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yeman1:
That's rubbish to me. I dated a girl for about one year without touching her cos we were planning to get married. She even took me to see her family. They welcome me and her father told me when are doing d introduction but I told him I'm ready but your daughter is not ready. Not know that another man was hammering this girl. The day I knew was like a film cos initially I was like it can't be true. And any time I made move she would say pls let's wait till d wedding night. Meenh.... I spent much for this girl oh cos I believe whatever I spent at least she's my wife and we r going to get married soon. So after when she has been busted, 3 months later I heard she has married one old man like that. The. Man was 60 and my ex was 30.
So most of these girls are not loyal.

cuteoly:
I have been a member of this forum for long but hardly comments on posts but I do read to learn from people. Please I need your advice as to know what to do.
I got married in 2013, my hubby is a civil servant. We didn't date. It happens that I finished my NYSC and worked in Lagos for about 6 months before coming down to Enugu because my Dad was ill and I came to take care of him. He later died 11th September 2012. My hubby after coming to see my Dad at home(that's before his death) took interest in me and asked for my hand in marriage which I refused but he kept insisting, my mom wanting me to stay close to our home town insisted I must marry him. She cried to me that she knows the guy and his family since he was little and that he is trustworthy.
When my Dad died my hubby participated in his burial very well that the whole family started saying he will make a good inlaw.
Sept 2013, we wedded and I gave birth in 2014.
My problem started in 2015 when I saw a text message in my hubby's phone by a lady telling him they won't be seeing each other again because her circulation started that night. I woke him up that night and showed him the text, he pleaded that he was sorry which I forgave him.
Few weeks later, I got another text by another lady on a sunday telling him that if he doesn't come to see her now, that she will leave the house. I kind of chatted the lady as if it was my hubby and was saying stuff like she didn't cook anything that she was waiting for him to come. I still wiped the whole text and pretended I didn't read anything.
Most times he comes back with hotel receipts and when I ask him, he says he just hanged out with his male friends.
On wednesday this week, I saw 2 condoms in his pocket and when I asked him, he said I don't have any right to ask him that I should know that "ofu anya ikpu n'egbu amu" it's an Igbo adage which means that sleeping with one woman kills the penis. That if I don't like it I should pack out of his house.
Meanwhile, I didn't say I learnt sewing after our wedding and am very good in it. This man doesn't give me money, he started building his house in the village last year and I asked him to just channel whatever he gets to the house so that we can move in there soon and stop paying rent, since I get little money from sewing and his work place is close to his village.
But since I discovered he can't do with women I begged him to buy me an industrial sewing and weaving machine so that it will make my work faster. He refused that I should wait till he finish his house. On thursday I waited for him to apologise for the condom I saw in his pocket, he said it's not possible. So when he left for work, I took his car keys and the land property and hide it in the house. And when he asked for them, I told him that he should buy me those machines and then continue whatever he has with women since I have seen that he is not willing to change. I must confess that this is the first time I raised my voice so hard on him. The next I heard was slaps on my face and am 7 months pregnant and my mom was in my house that day and all she could do was to go into her room and started crying. He later got dressed and left for work. He saw me wiping my nose with his singlet because blood was gushing out from my nose and yet he left.
In the evening he came back and locket my and my daughter out. I later called one of my aunties who called him and he opened the door and said he was leaving the house for me that night. But my aunt asked me to hold onto him and plead with him not to go out that night which I did. When I tried to beg him, he said he ll make sure he beats my baby out of my womb if I touch him. I just took the bag he packed and hide it. That's why he stayed back that night.
I went for scan yesterday and I was told my baby is breech that I need to see a Doctor. I haven't registered in any hospital aside a maternity home run by a woman. I have been begging him to give me money to register and that if he says I should leave his house that he should buy my the sewing machines so that I can atleast be using the money to take care of his kids but he refused.
He is doing all this because he knows I have nobody to fight for m and I don't want to involve my kinsmen because they will mock my family and my mom is hypertensive.
Pls do not mind the long post
I didn't add that I later give hhim the documents after the beating because he swore he will kill me and go to jail if I dont

mcstan18:
Hi sister, I think you are applying Fair value less cost to sell to this. What IRCC looks out for is how much you'd have in that investment upon maturity and not if you dispose at time, t. If they required the value at the time of application or receipt of ITA, then we can talk about present valuing the investment to get its correct position.

Anyway, there's nothing lost in doing it your way though. That would even mean applying more caution which isn't detrimental to one's application. Here,
guitarlife has indicated that she'd fall short of the POF requirement if she uses the discounted value. So it's safe to advise her to go with the Fair value.

Iampriceless:
what do u expect? when u av a dullard as a president? dnt worry, I wl leave dis county nd go bk to my village

MRSDA:
Hello everyone,
PPR mail received today. Huge relief.
ITA- July 2017 AOR- Sept 6th ADR - Sept 19th MEP- Sept 20th NA2- Sept 20th FTD to LVO- October 30th ADR- Feb 1(passport bio data pages, height and eye colour) PPR- Feb 5th (my son's birthday)
Wishing everyone the best in their Canada journey.

Emmasonic4me:
I wanted to reply properly until I noticed your moniker.

Please bro try and understand that if we continue like that, we will get to part 4 in no distant time without any useful discussions. Some folks here, myself inclusive, have claimed with faith that PPR must fall on us on this thread before its closed...

Thanks to all who reaffirmed my position on the matter. By the way,

Please am new here, what's the meaning of CIC?...no insults please am not feeling fine... Lol

mcstan18:
I understand your anger brother but you know what? Do not take it too much to heart. Most (if not all) of us here have regular jobs while also attending to questions here. Believe me, you'd likely be pissed off when you answer a particular question 4 times in successive pages of the same thread, whereas the inquirer could've just flipped a few pages back to find the answer they seek. Also note that not all of us have the same tolerance threshold for such avoidable repetitions.
Still on this same page 254, people have been referred to page 0. That page is richly blessed. If you had done a bit of back-flipping, you'd have seen the need to go visit that page. If you read this thread well enough, you will see how folks go out of their way to do research on behalf of others in a bid to give credible answers. So please take it easy, read page 0, come back here and ask the same Emmasonic your particular question and I bet my February salary that he'd respond. We are all learning here, one way or the other.

Thank you for your understanding

Canadianfly:
Lol he was even nice to you. I would have posted worse.

He didn't say anything wrong to you or claim to know it. He simply advised you to research yourself before running to ask questions. Then he addressed intending question askers.

You are the typical Nigerian. Ready to fight but can't channel that energy to research and finding things out for yourself.

McNoelle:
I would suggest you start from page 0. The pieces of information there will lay the foundation for you. Cheers.

Emmasonic4me:
And you're screaming like you employed peeps here to answer your questions.

What happened to google? What happened to WES website? What happened to their FAQ on the site?

Please make out time and do your personal research and ONLY come here when you can't find what you want or you need more clarification. Whatever information you find there is more reassuring than any piece of advice you can get here.

Trivial issues like this is vexing seriously. Please let's cultivate the habit of reading. I wonder how we intend to survive in such advanced foreign land when some people are averse to reading

ednut1:
na corper or ex corper wey dey find work. Na y e get time for nl

haibe:
Pes 2018 is the real deal.. Amazing graphics, nice sound and commentary. Y'all better leave this FIFA hype

Blackhawk01:
So, what happened to him on the cross?

Blackhawk01:
Right about what exactly? Weren't you trying to be sarcastic earlier?


And if you were serious, I'll gladly take the honour of letting you know, death respects no one. No one! Once your time is up, pack your things and move. Jesus sef died. Who you kan be?