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saintfellow:
hm nice name.
can i ask u for advice in private?

saintfellow:
lol bella, is ur name bella?

saintfellow:
well, im a proud ashewo.
atleast i do my runs codedly and secretly.

kvngveektour:
I'll have loved to reply buh I ain't got time for a gender war

saintfellow:
hmmmmmmm well the guy is a big time mumu, i mean, as a sharp guy, if i have a lady as rich as that and i ask her for 500k, even if she said no, i know with time, i will still get it from her. lol.
mehnn use what u have to get what u want, with a rich girl, by my side, in two years time, with her money in my brain, my business empire will be bigger than big.
hehehe well offcourse, i will treat her well and get married to her.
but op im not a manwhore, im just applying the laws of POWER.

firstking01:
Pheeeew, i can't decipher...how come when it comes to sex human beings will completely lose their senses , smh

Pinocchioo:
It seems too sudden sha, but all the same, its different strokes for different folks. She should just get try to know him much more and decide if she can actually carry on with him

Gennyike:
One month is not enough to make a life time decision like marriage;even at 7months couples are still struggling to know each other and understand their selves in it. I bet you,this is not a soup you will want to sip hot....if you rush in now,you may rush out sooner than expected.

Tell him to give you time or the relationship time to build and grow with both in order to be sure,if he truly cares he will respect your suggestion and wait.

Goodluck.

advanceDNA:
There's something that girls do now....i heard it from a lady saying it's a form of insurance incase the marriage doesn't go well in the first 24months or the guy starts misbehaving, starts to show his true colour.
Babes that rush into marriages especially all this match-make paroles now stay on contraceptives so no babies that will make divorce a bit difficult.
I tot about it and realized lot of women suffer in abusive/ unhappy homes becos of their kids and the lack of zeal to start over since it's very difficult for women with one or two kids to remarry unless they are loaded...dont get me wrong am not trying to say u shuld do like these babes ooooo.....just saying my own naaniiii...marriage is hard to come by these days ....boys are not smiling at all..

CrazyQuinn:
No hes not alright, that's the same comment he's made on every thread he's seeking for attention

kuchikau:
I hate girls dat mensturates. How can blood coming fron your BIG T0TO wet ur pants and skirt,yet u claim to be sophisticated. *Smells*

fexyrich:
she is either suffering from candidysis or one of these female vagina and toilet infections like urinaryt tract infection or yeast infection .many ladies experience same thing and its a hygiene problem..Op go to d hospital with her and u guys shld get to the root of the problem together..that way she wld know u luv her..its a treatable problem...Dont always run away from ur problems..That's why you both are lovers...Am not encouraging premarital sex either

smellingmenses:
you are a careless individual straffing steady unprotected without knowing your partner's status....


by the way HIV test is standard for most ailments now because its presence alters the treatment dynamics dramatically

ednut1:
Aunty Bella and her incredible lies

CrazyQuinn:
Now she knows her HIV status, she should start using protection until she knows her partner status. Prevention is better than cure

mumumugu:
he paid for hospital bills. He can also do that

CrazyQuinn:
wow we have such similarities

CrazyQuinn:
so you have those feelings too?

CrazyQuinn:
I don't know, maybe It's an on and off feeling

CrazyQuinn:
I know how you feel

mercichoco:
She is possesed with a water husband

papadee93:
Can you please explain this 'she would appreciate the fact it’s coming from you and not someone else.'
U wan cause gobe

BlackAfrican:
That's what she told you. Do you know if the guy even used to work there? Let's assume he did. Did she tell you how long it took for her to go check on him at home and work place? The nigerian ladies I know have egos as tall as a coconut tree. It may have taken three months or more for her to visit those places in search of the guy. And her argument will be "he hasn't been calling me so he can go to hell" Trust me, initially she'll be angry if the guy didn't call and if he refused to pick her call. Hence she'll just pretend like he doesn't exist anymore FOR SOME PERIOD until something kicks her emotion to remind her why she likes him. Within that period, what if the guy got a better job elsewhere and decided to move on? After all something has already turned him off about her already. The guy may even be dead or may have left the country

So sister it's not like he slept with her today then tomorrow he left his work place and packed from his house. Your advice made it seem like that is what happened. You are ignoring important dynamics and any lady who reads your advice will fall into the same mess again and again without realising where they are making mistakes.



I'm not a psychologist but I understand human behaviour and I understand women

JerryTemi:
No matter how mean,smart and mischievous you think you are as a man one that which goes around comes around period.if you don't love her let her be instead of hurting the person, some of us here are busy making ourselves judge over her but when it cones to our turn the reverse is the case.

tosyne2much:
I can't believe people still have energy to have sex in this period of recession we be say to feed well na war