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@topic
yes you can.dig deep.

osegwu:
A dangerous game i must confess[/color][color=#990000]

whats dangerous about the game?

@topic
to know how serious he is,put him to a test.I believe every woman has his own test set for chikers.

@topic
he loses interest because after tasting the "honey pot",he says "so this is what ive been struggling for,the thing no sweet at all.make i go find sweeter one ". .his fantasies have become reality,so there is nothing interesting anylonger.for the ladies:fantasies is what keeps the chase alive.off he hops to the next lady.

@poster
I understand your predicament.you see but you cannot feel.you want to lick,but your selfesteem holds you back.and consequently you are dying silently.
advice.
if your manhood will make you to sin,cut it off.

@topic
such a complex story .you partially complicated things by yourself.you already have a child for your fiancee? .would I be right If I say he is no longer your fiancee but your husband?maybe not legally.
the guy has already given you his word I mean "him",so I suggest you stick to your husband and look at the brighter side of things.The "him" might not actually take you to the eldorado that you desire.I mean it.The problem with we mortal beings is that we think that the pasture on the other side of the river is greener but when we get there,we actually find out that its not as green as where we came from.that means it was just an optical illusion.
and thinking of the number of years youve spent with your fiancee(10 yrs). .engaged for ten f**king yrs .

anyway ,Ive just made some comments but not an advice.I think that you are the only one that can advice yourself better in this situation.cheers.

@topic
all these long distance relationship sef .my brother,the possibility of success in such relationships is only minute.Ive been into it and I know what am saying.but that is not to say that long distance relationships don't work.you are in australia,she is in nigeria .she asked you for money for her mums burial? .my brother she might be trying to scam you,beware .what happened to her siblings,brothers in particular.much as I have seen in nigeria here,Its very rare to find a situation where the burden of burials lies on the shoulder of a lady.
Ive a little friend of mine "dating" a nigerian in the UK.she met the guy online.the guy sends her MTN top up card worth ^6000 every week just to oil the relationship,while the girl messes around down here.at a point the guy got wiser and stopped.
@poster
I suggest you think seriously about continuing with her.and moreover youve not met her.seeing is believing!.shine your eye!.nothing good might come out of it.Frank advice.

@topic
what goes around will surely come around.so be kind to those you meet on your way up because you might meet them on your way down.It applies to every facet of life.we are in a very small world you know.
@poster
seems like you are afraid something bad youve done will haunt you.

@poster
see as you dey open your nyash for public .For the very fact that her hair stinks is an indictment on you.it means you are either stingy with bucks or you are not caring enough to take care of  her or it might even be a case of birds of the same feather flocking together .As for the case of her not taking her bath,That one I no understand again.

@poster
Tell him how you feel and what you are going through.I believe that if he really loves you,he cant be that insensitive to your plight.talk it over with him and watch how he reacts to it.But I would advice that you strive to become more independent.He can't give you a job,he can only inform you of a job opening.I suggest you find your likes(job seekers) and form a network with them.by so doing ,you can land yurself a nice job and consequently depend less on him.He will also respect you the more.Cheers.

OMO IBO:
i'd like to know what happened to the thread starters money?

Its trapped
in savannah bank.

@topic
can women survive without men?NO.can men survive without women?NO.An office that has all women progresses.I have a typical example.As for the family that always fights,the parents might complain but when they stop fighting,the parents also complain that the house is as quite as a graveyard.

@poster
lace her with magun.Then go to sleep.I bet she wont try it again.

publicview:
Alan Grespan Know him?

do you mean alan greenspan?

Nautillus:
@Topic.
Been there, done that ok. 9years . . . . Now she's the mother of two kids to the "Prefered guy" _{Happy or not, i can't tell} all i can say is that BLOOD is very strong. and is this prefered guy happen to have cash., . . . . my brother. . . .

Sincerely, i would strongly advise you to start your healing process from the heart break now. I know that the thoughts of never being with her again is sickening_{believe me i know} but you have to let go.

I know that its not a sexual attraction that pulling you back, b'because if i can safely assume that you love her like you claim, you can be with her without sex 4 eva just to spend the rest of your life with her.

4 your sanity of heart and mind. Let her go now._{b'because believe it or not,she gone already}

Frank talk.

gilgee:
Bros no one said you are not the Founder of BET, neither did anyone say you are not the founder of KOLO PEOPLES PARTY
We sincerely do not doubt your insanity, we are just trying to show concern and drop you some pieces of advice.

.mind what you post.I no follow oh.I know the guy too well. .he is rich oh.can send you to jail.kirikiri. .

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holythug:
y should waste time on a girl when we r not in china

It depends on what you want anyway.If its a lady you want to marry,cant you wait?

almondjoy:
"Mr Perfect" has not been born, just as you are not "Miss Perfect" yourself.

true talk.

@topic
so many complaints .12345.no.something must be wrong somewhere.five people cant be that wrong. .
@seun
seems like you employ double standards really.please be fair to all.what is good for the geese is good for the gander.I believe ive said the home truth.

woodboi:
she is my ex girl we still see and relate,but i am trying to stay on the conclusion that there is notting between us then friendship.but it is just hard to move on like that with someone you truly have a feelings for and each time you stare at her eyes you can still see the fire burning.

sorry oh.love in bondage.it really hurts.go get fire extingusher and put of the fire. .it can burn your heart out. .STRICT MEDICAL ADVICE.

@poster
1.he is a ladies man?whats the possibility that he will look your direction when youre back.are you sure he knows youre gone since he has a handfull of them.
2.you dumped him because he is mean with money? .agreed that when you love a man.you love everything about him(money inclusive).but is money that important to you.he has the money but since he is a ladies man,he might feel that all the hangers on are there for his money.you should have made him feel you werent initially interested in his bucks ,then when he is comfortable with you,you milk him dry(thats if you just want his money and not his love).you simply lack tact.
3.since he is a ladies man,It will only take a special interest in you from him for you to be his no1.do you know your rating with regards to other ladies he hangs out with?If you are not sure he rates you high,I suggest you leave him and wait for mr.perfect because you will harm yourself the more by going closer(thats if hes not really that interested in you.).just stay away for sometime.what is yours will be yours no matter how long it takes.
4.final advice,dont love because of money.its not evrything.what is important is love.it covers everything.

his_grace:
simple - let her marry the other guy and then you will become her secret lover - giving it toher from the left, right, centre without the knowledge of the husband - beside - make sure she collects money from the husband and gives it to you - that way you're not loosing anything, ok?

bad boy

@topic
complex situation I must say.follow you heart.

sorry!wrong place at the right time!

@topic
the girl must have a complex personality.says she loves you,but doesnt show it.The proof of Love is in action.for me as long as am not seeing the action and am very sure that Ive given you much time to settle,then I will know it has become deceit."I love you" is a hollow word if its not backed up with something tangible.
I suggest u hang on a little bit.I would have told you to persuade her to love you,but I dont think that would be appropriate .if she is really in love,she gats to show it without being persuaded.

@topic
I don't really waste much time,but when i see one I really like,I'll continue trailing while I still hang out with the available ones.But once I get the green light from her,no going back .Ive trailed one for 2 years and finally shot her down .but funny enough,she never knew I was trailing her untill I got closer and shot her with my luger.

@poster
buy him a teddy bear.and give it your fiances name.that would be very romantic.

@poster
nwanne I nwere nsogbu oh!big one!

@aisha
Even if the guy took her to the carribean just to propose,It doesnt still add anything to the marriage.whay matters is the sustenability of the marriage.but the guy is not romantic oh .I must just confess. .But If you analyse his statement well,I will say he said his mind.yes,because before you want to hook up with someone,you must have thought about it,before making a decision.So I would say the guy was point blank,he fired straight   .but I also feel he is not tactful.he was just too forward.Or maybe he is not a man of so many words.why beat about the bush whereas you can just sum it up in these few words"Ive finally decided to marry you".

@aisha
ure virtually everywhere.the romance section is somehow dry.no new stuff.I decided to try family.
@poster
women can take you either way I agree.But thr truth is that when a woman causes the downfall of a great man,It becomes great news,but when she causes his upliftment,she is relegated to the background while the man takes all the glory.But methinks women have really uplifted some great men ,but since good news is no news,women will always be in the news for the wrong reason.
@morenike9
you are very funny.where did the meeting hold? .when next will it hold ,I will like to attend. .disguised anyway.

@poster
There is no ugly girl on earth!.I dont know your own definition of ugliness.