to cajole you, says he loves it, say he wants to try it, even if you are tell him NO! And if he keeps talking it about, let him bring the female and then act like a complete novice, do this and thank me later, if you show some sort of expertise, he’s never going to trust you with another female and you know what that means, Disqualification!

olempe:
Makes sense

Nigerian men have very high standards; it’s either a 100% with them or no percent at all, if you’re going to be considered a wife material (100yards) you need to be all these things, so please read, simulate, understand and put them in practice.

Dating a Nigerian man is no easy task, if he wants you to be a color, my sister you got to be the whole rainbow and more, he’s never contented with just one color. A Nigerian man when choosing a wife will tell you first “I am an African man” not a Nigerian man, when he says this he means you got to imbibe the good side of the 54 African countries in Africa ( their cultures and traditions).

Now my dear sister, you ever wonder why you haven’t been upgraded from Girlfriend material to Fiancée status? Or promoted from fiancée status to wife status? It’s because you haven’t exhibited these characters.

You must know how to cook.

This is very important, without food your score in the Nigerian man’s score card is zero, this is a criterion you must possess, there’s no way around this one, if you don’t know this magic rule you’re probably going to remain a girlfriend till the real wife material shows up. Even if you do know how to cook, never run away from hot oil while frying fish, this is also a big disqualification, you must be able to stand firm and not dive into the nearest available corner when oil splashes.

If your father is late never tell a Nigerian man.

This might sound funny but it’s the truth, a Nigerian man doesn’t want to hear your father died before your mother, it automatically means to him he’s going to die before you, Nigerian men take these sort of things very serious, they are very traditional, just tell him your father stays abroad and your family lost communication with him, this is far better.

Never tell him your parents are divorced.

Yes don’t ever ever ever tell him this, if you have any hope of getting married. According to Nigerian men, a woman who comes from a broken home will never make a good wife, and to them it must be her mother’s fault why the father left, this is an automatic disqualification from the wife material status, if you really want to marry him, just tell him your father married two wives and he prefers to stay with his other family.

Don’t ever tell him you know how to suck dick.

How dare you tell that to a Nigerian man, so you’re a dick sucker, so you have been sucking plenty men’s dick. Whenever you get asked this question, reply with a resounding No! if he wants to try it, forget your expertise and become a learner, let him teach you, let him feel like his dick is the first one to ever grace the softness of your mouth, if not you’re automatically considered a LovePeddler and you know what next, you’re disqualified from the wife meterial race.
When a Nigerian man asks you how many men you’ve been with?

Lie! I repeat lie! This is a trap, he’s going to say he doesn’t mind, and then when you tell him the truth he looks at you differently. If you have been with 10 men say 2, if you have been with 20 say 4 and if you have been with uncountable men just tell him 7, if you ever tell a Nigerian man the true number of men you have been with, well let’s just say you’d never leave the girlfriend race.
Are you bisexual?

He’s going to cajole you, says he loves it, say he wants to try it, even if you are tell him NO! And if he keeps talking it about, let him bring the female and then act like a complete novice, do this and thank me later, if you show some sort of expertise, he’s never going to trust you with another female and you know what that means, Disqualification!

Single mum? Keep mum (don’t tell him yet)

This is a sign of waywardness according to the book of wife material written by Nigerian men, it means you have been fucking around for a long time, it means you have been doing it raw for a while, they don’t care to know the circumstance which brought about your bundle of joy, they just know you have a kid out of wedlock, keep this a secret till you’re married and thank me later, if not that ring is never getting on your finger.

You must be a graduate or own a business.

This is very important, if you’re a graduate, you must be ready not to practice your profession if you ever hope to get married to a Nigerian man, he has plans to rent a shop for you already so don’t bother, please have it in mind that you need to be ringing it in his ears you’re ready to do this when you’re dating so you can be elevated to wife material status.

Is your virginity still intact?

Well we all might be lucky in this aspect as this is not a criterion for all Nigerian men; it’s just about 99.9%, who knows you might be lucky to meet the 1% who doesn’t want to marry a virgin.

Are you ready to get pregnant before marriage?

Please let your answer be yes, it doesn’t matter if you’re going to fake the pregnancy, never ever say NO to this question, if not you’ll be considered barren, or used up, or all your kids have been flushed away, it doesn’t matter if the fault is from the man, if you ever want to be elevated to wife material status please say yes to this rule.

Are you ready to be a maid to his family?

Yes yes yes yes and yes, I don’t need to explain this one to you, you get the idea.

Lie about your age.

Reduce it by ten years if possible, they don’t want to marry someone who’s close to their age, if you’re 30 say 25 if you’re 25 say 19, they want to date you for a while to see if you fit the criteria of wife materials.

Do you have a video of you on the internet Twerking?

When a Nigerian man has decided you have scaled all the hurdles to qualify to be a wife material, no one does a better investigation than his family members, oh my, the FBI is still a learner when a Nigerian man has told his family he wants to marry you, they become spies and undercover agents, they go on secret missions to your village, your primary, secondary and university, they even visit your ancestral burial ground to make sure you’re indeed the right one for their son, so if you’ve got nudes, twerking videos, or what they might consider inappropriate please DELETE!

This might seem funny to y’all but Nigerian men know this is the truth in their hearts, they set so much standards that we forget who we are in the process of trying to fit into their specifications, many men have missed good women because they don’t fit these standards and many women have lost good men because they feel these are ridiculous standards to be met, anyway, if you have plans of getting married to a Nigerian man, exhibit these traits, be it true or a façade it don’t matter till you have been elevated to WIFE.

Talk2Bella

http://talk2bella..com/2016/08/nigerian-men-criteria-for-wife-material.html

It’s been said men cheat better but women cheat smarter, do I agree with this? Well as a woman I’m supposed to but this is not for me to say, I have seen cases of men having multiple women as partners, promising them marriage, or the promise of forever together, I have also seen women do the same but smartly.


Now we might wonder why we say all the time, men are cheats, men are wicked, men are polygamous in nature but what we fail to say is women are these things too, women cheat! But because the society frowns on any woman who cheat; we have devised a way to go unnoticed or when we do get caught we become the victims instead of the perpetrator lol!


It is expected of a man to cheat, but it’s not for a woman, only a few men who have witnessed firsthand a woman cheating can tell you what the experience is like. When a woman cheats on a man, It hurts much more than when a man cheats on a woman, I have never understood this though, why must it, we feel the same type of love don’t we?


A man cheats openly, he flaunts it, his friends are aware, even sometimes his families, but when a woman cheats, she’s even convinced herself her vagina isn’t aware of it, damn, we so smooth, calculative and finessed, and when we do decide to cheat nothing can stop us.


Now it’s pertinent to know women aren’t cheats by nature, this is the truth, why I have never believed men are polygamous in nature but the truth still remains men cheat a lot more than women, but women just cheat smarter. Why does a woman cheat? Why would a woman cheat? Why will a woman cheat? What makes a woman cheat? You see the similarities in these questions? There’s no excuse to cheat or for cheating, to cheat on someone is a horrible thing to do, but sadly cheating have been imbibed into our everyday lives now we see it as a norm.




When a man cheats on us, we see signs, he leaves clues for us to find, he becomes overly excited about his sexcapades, or scared and anxious. Now this is where a woman triumphs in cheating, we rarely talk about it, we don’t tell anyone, we don’t feel guilty or overly excited about it and sometimes we don’t even regard it as cheating. Women are smarter killers than men, women are smarter cheats than men and that’s why you find fewer women who engage in these acts.


I have always been an advocate of don’t or never cheat on your partner, if you can’t take the heat walk away, this is just to let the men know, we haven’t caught us doing it don’t mean we don’t or cant it’s not just in our nature.


My Opinion.


Talk2Bella.

http://talk2bella..com.ng/2016/08/women-are-smarter-cheats-than-men-true.html