JamesReacher:
No two human beings are equal. I want to spend on my lady, I also want my lady to spend on me. Sharing of bill is frowned upon by me, we arent in a business setting. It should rather be done out of love,

' Dear, I have 15k here and it costs 30k. Take my atm love. My own turn sef would come haha '

I'm talking about real love here please not the boo bae fake ass shiit.

The problem with any form of labels is the missuse, the ignorance of not understanding it but on a surface level. Don't be a man hater , Women head organizations that my father would say yes ma to but you lazy females would rather whine all day and say how Its a men's world. Almost like the race card.

Spot on bro !!

Sapiosexuality:
So, on what base is your understanding or definition of feminism erected? Feminists and etymologically, feminism, tell you that feminism is simply an attempt at equity and you disagree. They tell you they want to unburden the men with unnecessary baggage culture and society placed on them and you say they are hypocrites.

They want the richer person on a date to pay for the meal. They want the smarter person to be head of the family(absolutely logical). They want that girl dying for the dude to approach him and damn society and other archaic thinking. What exactly is wrong with this? Did you read that article? Read it if you didn't.

Is your problem with feminism simply the use of 'femi' or what exactly?

There are different definitions of feminism, most narcissistic women have hijacked the whole feminism talk and today we have 3rd wave feminists that have no clue what they're fighting for.

While the op is placing feminism in a good light, there are other feminists that are placing it in a bad light that's what's gets everyone pissed.

The dumb feminists have overshadowed the good ones,their behavior is used as a yardstick for feminism.

There are a whole lotta women that can't accept feminism openly

When Oprah was asked,instead of saying YES,she had to define what she thinks feminism is and say she supports what her definition (meaning she knows that the narcissistic feminists have given feminism a bad name)

German chancellor was asked the same thing and she did the exact thing Oprah did

Yahoo's CEO was asked the same thing and she's clearly against it.

I can go on listing a whole lotta females that can't say YES to feminism without explaining their own version of feminism

Feminism as of today has been hijacked by mentally unstable female misandrist.

MGTOW was created as a reply to feminism and its been hijacked my misogynists too.
Labels won't bring whatever true feminism stands for.

even Judge Judy is against the whole "feminism" stuff,she says she doesn't need to be under a group to prove she stands fro equality.

Egalitarianism should be used in place of feminism.
Adichie and other feminists are hypocrites, when Saudi recently allowed women to drive they couldn't even congratulate the ladies in saudi who've been bursting their ass off to see that dream come true.

Muslim countries are in dire need of feminism,you'll never see a feminist talking about her ongoing feminism march in Muslim countries.

Gionee M5

Cire80:
read through your point and still can't find any good reason to get married. and the most funny thing is those that don't want to get married but are willing to have children. pathetic. I hate marriage and I hate children even much more. count me out of both.

na d exact situation I dey so

I con de reason adoption,cos many kids dey out way deserve better a life

how u c am?

Nawteemaxie:
She`s married?
HBD boy!

No, she b baby mama

in your kitchen abi?
cos no b d same nigeria we dey stay

The girl at the extreme right tho

Pidgin2:
It is not by force to marry, being single is sweet jare, you decide what you want to do and where you want to go but if God blesses you with money try to adopt a motherless baby, you will be helping a person in need by doing this, cheers

This is my plan

dasparrow:
@Post

I hate to break it to you but not everyone will or must marry. Marriage is a CHOICE. Some people do better with a spouse and some people do better on their own. Let me tell you why marriage isn't for everyone.

1. Some people don't like sex. Their dislike for sex might come as a result of suffering from a past traumatic experience such as rape or other forms of sexual abuse. Forget counseling. Once a person has been sexually abused especially in childhood, it affects them even in adulthood. Sex abuse survivors struggle to trust others with their bodies and genitals after experiencing sexual abuse. So what should such people do? Go and marry and stay miserable while their spouse traumatizes them further each time the spouse demands for sex? I don't know about you but that is a crappy way to live. Many people don't mind love, hugging and mild kissing but not everyone likes the idea of having to deal with genital secretions like sperm or vaginal fluids. Not everyone wants to have someone disturbing their genitals. Such people can still enjoy intimate relationships without the sex and the sexually transmitted diseases and sometimes unplanned pregnancies that come with marriage.

2. Not everyone can have sex, literally. I know you may not know this but there are some illnesses that make having sex impossible. When you get a chance google the following medical conditions:

A) Vestibulodynia
B) Vaginismus
C) Vulvodynia
D) Peyronie's disease

Let me just stop at the above 4 illnesses. So, patients suffering from any of the above illnesses and can't have sex should do what? Go and kill themselves? I know of someone who suffers from vaginismus. The lady's condition makes having sex excruciatingly painful and practically impossible. The lady, knowing her condition and lacking the necessary funds to seek specialist treatment in Europe or North America has decided to remain single. Has she committed a crime? I know the bloody Nigerian society will judge her for not being married not knowing her case is more complicated than they can ever imagine.

3. People with mental issues. So since you feel everyone should get married, I guess people who are mentally challenged or suffer from a mental disorder should also get married?

4. People with violent tendencies. So, people with violent tendencies should also get married so that they can beat their spouses to a pulp everyday and raise traumatized children? Do you know why domestic violence is so prevalent in the Nigerian society? Because Nigerians are only concerned about forcing every Tom, Donald, Harry and Jane to get married. Nigerians don't care about creating healthy and happy families because if they did, they won't go about expecting every soul to get married.

Let me tell you, there are many lonely married people out there. It is not advisable to expect your spouse to be your cure to loneliness. That is asking too much. If you stay productive by working, helping out by volunteering in your community, being an active member in any of your church's many departments, traveling worldwide and meeting new people, learning a new culture or language, gardening, writing books, taking care of the elderly etc, you can never be lonely. There is so much to do to keep a person busy.

I will never want to depend on just one person, a so-called spouse for sole companionship because human beings can disappoint you at any time. If the person decides to pack up and leave you today because you are too emotionally needy and clingy, what will you do then? It pays to be emotionally independent and stop depending on mere mortals for your happiness. This is why many Nigerian relationships feel like prison. Nigerians demand too much from their spouses!

As for the Nigerian society, screw them! Why should anyone sacrifice their own happiness all to please society? A society that cannot even boast of providing uninterrupted electricity, access to good affordable healthcare, world-class universities, first class infrastructure, decent affordable accommodation and basic amenities to its citizens? I will never bend backward to please any bloody Nigerian society because I have only one life to live.

And stop lying about Americans and Europeans discriminating against single people. I was born in western Europe, grew up there for a while, lived in USA for over 13 years. Never did I witness discrimination based on marital status from any westerner! The discrimination only came from nosy Nigerians who can't seem to mind their own business. The good news however is, when you live overseas, its very easy to avoid Nigerians like the plague that they are and live your life as you see fit. The average American and European under 50 can honestly care less if you are married or not. They are intelligent enough to know not to dictate to other people how they should live their lives.

At the end of the day, let those who wish to marry do so and those who don't want to should be allowed to live their lives as they see fit. Thank God, some of us do not have to live in Nigeria. If the pressure from bloody Nigerian family members become too much, cut them off! Just change your phone number and have your peace. Avoid Nigerians and their toxic meddlesome obnoxious character and live long abroad. Adopt children or have your own, marriage or no marriage. Who cares? After all, my own father who married my mother - the first wife - and 2 other women did nothing for his children. He left the entire parental and financial responsibility for his wives. Is that not selfish? Those of you who cannot even afford to take care of yourselves yet go and marry and bring innocent children you can hardly fend for into this wicked world, are you not selfish? Those of you who have children because you plan to become a burden on your children in old age, are you not selfish? Children should not be born so that they become your retirement package. This is why some people now abandon their aging parents in the village and flee abroad. Una think say una get sense!

Marry if you wish but no son of Adam or daughter of Eve can force anyone into doing anything they are not quite ready for. Let the worse happen!

May God bless you for this oooooooo

Damn !!!!
bro you nailed it.

It doesn't get better than this at all


My head's spinning like I'm drunk

Thank you !

Na only marriage,procreation and sex Africans know?
Shake my head for this guy

Proudlyngwa:
This thread has been on frontpage for roughly 3hrs, yet it still has only one page.
This shows you the shallow mentality of nairaland youths.

Bring up Tonto Dike and Wizkid, and you will see 3pages in 10 mins.

As for the new policy,its ok if there is transparency ,but is there any need to display the amount paid for such ads

Na now u know ...

Anything that involves thinking deep,u won't see most Africans near it

Once a hoe,always a hoe


Modified:
The first 6 comments were posted 9.36 a.m,the hustle for FTC is real

greenermodels:
disintegration is the only solution.

Same thing Catalonia said ...

Where are they now?

ohh,yeahh

They've been abandoned by multiple countries

Explorerx:
black people only care about sex, 30iq niggers

Someone finally said it

Daeylar:


Programmed by who? Spirits? And instead of fixing the problem, he decides to eliminate female children. Why not find a way to build a world whereby female children don't have to "take the back seat mentally and ONLY use her "talents" to get what she wants"
Oh wait I forgot. It's easier to eliminate female children. That's true.

You're just blowing the thing out of proportion

Feminist?

Paulosky1900:


it will never be the same with ur own flesh and blood...am nt surprise its only the youth are talking this shit...resemblance and ur character looking at ur own kid u wil see urself even if u are dead u are never gone ur part still lives...THINK BACK AND REMEMBER WHAT GOD PROMISED ABRAHAM..forget this f*uking western culture its damn rubbish...we have ours lets stick to it

Different strokes for different folks bro

I'm not cut out for marriage.

Paulosky1900:


who will cater for u when u are old...or u want ur lineage to close permanently with u?

U no fit adopt?
Kids 4 orphanage don finish

wasi9ice:
Everybody with his/her own opinion sha,,as a Christian my bible tells me that women were created for men as companion to help him,,so any act from the woman to avoid that injection is an act of rebellion.

U just de quote Bible upside down,Paul way no marry nko

na rebellious somebody e b na?

smartg:

honestly dis one tire me oo. a woman dat does not want to marry but want to have kids. I don't see marriage as her problem, what I see here is fear of submission. she does not want to submit to any man at all, hence decided not to get marry.

That's the whole idea of feminism

Marriage might destroy my life,no freedom for me.

So no need,I'll adopt hopefully.

enemyofprogress:
Na so Biafra own too go be

.
The exact thing I just de reason

The funny thing b say wen ipob peeps wan give example of secessionist countries them go call Catalonia,dem go begin talk say Catalonia don get their independence why nigeria own go different

InvertedHammer:

Black people's contribution to the world.
Not technology. Not medical breakthrough.
Road, electricity, clean water, good health facilities--->> rocket science.
But crazy and errotic dance moves..Oh la la!
DId we offend God and the gods?
/

Lmfaoo
I've been saying this since

naijaboiy:


Since when does being homophobic translate to being a closeted gay? I see that as a psychological mechanism used by you LGBT supporters to brainwash people into accepting your weird beliefs.

That I hate the act of what two people have decided to do with their lives does not mean I secretly wish to be like them. Dafuq!

You've said it all,lgbtq pipo de try force d tin down our throats, over 30 genders have been made on top this their nonsense