₦airaland Forum

NobleStag007:
It's 4 imams Allah send to you? You are thinking exactly like that dullard called Sarafa gbadebo

NobleStag007:
As a Muslim, nothing concerns us with philosophical approaches or logic.


What did Quran say, what did prophet said, how did the Sahabahs understood it. That's your concern as a Muslim and it has been posted.




Prostrating for creatures of Allah nullifies your Islam. Makes you a disbeliever, a kafir

Archiever22:
Asalalekum everyone,

I've been trying to be in a relationship or even get a muslim sister that is educated and God fearing for a serious relationship but all my search has been unfruitful and I always feel disappointed in this.

As a Muslim guy how will it be difficult to get or even see a muslim lady for a serious relationship.

Just in case we have any serious muslim lady for a serious relationship, we can actually work on that.

Maa Salam.

idahme:
You are using your reality to define who is Christ like. That you fall into your own category doesn't mean others fall too. Using your reality for generalization is delusional.

EmperorIsaac:
Aren't you one?

EmperorIsaac:
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We do.

EmperorIsaac:
How is a nacker a Christian? Disciples were called Christians because they were Christ-like!

shinaola21:
That means the man is very promiscuous...

EDGEof2MORO:
you dumb bastard fvcking twwat! did i imply you were asking me for money or was it what your retarded goblin brain told you?

EDGEof2MORO:
who will give you $10m? sometimes you people on dis nairaland e, i just tire

Juliearth:
I think there is a paradigm shift. Women are as badly hit as men. There are a lot of them here and everywhere, seeking for whom to leech on. The good thing is that the signs are always there so it's best not to overlook them.

shinaola21:
🌺

Sometimes I just think about this issue why do men marry more wives and not stay contented with one woman,what's so special in other woman's body that your wife don't have??

Some people are living a happy home but because the man is uncontented,he went to marry another woman then his life becomes miserable

My dad share his story how life turned upside down when his father marry one pap seller that ruined the family,she control my dad's father with juju that my dad's father now started beating his first wife and sent her packing together with my dad,my dad was still young during that time and the incident impacted a lot on my dad cause his life would have been better if his father have took care of him.my father really suffered a lot while his stepbrother are really enjoying and some of them are graduate that's because my dad's father really took care of the pap seller's children...

Some men are living a happy home with a good wife but he ruined it with his own hands by bringing jezebel into the house,men should stay contented with one woman and stop giving stupid excuse that we are polygamous by nature!...

Juliearth:
Adding to what you've penned down, love-swindling is not a factor of one's age or gender. It can come in any shape and form. The only place one cannot be love-swindled is in heaven/hell...

EDGEof2MORO:
we are still saying the same thing, abi do think inflation is not affecting USD?

a million USD used to go a long way before, today small kasala go burst all your million dollar babies go do fiam

EDGEof2MORO:
at the rate of current inflation, today's billionaires will need to be trillionaires to be considered rich

Not long ago, all you had to be was a millionaire and you were made for life

Ayomide11111:
Life is easy for you bro, at 95.7% I'm happy for you. Unlike me. I wish I am financially stable before my 40s

I am 40yrs old, financially stable, own my own house and of course well furnished, with RX350 2020 and I am single.

I get chased a lot by girls more than ever, Even girls in their early 20s, leading to confusion of whom to choose, and who doesn't have ulterior motives.

I am having challenges settling down, most girls I have been meeting just wanted someone to marry them not because they love me, but to satisfy their desperation.

I was molested by a lady I thought she could be the one, only for her to come to my house and loose character, this was a big turn off to me.

The one I want don't want me, the one I don't want are desperate to keep me.

StillDtruth:
Funny how all of them all have them.

Arshley:
I'm ashamed, I'm afraid, I haven't been to the airport or traveled by air since I was born. I only see airports in my dreams and in the movies. I understand that traveling by air or visiting the airport is no achievement, but it's something at least. I'm already 28yrs of age. This doesn't sit well with me at all.
I always feel left out whenever people, especially my agemates, are gisting about Airports and traveling by flight. Life hasn't been easy on right from the day I was Born till date. As if I came to the world to suffer and die in penury.
I really wish someone can just take me to the airport so I explore and get some fresh air. I believe this will go a long way in changing and boosting my perception about life. I'm making this request from the depths of my heart, I hope someone brings this dream to reality for me.
🙏🙏
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Lalasticlala Fergie

KobomatPhones:
So i had this heated misunderstanding with my girlfriend which led to us breaking up aggressively as she hung up the call.

Exactly 2 hours later, she called… started apologizing and pleading that it was all her fault.

She added that she just got off the call with her ex, as she said the reason of the call was to know her kind of person in a relationship…. That he explained to her and also told her how i felt.

I was like, na your ex go tell you your faults before you realize them? As an adult wey you be.

She kept calling and calling, pleading for days.

Okay, 3 days later we met… i checked her phone, it was an hour call that night with her ex (which is understandable), but she has been calling him 3 days in a roll… with other male friends as well, and she said she was seeking advice.

Here is my point, i know 2 of her exes… The one she called that night and another dude

This another dude, when he chats her, she replies aggressively and shuts him off.

The ex she called that night, if he chats her, she is very calm and cooperative in replying detail to detail. Where are you? I dey road, I will call you back.

If he posts on whatsapp, she go first turn off reciepent via settings so he won’t know she viewed the status. Like, this is so much effort on a guy wey break your heart.

This same ex hid his 6 relationship with another girl and kept her as a second choice in their relationship…

This is the same ex wey break her heart and made her cry for days… wetin be this? Or her intentions might be innocent?

mayDtolu:
The pressure on men to get married once they hit their 30s is honestly exhausting. In our society, the moment a man enters his 30s, people start acting like he’s overdue for marriage—throwing jabs, cracking jokes, or outright questioning his decisions.

But what many don’t talk about is the financial reality behind it all.

Marriage isn’t just about love; it’s a serious financial commitment. And let’s be real—it’s tough out here. Some men are earning as much as ₦500,000 a month and still don’t feel ready to marry, because even that amount barely sustains one person, let alone a family. When survival is the goal, the thought of taking on more responsibility can be downright scary.

Sometimes, it’s not even about unwillingness. It’s about survival. Stability. Peace of mind.

How do you handle the pressure?
If you’re a man in your 30s, have you felt this pressure too?
If you’re already married, did you feel financially and emotionally ready when you tied the knot?

Let’s talk. Share your thoughts in the comments.

Class01:
What's your opinion on this issue?

Bookhub:
This virginity thing is just overrated, so you can take in a lady that nags,rude abd unproductive and other bad characters if she is a virgin.