LadySarah:


Relax,the babies will come.make love with the aim of satisfying yourselves and not of making babies.you wont even know when it will enter,besides her body is getting used to your sperm and for some it little time.
Happy married and pls remove what she told you from your mind.

He should remove it?

The lady clearly deceived him cos she desperately wanted to get married.

Sunmolar:
Tight shoes is not only the cause. I played football with my right foot and I constantly use that side of my toes to hit the ball. Later I started feeling pain on the side of the big toe every time I hit the ball,then it got swollen with that burge.

If you still dey feel pain,go see doctor ASAP

eziokwubundunuwa:
Wife material

wetin b her name on fb

DonOms:


The one question I forgot to type is, "how long has it been happening i.e. from the time you had the first imagination?"

Anyway, in my opinion, I don't think there is anything wrong with you. The imagination may just be a projection of some reality you have recently come to become more aware of. Like you said about what you think triggers it, the imagination roots in your consciousness of your environment and your disapproval of others' obliviousness to the suffering around us all.

Suffice to say, it is just a passing phase I think. It will surely pass. If you can, you can write about these imaginations whether in poetry or prose form. It might help you come to terms with it and easily move on from it, especially as you begin to realise what lie within and beyond your powers, as regards the imagination. Like Talkwell said, take your mind off it and it will fade in no time.

Should you feel too disturbed about the imaginations or if my suggestions don't work, you may want to see a psychologist.

Why did you have to be the one to say this, I just forgot to add it.

That's honestly the solution,the only problem is not being able to complete it.

Blackfyre:


Sort of.

We all have those


I even cry

Take your mind of it,find something doing

or Sleep

An idle mind is Beelzebub's workshop

Blackfyre:
I don't know if it suits the depressing thread or this one, but i am sure to get inputs here.


So i have these moments where iimagine am in the center of chaos. Chaos like full on war, people being cut down, blood spilling everywhere, babies crying clutching on to their dead moms corpse, fathers weeping over their dead sons. Some choking on their blood, smokes in the sky that has seemed to eclipse the sun, temperature falling rapidly like it's about to rain and a young baby girl not far from my feet crawling towards where am seated sobbing after growing tired of crying. I am in the middle of that and some sort of melancholic song is playing from a distance, like from a violin, depressing at the same time bringing some sort of calm to it all even as the chaos is still raging on and just when the song is about closing the chaos gradually ebbs till there is none anymore at this point the young baby girl is in my hands holding tightly to me as she sleeps as the temperature becomes very cold and everywhere becomes deafening silent.


I don't know why i have it, something wrong?

You mean Daydreams?

KanwuliaExtra:


Unlike you, I have since learned to take what people say with a pinch of pepper.

Look inside the heart.

Marriage is a life sentence, no need to ask “how many years”!


Bondage na bondage, some slaves have no where to run to. Why trade “slave masters”?

God bless you for this !! ,this the d true definition of marriage.

The exact reason why I don ditch any idea of marriage, I can't make myself uncomfortable cos of somebody,I don't want my movements to be monitored,I hate phone calls .
parents and friends are aware ,I don't save their(friends) phone numbers(less than 20 contacts) .

I prefer sending texts to them(friends) through a group chat we're both on.

I tell my mum say I go adopt from orphanage when the time is right,she dey warn me say make I no try am o

If only women can be independent,I keep telling my sis to get a car,if possible a house and business (something to support your work).

Don't let any mad man tell you he'll provide shii for you.
Hustle your own make I hustle my own,nothing like two of us go hustle the mata,there's more to life than marriage

I'm a strong advocate for divorce(no time for nonsense), as long as nobody is turned to a pauper after the divorce.

Cuddlebugie:
'An anger enraged in me and I jumped up and pushed him and slapped his back'. How violent are you, woman? You should know, you are no different from the ex. She's manipulative while you're controlling and violent, both can be associated with certain personality disorders.....

Exactly

This chick no smart at all,make she end everything ASAP,she get anger issues

Jyah04:
To divorce her is never the option. Sit her down n talk to her with wisdom n pray over it fervently,after all your effort to make it work n it fail then call on the attention of both parents to work things out. Dont stop praying,it will surely work cause am talking out of experience.

Divorce is always an option

She needs a therapist,he should have ditched her the moment she made that silly assumption that he was bringing whores

tosyne2much:
Marriage is somehow these days and the rate at which women are physically assaulting men is becoming alarming. Who would have thought Churchill was the victim of the domestic violence?

Are these not the people that are being envied by their fans? SMH

There's a thread on FP where someone slapped his wife,and people were condemning his actions,meanwhile she's been physically abusing him.

Double standard has eaten up today's society

valentineuwakwe:

u have said it all and its not dat easy. .I own 5 blogs, have a business centre n cafe n work with npower. .so its not easy n I understand u. .

bro u serious?


bro no vex,

na you dey create your posts or copy and paste?

SunFlow:
Good questions... Na watch people dive into blogging.

Make dem dive,the same way dem dive in dem go dive out

blogging no b joke at all,even if na copy and paste you de do sef you go suffer b4 u blow

Donjazzy12:

You should be ashamed of yourself! This is one of the things I have been saying. Most of the male youths we have in Nigeria are completely useless and totally worthless.
They don't read, they don't research all they do is live for pussy. Wasted generation! If na to dance one corner dance, na that one you go sabi.

There's a remix na,the guy has probably not heard the original.

You just de spark any how,like tilapia way comot water

drakeli:
When will it take people to understand that politicians are there for what will benefit them and not the people.

It keeps falling on deaf ears(Voters),they(politicians) keep recycling themselves

ivolt:

You will not have such godlike powers to confiscate whatever

asset you want!


The problem is that many people don't understand Nigeria's problem,
so when politician makes promises, they don't ask how.



Jungle justice only applies to poor people, for it to apply to powerful
people, societal security would have to break down completely and I
am confident that an average Nigerian does not want a state of
anarchy neither do they want to participate in the killing of god-appointed
leaders.

You're right,there are actually people with good intention but they aren't part of the two political parties most Nigerians recognise.

The outrageous fees for presidential form(there's a nomination process within the party,and to get it,you must pay) can make a man steal.

The corruption in this nation reminds me of Narcos,nauseating to say the least.

ivolt:


I know we need results, but I am wondering if you have any plans
on how finance your proposed projects?

seize all the assets and accounts of the the current and past government officials and immediately use them for infrastructural development.

This thing the pain me to the bone,so tay I get heartburn!!! .
Na Only Lagos they try out of 36 states,even the useless Biafra no geh any plan for themselves, they can't even elect a good leader (God punish okorocha anywhere he is)

These politicians need to be assassinated ASAP !!!
if only we can use Jungle Justice on one of them

Prec1ous:


Thank God it seems funny to you.
This habit is not healthy at all.

Why will I leave my house and stand outside because my wife is angry? She should be the one outside.

I guess he is a really cool man, more strnght to him.

it's like a man just did it right in front of me oooo

in church sef

Prec1ous:

Where is he always walking to?

Any nearby store or he just stands far way from the car .

Prec1ous:


This is what we call stick and carrot approach... You flog with the stick, you pet with the carrot.

I have always said this, most women are like children... You cannot keep walking away everytime... You will soon walk out of your respect and control of your house.

my Bros, just imagine you that you are always walking out... Can you imagine the state your marriage will be today?

Some will say, if he slaps me, I will leave because he will do it again. But you are an example, have you touched her again? NO I BELIEVE.

Me, I can never let a woman grow wings on me, and I will never walk away. Either we behave like adults or we roll it like kids.

Nothing wrong walking away,my uncle does it alot.

When he comes back,she's all calm and shii

Lunagirl:


You make it look like women are inherently evil and should be avoided. Evil has no gender. It can manifest in any source and form.

If you and the women around you are evil, please keep fighting for them.

Don't think that's how all the women in the world are.

You are joining men to talk bad about the feminine gender and its not fair.

As if females don't generalize men

Mbkite:
I once made this same statement when I lost mine.

Guy lmfaooooo,WTF

shallysgirl:
What is oghene? Oghene is Urhobo word for God.

This matter dey tire me jare,some persons dey even call me oghene ...nawa for some people

Hhenryy:



A new Nigeria? with the thugs and unscrupulous elements we are breeding everyday? just take a look around you and see the way the youths of nowadays behave.

visit our higher institutions and see them. there is no discipline again. you will find all sort of absurd mannerisms, utter disregard for the elders. and other shocking attitudes/behaviors.

and these are our future leaders, i just shake my head whenever I reason this.

The bitter truth is that things are bound to get worse unless and except drastic steps are taken to re-enforce and instill discipline in our upcoming generation.

The highlighted statement reminded me of my trip to the hospital yesterday, some "elders" don't know themselves,provoking people and expecting them swallow it.

The matrons were all rude,every part of the hospital was littered with rude matrons that had the effrontery to insult people older than them and even those younger than them.

When you have people like them running things,setting bad example to the younger nurses how in the world would you expect the youths to behave?
The Nation is plagued with Uncouth people

Lloydfolarin:


Excuse kill you there

You complained about the absence of sea port, one was given to you just like Yorubas

The host community is naturally hostile to strangers just like entire East, you picked on being disenfranchised again

Excuses after excuses are the reasons why you guys are lacking behind

The difference between Yorubas and the rest is their accommodating environment and people.

Some Nigerians need deliverance.
Same opportunities were given to everyone, juat some assholees we elected as leaders decided to mess us up